To attract the opposite gender, you must

MADE FOR BIG BAVARIAN COCK

>comparing anything to first year of college

That is the easiest time to get laid - first year college chicks are easy

first thing that should be taught in school

Found the brainlet.

>don't be a cock
>be in the right place at the right time

as long as you aren't a mentally retarded or have a face like a smashed crab you can bang 9/10 girls purely by being there when they're looking for someone

This

>generalizing 49.6% of the entire human race

lemme tell you guys why you aren't successful with women...

That's pathetic, man. Sort yourself out.

Your balding

So you'd date a girl who is an emotional, insecure, unstable, dumb, unemployed, no friends, shit personality, and homeless? Are you retarded?

>Found the brainlet.

I have a Master's degree and zero debt.

But you don't have to be a genius to realize that those who get laid the most are the morons drinking four times a week, often getting into fights and making a fool of themselves. If you think the guy who spends his saturday evening at the library reading greek philosophy gets laid a lot, then I feel bad for you.

Women are nature and nature weeds out the week. Your divine purpose as a man is to be strong and competent.

You'd rather be bitter than realise and accept this reality so your genes will be weeded out. See you.

I've never understood this. Most guys i know have girls that are leagues above them. I see good looking milfs with soyboy-boyfriends, fat-boyfriends, bald/manlet boyfriends all the time. The hottest girl i know is together with some scrawny manlet boyfriend.
I pretty much never see the oposite. I might see some good looking guy with some fatfetish who's with a whale, but thats about it.

Im starting to think none of you have actually tried talking to women. You just assume you would get rejected and act accordingly.

Im not very good looking, slightly above average, i have a decent degree but i work for the government and make average pay and i've had plenty of Gfs and one night stands.

Yeah, I realized women have a bunch of problems on their own when I started dating seriously and have more meaningful relationships with them. The worst thing seems to be the feeling of being unsafe. If someone seems to be hateful, sexually aggressive or violent towards you, it affects women way worse than men. The threat appears to be so much more dangerous. That's why it's so important for men to have confidence. You have to be that pillar of safety that a woman can rely on.

well, briefly, atleast until i found out these things, or banged her a few times whatever comes second

I've noticed that too

IMO, the biggest difference is this:
Imagine someone cheats on you

Men will say:
>What a bitch, fuck her

Women will say
>Why did he do that? Am I not good enough?

Women almost always blame themselves for shit that happens around them, it's insane
Add that to a general feeling of anxiety and insecurity, and you see how most women are emotional wrecks

Wanna know how to get a girl, brehs?
Make her feel safe
And I don't mean in that beta way of "I'll do anything for u bby grill"
Be a rock, strong, relaxed and confident, that's what she NEEDS, something that stays strong when she is weak

>don't eat like a pig
>have attractive face (or else you become butterface)
>be willing to have sex with him and satisfy his disgusting fetishes (but not too often, if you don't pretend to hate it you'll be called slut)
>have kids with him
>rework your schedule and career to fit his life (or else you're high maintenance and too difficult)
Men = live your life and try to be best. Women = give up your live for his satisfaction.

The fact that you didn't state your degree leads me to believe that its a something shit like marketing. Also having zero debt is not necessarily a good thing.

Intelligence covers a whole range of things not just reading books while getting laid more does mean your more attractive to women. If you wanted to fuck more roasties then the intelligent thing to do would to go to pubs and clubs four times a week.

Men
>have social circle.
>not appear deformed
>learn social ques

All you have to do is be around girls in social situations, not look like shit and understand when a girl like you (last one comes with experience, see 1).
If you are around girls all the time one is bound to like you somewhat.

>woman
>don't be fat
You forgot white (mostly)

>That's why it's so important for men to have confidence. You have to be that pillar of safety that a woman can rely on.

Which is why women dispise weakness in men, which is why women pick where mean to the robots causing /r9k/.

You just opened my eyes annon.

>Be a rock, strong, relaxed and confident, that's what she NEEDS, something that stays strong when she is weak

Why does eric come to mind.
>You didn't say his name but i thought of him desu

>Make her feel safe
But literally how is this done.

>Make her feel safe
>But literally how is this done.
By being better than her

>satisfy his disgusting fetishes

Why wasn't I born with normie sexual interests

>

>be willing to have sex with him and satisfy his disgusting fetishes

Sex after marriage is a disgusting fetish in 2018?
>If she breathes she is a thot.

Just dont go for women, user.

>Im starting to think none of you have actually tried talking to women
I don't because it's literally a fucking chore filled with power / mind games. No one has time for that shit, I'd rather just use my hand till I die

Wrong, it's like this

Men:
>Have good genetics

Women:
>Have good genetics

If you don't have good genetics, doing any of the things you listed is useless... You'll never succeed, in the end.

No way. I constantly see men SLIGHTLY better looking than their partners.

Men date down the hierarchy. Women date up.

An attractive woman dating a man who is clearly a travesty in the looks department, simply MUST offer something of value, e.g.. wealth, solid career, big cock.

>have social circle.
>not appear deformed
>learn social ques

tfw no friends
tfw crooked nose
tfw kinda autitistic

at least i'm Veeky Forums... should help... r-right?

some help is better than no help

Kekt

>coping this fucking hard
kek.

You forgot to call me a soyboy cuck

>2018
>Still caring about girls

After 3 failed relationships I realised girls are emotionally unstable and impulsive. Relying on them for any kind of happiness whatsoever is a deathtrap.
They dont possess the loyalty that men do. They only love you if the moment is good. The second things get hard they just leave. They dont want to fight or put in effort to save a relationship if they can just get a new one just as easily.

For the past 2 years I have completely distanced myself from girls and any kind of pursuit of intimacy. I have never felt more mentally stable and focussed on goals that actually matter

I'm literally all of those but pretty good 5 figure salary but I'm 5'5"

My girlfriend left me 4 weeks ago cause I'm an alcoholic. She told me to call her when I'm not. I'm on the road to recovery and will eventually get good. At first I was I was doing it for her but now I've realised she left because it was easier than actually helping me. I won't be calling her again.

Being an alcoholic is a perfectly fine reason to dump someone man. What the fuck do you expect.
But yeah don't call her, get your life on track and find someone better.

Most points of men's list are achieavable
If you were born an uggo female it's the end of the story

Once my career is in a good place and my life feels stable, Im taking a trip to Asia to find a wife to bring home. At least they still have some sense of humility and pleasing their men.

Im so sick and tired of arrogant, entitled white bitches. Theyre influenced by modern feminism and all think they are hot shit because it takes them less than 5 minutes on Tinder to find a dick willing to stuff their pussy.

>be me
>above average looks
>fit
>Also in kin program, literally 50+ attractive girls in my class at all times
>supreme autism
Never had any actin at all through two years in uni now. I've concluded that confidence is the most important trait for a man to get laid and I'm >tfw confidencelet

nice bait thread r9k, can we now delete this shit?

I think a rule should be added that if your post could be copy pasted to incels websites and not get deleted, it shouldn't be allowed on fit

Why does this guy stop acting all caring and nice when I told him i just want to be friends.

Seriously, a guy only puts that act on to get laid and you expect him to continue acting like that after you’ve taken away his goal

actually you just don't have to be fucking pathetic

>Why does this guy stop acting all caring and nice when I told him i just want to be friends.

Roastie, why would we want to be 'friends' with a mentally and physically inferior gender?

>Once my career is in a good place and my life feels stable, Im taking a trip to Asia to find a wife to bring home. At least they still have some sense of humility and pleasing their men.
>Im so sick and tired of arrogant, entitled white bitches. Theyre influenced by modern feminism and all think they are hot shit because it takes them less than 5 minutes on Tinder to find a dick willing to stuff their pussy.

Telling a man you want to be friends with him is rejecting him. Why the fuck would he stick around after you've rejected him? If you expect a cuck friend who you can bitch to about Chad not texting you back I suggest you kill yourself

There are compromises to be made though. A lazy bastard of a man couldnt keep a woman long-term. A 6 with a kind, good personality may be more succesful keeping a man than an 8 who is an absolute cunt.

"I'm a lonely Nice Guy" the post.

Women have just as varied taste/preferences in men as non-desperate men have in women. Are some of them nothing more than vapid, money grubbing, 8x6 loving, succubi roasties? Sure, but you don't mess with those ones. There's plenty of good women. If you're consistently getting little to no attention from women, maybe the problem is you.

hole detected

>In fact, they are attracted to men purely running on instinct. The only intelligent men who get laid regularly are those who realize this or were brought up among low-IQ people.
This. And my IQ is 143.

100% true

AAAAAAAAAAAA YOU FUCKING INCELS GET OFF MY BOARD.

THIS ENTIRE SITE IS THE DEGENERATE TO ME EXCEPCT THIS ONE BOARD BECAUSE PEOPLE HERE ARENT DEPRESSED DOWNIE FUCKS LIKE EVERYWHERE ELSE.

NOW YOU SAD FUCKS GOTTA RUIN EVERYTHING GET OFF MY BOARD YOU DYEL'S REEEEEEEEEEEE

Sure buddy, lets pretend your IQ is 143, your actions werent nearly in the range of IQ100. Or else you would have gotten laid. Cant expect to get laid, if you arent anywhere where a woman is. Cant get laid if you dont search the contact to a woman.
I was a normie before/fit/ and a 4/10 before my beard grew, but I still easily managed to get laid with 7-9/10 just by being at the right place, being confident, funny but still direct to secure that fuck or else I would end as a best friend.
Its trial and error, everywhere, watch the animals they are literally competing for the women. All these pornwankers expect that they will get kidnapped by a MILF if they just continue with their training but thats just a legend - most people of Veeky Forums end up as that weird buff guy, who doesnt talk to anyone, doesnt have any friends and evades any eye contact or deathstares women. No desperate girl will choose such a Psycho. Mark my words.

Women
>dont eat like a pig

I got catfished by this beast on Tinder, she used pics where she was in the background so that I'd think it was her hot friend. I was going to leave but started chatting with her and she showed me her Tinder, she'd been at it for 2 weeks and had at least 100 matches. Told me she'd been on dates with 80 odd of them and at least 50 of them have tried to set up a second date. She then asked me if I wanted a 2nd date and I just replied that I wasn't interested in a 1st date.

Don't think you realise how desperate guys are, unless she is missing teeth or has a horrible disease there will be a long list of guys who want to fuck her. If anyone has the craigslist post where hundreds of guys are messaging her.

>80 dates
>2 weeks

6 dates a day?

*tip*

Haha, if there are more women in a Tinder photo, assume it's the ugly one.

Most people in relationships are similar in attractiveness level. It is easier for women to get laid tho ofc. Men have much higher testosterone and a far greater sex drive. They’re willing to lower their standards to fuck a chick. Plus we objectify women more because of this. This puts the power in a girls hands when it comes to casual sex in most 1st world countries. It’s a very different ballgame when it comes to dating tho. You are almost ALWAYS guaranteed to see two social and physical equals in one.

> in b4 people start (You) and posting exceptions lmao

Attractive ppl marry attractive ppl, uglies marry uglies and avg ppl marry avg ppl. Kabeesh my nigga?

does this mean if I overthink everything in life and nothing comes naturally to me I'll never attract anyone hot? what is so attractive about relying on instincts?

felt identified with that last part
no...

>So you’d date a NEET?

this hambeast managed to cheat on this dude, TWICE, with 2 different men. And she has a kid, so that makes it AT LEAST 4 men fucked her by 22. Just look how low today's standards are for women, you can literally look like shit as long as you have a vagina; we have faggot beta male white knights to thank for that

youtube.com/watch?v=dAwP8HNSDwc

Not never but you're not as attractive or exciting. You might find a more plain/boring girl. And it's just a lot more fun/ natural

type sorry, meant months

learnt that now, if there's no selfie pic then I ignore

133 IQ. Every smart guy has to learn this eventually or become a jaded bitter nice guy who blames women for going after dumb chads. Simply showing off intelligence doesn't give tingles. Proficiency does. Putting your intelligence to use does. Like a professor is hot to women for example. But a wageslave with an IQ of 140 is just as if not more unattractive than an average one.

you only need like 2-3 of those things

>namefag
>saves thumbnail
get out

the only way intelligence gets women is if you're either getting with someone of similar intelligence, if you use it to fix problems with no effort or if you only "show it off" by making very very clever jokes every once in a while to surprise her

t. 136iq with 2 year dummy gf

wow. you really opened up my eyes op.
thats deep. is it because of the matriarchy ?

>Im starting to think none of you have actually tried talking to women. You just assume you would get rejected and act accordingly.
Bingo.

Gb2redit

>>Perhaps one is wondering why one would post a picture of a bait before writing it?

The trick is just acting like a normal human being, but that's too hard to swallow for people on this board.

be honest now, anything more would be a lot to ask from a women.

>All of my relationships have ended badly
>They must all be the problem, not me!

You sound like a bitter cat-lady with a dick, bro. Dust yourself off, you're better than that.

(((You)))

>six figure salary
I’m barely making $50k at 24 and feel like a destitute failure

It's 2018 user. Get an extension like 4chanX to stop your rustling.

Same.

>t. 23 year old

>tfw no sick bachelor bad in a high rise building
Feels bad man

Where the hell do you live that $50k/yr feels destitute? Are you comparing yourself to a daily diet of luxury/travel pics on instagram or something?

HAHAHAHAHAH, I'm a lanklet who literally last week finally managed to lift 60kg bench press and still fuck models. You don't need like half of these things.

>Men
>>lift
nope
>>be charming
totally
>>be confident
yep
>>earn six-figure salary
nope
>>well networked
absolutely not but people who are charming and good looking usually are well networked as a result
>>own property
haha really, nigga?
+ IQ
for reeaal? haha
>>be aggressive
assertive=/=aggressive
one is desirable the other is not, figure out which is which
>>be in touch with feminine side
nope

It's figured that thoughts and actions are governed by min-maxes, everything being defined by the very frequencies making up and surrounding a whole being. It's basic tuning, commonly supported by knowledge, nutrition, and fitness (strength and flexibility). With knowledge comes excitement and interest, further stimulated by nutrition and fitness such that awareness is optimized and motions are simplified.

>tfw married out of my league
>6/10 married 8/10 who got Veeky Forums into a 9/10 (shes 7/10 now but I'm a 4, lol fuck kids and getting old)

this is a long fucking game, you can't pull out of your league for one nighters though

>what is so attractive about relying on instincts?
Absolutely everything? If you could get a gf through calculating your way to it, it wouldn't be natural. It'd just be a matter of following a step by step guide.

Think about what you would do if you weren't afraid of consequences, then do it anyway. Boom, you either get laid or go to jail

in 2018
barely pulling six figures and can't even into a nice house
>t. colorado ruined by califags

>The hottest girl i know is together with some scrawny manlet boyfriend.
When will the lanklets learn?