This thread is for discussion of NoFap; what you're doing to help keep the thoughts away, what you find as helpful distractions, and how your current progress with NoFap is going.
To the fags who come into threads like these posting women and shilling anti NoFap, just fuck off back to /gif/.
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Trying to gain more of my sex drive back. Fapping so often for so long has definitely affected my sex drive
Day 7 here. I'm not looking for any grill till the semester ends in May, but I want out of the depression I've been in since last July when she left. Lifting has given me a big boost, now I want the final push.
Day 16. I've been going for walks whenever I get strong urges, which I can say has definitely helped me. Have been VERY angry recently though, I don't know if it's sexual frustration or something else, hopefully it'll get better soon.
I'm on day 14. Fuck this shit.
>I fucked a fat girl on saturday because I was desperate to get my nut out of me.
>I can't walk in the street with out feeling a rush of euphoria every time a pretty girl passes me by, idc what age. I want to rape them.
>Last night I almost fucked the hottest trap I've ever seen, but he had a mental break down at like 2 in the morning about me only wanting to fuck him in the ass because of a twisted fetish and that I din't really care about him. After telling me I was missing out on the "woman" of my life because I could only think with my dick, he told me to fuck off and left.
>Today, I got 4 hours of sleep because I desperately tried fucking a trap last night. I allready texted the fat girl that I'm slamming her tonight.
I started to feel insecure and aware of my age and lack of accomplishments, I have more energy but I feel depressed I don't have an 18 year old wife with a baby in her.
This is not what I was promised.
first week down
Well done user
Daily reminder that nofap cures death grip syndrome. Cumming in a nice warm pussy feels infinitely better than your hand, bros.
I live somewhere with no pussy around, until september at least. How do I deal with this feel.
i found getting rid of a smart phone was a big help.
staying off instagram and not seeing the thots helps me abstain
You gotta stay busy man and focus on WHY YOUR DOING NOFAP IN THE FIRST PLACE. If you don't have any reason for doing nofap then your fucked from the start.
My gf lives 5 hrs away (In the process of moving her to where I moved for work) so I've gone months without pussy BUT I needed the break to let my penis regain sensitivity which it did.
To me if your a neet with no hope of getting pussy then nofap might not be worth it. That's how I thought I was until I met my now gf and discovered I couldn't cum from sex.
what in the fuck senpai
there’s too much god damn porn on this board, but it’s easy enough to look away I guess
I'm not NEET, just won't leave for university until september (hopefully). It's been getting increasingly more frustrating to be holed up in someone shitty village with nothing to do.
I am actively working on myself, feeling pretty good overall, but man do I want to get out of this shithole.
Before starting no fap I was binging on Shemale porn and only getting off to sissy hypnosis videos. I've been looking at shemale porn for 6 years now and never had the courage to talk to one or contract and escort.
Since cutting the porn I want to fuck everything that moves, and when I approached this trap at the bar I din't know it was a dude until he spoke. I'm talking 22 years old, 8/10 body, 7/10 face and a real fine piece of ass with thin hips and cute c cup titties. My kind of girl. When I approached and he responded I immediately knew it was a trans guy, and it turned me the fuck on - I was dead set on fucking him at that point, we made out and I brought him back to my apartment where he promptly started to have an emotional break down about "muh 40% suicide rates" then for like an hour and a half I pandered to his emotions cause I wanted to at least get my dick sucked and make him a fuck buddy, but the break down got progressively worse as he started crying, "I'm a really great woman, I want a boyfriend and a traditional man but every time it's just guy that want to use me." Idk it spiraled out of control and he stormed off, I was using his proper pronouns and everything - I literally treated this guy like a girl.
>Positives out of this: I realized tranny porn made me bisexual but that only in a fetishist way, I would never have a relationship with another man, I just want to shove my dick in an effeminate man. I think more time on no fap will take this away.
Jesus christ that sounds depressing
It's EZ m8, just fuck roasties it worked for me...
>>Positives out of this: I realized tranny porn made me bisexual but that only in a fetishist way, I would never have a relationship with another man, I just want to shove my dick in an effeminate man. I think more time on no fap will take this away.
Think you're right about this. Pre-porn epoch I was obsessed with women. At 13 years of age, going to prison and getting fucked in the ass by a massive dong was my worst fear.
Then I started watching hardcore porn at 14 and became addicted. Seeing massive dongs slide in and out of the HOTTEST females on earth made me respect the dong and wonder what it would feel like to engage one. So I developed a fetish for massive dongs.
I've never even thought about having a relationship with a man. I've fantasized about swallowing big dicks, big balls, or getting fucked by one, but as soon as the dude's face comes into the picture I'm grossed out.
I think with time, this fetish will also fade. I almost killed myself as a teenager because I thought I was gay. Fucking porn. I fucking hate porn.
Yeah, I can attest to no fap giving you mental clarity though. I can finally think on myself and on my life, and reflect on my day to day decisions. I'm more aware of everything.
I think my porn addiction became absolutely degenerate and that I have developed a fiendish sense of entitlement towards orgasms, it's like I NEED to cum or my life doesnt have meaning.
Since last night I'm honestly considering full monk mode nofap, by this I mean not trying to pursue sex in any way. Absolutely no sexual relief unless naturally in my sleep. I think this may speed up the process of healing the absolute filthy damage I've done to my brain and associative cognitive functions, and allow me to reset back to a more vanilla mind set. Because right now I'm 100% psychopathic in my pursuit of an orgasm, and it's pathological for myself and everyone involved.
I don't feel guilty for having fapped every day of my life up till this point, I just feel an over bearing sense of disappointment that I squandered my time being locked up in my room in a puddle of my cum - and that I thought that was ok - as I progressively moved on to more bizarre and hardcore stuff.
>I think this may speed up the process of healing the absolute filthy damage I've done to my brain and associative cognitive functions,
I tried 90 days monkmode, it's somewhat effective.
However, I am now of the belief that perhaps masturbating to women only (instead of big dicks or women get fucked by big dicks ), mostly from my imagination, with some images of naked women here and there, once a week, will be more beneficial than just abstaining completely. The reasoning behind this: rewiring of the neural network; rewiring of stimulation pathways. If I just abstain from orgasm, those pathways of big dong fetish will remain solidified. If I rewire those pathways by masturbating to women only, then I can overcome my fetish.
Take it 1 day at a time man. Try and go for 1 day first and then 1 week and just keep expanding that. Quitting Cold turkey can be a bitch.
Patience is a virtue brother stay strong.
I’ve meditated on why was it that nofap helps me talk to women more easily and casually, and I’ve come to the conclusion that my deep investment in porn was causing an expectation to fuck every woman I met without even actually knowing how I’d get along with them, or whether I could have any type of relationship with them (friends, fb, gf, casual acquaintances).
Once I started acting on this idea as if it were true, a lot of people’s behaviors and ideas on how life oughta be seem quite absurd and quite influenced by constant exposure to pornography.
I’m not even necessarily saying porn is bad, I’m just saying a lot of people’s life philosophy on how to approach the other gender is based on delusions fueled by porn.
I can't say I disagree, actual sex addiction is just as bad user.
Good epiphany user I think that makes alot of sense.
3 weeks of no fap, should I fap? I dont want to lose my powers to maintain eye contact with girls tho...
Yeah It's what I was talking about when I said the psychopathic pursuit for an orgasm, no matter the cost. On No Fap you start to actually get a -feel- for the other person. I'm not advocating white knights, cause some girls be huge hoes, but being away from porn lets you connect with another person in a more intimate way.
Damn
On Day 14 at the moment, I don't ever want to go back to porn. I feel allergic to it.
This has made me fail previous attempts because it ignites the seeker effect, where you seek the dopamine high of seeing yet another pretty girl in a more provocative pose.
Yeah, the Penis fixation for sure becomes an issue. I'm leaving pic related cause it explains it in detail. There's also another cap where a guy from /pol/ talks about how the more porn you watch the more you start to project yourself on the woman instead of the man. I don't have it though.
How to fap without porn?
I did 7 days thanks to a school trip that kept me busy all day all days, then I relapsed and 1 week later I did another 6 days of nofap. Yesterday I masturbated twice. Right now I have deleted all my porn collection. Hope I can resist
I'm actually agoing through an involuntary nofap period now without even wanting to or trying; I lost all of my sex drive and desire to jizz. today, after 2 weeks of abstinence I tried very hard to jizz, succeeded in the end but I felt absolutely no pleasure, and my cum was like snot, dark yellow to light brown. I jacked off because I thought it wasn't healthy to keep that stale crap inside me, I kind of was right, judging from the disgusting color. Now I'm oncerned , I will jizz a few more times during the weekend just to see if the color improves (meaning it was just old ass cum) or if it persists and I should get myself checked. The problem is: I have no desire to jack off so I'll have to force myself. At least I can still consider doing noporn, since I jack off to my mental desires
If you done 90 days why even begin fapping again? Not saying dont have sex just dont fap because its literally a waste
I havent fapped for months, not even counting the days anymore, but I would legit fap is someone posted some *good* porn. Little push is all I need.
Thoughts?
Pls leave, i dont like you
Do you fuck on regular basis? Yes then no problem
No? Then why do you need your sex drive on at all? (thats implying nofap turns it off)
it's called relapse fool
I don't get laid yet because no car, but it's gonna happen soon and I'm horrified of not being able to get it up or get in the mood when the time comes
Hiding in her because one thread had a image of a girl getting uh then i somehow found myself googling asian milfs with gaijin
Don't do this to me user, I don't want a new fetish
How come every time I see a no fap thread it's made by animefags ?
dbz is motivational in a fun, cheesy way
As a matter of fact, as soon as I read your post and your point on psychopathically pursuing orgasms I figured you had come to a similar conclusion as me.
We become like junkies in our need to cum, and paradoxically, we become creepy enough that we can’t even engage women in conversation.
And we stop ourselves from doing a lot of things because by our standards, they would stop us from being desirable to women. It’s ridiculous how pussy becomes such an obsession. Of course it’s important (specially when you don’t have it) but porn is truly not a healthy solution.
It doesn't fucking help i start thinking of white fever and the experiences with of asian travelers in america. A milf right in front of her family started hitting on me one time. I just wanna have some self control instead of giving into something i don't need because i NEED to see nude people. I just told a thot to go fuck off and i don't need this.
You should absolutely see a doctor about that.
Maybe for a 10 year old
You don’t get laid yet because you’re not a full human being.
Yes, not having a car limits the interactions you can have on women where you’d end up having sex with them but if you don’t ever actually find out what kind of human beings they are, and have a relationship with them, then (despite what porn and internet culture would have you believe) you’re never going to have an active sex life.
Most rock stars don’t have an active sex life. I see people around me and I can tell now how much they lie about all the people they fuck, and how easy it is to get women. Most people who actually have multiple sexual encounters are not happy about it, they have some sort of sexual dysfunction or emotional shortcoming.
As for the fear of you fucking up on your first time having sex, it’s perfectly natural to do bad. You won’t suddenly discover you’re gay, you’re not being judged by a panel, and whatever you do will matter very little afterwards.
My first time doesn’t matter to me today. It really doesn’t. I don’t care what happened, and I really don’t care what happens the next time I do have sex, other than not catching a disease, not getting anybody accidentally pregnant, and not being so reckless that my having sex with somebody causes problems in other people’s lives.
That’s what you should be focused about, more than whether you’ll perform like some stupid pornstar puppet you don’t actually care about.
I can tell you this: my worries for performing well all came from porn. And they all interfered with my sex life.
Shala head chala!
>start nofap
>think about sex all the time
>rationalize jerking off
I'm addicted, r-right?
I started nofap yesterday but ended up breaking for the dumbest of reasons. I have oneitis and I was thinking about her and just the frustration from that lead to seeking porn.
What do you guys do when the cravings get bad?
Yes
I do my shit and be constant busy
>what do you do
Have you ever lifted something heavy so that you muscles were in pain? What did you do? Did you let go and let whatever it was fall on your foor or did you endure the pain?
You're absolutely right. I could never be a fuckboi, but I'd be lying if I said sex wouldn't come up sooner than later. Thank you very much for the perspective, user. I really, truly appreciate it
Currently on day 8, trying to reach June with zero fap to regain my sex drive.
Life it's been so busy that i haven't fucked since last September but i'm looking forward to recover in the summer
>pro tip: keep a picture of Jesus Christ inside your smartphones cover and watch it every time you feel the urge to watch porn
51 hours in, bros. Planning on resetting after 7 days and then only fap once a week from there.
Stop forever
ok so im about 2 weeks in and its not my first time doing nofap so im handling the cravings alright, but my problem is that even though im not masturbating or having sex, and i shower every morning after the gym, but the evening my dick smells. not really bad, and its 100% clean cos i make sure of it, but im quite self conscious about what a girl might think.
wtf is this and how can i stop it.
i never had this problem before, my last relationship ended months ago and i was having regular sex, and it was never like this then, so what gives?
Maybe you got an infection or something.
is there a way i could tell without seeing a doc?
no visable difference or colour and theres not much pain
You can put cologne on the surrounding area. When dick tastes bad it's a huge turnoff. You can also just google it.
Maybe use a better soap, like dish soap or something to pull the smell off it.
dish soap? thanks for the advice but wont that stuff melt my dick?
thought you werent supposed to have too much skin contact
Dont listen to him. Are you uncut, pull it back all the way and wash it with antibacterial soap, ideally twice a day. If its just normal infection it will heal itself. If you had unprotected sex and now this then see a doc.
i had unprotected sex for over a year with my last gf, and this only started happening after we broke up, (ive never slept with anyone else) so it cant be that
also yeah im uncut and i wash well, maybe i just need better soap
Just google it dude. It's not rocket science.
Why not just see a doctor anyway bro? Are doctors bills that bad in America?
no, think about how shit you will feel afterwards bro
yeah i know but im here anyway so i might as well see if anyone has advice
im in the uk lad i dont have to pay, i just dont really wanna explain this to a doc its kinda embarrassing
Yep, dawn also has the antibacterial brand. Exactly what I was going to suggest. Something like tea tree, lavender oil or other antibacterial essential oils could work well. I think you can wash baby's with dish soap ( DO NOT QUOTE ME ON THIS KEK). I don't use that because it dries out my skin. I use more natural products/moisturizers.
Bro, I'm UK too with a pajeet doctor all my life. He's seen everything I mean everything, had his finger in my arse, had an adult circumcision. They get paid for this and they see much worse and disgusting creatures than you day in day out. Just go get yourself checked out mate.
>unprotected sex with gf
>last month of relationship
>????
>break up
>user discovers he has an std
Haha why did you break up again?
>Wasting sex energy on gf: ok
>Not having a gf and wasting it on fapping: not ok
The absolute state of nofap fags.
When I had a gf I fapped and watched porn all the time and still got massive boners just from being around her.
If you want sexual energy just do kegels.
If you have no gf the only thing you are doing is reducing the amount of pleasure you experience per week. It's just retarded
Does this shit even increase testosterone?
I've heard that's just a myth.
thats fair, thanks
ive never been to a doctor before about something like this tho is there anything i should expect/prepare for?
i dont do nofap to decrease my pleasure, i do it cos jerking off just makes me depressed, and not doing it gives me the energy to go out and do stuff
>jerking off just makes me depressed, and not doing it gives me the energy to go out and do stuff
I can't relate.
>Having sex with a woman increases test
>Fapping releases prolactin and reduces test, abstaining from masturbation raises test.
>Source: anabolicmen.com
>Being a literal mindless cuck to the porn industry.
Reducing the amount of pleasure you experience per week. What could he mean by this?
You are retarded. The times you can ejaculate is fucking limited. After a specific number you start being impotent, and you start ageing faster. There is a species of mice where young healthy male starts mating with female(s) for two straight weeks and after those two weeks his internal system degenerates to that of a old mouse, of course the male dies. Now the mice and human physiological systems are quite similar.
Cumming just for the sake of it is absolutely retarded
Just make sure you have showered and are groomed so that you feel comfortable. They won't give a fuck I don't think. Ring, book and appointment and just tell him everything truthfully it's embarrassing but I find once you're in their they generally put you in a mental state that you can tell them anything.
Again I'll stress there's much worse people, with much worse ailments than what you have described.
i guess everyones different, but since i lost my virginity jerking off lost its appeal.
instantly after climax i just feel like shit cos im having to do it by myself, i know its not easy to get a gf or get laid or whatever but it doesnt make masturbating any less lonely for me.
it might be a placebo but i feel like my anxiety is definitely lowered and i feel a lot more comfortable talking to people.
only downside is getting crazy erections all the time haha
thanks a lot mate, ill try get it sorted asap
>You are retarded for not knowing these things before anyone telling you.
k. I'll make sure to turn on my omniscience next time.
you came on to a nofap thread and talked shit about nofap, wtf do you expect you faggot
>Cumming just for the sake of it is absolutely retarded
the absolute state of Veeky Forums. ejaculating releases stress thus it's very good for healthy
Fail.
You are retarded for expressing retarded opinion
having sex, masturbating, watching porn all increases testoterone and pleasure of a man. starting at boobs make men happier and live longer. it's not rocket science.
You are a retard for not reading your own source.
What is suggests is simply that you should fap about once a week. Not abstain. In fact, "Long term abstinence can reduce serum T".
>stress is bad
It doesnt, it makes you unmotivated, lazy and empty minded. Stress is still there, and it will not go away until you sort the problem that are causing it. In fact it will increase because once you fap and release you are not gonna do shit after that, and things will get postponed and pile up even more.
boi pussy
>Long term abstinence can reduce serum T".
>can
Can does not mean it will, if you lift and lead an active lifestyle, your T levels wont decrease or even stay the same, they will go through the roof.
Nofap is great but it doesnt not even come close to total abstinence.
im starting to think that theres a legit divide between men, half of us get benefits from masturbating and half dont.
i dont see how else there could be such a strong dissagreement in something so easy to messure, maybe people actually do just have different experiences?
I've wanted to give up porn for a while but I recently came back to Christianity so now I have the double incentive to give it up.
Gone about a week strong. Sucks, I miss my hentai manga more than anything desu.
i see you guys are some hardcore bro scientists here. fapping is good all science shows you that. it's human nature. being a lazy is too human nature, it is not result of fapping loloool. humans are evolved to not to consume energy if they are given a chance. we are simple pleasure seeking animals
Ok, so should I abstain from faping completely?
Or just do it once a month or something?
It's kind of confusing to interpret this article...
not trying to be edgy or anything here and im not judging you, but how does someone with faith spend time on a site as corrupt as this?
well are you planning not to fap and watch porn for the rest of your life? ofcourse not. it's a complete bogus thing.
people who have performance issues and seek help from nofap generally 99% of have a medical condition they are unaware of. would get bloodwork in those cases
Dude. Supposedly, 80% of Americans are Christian.
Do 80% of Americans go to church?
This is not surprising at all.
Yeah, I workout and have no performance issues at all.
I'm just gonna try to do it once every 2 weeks from now on.
not easily. I've been trying to cut back on this garbage site too, waste of time.
I think there are a lot more Christians on this site than you imagine. At least half those "deus vult" larpers are srs.
fair enough, i wonder how many people on this board would see their problems lessen if they left, i know ive become worse thats for sure
1. No Veeky Forums
2. No (((TV)))
3. No drugs
4. Work out daily
5. Leave the fucking house. If you're a NEET go to a library or coffee shop or something. Shower, shave, put on presentable clothes, pretend to be a real person as much as possible.
I'm serious about #1. Pic rel8ed came from Veeky Forums, do you really think you can spend time here and not fap? Maybe before work with your coffee, but late in the day, like now, it's fuckin dangerous.
If you can, if you have control over yourself and drive to do it, you should never fap.
Its the simple mindedness like and Being lazy is good, having dry balls and zero motivation is good. Releasing stress is good (doctors say so, if fapping doesnt help take some antidepressants, they are good because doctors say so and prescribe them left and right). Correct if I am wrong but the american paedetrician society of doctors unanimously recommends circumsision because its good.
I know whats good because I have fapped and I have gone 100 days without touching myself or looking at porn. Fapping is a waste. Semen and sperm is produced inside the body, its not some byproduct, waste of digestive system. Semen production is as much expensive as producing blood. You dont go everyday cutting yourself and bleeding yourself because being anemic will make you light headed and reduce stress do you