>Players of /5eg/, do your characters court NPCs? DMs, do you allow your players to get waifus for themselves?
Usually not that far, though it does happen. Mostly for a benefit of some kind. The adventuring parties we have are not fit for having a family.
This one pair of characters got married once, and got retired as a result. Also have had a few select characters who got retired due to it.
But I think that holds true for most of the campaigns we've had. We rarely end up with even 1 of the original characters by level 20. Generally something happens, either death, marriage, other obligation, etc. Usually ends up as allied semi-NPCs.
Notable examples are:
The Rogue who started an orphanage, but who was still happy to help if it was ever needed, including her rather conprehensive spy network throughout the city.
The Divination Wizard who holed up in his tower and never left, but pretty much became a service hotline we could call if we needed his expertise.
The Fighter who became a king of a country, and kinda couldnt keep adventuring for obvious reasons, but gave the party a ton of resources to draw upon.
The Warlock who got accepted into a Fey society, and became "One of them", up to and including allowing the party an actual safe sanctuary there, which cockblocked a group of Fiends currently hunting us pretty hard.
Weve had several parties where the characters at sone point looked at each other, wondering why they were even doing this, because their main reason for doing so, a former PC, was no longer there.