>never had sex before decide to try tinder >go on date with nice girl a few times >4tg date take her out for upscale fine dining >she says she wants to go back to her place but I begin to get nervous >she asks me what's wrong >I told her I was a Virgin she was excited about it and said it was no problem >she changed my world she made me feel so emotionally attached >I had never felt that way before I can't describe it I thought I was in love >I call her back the next day and text she doesn't respond >same thing I called her at least three times. >finally she gets back to me and says she's moved on
What the fucking hell guys? I feel like my heart has been ripped out. That woman changed my life. When we made love I felt like she was the one. I was so ready to commit to this woman even though I only knew her for a month. What the fucking shit?
Why did she do this? I haven't left my house in over a week. I drink every fucking day and I am considering doing drugs to numb the pain. Why the fuck would she ruin my emotions like that? I loved her.
Guys please tell me what I did wrong here? I was 100% honest with her. I thought women love honesty in a man. What the fuck
Grayson Rogers
because most women are hoes
you may have felt like she was the one, but now you know she isnt
time to move on and look for the real girl of your life
Anthony Butler
Heres your (you)
Wyatt Perry
Congratulations on your first heartbreak, user.
But really, you only knew this girl for a month. Don't let get in your head too much.
Juan Wright
Women these days are just like crypto coins, most of the time they're pump and dumps
Joshua Martin
you were a pity fuck user. You wined and dined yourself, lmao.
Luis Gonzalez
She just wanted to take your V card. You always get attached to your first hole. Don't worry. Congrats you're not a virgin anymore. On to the next one.
Brayden Murphy
You failed the penis inspection test
Jackson Nelson
Dont be so desperate next time
Gavin Phillips
you are too inexperienced for her mate. she is probably not the pure loving girl you thought she was anyways. you learned a lesson, move on. in 2 years you'll look back and have a light chuckle. you'll meet someone nice, work on yourself for now.
Aiden Young
Women want what they cant have. Be more confident and don't act so desperate next time
Landon Fisher
Literally how im like a 6/10 and have fucked over 30 girls and I'm 23
Joseph Sanchez
She just wanted to fuck you user, she got what she wanted that's all you were to her
Now the suffering will stay with you, love has a tendency to make people suffer
Asher Garcia
Girls are like cats, if you are too aggressive you will scare them off. Remember this, guys are dogs = loving, attached easily, friendly with strangers women are cats = bitchy, slow to love or trust, fuck with you then leave
Charles Fisher
>muh wimmenz on a pedestal kek, grow up bro do it again, you'll feel better
Joseph Price
user if you think about this rationally for five seconds you will realize how much worse this would have been for you if she hadn't immediately cut contact.
>When we made love I felt like she was the one.
This is delusion. The longer you live in delusion the worse it will feel.
Chase Evans
you are the exact reason why women fuck chads and not beta males that get attached to the first chick they fuck. a needy guy is the equivalent of a 900lb chick. congrats OP, you're a 900lb chick.
Oliver Lee
All women are whores,OP. Only 2D waifus can love you for who you really are inside.
Most normies just accept women can't love them or live in denial
Angel Young
1. You shouldn't have told her you were a virgin - be generally honest, but not TOO honest 2. You met her on tinder and fucked her on the first date - she is a slut 3. You have no real feelings for this girl. You barely knew her and certainly didn't develop any sort of relationship - it's just because she popped your cherry. You'll get over it.
Forget about that slut and move on with your life. You should be happy you finally got laid instead of moping around like a little pussy. Now work on finding another girl.
And for fucks sake, don't call or text or message this slut again. Ever.
Jacob Gray
Should have given her 10 link and you'd still have her. Call her back and offer.
Lincoln Morgan
its fucking tinder why would you wait 4 dates to fuck, 2 dates max. if you didn't say you were a virgin and just gave lousy dick on 1st date you'd be better off. just keep trying on tinder and your nerves will go away and once you're more confident you can get a long term relationship because the girl will actually want to be with you. also you'll look back on this as nothing, just keep swingin
Juan Cooper
Lmao, laughed like a retard at this
Josiah Sullivan
>babby's first girl eel
Samuel Morales
You’ve learned a lesson every man learns in his lifetime. You have two choices, you can either ponder this incident for the rest of your life and you let it indirectly morph your subconscious into something worse than your ex could ever dream of, or you can use this experience as fuel to better your body, your mind, and reclaim your life and transform it into something 10x greater than hers is.
Hudson Morgan
The solution is to call her over and over and then wait outside her apt with flowers.
Robert Brooks
its not about looks, people who think that are virgins for life, it's about being willing to try and fail, which you clearly have no problem doing. a 2/10 could get laid if he vigorously tried every day for a week.
Brandon Russell
>its not about looks
Aaron Howard
lmao stay virgin faggt
Levi Diaz
How is this Veeky Forums related again? I know this Brazilian monkey soup recipes forum has some board for you.
Caleb James
Sex is about power for women user it’s one of the only areas they get to have control that’s why so much porn is about guys rekking bitches bc in real life women hold the pussy strings. If she wasnt planning on fucking you before you told her you were a vtard then she 100% was going to after. She’s a cunt move on.
Colton Flores
it's only about looks if you're trying to fuck 9s and 10s, anyone can fuck a normal girl. im like a 4 or a 5 and ive slept with 5 girls and put very little effort in. the idea that someone can't get laid because they're ugly is incel delusion and the problem lies with how they act. i know a fatass smelly dude whos fucked like 10 girls, the most important factor is being fine with rejection. it's only embarrassing if you see it that way
Julian Jones
All false
Sebastian Brown
LOL LOL LOL sub5 or sub6 inches mah nigga?
Asher Nguyen
Seriously I constantly have to check if I'm on the board I thought I was because of faggots like you. Wat does this even have to do with business and finance you autistic mongrel.
Jack Miller
It's still possible if you arent good looking but its a massive uphill battle and you need a incredible personality.
Jacob Cox
Keked hard at all the bitter incels itt. Women have their hearts broken by 'chads' just as much as men. Truth is most people don't know how to love and will never learn
Juan Jenkins
Never date if you are not emotionally stable. Find good friends or get a dog first. Nobody cares about you, it's the jungle out there, take care user
Hudson Brown
Women are just like crypto coins, volitive as fuck, 99% are scamcoins and have stinky linkys.
Just like crypto, don’t go all in on one thing
Jordan Jones
It is but I dont try
Like at all
And the wives of miserable fucks sneak off to try and chat when they see me
I'll never marry
Alexander Wilson
You got off easy, this was like a 1-2% crypto loss. Next time it might be a 2year relationship and trust me, those bags are heavy.
Aiden Lewis
Then she'll just cheat on you with some Chad. It's over for ugly guys 2bh
Hudson Turner
KEK
Thomas King
Investing in women is like investing in TRON real rap
I see anons here post it ALL the time they'll keep you around till they find an upgrade or just cheat on the side
A rich nigga's nightmare desu
John Gonzalez
>all these replies
Wtf biz
Isaiah Bell
head on over to /pol/ they'll straighten you out lass
Jason Perez
Niger love doesnt exist >invest in what people do for you and dont invest in people directly.
Xavier Evans
bro, dont sweat it, there are plenty of chicks out there, u did good by dating this girl, now go use tinder to find another!
Nathan Anderson
This
Time heals all wounds OP. It'll get better.
Samuel Myers
How old are you?
Tyler Mitchell
OY VEY YES KEEP USING TINDER, THATS WHERE YOULL FIND TRUE LOVE
Luke Sullivan
well, at least you got to fugg :D
Luis Butler
Are you a MAN or a fish?
Go back and find another one. LIVE THE DREAM
Jeremiah Sanchez
When I lost my virginity, I realized how gay chasing after women was and immediately stopped caring about the girl I had just had sex with. It was this revelation, sex is worthless. I had spent all this time and energy caring about it and pursuing it, when doing that is the gayest thing you can possibly do. It's bizarre, but the way to get sex, if you really want it, is to just not try. The more you try, the less likely you are to get it. If you really want it, you have to not care if you get it or not, and then you'll get it.
I really don't know why.
Isaac Price
This is so, so fuckign wrong. I've never tried in my life and have never even come close. I get literally ZERO attention because I'm ugly as shit, I'm totally invisible to them.
Logan Hall
>1 post by this id
Ayden Johnson
Yeah, I'm a gross manlet too, no idea why it happened for me. I stopped dating long ago, been with my current girl for 2 1/2 years and I think it's for life, but back when I dated, I just didn't try or give a shit. I got super drunk and barfed 3 times, got kicked out of a bar, and still fucked this one girl. I think when you outwardly signal to a girl that you don't give a shit about her, she works hard to earn validation through you, but the only thing that can really validate a woman is sex. Just a weird pet theory though. I didn't neg anyone or make people feel bad, I just didn't care.
Alexander Garcia
>sex one night with a girl you met on a casual dating site >already want to commit Gee I wonder what happebed
Austin Morris
wow you're a real faggot op. i usually wouldnt reply to such bait but on the .01% odds that you do exist, you should kys. stop being a fag overthinking what reality actually was. i bet you mightve had a chance with ur 5/10 tinder gf but you scared her off being autistic and showing her ur endless spaghetti pockets from not having your dick ever touched by a girl before
Nathan Moore
Blessing in disguise. You will fuck up your next relationship too by being too needy. You probably wont even notice so try keep your eyes open
John Allen
I now wish I was gay.
Andrew Ross
god op this
Zachary Hernandez
Are you the overweight NEET from that Catperson story in the New Yorker?
Aaron Robinson
I feel you brother. This is why i switched from girls to opioids. Best decisions of my life. Pic related is now my best friend.
Grayson Bennett
Dude you had a major success. Do this 10x until you settle into a relationship. You need to get your view of woman calibrated or you will be hurt seriously in a relationship.
Kayden Taylor
>be me >5 years later >still obsessive thoughts
y-yeah OP, t-t-this
Camden Gomez
Stop being a faggot, you probably just dont realize you have a tiny dick or something.
Jeremiah James
Remember the first time you got drunk? You were probably all over the place, reeling around, vomiting, crying, a mess in short. Now you can probably drink until you're half pissed and still carry off decent conversation, walk straight. The difference is exposure and tolerance. Emotions are the same, oxytocin released after orgasm causes you to think you're in love and start planning your future together. Fuck a few more girls a couple of times and you'll shoot your load then roll over and tell them to shut the door when they fuck off.
Jeremiah Hernandez
TIME WILL HEAL EVERYTHING, FUCK HER MOVE ON TO SOMETHING EVEN BETTER
Christian Lewis
Get over it betacuck
Zachary Foster
When you finally find your wife, you'll regret the meaningless sex. Believe you me
Kayden Barnes
\cuck detected
Thank you op I just baught 100k
Brody Reyes
Women are literally semen receptacles, that's it. They are a complete meme.
Dylan Lewis
Honestly, OP it comes down to maturity of the girl you are with. If she thinks that's acceptable behavior, she isn't right. At the end of the day, you showed her who you were and she treated it like nothing...something she could just throw away. So, treat her like nothing and find a woman that will actually treat you great. That's when you'll realize you were way too good for her, and you've found someone 5x better. That"s a 500% gain!!!! (>:D)={=={
Jeremiah Wood
BUSINESS AND FINANCE
Zachary Reyes
Tinder is used for fuckening. She just wanted to be the first one to take your virginity (they love virgins, i used it to get girls) and thats it. Its you who took things too far. It was a pump n dump match up
Ayden Cruz
>you probably just dont realize you have a tiny dick or something. Kek
Dylan Cook
Enjoy living as a monk for the rest of your life in celibacy and recluse. (You) will never be loved by anyone, if I were (You) that would be a scary thought.
Easton Johnson
> girls > not related to finance LMAO at you
Grayson Thompson
I'm really not surprised that half this board are virgins when I read how some people act. Girls can sense desperation, and they don't like it - this shit is embarrassing. Get a grip of yourself man. Sure, you can like them and fall in love or whatever, just don't act like a fag about it to them because it will be counter productive. Plus, women are not really worth getting that worked up about.
t. 5'9, 6/10 manlet who lacks confidence yet still fucked 26 girls by the time I was 25
Mason Sullivan
Get over yourself, she doesn't owe you anything.
Jackson Gomez
What does it feel like to lose your purity to a roastie