>tfw being lonely and isolated made you a social cripple >finish degree >get decent paying job in my field >everyone at office is friends and have insider jokes >they try to involve me >never had friends during crucial growing time >don't know how to socially interact >no bantz >socially akward af >they feel it >slowly they start excluding me since I'm a weirdo >now socially isolated at work >tfw no matter how much I try I will never get a promotion due to akwardness
how do I escape this cycle
Juan Martinez
Stop being a pussy ass autistic money skeleton bitch? Have drinks with co-workers and talk about current events or news around the office? How is this hard
Angel Richardson
you made your hell now lie in it
Kayden Ramirez
go to /adv/ if you want serious answers
Henry Williams
Namefag get out
Dylan Flores
I have never been invited. it takes time until you reach that amount of friendship but I never got that far. they are always having witty remarks and shit and they expect a witty reply but all they get from me is a maybe a smile or hehe.
I fume everytime after that but then I never learned how to banter..
Caleb Myers
start working out, you cuck
Charles Bailey
I didn't make it. some people are just born this way I guess. I tried hard to make friends at uni but no one wanted to be my friend. the awkwardness pushes everyone away.
at this point I am thinking I should go full autistic at work..
James Roberts
how does that help?
Ryder Peterson
Just become a loveable weirdo. They'll use you for jokes but at least like having you around.
Mason Morgan
Do you have the doublemint Mike pasta by any chance?
Jayden Jones
You mean this?
Joshua Peterson
>get what i think is a comfy city job at 20 yo for like 15/hr >nothing but boomer who have been working there for 20 years there >want to work like absolute dogs everyday >start bullying my boomer co worker to learn to just chill >one day i get fired because he said i was sleeping
I fucking hate old people they can't die off fast enough so we can move on and live a lush libertarian utopia with basic income
Dylan Campbell
>just born this way I guess guessed wrong
John Scott
you made your bed now roast in it
Nathaniel Hernandez
Talk to people as much as possible. It's ok to be kinda awkward as long as you seem to be making an attempt.
>walk by someone
Say hi
>co workers going to a bar
Ask if you can tag along
Unless they're very cruel (not likely for most people regardless of what autists on Veeky Forums claim) they'll let you socialize with them. With practice you'll be less awkward.
Good luck user.
Colton Bennett
maybe that's the solution for me I'm never going to make it in the private sector long term time to look for a gubberment jerb
Noah Carter
Find a way to work from home. Also, fuck normies and fuck extroverts.
Zachary Nguyen
Just go to work, do your job, and dont be scared to speak if you need something done. Socializing isn't something that should be forced. Don't be afraid to be alone, anyone that comments on your loner status is beta. That is the literal definition of beta, they need a group to cling to. If you are alpha enough the group will form around you. If a chad is quiet he is the strong silent type. Start lifting.
Ryder Jones
That's the one.
Jordan Brown
time to move on to better things op
Ayden Edwards
>caring about being friends with wagies We're your friends user you don't need anyone else
Isaac Evans
Fuck this world, you will die anyway. You might as well die a weird loner. And fuck people in general, im not giving 2cents what anyone thinks of me. Competition and rivalry is very real and the strong eat the weak. This is stuff no one can change so you can internally quit this whole shit anyway.
There were billions of people on this planet literally worse off than you with horrible fates you cannot imagine in your darkest nightmares.
Ryder Wilson
>Work hard, have over twice the tickets closed of my coworkers
>Don't get promotion because I don't go to happy hour and listen to them bitch about wanting to find a house with a wine cellar
>Boss openly tells me that my work is good but I wont go anywhere in the company if I don't socialize
Fuck this, I'm putting in my two weeks tomorrow.
Brody Wood
No you don't have to reach a certain level before going for drinks you have to go for drinks before you even begin to start. You obviously fucked it to the point where you didn't get invited. You have to get in early. Maybe suggest the pub yourself how about that?
Liam Kelly
I'm 20 and I was in the same position as you up until a month ago (I sold my terrain and quit the job). YOU WON'T GET ANYWHERE AT THIS JOB WITHOUT SOCIALIZING BECAUSE NOBODY CARES ABOUT THE LOW LEVEL WORK YOU DO YOU FUCKING MONGOLOID
Tyler Reed
Just do your work and start searching for a more autistic suitable work
William Jenkins
just have a sip of wine or drink a beer before you talk to them
