What are the long term psychological effects of being >tfw no gf ?

You will be ok. You have all time of your life. It just begun from the perspective of an adult. In some states you not even can drink alc. So there is plenty of time.

yes and no, I don't really talk to chicks unless it's about school stuff so ehh idk.

>I don't really talk to chicks
there's the problem.

I just don't know what to talk about without seeming like a fucking weirdo.

don't worry about being a fucking weirdo. if you're just starting you will have a ton of moments where you're a fucking weirdo.

as long as you don't rape a girl you're on the right path. if you stutter/stop talking mid sentence when your brain freezes (happened to me dozens if not a hundred times, still might on occasion), you're still fine. just talk to more girls

>be me
>19 yr old virgin
>dropped college to go to work as i was sick of education
>started puberty much later than everyone else so i was still quite immature
>worked for nearly 2 years, earned a nice savings account
>much more mature now, starting to look more adult like (still a way to go)
>quit job recently as i was tired of it and wanted some time off
>so i have 7 inch cock and loads of money, want to find gf to go traveling with, which i thought girls want
>i have no idea how to even meet girls my age at this point

It's hard user, especially when you are butt fuck ugly.

>ugly
almost all men are ugly user, just be funny and more importantly try to relax, women and people generally can smell desperation/discomfort really easily.

besides, women say awkward shit all the time

>almost all men are ugly
c'mon you can't believe this.

>plenty of time
most chicks my age are extremely turned off by male virginity. Women want what other women want, women don't want a virgin because it indicates lack of success with other women.

Pick a girl, learn about her interests and start researching a bit. Is she into a specific author? go read his books. Is she a major fan of ice skating? go buy yourself some ice skates. Then maybe start a conversation with her and bond over that thing. Trust me, this works.

Pick a girl, learn about her interests and start researching a bit. Is she into a specific author? go read his books. Is she a major fan of ice skating? go buy yourself some ice skates. Then maybe start a conversation with her and bond over that thing. Trust me, this works.

wow
i like how you had to put on your serious hat on so people know this opinion is legit and important

why was this posted twice?

filter and move on, boys

I am similar in a way to you OP.

here's my medical condition

>never had a gf
>never fap
>dislikes 3d porn
>likes a lot of degenerate fetishes(2d animu rape, domination, blabla, generally weird shit)
>trust issue
>ive been interested in a girl before, but i never think of having sex with her, i simply like her for her motherly appearance, so maybe it's because im too close to my mother that i expect the same from everyone? like i woul never fuck my own mother of course

feel free to ask

First of all, absolutely not. Plenty of socially well-adjusted people have gotten their first gf late in life.

Second, focus less on intimate relationships and more about the emotional relationship itself. Having a girl who is a friend, ugly or not, will be beneficial for future socialization of the opposite sex.

Dont fret, you will be fine.

But would you fuck your own mother?

Maybe you are somehow just not ready for it yet. No need to put you under pressure. If you look ok and anything works fine physically you will sure get your chicks....there is a study telling the amount of sexual partners in life. And the mean is pretty low... you can count them on one hand. YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY NORMAL.

Most men I know that think they are ugly simply didn't take care of themselves. Bad hygiene, bad teeth, shitty hair style, no fashion sense, weird behaviour, bad posture, funny way of talking, obesity, lack of fitness, stuff like that. The actual beauty aspect of attractiveness is pretty irrelevant in men. It surely helps, but everything else I listed is much more important. Start working on yourself, and you'll be more attractive. Women (probably men too though) intuitively dislike men that look like they never took care of themselves and just kind of turned out whatever way they grew. And they are absolutely right with this.

i just i said i wouldn't, sex i ngeneral doesnt itnerest me

I don't really understand why you'd even be posting a question like this on Veeky Forums instead of another board that "deals" with this type of shit (ex. /r9k/, /adv/ etc.) but if it makes you feel any better, I'm going to be 20 in less than a month, and I have literally 0 friends and never kissed a girl even. People don't want to sell me alcohol without an ID, and primary schoolers I play football (EU) with literally think I'm an 8th grader.

This is what I look like.

Your nipples are weird...like too big and too far out.

>going on 19
>going on
>19

You are literally in the beginning of the prime of your life, there are millions of miserable bastards in their 30's that would kill to go back to that age, regardless of their sex lives at that time. Assuming you are in college like most people on Veeky Forums, you have infinite possibilities to slay poon. If you are in college just ask some chick that sits next to you what she got on some homework problem, and go from there. If you see some random chick sitting on a bench on campus go up to her and say hi, unless she's reading or doing homework, but most women I see sitting alone on campus are on their phone. Women want to feel validated and attractive so if you go up to them and just say hi they like it, even if they don't find you sexually attractive. Join some stupid club on campus and talk to the women there, there really is a limitless amount of ways to get to know women at college you just have to put a modicum of effort into you appearance. Join a gym, get a haircut, get non-autistic clothes, if you have mild acne it shouldn't be a problem but anything worse is something that needs to be dealt with, quit shit posting and playing vidya, etc.

Seriously if you can't get laid in college you are either not trying, 4'1 or have a severely deformed face.

dude you could literally be Chad tier if you ate more than 500 calories a day and joined a gym. fuck off

start lifting weights and eating protein. that'll solve your problem in, like, 6 months or so.

these desu senpai

If you are not interested in sex then definitely take your time. It is normal to not want to have sex for a multitude of reasons.
Make meaningful relationships with people of all sexes. Curious common interests you notice in others when in public, comment to them about it to start off.

22. Never had much of any meaningful relationship with another human being, friendship or otherwise.

I'm alright. Wasn't always. It most certainly does something to you, but I'm not sure it's meaningfully described mechanically.

So you fucked 30+ women in a year and a half?
You must have spent a fortune!

I know this feel

Fuck off
> psychology
>relationships

There he is. There he goes again. Look, everyone! He posted it once again! Isn't he just the funniest guy around?! Oh my God.

I can almost see your pathetic overweight frame glowing in the dark, lit by your computer screen which is the only source of light in your room, giggling like a like girl as you once again type your little "psychology isn't a science" post up and fill in the captcha. Or maybe you don't even fill in the captcha. Maybe you're such a disgusting NEET that you actually paid for a Veeky Forums pass, so you just choose the picture. Oh, and we all know the picture. The "epic r9k meme", isn't it? I imagine you little shit laughing so hard as you click it that you drop your Doritos on the floor, but it's ok, your mother will clean it up in the morning. Oh, that's right. Did I fail to mention? You live with your mother. You are a fat fucking fuckup, she's probably so sick of you already. So sick of having to do everything for you all goddamn day, every day, for a grown man who spends all his time on Veeky Forums posting about a capeshit movie. Just imagine this. She had you, and then she thought you were gonna be a scientist or an astronaut or something grand, and then you became a NEET. A pathetic psychology NEET. She probably cries herself to sleep everyday thinking about how bad it is and how she wishes she could just disappear. She can't even try to talk with you because all you say is "PSYCHOLOGY IS A PSEUDOSCIENCE." You've become a parody of your own self. And that's all you are. A sad little man laughing in the dark by himself as he prepares to indulge in the same old dance that he's done a million times now. And that's all you'll ever be.

Forever...

It hurts to know there are people living like this.

Just check out most of /b/ or all of /r9k/

No...

>mfw I did and am exactly what you described in your post.

>being >tfw no gf ?

You don't be a feel

kek, however:
>spends all his time on Veeky Forums posting about a capeshit movie
>capeshit movie
you forgot to change that

I didn't know what to put so I just left it

> posting about muh feelings and annecdotes
> science
pick one faggot.

Intently focus on the areas of your life with which you have the deepest degree of control and seek to improve in those realms.

Acquiring status, a nice physique, a social circle, a career, interests which attract others, a home, a car, good manners, and so many more things will help you down the road.

My suggestion would be to find a religion which fosters who you want to become as a you mature.

lumineboreali.net/

If you are looking for advice on women check out RSD Tyler (Blueprint Decoded), Sinn and Savoy's book "Magic Bullets", and also take r/theredpill with many, many grains of salt.

>promoting your fucking religion on Veeky Forums

It's ok OP, I have a story, my life changed 5 days ago
>be me
>be virign, not kissless but only bar sluts
>last week my Mom gives me the number of a neighborhood qt, applied math major from Brown
>inb4 applied
>called her up, asked her to dinner
>she said yes, go to chipotle, talk for 2 hours
>two days later, invite her over to smoke weed
>we end up fucking
honestly life changes so fast user, I think Veeky Forums helped as well, hang on, you'll meet your qt3.14 one day

>>last week my Mom gives me the number of a neighborhood qt, applied math major from Brown
???
Is this before or after she pimp slapped you and said "go stand on the corner and make me my money, bitch".

I really don't believe this. Your mom gives you a phone number of some ivy league qt and you bang her in 3 days.

eehhhh naw

I'm 26 and a kissless virgin. I've got my problems, but I'm still happy.

In your case: if you think you have a problem, deal with it. If all you do is focus on nothing but the fact you don't have any intimate relationships, you will NEVER get anywhere.

>What are the long term psychological effects of being >tfw no gf ?
Low self esteem

>tfw over twice that age, still no gf

Wizadry unlocked.

don't worry OP, with simple life style changes you can find your GF. Anyways, you are very very young, you are 19 yo, don't rush it if you don't want it.

My test levels are 1200 ng/dL.

There are guys hooked up on estrogen with gfs.

>don't rush it

I literally have to jerk off 3 times a day to focus on school. That was my point.

this

the worst people on Veeky Forums are the people who bitch about not having a gf when they have ZERO girls in their social circle. What the hell are you expecting?

I watched a qt spaghetti while talking to me and didn't take the initiative because I was graduating in 1 semester and didn't see any longterm point in having a short-term relationship with a freshman when I'm going to away for grad school in the fall. You can call it a failure on my part since they say "it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all"

Technically it was 4 days. Had dinner day after I called

so how'd your mother get her phone number?

She did some dark shit she insisted he didn't need to worry about.

Its not really their fault user, for some stupid reason during puberty boys get an uncontrollable nervousness around the opposite sex.

Ya but I'm 19, I should be Chad tier around women.

Well it would'a, could'a been, worse than you would ever know.
Should'a been could'a been worse than you would ever know. You told me about nowhere, well it sounds like some place I'd like to go.

You have to expose yourself to women and eventually dating to get to that stage.

This is mostly an thread, moreso than career threads, /adv/ is dating/relationship advice. Psychological effect is pretty much no more than you beating yourself up because you expect different from yourself.

They're our neighbors, so I think my Mom was talking to her Dad and she gave my Mom her number.