Food refusals

I'm a fitness geek and love to cook healthy stuff. I've noticed that a lot of my fit friends refuse to touch food I've made even if it's their favorite, and even if they eat other people's food no problem. I can cook really well (confirmed through third party chefs) so it's not the quality of food that's lacking. I am not fat nor dirty, but I am ugly, and I worry that my appearance is why people refuse my food. They also refuse fitness advice in general from me, even when I'm in very good shape. They have no problem taking advice from attractive people in our group, even when those people are idiots, eat garbage and are lazy bums. Anyone else experience this? Any way to fix it?

Sounds to me you're annoying and autistic and people just don't want be around you because of it

Your friends might be lazy unhealthy shits OP.

POst some of your food or we cant help you op

Post a picture. We'll determine level of ugliness. I've never really seen a fit person look ugly, unless they have a gargoyle face due to bad genetics. But if you're fit, standard things like acne, blotches, etc. should be cleared up if truely fit.

grow half a foot, manlet

This, post pics of face and food

My skin is clear but my face looks like Michael Jackson and Samwise Gamgee had a love child. I'm also a manlet.

Food is for family. Stop offering food to anyone.

Post pics

Go to bed, mom

No

I think the problem is you are completely full of yourself. Your cooking is probably shit, those "third party chefs" didn't want to hurt your feelings because you're already a hobbit sized monstrosity, and your fitness routines involve over complicated yet ineffective bullshit and solo cross fit style (because you're such an annoying little fuck no one will work out with you.) I already hate you, I wouldn't eat your shitty cooking, and I'm not going to do your stupid workouts when there are many other ways to exercise that are simpler, safer, and more effective. You are not the gyms innovative special snowflake. You're just an ugly manlet.

Who hurt you user?

OP

I call it like I see it. Anyone who thinks people won't eat their food or take their fitness advice because they are ugly but not fat is delusional. It's not because they are ugly, it's because their cooking is shit and their fitness advice is retarded.

people don't accept things from people they don't like because it invites that person to continue talking/associating with them. You're probably too autistic to realize that they don't like you

In what circumstances are these fit friends refusing to touch your food? Do you specifically make it for them individually, or do you cook food that happens to be their favorite and set it out at a party?

They invite me to eat with them all the time.

Both

When they invite you, are there other people present that they are also inviting?

Do you smell bad? Do you wear deordorant? Do you shower everyday?

They invite me along with other people, they invite me when I'm alone, they invite me over the phone. They invite me as the only guest on some occasions, they invite several guests on other occasions. I stated in OP that I'm not dirty. I don't smell.

Just ask them in an upfront yet polite manner if there's an issue with your cooking that you're not aware of that's causing them to avoid eating it, do you use too many spices, etc

the direct approach is often the easiest amigo

This is good advice.
Also OP, what are some examples of things you cook? Can you post pictures?

When you say they "invite you to eat," do you mean they invite you to go somewhere to eat? Because that would be weird if you brought food.

I don't have any problem with ugly people.
I do have a problem with cunts that blame their unpopularity on them being ugly when in fact they're just a cunt. Like perhaps the kind of cunt that thinks most people are so superficial that your attractiveness makes them hate everything you say or do.

Are they homophobic? Maybe they think you have the AIDS.

If he is a homo the chances are not exactly small.