Stop watching porn

you are not a human being. you are a drug addicted savage.

I just have to ejaculate what else am I supposed to do as neet

Moar please please please

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I relapsed after a solid month. I wasn't even jerking it and didn't feel the need to until i came super fast when i boned my gf and had to find a way lower my sensitivity.

What's the best balance?

I still jerk off for the same reason, I'm too quick in bed without it, but just do it without the porn. Jerking off is not the problem, conditioning your brain day in and day out with pornography is.

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Among all that porn
>Kaczynski's comments on McVeigh

stop promoting asceticism. dont be a sufferer who waits for his reward.

change your attitude from consumer to creator.

hah! the gay part was a trap, you don't belong here

>that Starting Strength epub
Absolute kek

I did, but did because of any effort on my part. It suddenly just became meaningless.

I want to insult you for having no self-control but at the same time I don't want you to get aroused to my insults

nice you should get into tickle torture
whats the ratzinger book btw?

whats he gonna do enter his butthole lol

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What if girls in tight clothes posing is basically porn for me? I mean pic related is just a model from a clothing website but it's got everything I need to bust a fierce nut. Should I not abstain just because it isn't full of cocks slapping her face?

I don't, porn is boring and gross.

>amuse me faggot

hahahha

understand the difference between pleasuring yourself because you genuinely enjoy it and pleasuring yourself because of you want to be tranquilized. pathological masturbation leads to an overstimulated mind. jerk off because you want to, not because you need to.

>Starting Strength
>KJV Bible
>Ratzinger
top comedy

You don't really need an image at all to masturbate, except maybe your own fantasy.

>Needing fantasy or anything at all
you are like little baby

Yeah but I prefer it. Like, HIGHLY prefer it. I like to get off specifically to my visual fetishes, even while they aren't necessarily pornographic. I think it might just be better to nofap because I could get off to clothed thots all day.

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You can "view" the same girl in your minds eye, I'm just mentioning it, do whatever you want to do.

>SPH
Truly a man of taste.

But I can't imagine all the girls I haven't seen yet and every new thot in yoga pants with a messy bun needs at least 1 nut dedicated to their trashiness.

I watch (and fap to) porn to relieve my sexual stress and desire. It is really hard to concentrate on work when all you can think about are thicc grills.

>classics and porn stacked side by side
kinopost

what an awful deformity

Those are her gains brah. She used to have no ass and twiggy legs. I for one welcome our squat-abusing thot temptresses. Her thighs are a bit big but ultimately I don't mind because it nicely contrasts her tiny waistline.

Sorry, it's just my idea of a perfect female body is more, uhm, classical.

Is this ironic or do you actually think that's real?

never seen uglier thighs

b-but the new anal scene with Lana & Jade dropped today

She has multiple pictures my guy

This is a high test board you must be lost

looks fucking horrid, is she supposed to be a centaur

She's a brown belt in choking out ass-eaters, and I'm ok with that. THIS is a centaur

Based

She's just fat with a bad and unhealthy weight dispersion

Why?

Can you upload those somewhere? It's for research for my next book

>It's for research for my next book
what a pathetic excuse

To make this meme truly supreme, have some Peterson lectures thrown in there next time.

found the brainlet

It's okay to like different things user. I like a lot of things which is why I want to fap to them all

Its not like youre going to write a book any time soon.

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t. False ascetic

Something I hear from a friend of mine as an excuse is always that he just has high libido, but I think he coerced himself into the high libido since he's exposed himself to porn from the young age on and made a daily habit out of it

but then again he's mistaking high libido for viewing a picture of a girl and the instant need to jerk off

I haven't jacked it since Fat Tuesday. It's been much easier than I thought it would be. Previously I had been doing it twice a day, though it was mostly just mechanical and routine.

>No Goddess Greeneyed
Either way brosef, stop now. This is the deepest you'll go and there's only real life after this. It's not in your masculine spirit to do this. >Read Otto weininger
Delete everything.
Realistically you'll not be able to go cold turkey, allow yourself soft porn or reverse hypno.
You're ruining yourself, once you close the door there's no going back.

I am only able to masturbate, or even get aroused, by women's feet.

A naked woman does absolutely nothing for me, and I'll spend the duration of the video trying to catch a glimpse of her feet.

It's starting to affect my personal life. If I notice a 6/10 with interesting arches, she instantly becomes incredibly attractive. A girl I otherwise fancied becomes repulsive if her feet aren't attractive.

Sex is an uninteresting pretext for foot worship. I go through the motions, as she becomes inconsolable if I appear uninterested in her 'body', but I'm constantly thinking of when I can bury my face into her pillow-soft, intoxicating soles.

Is sex irredeemably ruined for me?

>allow yourself soft porn or reverse hypno.
I'll just self insert as the girl though, at least when I watch ballbusting I self insert as the man being degraded by the woman
>Goddess Greeneyed
repeats herself too much

Then self insert yourself as the man or watch something with a solo girl. If you don't stop you're done in life.

>You're ruining yourself, once you close the door there's no going back.

Fuck this is my fetish fuck fuck

Porn is literally unnecessary and it's easy to quit once you realise it.

>6/10
>unattractive

This is your brain on porn

Take the nofap pill.

All of you got tricked feeding into this guy's fetish lmao

Not for me, I had triggers and had gone into habit having started with rape videos and hentai from age 11. I was seriously addicted to it so I read about addiction and habit.
I couldn't get hard to soft porn but I only allowed myself that, it filled in the hole I needed when I would go cold turkey but I would get tired of it and go 1-3 days without it since there was no reason watching it and I realized how sorrow I had become.
Porn makes you feel like a hollow shell.

>The thing is that your creative power, comes mainly from your libido. Your sexual fantasies can be easily converted to a powerfull energy to create, think, or do other things. Sex takes an important part of your psyche, and is at the origin of a lot of its contents. By imposing its own degrading images and not letting you create your personal ones, watching porn will slowly degrade you're ability to create, because you will be used to have a pre-made material.
It's catastrophic because it impoverished your brain, you became lazy because all the images are available, and also you became more and more perverted because to be turned on, you always need more powerfull and chocking images.
Porn is bad for your psyche, and bad for your creative power. You should try to progressively reduce your consumption, and try to masturbate without it more and more until you're totally disinfected.

but..i...i thought i cou...could manag...

ok ill stop. *slaps own face*

>I self insert as the man being degraded by the woman
There is not a single mentally healthy male who is into this. It's a fetish that manifests as a result of some psychological trauma. Just like there are no mentally healthy obese women, all of them go into overeating as a result of a seriously bad sexual experience that gave them shellshock. This isn't me saying this btw, that's the psychological consensus.

Go to a therapist.

Can confirm, I was into this. Was molested at 6, bullied for ~3 years before I lost weight and my mother always tried to make me play with girl toys and dress up.

Have you told your mother that she is a monster yet?

>my mother always tried to make me play with girl toys and dress up.
Is this the origin for the sissy stuff? That's really interesting if there's a correlation. Otherwise I think many "fetishes" are cultural memes, that the subconscious adopts.

>Choking
Hehe

>Just like there are no mentally healthy obese women
half the low income english/part irish women in my town are obese though probably because they have nothing else to do
>It's a fetish that manifests as a result of some psychological trauma.
I've been getting off to this since I was 10 and I'm 21 now, I've never been molested and I my childhood was fine. It just feels good sometimes to hit my balls if a girl in a video tells me to, like its fun to follow along with her commands punching myself and using kitchen utensils, I usually regret it afterwards if I can still feel a lot of pain or some other hassle (remember picking dried candle wax out of my balls for hours kek)
>Go to a therapist.
Couldn't people just sort this out themselves though? All a therapist does is just explain stuff to you and take your money

Two years without porn.

What if I started having this fetish in my early 20s but I didn't have any particular psychological trauma

Yes, and? You still think it's real?

Then your situation is better than someone who got that fetish in his teens because it didn't affect your brain while it was developing. Look up "your brain on porn".

sauce on sbp.mp4

I was asking how could I possibly have developed this fetish since I didn't have any particular trauma.

I seriously recommend seeing a therapist on that. It will make your life and existential suffering worse for at least a week, but after that, if your therapist isn't absolute garbage, you'll not only come to terms with the hell you went through, but also be able to go for the opportunities that you subconsciously avoided and post-hoc rationalized.

In order to ascend into heaven, you need to first journey through hell, so to speak.

I've told her that what she did was very unpleasant and disturbing, but she stopped trying to force me into girl toys when I was about 7 when I told her I would only get a girl doll if it was in a police costume. She still applauded and motivated any androgyny I showed as a boy and I remember her telling me she wanted to keep me child-like for as long as she could. She would also take pictures of me when I dressed up in her clothes when I was like 9. Being 20 now it's very disheartening how selfishly she brought me up. Calling me big boned when I was being bullied for being fat too, I'm the whole meme and a modern tragedy. This place and Veeky Forums is helping me more than any school therapist ever did.
I'm not the guy with the folder picture, it had a large impact on me going there though but just porn in general was the larger problem I think.
My parents gave me unlimited internet usage at 11 I watched rape, lesbian and old-school newgrounds hentai.
At my addiction peak my life was just school, hypno porn, role play, crossdressing and reddit/youtube.
Now crawling out of this and never blaming anyone except for myself for anything like I'm told here and on Veeky Forums is such burden on me though. But it's either to become better and reach personal and spiritual perfection both in body and wisdom or suicide.

You probably developed some self-esteem issues at some point before your fetish began.
Were you ever bullied? Are you insecure about your body? Maybe the porn you viewed before your fetish corrupted your psyche.

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>half the low income english/part irish women in my town are obese though probably because they have nothing else to do
Anecdotal evidence based on you not knowing their life, meanwhile psychologists and psychiatrists studied this based on experiment, study and data. No one who suffers through it will want to talk about it.

>I've never been molested
It's not always molestation. I'm 100% sure you suffered some trauma and rationalized it post hoc.

>Couldn't people just sort this out themselves though?
It's a lot more difficult. You can't just sit and think about something. Having to distill your brain into speech is part of what the role of the therapist is there to do. You could do it with someone you trust if you want to, but you run the risk of them taking on your suffering (dragging you both down) or reacting badly (e.g. being too nice and helping you rationalize instead of face it, or worse, turn your recovery into resentment through pointing fingers).

see >It's not always molestation. I'm 100% sure you suffered some trauma and rationalized it post hoc.

But I didn't have any trauma.
Nope, none of that. Now that I think about it, it may have something to do with an unconscious fetishization of violence that I have from a younger age.
The thing is that I also watch videos of women getting humiliated and I self insert as the guy.

But i do not know how. Should i just get rid of the internet? NoFap is obvious bullshit.

>But I didn't have any trauma.
That's what I'm talking about, you definitely had trauma, but you used post hoc rationalization to make yourself think it's not a big deal, because it's scary to confront it.

You're probably similar to me, a fetishization of violence. It's all about power dynamics, but porn feeds into an unhealthy radicalization of it. It is, and always has been, about power for me. Doesn't matter if it's a girl fucking a guy, guy fucking another guy, two girls fucking, whatever. If there's an imbalance to the power dynamic there'll be an imbalance of my blood flow.

>you definitely had trauma

But how would you know?

No one can answer this

Mmh. I'm thinking about what this rationalized trauma could possibly be but I really don't know. I distinctly remember the first time I tapped to this kind of stuff and the thing that excited me the most was the fact that there were whips involved. What could explain the fact that I also watch videos where I self insert as the dominant one?

fapped*