I'm soon to be 29. I was a player and smahed over 40 girls. Been in total 9 serious relationships. Used to be easier getting over your ex but as you grow older shit starts to get real. I'm 7-7.5/10 and get grills easily.
Currently my vital organs are damaged from the loss of my last love affair. It lasted a year and we haven't spoken for the past 2 months but yearning for her embrace has rendered me to a position where I've stopped looking at other women and all boners fail. Other women dont attract me anymore (no homo) andthey just give me a sinking feeling in my chest because ex is the only woman I want to see. Porn doesn't work. It's literally like somebody takes a massive shit inside your heart and then sets it to a medium fire to burn for an unexpected lifespan.
Worst part is I helped shape the breakup and parted ways with her whilst doing everything I can to make her realize how I'm not the one.
Please. Don't fall in love especially if you're getting older. Women will fuck with your life and crush your soul. Make no mistake I'm tall af and jacked af and I'm literally dying over a girl that may be 5/10 at best. Less according to Veeky Forumss meme ratings
Correction; don't fall in love with somebody's soul *tips fedora*
Jace Hill
Lol wtf is wrong with you? This pasta is filled with bad carbs.
Adrian Miller
Not a pasta its my life story. I am quite the writer, granted full of shortcomings but I simply want to share with fit brehs the cost of falling madly in love with your supposed "Soulmate"
Only I know how I've survived and endured the last two months. The pain and psychological torture could put Guantanamo to shame.
Jaxson Torres
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Thomas Carter
Damn dude
Caleb Murphy
OK
Just to make it clear, making a thread out of something you used to reply with is extremely egocentric and autistic.
Gavin Sullivan
I'm a Veeky Forumsizen and I believe this belongs here since 99% of people lift here to get a gf they should know the reality of its cost thats all
Chase James
Thats karma, you stupid fucking faggot.
Matthew Rogers
My hearts on fire with a massive pile of shit in it and I can't make my own thread to aware brehs on the outcomes of falling in love? gooby pls
Oliver Adams
Fuck off
Henry Nguyen
Tbh senpai I know its karma and paying the price. Nobody's perfect.
Thomas Morris
Stfu virgin, men are talking go back to your anime buttplugs and body pillows
Matthew Turner
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Colton Flores
Is she fucking someone else? Maybe several someones?
Dylan Allen
She isn't the sort I took her V-Card
Evan James
Based Peter Steele
Carter Lee
There's an example of REAL good writing.
Carson Hernandez
You are just another faggot who made the mistake of making a woman his life and not sharing his life with a woman.
Ryan Phillips
Doc pls ;_;
Jackson Carter
If you're not lying about about this then the only thing left for you to do now is to commit sodoku.
Angel Cruz
Hold me kik breh pls
Ethan Wright
>posted on fit a few years ago about mildly abusive BF >he genuinely got better, as he had a lot of mental issues and I began trying to break up with him >this past year was awesome >December he cheats >I take him back because we had been dating for 5 years and he was my first love, I have separation anxiety, and I had been living with him for two years in a place that was all the way across the country from my family and anyone I knew >Constantly paranoid >always checking his email multiple times a day >shaking while I sleep >February he cheats again >I take him back lmao.why >April marks our 6 year anniversary >leave to see family towards end of month >found out about new email of his just before I left >Decide to check on it the day before I'm due to fly back >he's CHEATING AGAIN HAHA YEAH >fly back with father, pack shit into my car, and finally leave him
I'm on the drive back home now. Shit's so dumb. I'm exhausted the second I wake, but I've barely cried or processed these emotions in any way so that's probably why. His mental shit is why he cheated, so I guess I can't be too upset. I'm really not to blame at all, outside of not leaving his ass sooner. I hate to talk myself up but I'm pretty perfect. Always supportive, loving, forgiving, appreciative, intelligent, enthusiastic for life, I cook and bake very well, I clean, I've gone to school, my sex drive is higher than his, and Veeky Forums has rated me a 10/10 in the past.
All he talks about now is how he's going to change and get better and be the man I deserve. Like BRUH, I have you 6 years to do that. I was open with what I needed- I didn't expect you to read my mind.
Sorry for the blog post, I haven't really talked to anyone about this so yeah
Lucas Rodriguez
>Veeky Forums has rated me 10/10 pics
Andrew Evans
That's where you fuck up with your pastas robot-kun. You NEVER write anything that provokes people to ask for proof.
Samuel Cook
pussy
Sebastian Martin
Check the archive and guess
Anthony Davis
READ THE STICKY
Jonathan Green
at least you got to be with her. i loved a grill tt was 5/10, 6/10 at most. and she rejected me. im not shredded, but i do have my gains.
Gabriel Allen
nice blog faggot
Wyatt Anderson
This
Christopher Davis
we tried to warn you but you wouldn't listen you god dammed fool and look what has happened
Connor Brown
quality post
Asher Brown
So many words and not a single thing was conveyed
Xavier Gonzalez
>mfw op has secret brethren clan of autistic Veeky Forumsizens
Isaac Cook
This is real. Now I'm old the feels creep up and dominate you. I also know that feel where you're just not interested in anyone but the ex. I'm there right now.
The way I'm living now is to accept that love and feels as the way the world is for you. If they're true feels, the love won't fade. Don't fight it. Don't struggle. Accept you love this person but that they're not in your life. Once you accept your feelings, you learn to live with them and not let them hurt you anymore. Surrender and accept. Let the feels exist but not harm you.
Zachary Hughes
>Correction
You don't need to include this on your post, you can just go back and make the correction in your post. The "correction" just makes you look like a poor writer that can't present their thesis without forced drama
Andrew Kelly
This is why I turned gay. It's so much easier than dealing with women. T-Thanks Veeky Forums.
Jaxon Lewis
Just in case you're still around, I have a few things to say to you after reading this. I'm somewhat similar in the key aspects of what you describe, although I used to get more open attention before I got Veeky Forums (I was normie-fit before, people are more intimidated now). I had several serious relationships where I learned that I have the ability to actually and deeply fall in love with any girl I make my girlfriend. Obviously for that they have to have certain qualities, not talking about sex here, that includes both physical and mental aspects of their personality. I still have that one who could have been the one, but I somewhat got over it. By getting over it I don't mean the childish thing of not crying about her or thinking about her but not feeling the sadness and disappointment all the time anymore. It stayed with me but the edge of it is gone. It's just that one chance that didn't happen but won't wreck your life and your personality.
In my personal opinion you should build your life around yourself, your goals and ideals, unless those include creating a family and having kids, in which case my advice is not for you. Of course there is always room for a serious relationship and a good companion, but unless you build your life around it, you can always move on. Keep or regain the ability to be open-minded and love again - in another way, love another woman.
He who has loved and lost that love and can still love again is truly strong. Those who harden themselves because they can't take the pain of being hurt are the ones who will regret that weakness.
No matter how much I love my woman and her exquisite body and the way she does certain things, I will never allow myself to be shaped by losing her in a negative way. I hope the day does not come, but when it does, I will be ready to take on that challenge and I hope I will be able to love yet again.
Regards, your fellow Anonymous, brother in Lifting Iron and Breaking Hearts. *tips barbell*
John Bennett
>Chad finds out that his actions have consequences
Keep suffering, fambulance. Your pain nourishes me.
Angel Martinez
Fuck, why has age made me emotional
Brody Hughes
love is a joke
kids are a joke
just have fun and then die, that's all you can do.
Luke Young
There's no such thing as romantic love. You've been duped into believing a fallacy created to stop your natural instinct to have sexual relations with as many women as possible before you die.
Those feelings of loneliness and the belief one female is perfect for are designed to keep you confined in a box and controlled. Don't fall for it. Resist.
Jace Baker
well i'm 34, not much older but I can give You some advice. I was once on your position. Learn to live with yourself. lift, live a day at a time. pick up a new hobby. you need to learn to be alone. then you can be with someone. honest breh.
Jaxon Miller
>I hate to talk myself up but I'm pretty perfect. Yet you stayed with a loser for this long. Nice bait.
Asher Phillips
>cheats
>take him back
you deserve it for being an idiot
Thomas Perez
this is why you NEVER EVER NO FUCKING MATTER WHAT SHITTY REASON go back with an ex
NEVER FUCKING EVER
jesus christ you people
Benjamin Williams
It's hard for me to even get a single chick to fuck me. Yet there are people on this planet, that have a gf and still casually fuck on the side.
Evan Flores
Fuck off
Robert Evans
Why do people STILL go back to an ex in this day and age?
Christian Allen
>I hate to talk myself up but I'm pretty perfect >intelligent kek'd
>dating guy with mental issues >lets him cheat on u 3 times >blames his mental issues for the reason why he cheat
3/10 I replied
nice b8te m8te
Ayden Edwards
This makes me sick, it's not even Veeky Forums related, go to /r9k/ and bitch there, seems like more your thing.
Benjamin Lopez
>40+ Women >Player
Mate I'm a 5/10 ex super fatty with gyno and have been with 15 women.
You need to smash more fitties. Legit players are like 100+ by 30.
Jackson Collins
Thank you breh. Read it twice, means a lot *tips no homo*
Austin Hernandez
Basement dwelling virgin berniecucks detected
Jace Brown
B E R N E R N
Brandon Lewis
>im gonna post a political bait so the thread might go on a bit
Elijah Howard
>tfw you're with a subpar girl hooking up and she asks you to describe your ideal woman >struggle to not say features that are her opposite
Gabriel Jones
Have hobbies. Love solitude and crave isolation. However, tables have turned in this scenario but thank you for understanding where I'm coming from, most anons on fit are border-line sociopathic virgins. Gotta count blessings