>tfw I turn 19 on May 19 and Im a virgin

It really doesn't seem mixed at least from my perspective. If you have the results to back up these claims of being a top tier human then I could understand making such claims. But this whole post reeks of self pity and insecurity. Sure we've all been at a low point, but what I fail to see throughout this is any change in attitude or realization that what you can change your own future. What is your goal here?

The point is what I said here Oblivion is failing at gainz and being able to into social which is a means to an end (getting laid)

Happiness is succeeding and getting laid

My goal is sex, not being a virgin anymore

>My goal is sex, not being a virgin anymore
Ok fair enough, and how is that going to fulfill you?
You seem like the type that'll be an anxiety ridden mess your first, second, third, etc time so I'm just trying to see the bigger picture here.

tfw 20 year old virgin here, but desu on my 20th birthday I meant a girl who I've been seeing for a while now.
>tfw was 20 year old KV until last night

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

because all shame and humiliation and sense of failure from years and years will be obliterated forever

and plus it will feel so good that no words can describe it

its like trying to explain calculus to a squirrel

cut or uncut?
bareback or condom?

how was it?
how do you feel now?

>tfw just under a month to protect my virginity to reach 20yo virgin status

We're all gonna make it

we didn't have sex we kissed.

Here OP, this will explain everything to you.
youtu.be/aFfA04JyPEY

>because all shame and humiliation and sense of failure from years and years will be obliterated forever
Sounds more like an obsession, but what do I know. gl

Lost it with 22, who cares

Just get a really hot escort and fuck her till you're weak on your knees. Virgin sex isn't some kind of shotty fanfic where you orgasm together and cuddle in the afterglow confessing you love and devotion to each other and promising to get married and have kids in the oh-so-distant future.

The more you build it up to be some kind of fairy tale the more likely you'll grow up to be a jaded old fuck when you realize you spent all that time in your youth getting worked up over nothing.

I'm turning 28 in 2 months and I'm still a virgin. Fuck you, my good man.

>tfw I turn 26 on may 19 and I'm a khv

I'm 21 and I lost mine just under a week ago. Everything kind of just fell into place and it happened.

Even a turboautist like myself who fucking can't stand being around 99.99% of people managed to find someone by trying hard enough, so if even half the shit you said in your post is true then you'll be fine.

Go on okcupid or whatever dating site or tindr, just not one that advertises marriages. Go on dates. Dates in the next city over if you're afraid that one person thinking you're kind of weird is somehow going to turn your life into The Fugitive. I lost it at 22, and almost the moment I started the date I realized the shit wasn't half as hard as I thought it would be. Had some awkwardness, like avoiding kissing her for the entire like six hour date because I was worried she would notice and hate me for being virgin scum and leave.

When I told her I was a virgin later on she kind of had an a-ha moment. Like "Oh! There were a few weird things, that makes sense." And it wasn't even mentioned again.

Your virginity doesn't matter at all. Your obstacle is the mental barrier you've built. Go on dates. Run screaming from the first one, but go to the second and the third and on and on until you stop and then until you act normal. You will realize no one gives half a shit and be able to move on.

If you just want validation, go on a cam site and pay some chick to look at your cam and masturbate with you.

If you just want pussy, get a bottle of whiskey and a Viagra. Go to a bar on a weekend. If it fails, go back the next weekend with lower standards.

>Im way smarter, taller, and eventually will be way better looking than most people

How can someone complain so much and still be so arrogant?

I'm sure you not dumb or ugly, but you're sure as shit not better than anyone else

You sound boring, man. Work on your personality half as hard as you work on gains. Form interesting opinions, do something out of the ordinary, take up a hobby that isn't meditating on how autistic you are. Boring people suck, no matter how aesthetic they are

I'm 21 and a virgin, I stopped giving a fuck long ago, don't focus on that bullshit, focus on gains and the fucking around will come eventually, WE ARE GOING TO MAKE IT, SON

I really can't tell how much of this is memeing or just the population of Veeky Forums being so different from what I usually assume.

Are you seriously saying that you're 26 years old and have never hugged someone? HOW is that possible? I'm not making fun, I just genuinely don't understand it.

38 year old virgin here.

OP, don't worry about it. Unfortunately, a massive amount of young men are virgins, and almost all of them don't regularly get sex. I'd estimate 40-60% of young men aged between 20-25 in Western countries are virgins.

Women only want Chad, the top dog, and it's hard to be that. Chad can fuck 100 girls, and those girls would rather share Chad than date us, the betas.

>us

Excuse you, but I hope you're not implying we're anywhere near the same league

>and plus it will feel so good that no words can describe it
>implying

sorry man but we are...if youre still a virgin at 19...lmao...no chance of saving yourself bro.

I am a 26 y/o virgin and sorry man but you are wrong. I'd say 90% people if not more over the age of 20 have had sex. And no women don't just want chad. Most guys i know with relationships aren't even close to being chads. Sure chads have it easier but the fact that we are virgins is our fault. Realizing that makes you a hell of a lot less bitter.

>no women don't just want chad
lol

>tfw turn 26 on 29th of may and i'm a kissless handholdless virgin

>Women only want Chad

In what universe does only the absolute top percent of guys get laid? Every single guy I know that is over 25 has had at least one relationship (actually every single one except one).

I don't understand how you can possibly think that this is the case unless you literally don't have any friends at all.

>unless you literally don't have any friends at all

Bingo.

>Bingo.

Oh. Well that's sort of really, really sad.

I know, I'm living it...

Where do you think this is, faggot?

holy fuck are you me? same birthday, same everything.

SOON I'LL BE 60 YEARS OLD

Just fuck a fat chick on Craigslist and get it over with.
You /r9k/ feels faggots make such a big deal out of not doing something. Having sex isn't magical, wonderful and soul-fulfilling. Once you stop placing such an emphasis on losing your virginity, work in socialising and bagging a good looking chick for the next time.
Little steps. Do you as a beginner attempt to OHP 2 plate, or do you build up to it?

Wanna hear something shitty, OP? A month after I turned 21 come chick I met online through a friend come over to my house. 13 hours by train or something like that. She was fat, but cute and I liked that she played video games with me. I was, like you, desperate to get laid. We skyped once before.

So she gets off the train. At that point I've only ever seen a few pics of her and heard her voice once. We did talk about some dirty stuff. Anyway, she gets off the train I say hi, she says hi and then, without knowing what comes next, I just grab her hand and start leading her to my place. We grab a taxi and I pull her closer, we cuddle up.

We get off the taxi and grab an elevator up to my apartment. We sit down on the couch in silence for a few seconds. I tell her to come over and we kiss. I sucked at it but we both enjoyed it. I lead her to my bedroom, I lay her down on the bed and we start kissing. I shove my hands down her skirt. We do this like 3 times. I finger her and kiss her and all that.

Eventually we fuck, we do whatever stuff. Before she came to me I did not think anything would come of this. I was scared of being judged for being with a fat chick. I had no problem fucking one though. But something happened. 3 days later I take her back to the train station. Im crying and so is she. We say our goodbyes and we both think we'll never see the other one again.

But I get a text. She says she's crying. I say the same. I tell her I want to see her again. Im in love. And it sucks. It sucks because 600 kms separate us. We were both so in love. It always starts out like this.

Over the next few months she starts getting sick of me. All romances like these die out. Sooner or later. Pretty much because I'm an insecure, needy fuck. Basically, I fucked up. She falls out of love and I'm still head over heels for her.

What I wanted to say was, OP, I also wanted to lose my virginity (maybe not as desperate as you, but still wanted to know what it feels like to cont.

to have sex). But then, after actually falling in love for the first time I realized that there are more important things than sex. Like love and having someone to care for and care for you.

What I suggest is you find someone to have sex with, be it a whore or some slut. Get it over with. See what it feels like. Do it a few times so you're not nervous when the right girl comes along. If she comes along. I was bot lucky and unfortunate enough to have that and lose it.

Anyway, virginity isn't such a big deal. If you feel insecure about it just lie and say you're not a virgin. But I say that you need to know what it feels like so you're not insecure when it actually matters. It's how I see it.

Either way, thanks for reading, whoever did.

I remember me saying when I was 18 "this will be the year"

I'm 24 now and still a virgin

Not exactly the same as this dude , but yeah, desu men are more romantic than women. Easy for them to get over a dude most of the time, I kinda still have a lil feeling for my oneitis, but she was the last women I ever touched (didnt even sex :/) and that was a year ago.
Just BEEEE yoruself bro... but really if you want to have sex for the sake of the status it holds (in your mind desu) do it with a girl you wont get strings too, or otherwise make her your gf, but dont do an awkward inbetween that many of us goobs do.

How old are you, mane?

19. why brother, and you :)

Shit man, how come you don't have any friends?

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escorts require condoms and condons ruin it
>inb4 how do you know
because everyone says so
plus go wash your hands with gloves on same thing

Getting really sick of you guys posting
>lol lost mine recently
And not explaining how it was or how you feel now

none of those dating sites ever worked for me
because 6'4, because even a psychologist says I'm super smart, because if someone is 6'4 loses all fat and gets buff they objectively look great

>implying its not
I read it but I dont agree
Sex is the ultimate

Also tell me how it was this instant
also cut or uncut
condom or not condom
same to you

also if you actually read my OP top to bottom you'd see that I'm improving the social shit too

Keep up with your fitness regiment. if you're worried about gains, increase your lifts and start adding in HIIT.
it seems like you may be struggling with confidence, i also see you like to read. "Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude"
by Napoleon Hill was a big impact on myself and my confidence. Grow your mind and spirit with your body.
You're gonna make it.

If you care more about your virginity than your future in life maybe you're not mature enough senpai. Don't be one of those "family first carreer second" guys, focus on yourself first, then other people.

I'm nearly 25, lifting for years, still skinny fat, and kissless ect virgin.

>condoms ruin it

And kids too

you just have to learn too not give a fuck, there are going to be people who like you, and people who dont, always, as long as your happy then youre fine

er, quote relplied wrong guy, 2nd reply was meant for OP

I'll add the boOK to my list of other books to look into also what's HIIT?

There is no future without sex

22, non-kissless, non-handholdless, non-girlfriendless non-virgin. But I still feel voidness in myself

i turned 19 4 days a go and im a virgin too lmao

it's my fault too, a lot of women and people in general mire/flirt with me but i still have that fat kid mentality. no confidence, i'm working on it though and i've gotten way better at it

pussy is everywhere, you can find it if you try. i'm more concerned with finding a loyal gf rather than fucking hoes.

focus on improving yourself physically, and mentally. get your grades/priorities straight before you worry about females and pussy, IMO.

Diagnosed autism and self-diagnosed schizoid personality disorder

But really I just don't try. I had friends in elementary and high school, that just happened, but it doesn't in uni.

In what situation would I be in to have someone hug me that isn't sexual?
I can honestly say I can't remember a woman ever touching me in any circumstance.

I'm a dual major in two different sciences and since I'm involved in clubs and shit I know practically every person in each major.
Probably 7 or so in each that has had sex, and most of them because they found a gf while in highschool.
You would be surprised the difference in sex/virginity across different demographics, the frats and social science people have all the sex while most of my younger professors have hinted they have never been laid.

Listen here you dumb little shit.
You're what, 18, and you think the whole world is about sex?
If your under 2.5 GPA, yes, you are in definitely risk of failing.
No one will hire you and you are severely reducing the amount of options in life.
Yes, a fraternity will get you laid but with no one that is out of your league, if you're desperate enough for sex to believe it's your top priority, you're going to get a fat chick or some diseased horror.

Listen to that other dude fucker, yes I mad.
You haven't even had sex yet you prioritize it more than anything.
You're willing to not care about your education or your future for a solid 30 min of pleasure, pleasure which you can get from your hand faggot.

See a therapist because you are on a one way trip to emotional snap city. Better yet meet people and find some proper role models for once in your life that don't prioritize their desires, like you know, food and sex.
Prioritizing sex over your life is the same way a fatty prioritizes food, faggot.

Then you made your own thread.
"Even" a psychologist said you're smart.
Wow! It's like that person's job is to make their clients feel better about themselves. You've been replying like a narcistic little prick these two threads and you obviously are not intelligent.
It is a fallacy to say "X is the ultimate" when you haven't experienced it.
You are a young moron who is not thinking, you are just hormonal and want to stick it into something.
Stop trying to put your piss poor logic on it, stop trying to protect yourself over the thought of you being hot shit.

You are a horny teenager who wants sex, that's it.
Only problem is you are too stupid to realize that fucking your life over isn't worth a slightly higher chance to have it.

I guess that makes it harder, but it's well worth the effort, isn't it? How about striking up a convo with your neighbour about whatever lecture you're having.

Or aren't there like clubs or teams or whatever you can try out. My Uni had open badminton/tennis practices and stuff like that all the time.

I don't know? Girls usually greet you by hugging. Or to say goodbye, or when they're happy, sad, etc.. that's rarely sexual.

I'm gonna hit 19 soon and I'm not at risk of failing and I'm already signed up for a full class load next semester. I don't know why you think fraternities will only get me fat chicks or std ones. I don't have to do good in college just well enough that I don't get kicked out. Getting kicked out equals no sex. And are you seriously trying to tell me that sex feels the same as fapping? Faggot the psychologist did an IQ test be wasnt just saying it. I would type out more detail but I'm on my phone and its a pain in the ass.

You said your gpa was in the mid 2's, that's abysmal.
And with the attitude of doing just well enough to not get kicked out, why go to college in the first place?
Sounds like a waste of money if you have no discipline or any sense of actually giving a fuck about your life, what will you even go for if you have absolutely no passion in life?
And fraternities won't get you out of your league, and you being desperate isn't going to help.
I have a fat friend who went into a fraternity, he got laid a lot but with uggos and fatties, it gets you laid but doesn't allow you to get girls hotter than what you would get otherwise.

And you trying to tell me sex and masturbation are that different?
You haven't had sex, you have absolutely no idea.
Both have have their perks, if you really think it's going to be that mindblowing you are going to be sorely disappointed, there's a reason most anons will tell you that sex isn't a big deal.
The difference is mostly psychological.

Im 19 and a virgin but i have a girl rn who wants to have sex (not a gf, just used to be fwb) but I wanna wait till marriage. I dont really get the lot of you

Happy Bday OP :)
I turn 19 on May 18, so a day earlier.
I screw up social cues, I have no friends, I am pretty autistic, I am like 6/10 and 160lb skelly but have a GF and not virgin.

Don't be so hard on yourself, it's probably just girls or maybe it's because you are smart and """taller""".

Manlets like me (5'9) are the true masterrace.

The issue probably is that people like us just don't get to interact with girls. I'm 27, I don't think I have ever talked to a girl in my life, ever. Except maybe saying hi to the cashier at the grocery store. I'm serious, I have never had a conversation with a girl. How would I get a hug or even sex?

I don't know about the others here but for me it's a lot of factors. Non existent self esteem, having been bullied by girls, my parents having been conservative as fuck, not even accnowledging the existence of girls, love, or dare I say even sex. "I don't want you to watch that movie, there's sex in it" (I was fucking 15, some random action movie).

Recently I'm finding out that I might not be as ugly as I thought I was. But at this point I already missed out on everything there is to miss out. I'll never have sex with a cute firm teen girl, I'll never have that fun easy fooling around thing. Most people my age are getting married or already have kids. No girl (fuck, I shouldn't even say girl anymore, I'm past that age) wants to deal with a loser who has zero skills with girls and doesn't even know how to talk to one, let alone how to make her happy or pleasure her. Yeah that sounds bitter. And you'll say get your autistic ass together and stop the self pity. Yeah there is a lot of self pity. I hate the world for having shaped me like that. My environment made me what I am today. I didn't know any better. Sure today I know I should have not given a shit about what people said. But tell that to a 15 year old kid who doesn't know anything about life and has social anciety from bullying and wouldn't even go in the vercinity of a girl out of fear, who thinks it's dirty to want a girl.

And today I relize I might actually be kinda good looking. I'm very tall, skiny fit, Brad Pitt type (obviously 20% as good looking but that type, blond, blue eyes....).
But fuck, I can't even make small talk, let alone talk to a girl.

Life sucks and then you die.

have a happy golden birthday, virgin

Fuck me, this is like my dream girl. MFW I'm already way too old to get a girl like that even if I was able to get girls. Feels fucking bad man.

lost my vcard a month before my 21st birthday, you stop giving a shit the morning after, then its just fuck i havent had sex in almost 6months i wonder if i forgot how, then you dont forget how

I'm pretty sure it is like that, I don't even doubt that.
But it's just a big difference whether you are or aren't a virgin. Sex just is the most intimate thing and one of the most basic needs and instincts we have. It's a craving, you just HAVE to experience it. It's not so much about it being so amazing, it's about it being a crucial thing in a person's life, to experience such intimacy and feelings. I want to know what it's all about. The whole damn world is all about fucking, Every commercial every movie, every other aspect of life is in one way or another about sex or reproduction. And then here you are almost 30 having not a God damn clue what everyone is talking about. It fucking sucks to not get this basic thing that is the most normal thing for everyone else.

well if you're almost 30 i'd say go fuck a prostitute

I feel for you bro. I miss fucking teenage pussy. I'm 30 now and most girls are used up whores. Just started seeing a girl who is fairly inexperienced at our age, like less than 5 partners, and she is a little socially retarded. I can tell I make her nervous and that she is suspicious why a guy like me would like her. Honestly I'm just thankful she isn't a sloot and I'm gonna treat her nice cuz girls like her a rare at this age, they used to be common in teen years.

My ex girls all turned into complete whores. Anyway, such is life. My honest recommendation is to join a church. Women who are in church don't date chads, they don't act like sloot,and they known that if they do those things they can kiss ever having a loving stable relationship goodbye.

Feminism fucked everything up.

Bro a second after I nutted in my ex I wanted to go home and play Rocket Leage

It's like, 30 minutes of your day, tops. You're gonna obsess over something that doesn't even take up 10% of your day?

I was a handholdless Kissless Virgin at 19, and now I am not a virgin and you know what? I still feel the same.

I'm in college because it's my only chance to not be a NEET permavirgin. And I'm not really fat (tiny bit of chub but it's almost gone anyways) so I don't think I'll have too much of a problem with the girls. Yeah I'm saying that bareback sex is gonna make fapping feel like sticking your dick into a pile of gravel I'm comparison. Its just gonna be godly.

And I'm saying you haven't had sex so you have no idea, but you have a child's mentality so I don't expect you to actually even take into consideration what anyone tells you.
Just look at your sentences and think about what type of person who writes stuff like this.
>so I don't think I'll have too much of a problem with the girls
You're so sure of one thing and so sure that you're hot shit.
Do you know what I would call someone who was obsessed with satisfying one carnal desire, be it sex, food, or something degenerate such as violence or drugs?
A loser.

For your own sake read up on some majors the college has and take some classes, you might actually start having goals or ambitions that are past the scope of a 14 year old teenager.

This.

NORMIEEEEE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Fuck, don't even get me started on used up whores. That's another thing. Call me a faggot but I just hate that I'll never get to experience these things first hand like teens do. Like, I have no clue how it even feels to touch another human, let alone pussy lips or what have you. If I ever get to have sex I'd want to figure these things out like I would have wanted to when I was a teen. Like seriously I want to sit there and touch her body all over like a fucking 12 year old. But yeah that won't happen. If I ever get a woman it'll be one who had sex every day of her life like women do, who doesn't care anymore, who isn't enthusiastic about exploring each other, who will be bored as shit if I just want to touch her and all these things. It's just not the same.
And besides that yeah her body obviously is no where near that of a teen girl. Fuck I hate life for that.

It's not about the in out part. It's not about just sticking my dick into a pussy and then I'm happy. It's everything that comes with it. I fucking just once want to feel desired or wanted or know how it feels to hold a girl or touch her hand or touch her boobs and see how she enjoys being touched by me. And to get touched! Fuck, I can't imagine how amazing it must feel to have someone in front of you who is totally into you and wants to touch you and is horny because of you, who doesn't think you are an ugly disgusting piece of shit they'd never even want to come close to (that's what I think every girl thinks of me).
It's not just about getting your dick wet, it's about experiencing that whole situation.

Join the Infantry and learn how to man.

Once you actually have sex and experience all the intimacy and emotions that come with having a relationship, you realize that it's not actually a big deal. I think virgins, and people who are generally inexperienced with women, make it a bigger deal than it actually is.

Certainly, there are nice parts to it. But I feel like due to your lack of experience, you're ignoring/downplaying all the shitty parts. Relationships cost money and time. You need to deal with feelings of jealousy, neglect, etc. You need to deal with your own desires, as well as the desires and wants of your partner. You need to deal with your insecurities, as well as your partner's. You need to put parts of your life on hold that you want to accomplish, because they may not be in line with what is best for the relationship.

I'd suggest you get a pet, because it's pretty much all of the emotional attachment with a lot less responsibility. Have a dog for a few years, and if you can be a decent pet owner, you might be emotionally mature enough for a relationship.

Also, I can tell from >don't get me started on used up whores

That you're not close to being emotionally mature enough for a relationship. Don't get me wrong, you're entitled to being attracted to whoever you want, but it's silly to think that sleeping with a certain number of people makes you a bad person.

spotted the used goods roastie

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I think I didn't express it properly. It's not about them having slept with many guys. It's about that I wish I could get a girl who hasn't experienced it all already. I wish I could have a girl who isn't at a point in live where sex is the most normal thing already, where it's more about satisfaction than anything. I know that's silly to want, it's just a craving that never got satisfied from puberty on. I just want to have sex with a girl who is excited about exploring things, who is excited about my body or about me exploring her. Instead of a girl who has had sex every day of her live and who knows it all.
That is what I mean by used up whore. I'm not sure what that has to do with being emotionally mature enough.
I don't judge anyone for having had sex with lots of people. Heck, I'd fuck every single girl if I could. I just wish I could experience sex like I could have 15 years ago, but that train is gone.

And I know relationships aren't all dandy and perfect. But it sure beats being completely alone all your life and not even knowing what it's about. I'm sure it's not easy, I'm sure a lot of it is difficult and not fun. But I at least want to have had it just once, I want to know what it is all about, what the whole world is talking about.

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 24, and I'm pretty much a normie now

tfw developmentally delayed

Whats wrong with my sentences? And by the girl part I meant that I won't have to settle for low quality girls. (Whole argument is your childish/a loser for wanting sex) well that's a first. For years it's been "your a loser" for being a virgin and now I'm a loser for doing a total overhaul of my life in order to not be one? Also I'm so he'll bent on it "like a 14 year old" because all the 14 year old back in high school were getting to fuck all the time and definitely more and more people as each year went by. I missed out, I never had that, I have a lot of catching up to do.

Fuck off faggot. I'm a 22 year old virgin who got denied again last night, but you don't see me bitching on a Mongolian tapestry weaving site. Keep lifting until someone loves you

I'm saying that being so horny that you are willing to put the rest of your life on hold is a terrible thing to do.
And you have showed through a lot of your sentences that you think you are a hot shit.
I do hope you the best man, and in all seriousness please look at career options while in college.
Don't crash your GPA and then realize you can't do what you really want later.

>I think I didn't express it properly. It's not about them having slept with many guys. It's about that I wish I could get a girl who hasn't experienced it all already. I wish I could have a girl who isn't at a point in live where sex is the most normal thing already, where it's more about satisfaction than anything. I know that's silly to want, it's just a craving that never got satisfied from puberty on.

You're projecting your own desires onto other people. said it pretty well.

>Virgin sex isn't some kind of shotty fanfic where you orgasm together and cuddle in the afterglow confessing you love and devotion to each other and promising to get married and have kids in the oh-so-distant future.

That being said, it's different for literally every girl, it's not a trait that just virgin/inexperienced girls have.

>I just want to have sex with a girl who is excited about exploring things, who is excited about my body or about me exploring her. Instead of a girl who has had sex every day of her live and who knows it all.

See above. If anything, I've found that the less experienced girls are more uptight and less willing to try new things, whereas girls who better know what they're doing in bed are more willing to explore new things.

>I just wish I could experience sex like I could have 15 years ago, but that train is gone.

You're projecting things onto sex that you have no idea about, because you've never experienced it. You can have whatever kind of sex you want at literally any age.

>And I know relationships aren't all dandy and perfect. But it sure beats being completely alone all your life and not even knowing what it's about. I'm sure it's not easy, I'm sure a lot of it is difficult and not fun. But I at least want to have had it just once, I want to know what it is all about, what the whole world is talking about.

Realize that the "whole world" is not actually what the whole world is experiencing. Cont.