Itt: things we do that seed from out deep-seated insecurities
Ill start,
>I wear shoes with lifts despite being 6' >I wear a sweater under hoodies so that i took a lot bulkier and thicker >When im in public ill pretend to get a text and text people back even though i have no friends
fucking hell im a retard who cant type anythimg properly kill me im a worthless illiterate faggot end my life
Thomas Morgan
That's not insecure. That's autistic.
Josiah Brown
Pls user, if i was a random guy and saw you doing this stupid things I honestly wouldn't give a shit. You're fooling just yourself
Jace Young
M8 i look pretty bulky, i wouldnt talk shit if i saw some guy wearing two hoodies and a sweater
Lucas Campbell
Where did you buy the lifts?
Wyatt Sullivan
Fail
Joseph Bell
>When im in public ill pretend to get a text and text people back even though i have no friends Ha ha ha....what a loser.... just kill me now
Jace Nguyen
Shit works wonders for avoiding conversation.
Nicholas Fisher
>used to be Chubby McSkinnyFatFuck as a kid >shit posture from vidya and insecure about body >didn't want people seeing moobs poke out >still below average posture, workingonit.png >still self-conscious about nips showing through shirt even though I have glorious pecs now
Josiah Perry
>Constantly check my reflection in anything I can. seriously need to get this habit under control
Jackson Davis
I pretend to be on the phone when walking in public so people think I'm not all alone
Robert Johnson
Even though I get told I'm good looking and fit pretty often everytime girls smile at me or giggle with their friends I assume they're laughing at me
Lincoln Fisher
Yeah bad when you make eye contact when you don't see someone sat in the car.
David Richardson
That image hits too close to hime
Jayden Campbell
Perma forced underbite due to weak jaw
Leo Cox
betamax
Colton Mitchell
Shit,m8 see an orthadontist
Bentley Scott
>adjust my hair alot cause hair paste doesn't hold well enough throughout the day That's about it
Caleb Morgan
I go down for a very long time on women because I don't think my penis is big enough to please them >5.5x4.5"
Camden Foster
Autists don't care about what people think of them, they don't even acknowledge other people are as human as them
Justin Reyes
...
Gabriel Wood
I'm..... Autistic?
Levi Ramirez
same, except that I only am normal and did not achieve glorious pecs mode yet. Always self conscious.
Carter Adams
Why do you think you have no friends?
John Sanchez
I only buy shoes that have and inch high heel, like Nike Airmax.
It makes me feel better.
:-(
Lucas Nelson
>blessed with height >pic related is 5'8" Keksus maximus
Kevin Edwards
He's 6'6 Are you confusing him?
Ethan Martin
Are you meming yourself lad?
Christopher Morgan
Who is this guy? I gotta chubby neckbeard friend who fanboys him hard.
Is there anything worse than being slav and also only 5'8?
Cameron Peterson
Touch stuff in my face in some rare situations while im kinda insecure. Wtf am i doing. Halp.
Hunter Barnes
Hail odin
Ryan Lewis
Man, I wish I could get that clean cut on my beard. Two days after trim and I look like I'm about to suicide bomb something.
Xavier Brown
Same
Landon Perez
I only use the machines instead of free weights because of fear of fucking up a lift
Blake Diaz
HAIL ODIN
Ethan Butler
Start switching some exercises to free weights. At the beginning only switch small exercises like curls, later also bigger ones. You got this bro
Charles Perez
>have to wear a jumper, hoodie, sweater, anything with sleeves no matter the weather to hide body. >Started from lifting as skinny 7 months ago 0 muscle and 11" arms >put some good size on, chest and shoulders filling up clothes, backing coming along nicely small arms (14") but still an improvement. >still don't feel comfortable receiving any kind of attention positive or negative At least I look good without clothes r-right?
Christopher Nelson
Ya I wear sleeves all the time too
Oliver Torres
HAIL ODIN
Xavier Lee
Hiding arms too?
Landon Thompson
>6'6 lol
Levi Jackson
Ya, I do wear tee shirts occasionally, but never tank tops. I feel way more comfortable in sleeves, usually rolled up to the elbow. Like, significantly more comfortable
Landon Peterson
I'm the exact same. I don't wearing mind at the gym or while playing sports but when in normal situations it makes me paranoid
Parker Williams
I lie to myself about having friends.
David Robinson
>look at phone to avoid awkward stare with a hot girl walking by
ignoring them is worse, no?
Noah Evans
You're missing out, just practice keeping eye contact, it can be pretty intense sometimes feels good
Owen Myers
I don't know. I'm by no means the person to give advice on this, but I'd say change it up. Texting can make you seem social, or at least normal, but giving off the sense that you're not interested/impressed is much better (or cooloer) than coming across as desperate and creepy
Blake Carter
but it's so awkward
if only I was a 10/10 then i'd know they were interested or not weirded out
Kayden Wright
The problem isn't that you're not a 10/10 it's that place a higher value on them than yourself. Learn to love yourself user cringe as it sounds.
Ryan Hughes
Autist here too, but I can keep eye contact. Too bad I am shit at anything else.
Michael Thompson
>"put it in me, user" >oh shit >wharrragabrraaall
Tyler Wood
I used to avoid them altogether back when I was a hunched over beta. Like if they were in an aisle in a supermarket I'd avoid them and wait for them to leave so I could get my stuff, or if was walking somewhere I'd take a different path so I didn't run into them. I wasn't gonna talk to them and they weren't gonna talk to me, I just didn't want to be seen at all.
Now I actively try to stay around hot girls or look at them to practice eye contact. I'm still not great if we're standing too close (with strangers), but at a medium distance I can make eye contact with most of them. It's exciting, you should try it out.
Gavin Martinez
I guess im just insecure cause I used to be fat, like really fat. now im at about 12% bodyfat
still, I feel like it isnt enough sometimes. idk.
Nolan Gutierrez
This user knows, you're doing good bro. Start simple do little things like make eye contact, when you get comfortable maybe ask for direction, say hi to random girls as you walk past, then maybe like a compliment. Just keep working up to your goal of being able to freely express yourself around women.
Godspeed user
Robert King
What helps me is to stop giving a fuck about these girls. Why would you live your life supressing yourself because some girl thinks your unworthy. Fuck that
Oliver Watson
Hail Odin
Owen Miller
yeah I guess you're right
im just focusing on my training and dont really get worked up about girls much now desu, if they show interest then fine but im not going to worry about it
Chase Roberts
HAIL ODIN
Ian Roberts
>constantly checking mirrors to make sure my form is correct
I'm not the only one, r-right?
Sebastian Sanchez
HAIL ODIN
Gavin Edwards
I tell lots of small lies about my past because I'm terrified that people will dislike me for not having been a normie chad my whole life
Jacob Sullivan
Being a nigger and also being 5'8.
Nicholas Smith
I do this too.
I sometimes forget the lies I told to people, so I have a couple standard lies. I even steal stories normies told me and copy them as if I am the protagonist.
Lincoln Nguyen
HAIL ODIN
Dominic Young
Nope user, I do the same with my posture as well :
Jordan Rodriguez
When I get drunk, my mouth to brain filter complete disappears, end up telling shit about past relationships and fingering chicks to complete strangers when having a smoke.