> meet girl on Tinder > sex on second date > funny, hot af and smart
7 months forward
> she is madly in love with me, Sees me as some Sort of holy savoir > plans to visit me in Asia > plans to be happy with me forever > loyal as fuck
BUT
> find out she used to be a slut > sex in streets, cars, even tried to ass to mouth > hates herself for it > has so much anger inside of her which she can't control and even hurts me with stuff > emotional/trust issues > her hating her past makes me hate mine (nerdy) cause I have the feeling of having missed out > in order to compensate fuck 3 hookers > do drugs > constantly unhappy > when I think of Clubs, Festivals and Partys all I can think of is how she got railed at those events.
Finally break up, break her, cry deeply Shit was toxic but fuck she was a cute one.
Hold me Veeky Forums - did I do alright?
To make it fitness-related: What exercise makes my chest looks like Plates? Dont want puffy tits....
Angel Martinez
just think of it as xp
Jayden Jenkins
>fucks complete stranger on second date.
This is always a warning sign.
Evan Robinson
>gf material >on Tinder lol
Only the lowest of the low use online dating. People like you.
Jace Davis
Actually, if she doesn't put out by third date, she's not into you.
See OP's story, she was totally into him. She was just shit.
David Robinson
t.autistic outcast
Caleb Lopez
Move onto the next one buddy, and never hate a girl for hoeing its what nature intended them to do. As far as your puffy tits go do tricep dips, push ups, dumbbell presses, and flys
Chase Campbell
You had a girl that would die for you plus was hot and smart. Then you dumped her because she used to get fucked by guys. You dun goofd bro
Parker Miller
>girl reflects on her past and changes >break up with her for it
jesus christ you retard. what is life if not learning to be a good person. she did nothing wrong during the relationship, whereas you fucked hookers. the only wrong thing about it is that you were too insecure to accept her past - the thing that made her, her. kill yourself.
Hunter Perry
man wtf is wrong with you
Luke Reed
True, but she is not the first girl I have been with but the first that caused that feeling. I really tried, but shit I was never so depressed in my life. I have been raised in a conservative way and the ONLY thing i demand from my women is the VERY least of decency.
> not fucking complete strangers.
My mood and grades went down. Just like she can't change her past, I couldn't change the way I felt....
Plus: She was super controlling etc. We had argues on a weekly Basis. She said mean things to me constantly without even realizing like
'Babe i love you but you'll never have hair like THIS' Shows me some faggot with curly hair
She seemed to lack empathy....
Zachary Cox
>wanting used goods
Disgusting
Robert Reed
A..A...Are you me??
David Cruz
Let me inform you faggots how this really went down:
>user bangs random tinder chick >tinder chick is hitting the wall >tries to lock down OP because she knows her looks are fading fast >retroactively regrets chad and his buddies running a train on her >at the time she was enthusiastic about it >OP dodged a bullet but as always OP is still being a faggot
You did alright OP. More volume for chest work.
Juan Lewis
bah you did good dumpin her user, maybe she was trying to change but that behaviour shows that she was still a crazy mean bitch with mental issues
move on buddy, it's hard but it's for the better, +all the invaluable experience you have now
Christopher Adams
You did the right thing m8. Getting feelings for ex-sluts tears you up inside because you constantly feel resentful that you missed out on that shit, they're not worth the hassle.
Justin Roberts
You're sad that you broke up with her, but she would've ended uo cheating on you. >bangs on 2nd date Yeah that's your warning sign "Hurr durr l hate my past" That's not her past, she's probably doing this rn as we speak, she's a complete whore who wanted to strip you of your money and leave when the time comes.
Kevin Martin
All that shit and you're questioning your decision?
You made the right choice user. If something doesn't feel right with a girl then she isn't for you. The depression and feels you're going through is literally your dick talking. You'll be fine
Mason Smith
>break her We're you both initiated? Who was merely adopted, and who was born in it?
Nathan Myers
Well you're retarded >tinder >hookup app >cries because he got a slut You don't find gf material grils on clubs and tinder. You find them elsewhere.
Evan Hernandez
Ignore her bro. You deserve better, and she knows it.
Joseph Robinson
you fucked up by being an autistic sperglord for your life and you took it out on the girl.
the fault is yours for not being well-adjusted enough to date a girl who has had sex before.
Henry Murphy
Op here.
Thanks for the massive support guys, I'm gonna make it.
Even though she left some deep scars that only time can heal. I loved myself before I met her. For now I feel like I lost all my confidence especially afraid of not getting hard with New girls...
Nathaniel Sanders
this jesus christ OP man the fuck up weak bitch good for her not to have ended up with you
Zachary Nelson
angsty autistic 16 y/os all of you stop giving advice
Landon Young
Dude my ex had 4 Bfs before me and it didn't bother me at all. We were happy together for 3 years until she moved away. Also best sex/time of my life.
All i require is not to slut around.
My psycho ex went ahead and had unprotected sex 1 Week after she lost her V card at 16. Told her parents, got 'emergency pill' and got grounded for 2 WEEKS. Are you shtting me?
Also when I met her she was swallowing emergency pills like tick tacs. Real turn off...
Asher Reyes
Would you say a girl that had two or three boyfriends before you is the same as a girl that had a different cock every two weeks?
Kevin Myers
You mad that I have Standards and refuse to take used goods that have mental issues? Sey I prefer to be alone than in a relationship that makes me sick
Jeremiah Price
In all fairness, I rather meet a girl that has met a lot of guys before rather than a girl that hasnt been with any guys at all.
>slutshaming a 16yo Are you for real? Its a fucking kid.
Juan Ward
...
Jose Phillips
As I said I dont really care with how many guys a girl has been with as long as she had the very minimum of decency.
Also doing 1 mistake is fine. Doing it over and over for 2 years is really pushing my limits
KEK that she change her FB age just to get Tinder while underage.
Hudson Gray
just kill yourself already you piece of shit
Ryder Garcia
Breaking News: This is quite normal for 16 y/o girls
Thomas Nelson
> being this mad
Luckily I'm Handsome, well build (thanks Veeky Forums) and my ex GF still begs for my D. even 1 year after the break up
Jason Ramirez
kill yourself
Isaac Howard
>being this insecure that he has to brag about it on Veeky Forums ok mate
David Lewis
Maybe in your world. My sister (also raised conservatively) is hot as fuck, doesn't Party at all and looks down on everyone using Tinder and whoring around. Is 17.
There are decent girls in this world. I prefer to be alone than with someone who makes me feel miserable...
Michael Butler
are you actually 16 years old
Josiah Gutierrez
Not really, just showing that my life is to good to end it for no reason
Christian Perry
>gets insecure about girlfriends sexual past
that's where you fucked up to begin with you beta.
Christian Collins
>used goods You should probably just stick to your chinese cartoons, squirt.
Wyatt Hall
>raised conservatively No, this has nothing to do with that. This has to do with you and your sister being raised into not accepting how other people behave when its totally acceptable. Would you slutshame a guy using tinder at 17? Probably not.
You will probably not understand this because of your narrow sighted view of how the world works.
Luke Allen
Getting bored here.
Last post:
If you guys can live with your wifes being ex-whores I'm happy for you. I refuse to change and accept that society has become an disgusting fuckfest. I live in my own world and either the girl will fit into it or I'm gonna die alone. I can't change who I am.
Levi Nguyen
Damn homie, similar here but I'm not a pussy:
>gf used to be an alcoholic and did every drug ever >been sober for 3 years now >we decided to watch porn together the other day >she wasn't into what I picked >ok no biggie you find something >she gets turned on by watching 5 guys slap and gang bang some slut >get sick to my stomach >worried that deep down inside she wants that to happen to her >my new biggest fear is coming home and finding her surrounded by 5 niggers as they abuse-fuck her
Having a hard time dealing with it but I just do my best not to think about it.
Lincoln Rogers
As the guy above you said, it's perfectly fine that you want that pure virgin housewife gf for you. Your problem is that you look down on people with different views like 'the society has become a disgusting fuckfest' in order to make yourself feel superior
Gabriel Taylor
>ex-whores >and accept that society has become an disgusting fuckfest. >has become an disgusting fuckfest. Do you honestly think people didnt fuck as much back in the day? You unironically so fucking dense mate I dont even
Carter Howard
>mad because she aint a virgin >goes to be a slut himself to compensate
Kek, enjoy your AIDS you big autismo.
Jaxon Ross
Lol, girls want a guy to try to fuck them asap.
Christopher Adams
Is cheating inevitable Veeky Forums? If so, I don't see the point in getting married.
Jack Peterson
going on a tinderdate on saturday, made some facebook spying (public phone number records ftw) and she is almost perfect, a real cute science girl!
Jordan Rivera
>Watching a girl get rammed by 5 guys with other guirl. Wwew nelly thats some new cuck levels.
Dylan Cooper
Nah I got up and took off. She asked what was wrong and I explained that shit was fucked up, and why/how could anyone--ESPECIALLY a female--get off to something like that? She said it's just something she likes watching. A lot of her female friends said the same thing. Really though, I am scared shitless that it's going to happen one day. She told me it's just her kink when watching porn and she'd never want to be involved. I kind of understand because I've gotten off to Bailey Jay before even though I'd never knowingly get within 10 feet of a tranny.
Can any femanons shed some light on this? Any of y'all enjoy watching gang bangs?
Levi Long
I should explained that after hearing me say it disgusted me, she cried for a good hour and had no idea I thought she'd want that IRL but are those grill tactics to hide it or was she sincere (that's my question). We are both madly in love with each other so I feel more comfortable thinking it's just her kink. If she was just a gf I liked, I think I'd just dump her.
Jacob Powell
OP i was in a similar situation about a year ago. >be head chef >get drunk with new waitress after her first busy Saturday night service >both too drunk to drive so we catch a cab to mine and tell her she can crash with me and ill take her back to her car when i go to work in the morning >we hook up,I end up going down on her. didnt fuck her cos too drunk too get it up so instead i tell her i think its a bad idea for us to fuck cos im her boss. >we cuddle and go to sleep >about a week later she tells me that us hooking up hasnt changed our woeking relationship so why dont we "finish what we started" after work tonight. >take her back to mine and have the most amazing sex of my life >throw around the idea of us dating but dismiss it because of working together >few weeks later of hooking up in secret decided fuck it and make it official but still a secret >learn more about her past >loves anal, has fucked 5 guys in 1 night before, has had 3 dicks in her at once before, has no idea how many guys she's fucked at raves and festivals >none of this sits well with me most dues to having sex with only 12 girls before her but she has fucked onwards of 60 guys >she tells me "we all have a past" and expects that to be enough for me to get over it >i wish it was >broke up with her about a month later after realising i was probably never gonna be ok with her past.
i still miss her. she was perfect if it wasn't for her past
Lucas Allen
She's a big whore
Landon Baker
>I can't change who I am Confirmed not going to make it
David Bennett
These
Jonathan Torres
WoW I would say you dodged a bullet here cause no one with a stable mentality would do such things.
Also I had sex with only 2 girls and 3 hookers. So 'only' 12 girls is already alot.
Hunter Fisher
> thinks that 'making it' is accepting what media & mainstream cancer is pushing down your throat.
Adrian Perry
Why so dismissive bro? Resistance to change is not natural, we NEED to change to survive and prosper
Luke Brooks
kys
Christopher Martin
>girl puts out on 2nd date >months pass >complains she is a whore and a psycho even blind person would have seen that right after the 2nd date
Carson Ross
so what your gf fucked people the only reason this will bother you is if you dont truly see your gf as a person with her own life and desires and instead see her as this weird trophy virgin goddess thing
why is it bad that she fucked people? you fucked people
also dont martyr complex yourself, you think your doing right by them but your really just a prick with low self esteem
Carson Lee
You must be very inexperienced lol.
It is one thing to have casual sex and find out you don't like it.
It is another to be a slut and than find out you don't like.
Charles Roberts
I should finish reading stuff before posting shit sorry op
Anthony Perez
Could give a fuck that she fucked people, but you dodged a bullet if she hates herself for it. It seems like a lot of girls that were sluts /and/ hate themselves for it are wildly insecure. You don't want insecurity in a relationship.
Though then again you sound pretty insecure yourself, and maybe she dodged a bullet you fucking faggot.
Plenty of fish in the sea, I guess.
Julian Thompson
huh. surprised at the varied responses.
Yeah sounds like she had a lot of sex she regrets which is a relaly good indicator of poor mental health.
When a girl has sex cause she wants to and enjoys it and she has fun happy experiences from it its a very different story. You'll find girls who do it for that reason have much fewer partners and while its wilder stuff its with guys they really cared about and who cared for them and when I've had ex's with plenty of BF's or relationships it hasnt mattered at all that they've had sex.
Its the used girls. THe trashy ones. THe ones who hate themselves for their actions, those are the ones you dont wanna date and guesssss whaaaaaat your girl was one of those.
very smart decision IMO
Daniel Scott
western society is going downhill fast OP, do the best you can but understand your living on a sinking ship
Cooper Cook
You're either a gril or a white knight who has never dated a slut. If you're the latter you're a shit for wanting OP to put up with a slut.
Blake Jackson
haha wtf she was indeed a bitch.
You did well by dumping her. Next.
Jacob Sanchez
for ye
Nathaniel Stewart
you did good brah
Ryan Green
>Babe i love you but you'll never have hair like THIS HEIGHT, FACE, AND FRAME
Jeremiah Powell
>been sober for 3 years now It isn't long time for a drug addict m8. Doctors talking about some progress only after 5 years.
Ethan Howard
Wow similar to what I'm thinking about this one person.
Hmmmm
Yeah you did good fuck her.
>b-but people deserve a second chance
Ryder Jenkins
>Funny, hot, smart and loyal as fuck
Phew dude you sure did miss a bullet there, good thing you dumped her for poor choices she made earlier in her life.
Christopher Morris
>implying people can change Once a slut always a slut.
Caleb Walker
yeah, we've seen that thread before. So you broke up, huh?
You were toxic. The only thing you did right was breaking up.
Sort your shit out and then get a gf.
Austin Sullivan
Wow actually sounds maybe like someone I'm talking to now
Will read your whole thread shortly
Lucas Nguyen
Maybe they were raised at a conservative house.
Tbh I feel disgusted when I find out a cute girl is a fucking slut. I'm a good guy but I've never been a beta orbiter. I don't want to be that safe option that girls have after wasting their life with degenerate activities.
Noah Murphy
>smart >was the town bicycle Haha-HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Ethan Gutierrez
White knight faggot.
Jack Ward
cuck logic.
>I was a complete slut before, now im a nun! ignore it!
Robert Reed
Totally this. Having sex in some situations where you could get caught like outside or car is fine if its with a stable partner. But being a fucking slut and having guys rail you the same night you met them is a huge turnoff.
Aiden Mitchell
So if you had the opportunity to bang attractive females while single for a few years in your prime you would say no? Doubt it bud.
We're only human, pretty much all non-spergs have had several sexual partners by their mid 20's, to judge someone for this after the fact shows how petty and insecure you are.
Jaxson Rogers
I had a perfectly working relationship for 3 years bruh, with a girl who has had bfs before but just wasn't a slut. Sadly she had to move away.
She also was my first. It didn't bother me at all that I was her 5th because she behaved DECENT in the past.
Carson Brooks
She had about 10 guys before turning 19. maybe even more, I don't know and don't care anymore.
Elijah Evans
Look at it this way.
Will she be a good mother and is she someone you'd want to be the mother of your future child?
If not then ditch her.
Ethan King
been with a girl like that, trust me you did good by dumping her
Noah Price
Literally translates to "I'm jealous other people are able to hook up more often than me"
If given the chance with girls Op found attractive he would fuck each and every one of them don't kid yourself and don't try to kid others mate.
People cling to their "morals" when they can't get some and act as if it makes them superior in some way it's pathetic.
David Diaz
maybe some guys want a girl that isnt a cum recepticle?
Christian Lopez
this desu
not op but i've had bitches want my dick heaps but i denied most of them
Nathaniel White
projection: the post
Gabriel Evans
(OP)
>Even though she left some deep scars that only time can heal. There's your problem OP. Gotta stop relying on love to make you happy, true love is very rarely found and it deffo not found off a hoe from tinder. Be happy for yourself. Do things for yourself. Be selfish as fuck, and then you will be able to help those who truly need it, not tinder sluts
Aaron Perez
If one party does something wrong does not necessarily mean that the other did everything well. Don't jump to conclusions, bro.
Both of them were better off without each other. The way both of them were, they would have just exponentiate each other's problems, which was the case in OP.
are you OP? If so then, well, if it bothered you that much, why did you wait for seven fucking months to tell her about it?
That is toxic because you went on to a hooker fuck spree.
Don't worry too much about it though.
I wouldn't give fitness advice because am a DYEL myself but I guess accessories might help with more definition.
Ethan Foster
a girl cant "stop being a slut"
thats like saying hitler can "stop being mean to jewish people".
no big deal! lets all ignore the past!
Ian Watson
Holy fuck you insecure beta, a girl actually opens up and watches porn with you and you shut her down and judge her because of her viewing fetishes.
I'm sure you've gotten off to plenty of weird shit too in your time doesn't mean you're going to leave who you're with to live out those fantasies
Jose Morales
some girl sent me a porn webm too. what a retarded move
Caleb Adams
My post relies on what OP said to be true, loyal as fuck implies no chance of fucking around again. Most people go through a single phase where they sleep around a bit in their early 20's once that gets tired they grow up and start looking for something more serious, it's like you've never socialized before.
Andrew Bell
You did good user. I first tried LTR dating a reformed Aussie cum dumpster 10 years ago. Come to find out, she wasn't so "reformed" after all. Last cum dumpster I gave that chance was in 2011. It was a costly lesson. Ignore the white knights and bitch tits condemning you for taking out the trash. It's your life she'd have fucked up, not theirs.