Mental health

> be always shy guy
> first girl, can't boner first night, get slightly drunk second night and boom. We fucked.

Years later

> second girl can't get hard
> once we 'give up' and want to go to sleep - boom. Bang her with no condom (not smart I know)

Now:

> relationship Ended want to fuck around.
> scared that boner won't work

Also saw haunting post on Veeky Forums years back:

> some permavirgin claimed to have been in bed with 30 women and couldn't boner once.

I'm getting depressed that this could be me.

I can only think about this. Want ONS so badly but prolly wont ever be able to have one....

> second girl can't get hard
I think she just didn't want to have sex with you, girls don't get hard.

Try it with men, faggot.

QUIT porn. Nofap is pseudoscience bullshit, but porn conditioned you to only get a boner when there is ZERO pressure. That's why you got it up when you gave up, and not before then.

Thanks mate, usually it's just the very first time that makes me nervous.

After that I can say 'I fucked that girl' and dont really care anymore...

Incidentally user, when I had all of my erection issues, even though I'd never get it up, all of the foreplay would make me shoot out a ton of precum. It's like my body knew that what I was going through was supposed to be arousing. Just out of curiosity, were you the same way?

Yep, exactly the same.
This also happened many times during the second relationship. Sometimes I got hard, precum left and dick got soft. It's the nerves man and shows there are some issues between you & her.

You need to calm down or most importantly have the mindset that no matter what you do, your girl will be happy.

My first girl told me that hundrets of times until eventually I believed her and from that point everything was great.

Make a game out of it. Make foreplay kiss her, hug her, try to fuck her and if things dont work out laugh about it and tell her to give you a bj or do something else.

You need to know that everything is alright if things dont work out

Shit, that what I need to relearn. How to relax, and calm down. Even as I am typing this, and doing absolutely nothing; I'm anxious and nervous (I can't figure out why.). My mind is never relaxed at all. It's horrible.

Stop jerking it completely, you'll be insane with lust eventually. You might pop off early fuckin' her but so what she's probably a cunt.

Also, you got to do things that turn you on. Slap her ass, play with her ass cheeks, get a handful of titty.

Meditation can't hurt, user-kun

Meditation is for faggots.

Xanax or propanalol

Can't hurt, I suppose. I'll look into it. >>/hm/ or /mlp/

Medical student here. you have whats called a autonomic system imbalance. see the erection of the penis is cause by the Parasympathetic nervous system which is the feeling you get when ur comfy after you just ate. The Ejaculation is caused by the Sympathetic nervous system which is the feeling you get when you want to fight a bear. people that have too much sympathetic (nerviousness) will have a hard time getting it up. people that have too much parasympathatic will have a hard time cumming or even physical activity.

TLDR: drink a beer retard

What kind of faggot looks at a naked ass that is ready to get jackhammered and then gets soft dick.

If this happens to you just accept that you like cock and go for BBC from there on

Dude I haven't been calm since the relationship started (which was like 8 months ago)

Even tho I told her there is a Problem she handeled it the wrong way or not at all.
My Grades suffered, I was constantly thinking about it, could never focus.
Worst thing was I blamed myself.

Truth be told that the right girl with empathy will know how to deal with these things. My first did, second didn't.

It's nerves m8. Even if you don't feel especially nervous at the time that's what it is.

I had the exact same problem, first time was always an issue and then after that it was fine

So how did you solve that issue?
Especially condoms are a burden, without would be easy.....

>friday night
>read this
>realize my life is pretty good

it's hard to believe people this pathetic really exist

Different user here. Your post has actually impacted me. I came here for a kek

I'm happy for you man.
As long as I have been with my first gf life was good to me aswell.

But don't worry brah, I'm texting a new girl as we speak. Even tho im scared, that's no reason to not try&fail.

I'll make it. We all will

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