Do you approach girls, or do girls approach you?

Do you approach girls, or do girls approach you?

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I barely ever leave my house, of course girls don't approach me.

What's funny is that I'd probably be the perfect BF, most girls hate the fact their BFs prefer to go out with their "friends" instead of spending time with them.

Hey girls, come here to me. I don't have any friends for you to worry about pulling me away from you, nor do enjoy leaving the house, so I'll always be around.

But then again, we must remember, women don't know what they want, they say they don't want their guy going out with friends all the time and want their guy at home, but in reality they would hate that, the fact they go a lot out with their friends shows that the guy is valuable and sociable, so she will complain about it anyway.

It's the same with good physiques. Girls want you to look muscular and be shredded, but not if that means you actually have to count macros and goto the gym 4-5 times a week. They want a "naturally" muscular and shredded guy who doesn't need to count macros or lift.

TLDR: Who gives a shit about what women want.

How do you have any idea what women say they want when you never leave your house you sperg?

Both.

I used to have to approach girls a lot. Now I get them approaching me.

>tfw gf and cant act on it

>I haven't the slightest clue about women, men, or people so I never leave my house

The post

He reads about it on the Internet.

I have been very tempted lately to have a side girl

None, I've literally never tried to get laid or talk to girls. I don't think I've ever spoken to a girl one on one for more than 10 seconds in my life. Ive been at university for 3 years so I'm not some NEET. Probably some sort of personality disorder.

Neither

I leave my house for 3 reasons

-Gym
-Shopping
-Dinner with parents

I literally haven't spoken to a woman my age that wasn't a cashier or related for probably a decade. So no, women don't approach me.

I don't approach girls and they don't approach me.

obviously you care quite a bit.

Literally thousands of days of studying and researching modern society. Hearing the opinions of those from all sides. Not only that but I watch and learn from the experiences of those in my own immediate life with close family members and extended family members, as well as friends of my siblings. I've over-heard and over-seen a lot of stuff in real life. Adding all that up with the endless amount of information available online, it's not hard to come to this realization.

I've had the internet since 1996, and I've been on cable internet since 1999 and I've always had lots of spare time and spent a lot of it by myself. Those of us who've spent a lot of time a lone, without being under the constraints of typical societal behaviors and expectations...we know a fuck load more than you think. While you're worried about what you're going to do in the next 10 minutes and focusing on trying to mend in with society, people like me are behind the scenes watching you and everyone else, and studying your behaviors.

Think of it like a obese football coach whose never played a game in his life, but has spent countless hours studying the game and the players, he is going to know much more about how they game is played compared to the actual players whose only focus is their own personal and isolated goal of achieving 1 simple task at a time.

Me, too, man. But I'd rather just break up than do that shit. I might've turned into a degenerate, but I don't want to turn into a cheating degenerate.

this

I just stay in my room

Same here bro. Absolutely zero interest. I dont even get > tfw no gf. Because i never wanted it anyway

LOL THIS IS ME, EXCEPT....

-home gym
-my dad or mum usually go shopping and just take a list a gave them
-i never eat out

I havent spoken to a woman my age in 12-15 years LEL

>girls approach me
>I autism
>they leave
>repeat ad nauseum

neither, women make it overwhelmingly clear they don't want creepy guys approaching them. Despite years of working out my face is still ugly so therefore I am creepy to women by default. I don't want to be humiliated so I just don't try. 33 virgin here.

They approach me.
When i approach its only to befriend.
They do all the work for me after that.
Amazing what being tall, good looking, and genuinely friendly will do to a girl.whem you dont actively persue her.

Oh, I want a gf and girl attention very badly, I'm just too insecure / self hatred, conditioned to be alone to act on it.

This Fox has a longing for grapes:
He jumps, but the bunch still escapes.
So he goes away sour;
And, 'tis said, to this hour
Declares that he's no taste for grapes.

Are you me?

Both, got my dick grabbed while bouncing at a bar for a friend

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Holy shit I cringed hard. I think you're on the wrong board m8. Also post body so I can have a good laugh.

Who hurt you, pal?

Holy fuck...
You're one of those people that thinks you're instantly a samurai if you read the book of five rings aren't you?

the cringe is too high to be measured
>thousands of days of studying and researching modern society
>I barely ever leave my house

kek

Is this pasta?

Yeah, sure. They want a nolifer with no drive, who spends his time indoors surfing 4-chan and feeling sorry for himself. Sounds like a real catch, the perfect provider for a family.

Srs, change you life senpai, desu you building up for failure.

If not, it should be.

I agree, don't let all these normies (You)ing You trying to mock you, they're all still stuck in the matrix.

The girls that approach me, I don't want. And the girls that I approach don't want me. They are still mutually exclusive, but I can feel them getting closer as I get closer to being Veeky Forums.

I'd make use of a surrogate mother if I ever wanted a child.

>mfw don't have to deal women's bullshit

kek

>"normies"
When did this become the battle cry of the self-loathing permavirgin?

I'm never sure whether girls approach me or whether they're just friendly. I need clear signals to do something because fear of rejection.

obviously I don't approach girls because of that.

>I'm a social autist but I understand how humans and especially women work

The post.

Instead of making non-argument replies, how about actually explaining why he is wrong? Oh wait you can't, because you know it's all true.

This is me

help Veeky Forums

i can't make friends, and can't get a gf ;_;
all i do is work, then go home

The confidence you have about your 'knowledge' only comes from the fact that you are mind-numbingly unaware of how wrong you are

YOU
HAVE
TO
EAT
ALL
THE
EGGS

This is the most autistic thing I've ever read

...

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Why do you spend so much time analyzing behaviors if you never interact with anyone?

this

maybe you should try to get a job? or learn how to leave the house

None

I've been in this "analyze" mode since age 4 or 5.

I never left it. Anytime I do leave the house I end up just analyzing everyone's behavior, mannerisms and social skills.

The negative part about it is that I haven't developed my own skill set, because I my mind is always drifting off analyzing others.

I got put on DSP bucks ($2000)/month, without much effort. With the jobs I have had, I've always been let go because I end up analyzing what everyone else is doing, instead of doing my own specific work.

I would see two people have a conversation with each other in the office, and then I'd spend the rest of the day thinking about it and repeating what happened over in my mind over and over while the people who had the conversation probably forgot the conversation even took place.

TLDR: I cannot stop analyzing other people and have been doing it since a very young age.

I don't really approach to often, I'll flirt with you yeah, but unless I know for sure that you like me I won't ask you out. It's just a thing with me I don't know.
On a side note though I need help Veeky Forums me and this girl have been in a relationship for a little while now but she can't really go out at all due to her mom. So all we really do is talk, the problem is I'm realizing how shit my conversation game is like I can listen and offer advice all the time, that's easy. But when it comes to that back and forth you know out of the blue conversations I'm extremely hit and miss with it.

Do you guys have any suggestions?

This is me. We rarely go out on the weekends, most nights we end up back home by 10 or 11, but this weekend we were out until 2. I have a story from then.

>Be at a bar with three levels and a patio
>Be on the patio, get up to go pee
>Bathroom is on the second floor, after leaving look around thinking of the best way to get back to my gf and friends
>Girl walks up to the level, makes eye contact with me and says, "oh my god, you're so adorable you're so cute."
>Grabs my wrist and tries to take me with her
>Pull away say "thanks y-you too"
>Go outside
>Another girl that works at a restaurant I frequent when my gf is at work me
>Big smile on her face, says "hi how are you", say hi back and keep on walking
>Happy to sit back down with my gf and friends so I don't have to fight the autism and thirsty sloots anymore

school shooting when?

what name do you fucking call this so i can avoid BEING this, jesus fuck

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It's just autism

Grills approach me. It's how i met my current gf and the last grill i was messing with.

Used to play in a band and would have grills aproach me after finished up the set multiple times.

I'm probably only a 7/10 too (but have been called hot to my face). 6'1 / 175 / blond hair / light blue eyes

My first gf was a friend that made the move.

Since then, I've made moves on other girls, all to be turned down.

Recently, I asked a girl out and she said no, that her situation was complicated etc.

Month later, she climbed up on my lap and kissed me. I'm meeting her this week (I hope) and see if we are more than friends, if it was a slightly drink kiss or if it was something more.

I'm crossing my fingers a lot.

Don't worry user. Aspergers isn't contagious or contractible. We're born this way.

>work at family owned wine shop
>put it in girls and guys
>tfw I have instant opener to anyone I want to talk to
>girls always want to talk about wine guys love talking about whiskey

I meet all types of hotties and being able to even pour a "taster" opens up all sorts of dialogue.

>"and then the wine guy asked me on a date"

>this is what goes through Veeky Forums users heads before they even walk up to somebody

Can't lift away insecurities

Fit is so autistical why do I even come here

Girls don't approach guys. Get this through your thick spergastic skulls. Get game, faggots

Oh and btw, CHAD literally just ate another slice of pizza

Yeah sometimes I once had a girl who was mad for me and would always go where I sit.to bad she was cheating and already had bf

bump

M-Michael?

>g-girls don't approach!
Fucking lmao. This is what gymcels actually believe.

The idea that you "practise" to be attractive to girls is perhaps the stupidest fucking concept I have ever come across. I was genuinely shocked when I first started reading some of the bullshit people spew online, the whole "confidence", "PUA" and "NoFap" bullshit.

Guys, if you don't LITERALLY ATTRACT WOMEN, then you AREN'T ATTRACTIVE.

Your lack of success with girls has NOTHING to do with "confidence" or your "game", it's because of your LOOKS, your genetically determined HEIGHT, FACE and FRAME. That's what women want, THAT'S what they dream about.

If you don't believe me, JUST LOOK AT THIS WEBSITE FOR WOMEN'S FICTION. This is what they literally DREAM about:

wattpad.com/stories/teen-fiction

Notice that LITERALLY EVERY FRONT COVER has a TALL, FACIALLY ATTRACTIVE MAN, who isn't muscular but rather just has a good FRAME? THAT'S what they want.

The love interest varies from a badboy, to a nice guy, to players, to nerds, to shy guys...Why? Because women don't give a FUCK about personality or a guy's "attitude", THEY CARE ABOUT LOOKS AND NOTHING ELSE.

Now PLEASE, take your delusions to /r/TheRedPill or /r9k/, and stop shitting up a board dedicated to discussion of FITNESS.

>those novel titles
>they could all be pornos

Kekkus maximus

It's called bottom feeding attitude. I bet this faggot believes it's their loss for not meeting him because he's "a pretty cool guy"

u guys are so fucking autistic holy shit

I'm the same as you. 3rd year student. Finished. Didn't approach one girl in University. pretty sad desu famalam

You are the only one who uses your retarded wannabe meme "gymcel." You are shitting up the board with your "it's all genetics" HAES mentality. It is exactly the same failure thought process. If you truly believe it, you are a pointless being. If you're trolling, even more so. A wart on the Earth until your fat ass dies before 40. Since you're clearly underage, enjoy your remain 25 or so years.

You sound like my brother

What about bad experiences with people in the past. Do you hold onto them and let them effect your future?

Not 100% correct but not completely wrong either. Game has much to do with the volume of your success

>If you don't believe me, JUST LOOK AT THIS WEBSITE FOR WOMEN'S FICTION. This is what they literally DREAM about:

wattpad.com/stories/teen-fiction

stopped fucking reading there man..u cannot be serious basing statements over that fucking website

quit falling for black culture.

> it is not something to aspire to

>This thread

thanks bro i was feeling down but you reminded me it could be much worse

Jesus man, so when is your big move coming?

You expect this research and translate into real world skill in getting women? I mean that is the topic at hand.

Or you have figured out how to under cut manufacturing processes in logistics and assembly and are waiting to take over a market?

> In any event I would suggest you step out on the field for a day and see if you are really as on track as you have built yourself in your head to be.

man you keep getting opportunities. Figure out how to be the strong silent type. Find a quite mode that works with you and master the head nod and non threatening smile.

It's so damn easy to bait this board.

Man.

Threads like this remind me why I even come to this website.

This whole thread is like a fucking rollercoaster ride and it's absolutely hilarious.

girls hit on me. at kindergarten. yeah, theyre pretty god damn nice. jk

a good couple of fellow tenth-graders have made (tried to make) advances. some of them get touchy feely, others use a lot of metaphors and are hurt easily

Jesus that is grim.

I always wonder if guys like you are actually very creepy.

Like do you pop up out of your masturbation station after edging to tenticle and bukkake for 4 hours and then waltz up to some lady out for groceries smelling like hand lotion with the look of the devil in your eye?

> but in all seriousness If you jerk off that much and think you are a "nice guy" just because you say hello; than you are delusional and underestimate the subtleties of human interaction

I get approached by women more; mostly because I'm too socially insecure to approach them. But I go out a lot so it's not that infrequent, maybe once or twice a month.

Once we get talking I'm fine and girls generally like me, but I can never get myself to initiate conversations.

Lol it is true

this post made my day, thanks bud.
they don't quite know how to articulate it, but what girls really want above all else is a guy with charisma. they want the "life of the party" guy. basically someone who is consistently pleasant to be around.
beyond that it helps to have your life somewhat together.

Mix of both, but I've realized that I'm too autistic to do either correctly. If a girl approaches me I honestly don't realize it happened until after it occured.

>not being Veeky Forums enough for grills to approach you
One day anons. One day...

also sauce?

Neither ;_;

This f a m

Actually the two most important factors for girls when pursuing a guy are fortune and status. Height, weight, frame come after those two. Personality doesn't really come into the equation unless you are an autist.

>mfw turning 30 soon
>no woman has ever approached me
>ever

HELP

autists can't read body language or utilize social skills, its why they're socially awkward.

This guy is can over analyze people and think he knows a lot of shit but until you actually get out there, get rejected and form your personality from learning of your mistakes, you will never develop good social skills.

Unless you're stupid handsome and are rich, the only women that will flock to you are superficial sluts, but no quality gf/wife material women.

Used to be both ways, but now it's just women that do since I'm with someone now. I try not to mention I have a girlfriend early on into meeting one since they usually lose interest in talking quickly. I just like conversation.

Approach a girl you find attractive, and if you get rejected; than repeat.

all of the circle-jerking that goes on here comes from the perspective of being the guy "at the top of the mountain." You don't need to be the guy at the top of the mountain to get a girl.

> play the hand your dealt

If you are 30 and waiting for women to start throwing themselves at you, than you are deluding yourself. By 30 you should have a feel for the type of women that could be interested in you. Pursue those women.