Fuck me man
>everythings been going good for a while
>love my gf
>she randomly gets mad at me earlier this week
>have no fucking clue what I did
>isn't talking to me at all
>barely replies to texts
>says don't talk to me
>know if I don't that she'll get even more mad
>im pissed/depressed and have no clue what to do
>go to gym earlier today
>depressed the whole time
>feel like i didn't push myself as hard as I could
>women problems hindering gains
anyone else sympathize with me?
Actually I don't.
While lifting I can completely zone out from such problems. It's my time and I won't allow some problems to ruin it for me. On the other hand, if it's something I just can't ignore, I will channel all my emotions into some heavy lifts and try to kill the bar.
This isn't woman problem, the problem is YOU.
Don't enable unstable people to get away with unstable shit. If you can't put one (1) fucking person in place when they're being clearly unreasonable then maybe you shouldn't have sympathy, only pity.
Seconded. I've been where you are OP, and I've learned a woman will blame her bf is the sky is the wrong shade of blue that day. Don't let it get to you.
Also, she's testing how you react to this shit test to gauge if you're enough of a doormat to marry.
Do you actually love her?
Was there a reason she got mad at you?
If the answer to either of those is no, leave her, she and you need to grow up.
>she randomly gets mad at me earlier this week
Did you ask why?
>have no fucking clue what I did
No, you fucking didn't.
>isn't talking to me at all
Dump her immature, non-communicating ass
>barely replies to texts
Dump her immature, non-communicating ass
>says don't talk to me
Dump her immature, non-communicating ass
>know if I don't that she'll get even more mad
Dump her immature, non-communicating ass
>im pissed/depressed and have no clue what to do
Force her to communicate and resolve this problem or dump her and move on
>go to gym earlier today
>depressed the whole time
>feel like i didn't push myself as hard as I could
You correctly identified the problem here as being you not pushing yourself enough, therefore:
>women problems hindering gains
You are hindering yourself, like the fucking dumbass you are.
Stop putting women on a pedestal; they're not allowed to get away with childish shit like this, and you're not allowed to stand around like a stupid fucking dope and just sit and GUESS what the fuck she wants from you.
>>she randomly gets mad at me
Nothing is random man
Let me tell you a story about what I thought was random
>best friend has a gf
>get along with her too
>go clubbing, meet up with a girl I hooked up before
>at some point she takes off her shoe, see she has painted her nails blue
>tell bro's gf this because when I first met her she had blue nails too and made fun of her because of it
>she goes in a rage and does not want to talk to me for a few days
>ask bro what is up with his gf acting up like that
Later I find out later she is in love with me and she thought I had slept with this girl since I knew she pained the nails on her feet.
>>says don't talk to me
This is when I figured out you haven't seen her in person. Get over there, fix this shit in minutes.
You lost her.
Listen fag, you don't ever want a girl more than you want a mission. Getting fit is a mission in life, if you want a girl more you'll lose the girl and your fitness.
Girls can't be primary. They don't want to be. Humans want to reach goals, not be them. Girls want to get your attention, not have it.
Be a fucking alpha. If she's being uncommunicative and unreasonable, so what. If she leaves, guess what? She was never yours, it was only your turn, and it's time to move on.
Don't hope for bitches
>girls
>being rational
lol