Met a cute, funny girl at a party

>getting that depressed because of a grill

are you kidding me bro

>Implying I haven't tried to get it on with tons of girls by this point (I'm 22) and it hasn't always gone more or less the same.

We talk, we laugh, we're having fun, we're getting to know each other and then they pull away and don't want anything to do with me.

I've been unshakable for years. It's just starting to get to me now. I'm not a kissless virgin, but I've never had a girlfriend and I've never gotten with a girl that was even remotely attractive.

It just kills your spirit.

You're an idiot

Your game/mindset can always improve whether you're a 10/10 or 0/10

>2016
>Not lifting to become a Naval Aviator
>Not leaving sloots behind while you break the sound barrier in a FUCKING F-18 so you can go bomb some freedom hating brown people.

>better face

Are you fat? skinny? skinnyfat? young? old?

And forget face, it's all about character. Not giving a fuck about a sloot because she just wants someone good looking, is part of character. Not getting your hopes up to the point you wanna suicide if it goes wrong, is part of character.

You can be a weak person who wants a better face.
Or you can act now, and become a man. With character. And backbone.

>We talk, we laugh, we're having fun, we're getting to know each other
But do you give off sexual energy? Sounds to me like you're befriending them instead of showing that you want to fuck them.

You should've beat the shit out of your friend OP. In fact, you should invite him to a secluded place and just hit him with a blunt object when he's not looking and then pummel him and say "If you ever steal my pussy again I'll fucking kill you.". You'd be a badass motherfucker.

I know you'll make it

Good luck user. It's coming.

Stop putting party/club sluts on a pedestal.

Yeah, they have charisma and are fun to be around at first, but guess what? Everyone else thinks so too. The're basically like the sluttly adult version of spoiled children. They develop deep personality flaw because people are constantly throwing themselves at them, vying for their attention and approval. They have had many relationships and don't hold the bond of mutual reapect and companionship between individuals as something that is sacred, because it is easy for them to obtain a new relationship if something doesn't go their way or someone doesn't bend to their will.

And then they get old, or used up from the drugs, parties, and alcohol. And the only thing they have left if their spoiled princess attitudes and the "whitty and charismatic humor" of a teenager that initually drew you to them. But it's not funny anymore. You grew up; they didn't.

Marry a nice girl, user.

its because you took too long dumbass, she was down to hook up but after so long she just thought you weren't interested

Are there really nice girls out there, besides the serious religious types? I ask because basically everyone around my age (22) goes partying/clubbing every once in a while.

Goddamn that's hot, continue...

ok, i have literally never seen that happen before. your friend must be hot as fuck

>this fucking post
Dis da troof right here, nigga.

>every once in a while

as opposed to the club sluts that spend every waking hour trolling the local dark bar for the perfect dick, i think thats alright

I have honestly given up, I had the potential to be a 9/10 but got a really ugly indented scar on my nose when I was young . At first I was so frustrated and upset but now I just train hard and work hard to spite the universe because it's that or roll over and die. I have accepted that I won't get the type of girls I want so instead I want to bring the whole world to its knees and make it suck my dick while I choke it

Yes.

Be more, and get more.
The better human being you are, the more choice you'll have.

> I'm ugly
> It's not fair! Why do I have to be with ugly girls just because I'm ugly!?

Yeah, you're not selfish at all, being ugly is totally your only issue...

>WAAAHHH I want 10s

they're just women. They're as shitty as any other person on earth.

You're luck you're a male. Because looks are a less important feature on men than they are for women. You can be mediocre, and even ugly, and a girl can still fall for you because of who you are. It's harder to break that initial barrier of having a girl get to know you, but it's possible.

Maybe not for you. girls don't usually like entitled, whiny manchildren who are so vain and egotistical they go to the bathroom upset and cry while looking in the mirror.

get over your own issues and learn to be confident, because no matter how good looking you are, your attitude is going to turn off most girls.

Come on guys... how delusional are you?

Most girls nowadays go to clubs and bang at least a few random guys. It's digusting IMO - that's why I've never had a girlfriend. 27 years old at this point, I'm good off of random hook ups and fuck buddies and tinder sluts and escorts.

Most of these slags are just fucking cum rags at this point. Most girls I've known have banged 10+ guys and they're barely into their 20's. And this is just concerning sex. Imagine how many guys they've blown/given handjobs to/made out with and never had sex with?

Also a lot of women use the "That one doesn't count" principle where they just arbitrarily make up a reason why some guy didn't count. I knew a girl that used to claim that hse's only slept with 3 guys and when I confronted her about it, knowing that it's closer to like 20, she just explained that most of them didn't count.

post face, height and weight stats

>Most girls

Stopped reading there. Get more perspective, stop dealing with trash people, stop thinking media = 100% real life. It's not, it's the sensationalized and exaggerated bits.

Also stop listening to /pol/. You almost sound like you want to be cucked.

Won't post face.

But I'm 6'1, 180lbs.

Bench is 90kg
Deadlift is 130kg
can't squat because knee is fucked from basketball, so I only squat with LMAO1plate from time to time.

Pic of scar?

Are you 16? What are you talking about? YES. Absolutely. Most girls. I've literally never met a girl who hasn't had a random club hookup unless she's never been to a club. But even 16 year olds have like 2 partners nowadays.

not that guy, but teach me how to be a man dude, i'm too much of a skinny clown. People give me no respect.

26, I'm just not a jaded faggot like you, and I've had a few girlfriends in my life because of it.

I'd assume an insufferable personality and degenerate circle, as well as small-mindedness, are just part of the reasons you haven't found a girl.

Energy is detectable. If you're bitter inside, you'll only get evidence from the world to be more bitter.

Muscles and weight = respect
Self-discipline = respect

It's evolutionary. Put on weight, and people will treat you different.

Read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, or anything by Seneca.

Read good things, as in actual books, not shitposts all day. Have a routine that builds structure in your life, do things that will add to you.

It's not that hard, fear just confuses.

>I'd assume an insufferable personality and degenerate circle, as well as small-mindedness, are just part of the reasons you haven't found a girl.

I just never wanted to. There were moments where I honestly felt that I liked some girls, but then I would just realise that they're just cumrags. Any guy can pick them up and fuck them, and a lot of them have. They just get attached to some guy that fucks them and start telling him that they love him, when they've already said the same thing to a hundred other guys.

>Energy is detectable. If you're bitter inside, you'll only get evidence from the world to be more bitter.

But girls still want to bang me because I'm on a ton of gear and have an amazing body and money. I don't care if someone doesn't want to be with me. I don't want a girlfriend. I probably never will.

It takes some time to realise it, but once you do there's no going back. Your girlfriend. Your wife. the mother of your kids, was a massive whore that would get drunk in clubs and get donkey fucked by random guys. I can just imagine them stuffing their cocks in your girls mouth right now.

Then she just found a loser that agreed to stick around after cumming.

Nothing is stopping you, besides your aspie attitude.
There will always be someone who's better looking and people who just luck out in general. If you can't deal with that, there is no hope for you.

>women are too sexy
>they use their sexuality to get sex!
>so they're all whores
>cos they had sex with other men

The definition of sexual frustration. I mean, your take on things wouldn't be wrong if you understand that not the case for them all. But your take sounds overtly generalized, it's cynical, and hopeless.

Good luck, user.

>meet a girl
>she's funny

You know how I know this never happened?

How do you deal with it? No matter what you do these girls will always want him instead of you. And it's not because of personality. It's all about his face/appearance. That's what bothers me the most. I would be fine with it if he was somehow a better person than me. I would respect him and try to work on myself. But he's not. He's got serious flaws in how he carries himself, how he acts etc, but it's fine because he's got an attractive face so girls still want to bang him.

I'm sociable, talkative, a good conversationalist I would say. I workout, I have a decent job, a decent degree and I'm a well rounded person. But I can't get the girl I want because I was born with a shitty face and nothing I ever do is going to change that.

>women are too sexy
>they use their sexuality to get sex!

Wtf. What are you on about. Where did I say this?

Women are whores. Yes. "Women are too sexy"? wtf?

Mate, you're genuinely delusional if you think your girlfriend didn't get fucked by a bunch of guys. Maybe they weren't necessarily random guys. maybe he knew them from somewhere, dated them for a short time. At the end of the day you're just the next guy in the list that's fucking her and that she hopes won't leave him.

Post face

if you're ugly you probably won't be able to just pick up girls at clubs

hate to break it to you but you'll probably need to exert more than 20 minutes of effort and actually get to know them first. You see hot chicks with ugly guys all the time, they just probably met somewhere other than a club.

>It's digusting IMO - that's why I've never had a girlfriend.

Yeah, user. THAT's why.

"pretty" or "ugly" doesn't apply to men.

You have masculine, symetrical, asymetrical, and feminine looking, but your looks literally don't matter to a large % of women.

Your personality matters, and your means ($$$). That's attainable by any guy.

Get off this board if it bothers you so much. It's full of guys convincing themselves that women just want muscle and if they get some they'll get auto-laid. It isn't true either.

Nah, I'm just not insecure enough to think about those things. Why do you? Why are you so focused on who she's seen before? What's the relevance?

You just sound jaded and scared, who's convinced himself it's a pointless and dark world, so you avoid relationships so you don't get hurt.

The issue is you, not all the girls out there. They aren't all cumbucket whores, by any fucking means. Meet better people.

Would you rather be with the girl in the OP knowing you have nothing in common with her or with an average girl who shares your interests and makes you feel at ease when she's around?

>Elliot Rodgers the post

I bet you think you sound cool

>Nah, I'm just not insecure enough to think about those things. Why do you? Why are you so focused on who she's seen before? What's the relevance?

Not wanting to marry some guy's leftovers is insecurity? Okay. Lol.

I'm not "focused on it" I literally don't care. You know why? Because I'm not interested in dating any of these women. A girl can have a hundred partners and it doesn't matter to me because I don't invest any emotion into them. As far as the relevance goes - it's just disgusting. I can't respect them for it. If that makes you think I'm insecure, that's your opinion, personally I'm very much secure and happy with my life, I don't need some used up cumrag telling me she loves me to feel good about myself.

>You just sound jaded and scared, who's convinced himself it's a pointless and dark world, so you avoid relationships so you don't get hurt.

Get hurt from what? I'm just not interested in them. I'll be honest there was a point in my life where I desperately wanted to get a girlfriend. I was like 21, posting tfw no gf on Veeky Forums all the time. But then I hit like 23 and the feeling just went away. I realised that what i wanted was sex and women, I didn't want a relationship. I never have.

>The issue is you, not all the girls out there. They aren't all cumbucket whores, by any fucking means. Meet better people.

What issue? I have no issue, I'm enjoying my life and having fun. Just because you're obsessed with a relationship, doesn't mean other people are as well.

>"pretty" or "ugly" doesn't apply to men.

You're genuinely delusional if you believe this.

Girls care about your facial features immensely. So much so that it is way beyond just being the most important factor. If you have a good looking face, you can be skinny, you can be poor, you can have no style, you can be a loser with a horrible personality. Women will convince themselves that you're an amazing guy if you have a good face.

I feel at ease around everybody. Of course I would rather be with the girl in the OP. We can find shared interests together, it's not hard. "Shared interests" are bullshit anyway. You're literally a fucking mentally retarded sperg if you aren't even at least a bit interested in almost everything.

It's like pakitu papallu says, "how can u face ur problem if ur problem is ur face"

>Emily Ctrl+V
Literally the best looking brunette in the world.
I'd cuck her all day any day

Props to my dude here for recommending Stoics
Seneca and Marcus are both enjoyable to read while being highly beneficial.

>Not wanting to marry some guy's leftovers is insecurity?
Yes. What are you gonna do, go for virgins? Kids? Muslim women? Oh wait, they're probably all lying and are secretly cumbuckets.

>I'll be honest there was a point in my life where I desperately wanted to get a girlfriend. I was like 21, posting tfw no gf on Veeky Forums all the time. But then I hit like 23 and the feeling just went away.
Now, look at this sentence and tell me it doesn't sound like a jaded and beaten man. Confessing to doing roids already too, I'm getting the psychological profile of a deeply insecure man. Your language is indicitive of this (cumrags, I can imagine them taking cocks in their mouths, used-up-sluts, etc) He's convinced himself he doesn't want the trusting, companionship side of female interaction (because he was denied it for so long), and has reduced the inescapable human desire of being liked, to "just wanting sex".

I don't mean to get at you, dude. There'd be no need. I merely suggest this: re-evaluate your state, and your outlook on things. They may not be correct, or useful to you anymore.

You've spent too long on here and it shows.

It shouldn't be too hard to get a good looking girl, then. Just keep trying, dude.

Seriously, most women care more about money than face.

Your pic is invalid, this guy dresses well, looks like he has money, is well groomed, has a good attitude, confidence....

This guy has it all, and you're saying it's his face.

>Yes. What are you gonna do, go for virgins? Kids? Muslim women? Oh wait, they're probably all lying and are secretly cumbuckets.

I don't need to "go for" anything. Because I'm not interested in a relationship. Why is this so hard to grasp for you? It's not me being "upset" that they're doing it. It's me just not wanting any part of it.

>Now, look at this sentence and tell me it doesn't sound like a jaded and beaten man. Confessing to doing roids already too, I'm getting the psychological profile of a deeply insecure man. Your language is indicitive of this (cumrags, I can imagine them taking cocks in their mouths, used-up-sluts, etc) He's convinced himself he doesn't want the trusting, companionship side of female interaction (because he was denied it for so long), and has reduced the inescapable human desire of being liked, to "just wanting sex".

Why am I jaden and beaten? What's wrong with me doing roids? I've been lifting for 8 years before I started doing them. I just wanted to get bigger and leaner beyond my natty potential and I'm doing it in relatively low/safe doses, so what's the difference between taking supplements and roids? Not to mention I wanted to get a lot stronger because I wanted to compete in an amateur lifting meet.

And you even said it - I was "denied" companionship for so long. So what now? Should I be happy that I get to be the "fallback" and the second option? Nah bro. I'm fine. They didn't want me, I'm fine with it, but I'm not going to be the "I'll settle for him because the guy I wanted left" option. I'm cool. People still like me. Women still like me. I have friends, I have fuck buddies. I have girls that I talk to about personal stuff etc. But I just don't want a relationship. Why would I? What's the benefit in it for me? I haven't felt it in years. Getting a girlfriend won't make me any happier or make my life any better. I don't need another man's cumrag in my life to be happy.

You can't reason with the way the world works, breh.
People grow up being told that they can achieve everything, but don't take into account that everyone has different starting points. Some get it easily, while some have to put lots of work in. Just accept it and move on.

The reason he has money to dress well and is well groomed is because he's a supermodel that made a lot of money off of women wanting to fuck him.

>Well groomed

kek. what does this even mean? Any man over the age of 20 is "well groomed" unless they're legitimately autistic.

Suit yourself dude. You come across extremely antagonistic when referring to women; the things you say and language you use. That's why I assumed you were upset, because you don't seem as neutral as you claim.

But hey, suit yourself.

well groomed: salon hair, beard neat, nails, tan...

not everyone is well groomed.

The average guy can get laid and doesn't need a supermodel face to do it.

Okay you need to tell me how your body looks.
Are you jacked and asthetic?

Please keep in mind im not an normie and even ottermode is not asthetic for me.