Guys, I had a gf for years and the sex was amazing, I could cum tree or six times Everytime...

Guys, I had a gf for years and the sex was amazing, I could cum tree or six times Everytime, I didn't lift for shit nor did any kind of physical activity, we broke up, I started lifting and many months later I got a new gf. Yesterday we had sex for the first time and I was confident that it'd be awesome since now I've improved my body and health but I cummed after 2-3 mins and didn't go back up again.
I thought lifting would make me better at that, what's going on Veeky Forums? And how to last more or make it go up again?

be younger

Do you do workouts till failure?

Maybe you are not as sexually attracted to her as your ex.

start eating raw potatoes. JUST the skins though, peel them and grate into your meals, probably around 30-60 grams a day depending on how much you want...
this boosts my sex drive

not every pussy fucks as good

This
I have a gf that I love but by God I can't get my dick hard for her and have to think about some girl from work to cum

Does she do the initiating, then?

Yeah
She wants it alot more than I do (100x more)
She's not fat or ugly or anything, I'm just not sexually attracted to her

Why is she your gf, then? Seems like someone you'd want to have as a best friend.

it could be her

and you probably don't eat enough.

Kek

>tfw can't stop thinking of fucking your ex
>ruins hookups and new relationship

Sheeeeeiiittttt

Well, I do love her, she'd be great as a mother and as a wife, she loves me too.
I'd loves to be able to fuck other girls though, some girls I see on the street do more for my dick than her in bed, but I'm never going to cheat so I just deal with it.

Well, there's more to life than sex. Good on ya finding someone you love.

Yeah I keep telling myself that.
Thanks lad

what about her don't you like

Let a BBC finish her off so you can concentrate on your gains.

sexual attraction is really important in a relationship. dump her and pump someone else

I can't quite put a finger on it
Maybe it's because she has a round (even though it's not fat), face and I usually like girls with very narrow faces
Maybe it's because I (my dick) usually like "bad girls", and she is innocent as fuck (I'm her first at everything), which is cute but not very sexy
Maybe it's that I just can't help but wish I'd met her in 5-10 years when Id wanted a wife, right now I just want to bang randoms and have fun

Oh well

I could'nt do that, she's an absolute angel

that's a shame man, sounds like you love a lot of other things about her. least you have that

Spot the college freshman

Yeah wouldn't want to give that up man

Attraction is important to a relationship dude. It's like you haven't seen the cheat/cuck stories that happen all the time.
It's not the most important part, but there has to be something.

>Yesterday we had sex for the first time

Sometimes the first time is not good because you have to find a rhythm with that person. If it doesn't go back up it might be due to a lot of factors, like how much time you have without sex, how nervous you were, etc.

It has happened to me with a few girls, but it gets better as we continue to have sex, we are more comfortable with each other, and such. I have had one night stands and most of the time i can go for plenty of rounds, and i had cases were i couln't get it up for the second.

The only thing that makes you good at having sex is actually having sex. If you are not attracted to your girl it will show, because from what i've read, that is part of your problem. It might be mentally taxing.

Do you actually believe most of those are real?

Do you live in a fucking bubble? Go ask around your office, probably half the people got cheated on or cheat on their partners.
In b4 neet.

>tfw I have never cum tree

So no actual source then? Just hypothetical office coworkers confirming it? You need to get off /r/redpill

there's also more to life than settling

not saying it's bad to genuinely love someone, but if you're venting on Veeky Forums at this stage of the relationship, i can't imagine what it'll be like in 10 years

>Hypothetical
>The people telling it to my face
>The obviously lie about it because ???
>On the other hand I got this research which wasn't a survey but we actually had detectives follow people around and watch through windows (????)
Fuck off

Who elses girlfriends/ex girlfriends look pretty much the same ? All pale, with a big butt, not much tits, big eyes and brown hair

I don't think you quite understand me senpai, might want to reread my post

Get on cialis my friend, enjoy

sounds like a pretty average person to me
pretty much what my ex looks like

>this

I started using cialis since performance anxiety.
Now I only use it sometimes since my gf let's me fuck her whenever I want

Oh I understand quite well, you've been on Veeky Forums for so long you no longer understand social interaction.

Not him but I cheat. Last I checked I wasn't hypothetical.

Same senpai

It might all be in your head bro.

Your mind is a powerful thing.

When I was younger my sex life was all right, would go for rounds and cum when I wanted to.

But then once by accident I got a girl preggo, had to get rid of it cause we were 17 at the time and not ready to be parents.
And this put up a mental block in my head.

After that I started to have problems with getting and staying up and I couldn't cum while having sex for 7 years. It was fun for the girls, sometimes could go for hours. But took a toll on me. Even tho sex was fun, it felt kind of pointless sometimes cause I knew there would be no happy ending.

Jerking off myself was the only way.


But now I got myself a qt gf with who I finally felt comfortable enough to finally cum.
And now I can cum when I want to and go for a couple rounds.

Work out your mind as well, try to not everthink things.

not how you deal with it, you are making her feel like shit and it will come to bite you later