How does one train rejection handling?

you dont give a shit because there is plenty of pussy in the sea.

>it's an /r9k/ retard goes to the wrong board episode
Mods why are you even alive?

I rarely endorse articles by GLL since the training and nutrition is all bro science but the screening game mindset is gold. I haven't read Models or No More Mr. Nice Guy but I wouldn't be surprised if it's the same essential advice.

"Again, our approach to screening to primarily to- Get Laid.

It is not to "meet women" "avoid rejection" "make her laugh!" "get the girl!" "make her think you are interesting" or impress anyone."

goodlookingloser.com/how-do-i-internalize-screening

Also, the article on getting laid is a numbers game is quite accurate.

www.goodlookingloser.com/2011/12/30/what-if-i-approached-100-hot-chicks-would-i-get-any-pussy-a-closer-look/

know what you're worth and understand its her loss

if you dont actually believe its her loss, improve yourself

the second you sense rejection

'your lost, bitch'

and severe all ties and block all her social media

Do you think they would care if you rejected them?

>No?

Why would you waste time thinking about them when you could be makin gains HMMMM

>rejection hurts me
Why? Stop being a little bitch. With all the shit flinging and fucked up shit that gets said on this website, some girl saying she doesn't like you romantically shouldn't be the thing that breaks you. In fact, you should be braced for just about anything anyone says.

>Do you think they would care if you rejected them?
Well thats diffrent
If a girl gets rejected she can just pick the next guy in line, girls have unlimited options so rejection is no big deal for them

why do you care?

why treat girls like some prize to be won?

they are just guys with tits and a vag, nothing special at all

>girls have unlimited options
There are more women than men and women typically are worth less financially than a man. Women by no means have unlimited options. If a girl passes you over, you just suck and don't stand out enough from the rest of the masses.

I learned to cope with rejection at work, because in business you get rejected very frequently

Even when I worked in a shop during summer I'd have a customer walk in and I'd help him for like an hour and then he'd just say "Yeah I'll think about it" and leave and never come back.

For most people it's the opposite, they already know how to get rejected because of high school, but I was never brave enough to go for it so I learned later.

if they wanted to settle with a NEET, sure

their options for a successful man (college education, good career, comfortable persaonlity) are more limited than ever

Look at the stats of most dating sites, 60-75% are men and thats not including random suggestions they get from guys on IG/FB
Its kind of fun how talks about dating/girls online always ends up in "youre ugly"
Its just simply not true, you can be a great looking guy and still get rejected simply because the girl has more/better options

One exercise some of the PUA guys would say is to go out and * intentionally* get rejected a bunch, just to desensitize yourself to it. Just approach and say the stupidest thing you can think of that you know won't work, on purpose.

It is a numbers game.
Get your shit together (income, your own place, a car, wear clean clothes), learn not to sperg when talking to women by talking to lots of women (don't fall in love with every women you meet, it is silly and is not love, you're just not used to women being nice to you) even if it means getting into the 'friendzone' with lots of women, just don't waste your dime on them since there won't be any fucking involved in those relationships.

Once you have your shit together and can talk to women without sperging it is a numbers game, just keep trying until you start getting laid on a regular basis, the first few casual hookups are the hardest, it gets easier as you get experienced and grows more confident.

Getting rejected is only a big deal if you make it a big deal.

there's a lot more males in online dating than females

who cares? honestly, you sound like a bitch dude

how is your life going to change if some girl rejects you? you're going to internalize that you suck and hate yourself? it's literally all in your fucking head. stop being a bitch and stop giving a fuck and that's when you'll find success

I hate to do this online but im a guy working on a college degree, i got a good and stable job where im the highest performing member of my department and i recently got a promotion
Im calm and comfortable in my personalty and people around me often turn to me for help with things

I cant find a date to save my life, its been nine months since my last date and the potential prospects are more rare than ever
You can try and poke holes in me and name things you think might be wrong but it doesnt change my situation in the world, if i wanted a girlfriend i have litterally zero options because most girls are taken or just utter shit (drug using, fat and with multiple children with diffrent fathers)

Yes, there are a shitton of neets around looking to get laid but there are more quality guys than there are girls for them aswell

where do you live?

Scandinavia

Chad makes them whores and eats your pizza

met a really great grill
dick won't get hard
humiliating because a) i told her i have 7.5" of cock (that is not a lie)
and b) i'm a grower not a shower so my dick looked really small
she even tried cop a feel while i'm eating her
but i pushed her away like i was too into going down on her
the next day she starts a conversation

i mention my dick not getting hard like a beta and she's like "omg you're still thinking about it "
later joke about it again to which she replies "it's nice you are so open about everything"
the following days have more conversations
really intimate conversations
she time and time again calls me cute sweet special etc. (it was definitely more than in a friendone kinda way)
then suddenly she stops initiating conversations
so yesterday initiate a conversation and we talk a little bit
she's studying for a course so maybe that's the reason
and then today we literally exchange five lines of text
should i invite myself over or could she have lost interest?
the weird thing is i couldn't get hard with her
but then later that week i had amazing sex with a milf that i met on tinder
the sex was so amazing and i went at it for an hour (two rounds in total next to eating her pussy for a considerable amount of time as well) and she was staring into my eyes like she saw god or something
at one point i checked out her feet in missionary because she was so into it and her toes were all curled up
she even bit my hand as i made eye contact in missionary (noses basically touching while i kept looking at her while fucked her very deeply)
my dick went so deep and i thought i went to deep and then she just basically pushed me even deeper inside and rubbed what seemed to be her cervix all up against my dick

the reason i'm telling you this is because i know i can fuck

if i go again, the pressure will be enormous
but i really want to prove to her that i can do it

so should i ask if she wants to meet up again or should i save myself the embarrassment?

>look at the stats of most dating sites
Using data from dating websites is dubious because most people turn to them as a last resort. Most people still meet each other and form relationships by seeing each other physically in the real world.
Most people only sign up for those kinds of things to get validation in their appearances, and in the cases of guys, just a quick smash if it's Tinder. Most people aren't actually looking for a relationship online and you've been inside your house for way too long if you think it's true.

your problem is you are autistic

aren't we all?

no

you cant even communicate like an adult, no wonder your dick wont work

>NEWSFLASH: the majority of lonely ugly people take dating websites seriously
Look man, if you weren't ugly, you wouldn't have had to turn to online dating to find try to find a that liked you.

*find a girl

why are mods allowing this shit?

can I add 'train' or 'fitness' to everything and make it Veeky Forums related?

>lets train guitar skills bro
>floor cleaning fitness
>which car under 10k is best to get to the gym?

fucking hell man this place is complete shit

I just come here for the ego boost from laughing at people in CBT threads.

see, I actually lift unlike the average Veeky Forums poster

Two things:

Find your value, know your worth.

Don't take rejection personally. Even though it seems personal, it's not.

There are a million reasons why they could have said no.

But let's be realistic. If you're ugly then you can't expect to get a hot chick unless you've got money or a body/personality that makes up for it.

If you're ugly you're going to have to settle for a female the same scale of attractiveness as you.

Go volunteer at some habitat for humanity center or whatever equivalent socialist organization you have over there. And when you encounter girls who are taken, don't immediately shear off in a massive flurry of "omg, I'm a cuck if I talk to a married woman", and instead befriend her. Then, when the time is ripe, ask her "hey, can you introduce me to a single girl? I'm looking for a gf". And if you're not a beta piece of shit pretending to be alpha (e.g. you show yourself as someone who is utterly unwilling to help or white knight for a girl unless she has sex with you on the spot), she will hook you up with her friend and put in a good word for you.

Im sick of this simple flawed logic, its logic for autists
If youre unable to get laid as a guy you are ugly, simple as that right?
its just not true, you can fail with girls no matter how hot you are simply because skill and social status is a huge factor

>There are a million reasons why they could have said no.
real talk

you got rejected because you're ugly and / or devoid of a likable personality

>learn scales
>pushbroom best broom
>used 2012 toyota corolla

cmon son