Tfw failing uni

>tfw failing uni
>tfw can't find a job
>tfw 23 y/o loser who doesn't have a drivers license, has never had a gf and is ugly as fuck
>tfw lifting is the only thing keeping you going.
>tfw too old to date qt 18 year olds because they all think you're creepy/weird
>girls my own age are starting to look like shit. It's fucking ridiculous how badly women age.
>life is too fucked up for me to able to date women my own age

Anyone else here giving up? I don't know how to keep going lads. I'm struggling to get up in the mornings. I feel like I've fucked my life beyond repair and there's nothing I can do now. I wish I lived in america so I could buy a gun and shoot myself.

>23
>too old to date 18yo's
Your age isn't your problem, being creepy is

>thread

I was in your exact situation a year ago.

I was fucking up my uni exams and only really enjoyed lifting. In my final year I worked hard and got a 2:1. I then managed to get my dream job.

Also I am 23 and went out with a 17 year old the other night.

You can do it user.

I was in your same situation too a year ago.
Your life is shitty right now;

>failing uni
>can't find a job
>creepy

You need to re-evaluate, getting a qt3.14gf will not magically fix your life. Women are an extension of a great life. If you think sex will fix everything get a cheap-o hooker off craigslist and see how you feel afterwords.

Study more, lift more, get fit, find a job and learn how to dress better, build a group of friends and then go from there. You can't be happy with someone else if you aren't happy with the man in the mirror.

free motivation.

This.

Don't focus so much on girls. You're 23, you can turn your life around easily. Just work hard and focus.

If he doesn't focus now he will never be able to. Girls don't hang out with middle-aged men, unless they are sluts looking for money.

Travel

let me tell you something about college students.

Most of them have absolutely no idea why they are there. Only a few actually have goals and are using the university to achieve their goals.
I already graduated and everyone i know who graduated got a job totally unrelated to their major. Im back now at age 26 as a pre-dental student.

Don't freak out too much. You will find something eventually.

All girls look for security and comfort. Actually, all people look for security and comfort. Both girls and guys will hang out with whoever they feel comfortable with.

Fuuck fpbp again..

what would i give to be 23 again. you could literally still turn your life around 180 degrees and be fine. fucking dumb shit you dont know what you got

piss off normie

>girls my own age are starting to look like shit. It's fucking ridiculous how badly women age.
and you're still ugly and autistic

i see people who are late 30's with kids going back to school. Anyone can still turn their life around

>no gf
>shitty job
>doing shitty in uni
>get offered a job and accept
>just found out they don't want me

>5'5

Should i just end it bros?

Same. Failed all my classes last semester Cuz depressed. Started working out, stopped watching porn, got an internship at a big data company. They like me. Gonna end up making 100k+ in 2 years

> 24 year old
> 8th semester (gonna finish in 10th)
> recently became Single

> recently became fit

you whiny bitch OP, i got 24 year old 7/10s mirin my dyel body...
Its summer baby, bitches get crazy in the heat

>23
>girls my own age are starting to look like shit.

where do you even live

came in to post this. i'm 25 and bang 18-20 year olds on the reg. you're just a creepy phuck.

you need some motivation. first off, change your shitty mindset and set a goal for you. don't concentrate all the bad stuff in your head. you have a hard time at uni, you're unemployed and you have no social skills to make up for your lack of facial aesthetics. these are your downsides.
now you got to ask yourself your up sides, what do you enjoy doing? what makes you happy? literally anything, even the most simple thing such as looking at the sky on a sunny day is enough to make you happy. this is your starting point. now ask yourself what do you want to achieve in your life, where do you want to go? develop this self-awareness and get to KNOW yourself better, because you clearly don't.
you have stated 3 bad things about your life and they can easily be fixed. this is easy.

the hard part is asking yourself and thinking about your goals. set them. put them in your head and don't stop thinking about them. now what do you need to achieve them? you really want a job? what makes you not get one? work on that. identify what you're doing wrong or what can you do better. what can you LEARN?

you're fucking 23. you have a long life ahead. you have a lot of time to LEARN. put this in your head. every moment that you spend in your life from now on, you should be productive in a way (except if you're eating or sleeping, doing things that you must do). getting better results at uni = studying more, reading more, practicing more, learning more.

about your relationships, you're just giving bullshit excuses. "girls my age are looking bad, qt 18s think i'm creepy, i'm ugly, blablabla", gtfo with that shit and have some self-confidence. stop giving excuses or blaming other people/things out of your control. if they're out of your control, why bother pointing them at all? focus on what you can do and HOW YOU can change and do better. life isn't easy, maybe it was when you were a kid/teenager but the time to be an adult has come.

>Anyone else here giving up?

Lul suck a dick, you're failing because you're sad, boo hoo

Get back to me when you actually have a useful degree like chemical engineering, and because of the oil crash when you graduated you're 2 years out of school having to find a new career path by being a police officer while living at home at 25 with no gf

Being upset because of failures that you caused is pathetic.

this, i know people born in 1990 dating girls from '98

and then one day you will get an injury, get hooked on the pain killers and then when you cant get those you start using heroin... gl faggot

im 35 and I have been dating 20 yr olds wtf is wrong with you?

My friend, your problem is that you're a goldfish examining its bowl using a magnifying glass.

Step back and ditch the self pity for a minute. The facts:

You're young
You have the option of changing degree, taking a break from education, dropping out in favour of work, any combination of the above
You can fuck whoever you damn well please as long as they're over 16 and you're both consenting
Looks can be improved through styling and grooming and anyway are rendered mostly irrelevant by personality

You can do literally anything you want. You're focussing on the handful of limitations in your life and ignoring the smorgasbord of opportunities that are laid out in front of you.

This,im 23 and my gf is 19. Also some 16 yr old jailb8 is hitting on me hard at the gym

You're just creepy

fucks sake, I'm 31 and I """"""""""date"""""""""" 18-24yo grills, stop being a fucking creepy loser OP, it's never too late

>25
>no education
>working shitty labor construction to help my family with this shitty economy
>cant meet any girls in construction
>never had a gf never even kissed a girl
>still live with parents

going to the gym and lifting is the only thing keeping me alive at this point,but I feel like giving up

go to the bar with work buddies, I won't believe that you don't have any friends at work...

Construction work doesn't pay enough for bars.

28 dating a 21 y/o

Stop being creepy
Go see a therapist about your insecurity and autism

Wtf you're 23 there is no way any 18 year old thinks you're to old. You must be hideous if that was used as an excuse.

lmao you must be fucking retarded, construction work pays well if you're not stupid with money, but guess what, you are stupid with money

>>tfw too old to date qt 18 year olds because they all think you're creepy/weird

You're joking, right? I'm 25 and have no problems with 18 year olds. I've met 18 year olds that have told me they've had BOYFRIENDS over 30.

Look at each of your problems and think about them rationally without any form of bias and repair them accordingly
Failing uni? What' the problem? Maybe studying more is what you should do
A job? That such a good idea during uni?

>implying kissing a girl isn't a waste of time without fucking her

>giving up
>thinking about finally ending it tonight
>probably won't because I'm a pussy
>fear I'll somehow live through 12 gauge mouth wash