What causes people to be like pic related? Could sports and lifting have saved people like this?

>It's nearly impossible to be really big into video games and physically fit unless you're a soldier or college bro.
i play about 2 hours of vidya everyday yet i still find time for lifting and cardio.

vidya also i stress relieving

absence of a strong father figure

I feel that, and you're too right mane. It's funny, because an 8 hour day at work is definitely more than just that. There's commuting, cleaning, making food, and a bunch of little shit in between that extends that day to where (as you said) you have two options; gains or vidya.

I do find though that lifting goes hand-in-hand with the "real world" so much so than video games though. Like, you're getting shit done when you lift, and you prepare you life in a way (sleep properly, eat properly) that makes every day hopefully easier than the last.

Games on the other hand, fuck man, it's so easy to have 4 hours disappear in front of your eyes and absolutely nothing has been accomplished. As a matter of fact, for me at least, I find games can greatly dig into my sleep cycle.

Lifting, imo, is the go-to hobby for a 40 hour 9/5.

I play ps4 call of duty and max prestige in every game. It's a fun social tool. Great bonding with my friends and brother who lives in another city. Summers in highschool I would play Runescape all day and lift all night getting 10 hours of sleep a night. I was fit + qt gf + many friends + on sports teams. Nobody ever knew about Runescape. Some knew about call of duty.

Never talked about vidya in real life though besides some really close friends who are equally embarrassed about people finding out.

tldr : Only nerds let people know they play vidya. Some chads low-key play pokemon and other nerdy shit and keep it a secret

They were not bullied enough for acting or being that way and they probably did not have a couple of "cool" friends to influence them

>No strong fatherly figure -if at all ie. being raised by women.

>Certain degree of autism

Pretty much

I used to be like this. A "supreme gentleman". I never wore the stupid hats, but I had the stereotypical personality and lifestyle of a sir. This phase was during college.

What made this worse was the formation of an unwarranted superiority complex, in which Ibasically isolated myself. I'm not sure where this came from, but it felt good being "superior". With isolation came loneliness, including those feels of no gf, which led to bitterness. It is that bitterness which led me to the MGTOW, MRA, and the Red Pill ideologies. So, I was not only a "gentleman", I was a redpilled gentleman.

This only made me worse.

Unsurprisingly very few people liked me. Of those who actually liked me, they were just as toxic as I was.

tldr: I used to be a giant faggot

In regards to OP's question: I don't know, but I was certainly like pic related. I would take a chance and say that having a healthy body contributed to the development of a healthy mind. I certainly didn't have either back in college.

I was in sports teams as a kid, but being naturally skinny and weak and with asthma, I was always last at everything, and always picked on, so that led me to further isolate myself and hate sports with a passion, until I discovered lifting at about 15
The only reason I wasbt full fedora is I wanted pussy, so I started imitating Chad behaviour the only way I knew how

I'd say that fitness goes hand in hand with a healthy, normal mind because fitness 1) makes you look normal and 2) puts you out in the open. Looking normal gets you treated more like a normal person (as opposed to the edgelords whom nobody normal would feel like associating with), which in turn helps pushing you to act normal, feel normal, think normal - as does spending time in the public room of a gym or wherever you choose to exercise that isn't a place of isolation.

2 hours isn't much. Most gamers will spend about 4 hours at least in one session.

Absolutely degenerate.

I used to be a faggot too. Was into anime and everything from Japan. Eventually found out about "Visual Kei" and got into the local scene. Started coloring my fingernails black, wearing t-shirts with pic related on it and going to visual kei concerts (filled with 90% females). I thought, Jesus Christ.. thats a niche! So many girls and no male competitors. Then realized, that most of them have borderline syndrom, are crazy and usually just friendzone me.. well because I was a faggot wearing nail polish and fedoras. Now, 10 years later, I'm not a beta anymore and have my own business. I just fucking hope, that I won't ever be confronted with anyone I knew in that time. So fucking embarassing. Even my family is laughing sometimes about my past.

I ironically wear a fedora to the gym.

low test high estrogen

specifically caused by d3 deficiency

go outside or take supplements

say that to my face fucking loser im diamond in league i watch anime and squat 3.5pl8 ufkgmad?

This bothers me, how close these guys are to getting it but fuck up.

Suits are the last thing that makes the man, but an essential part of it

First tho, you need these things
>get in shape
>confidence
>people skills

Then u get a suit. And it needs to FIT. Like, at the very least get measured by a tailor so you know ure not overestimating your size, but preferably get it tailored. Nothing makes ppl think you're trash like wearing a poorly fitted suit.

If these guys could see the forest before the trees they could make it

Shit parents who indulge their faggotry.

When I went through my edgy phase my mum told me I was an idiot and if I wanted to wear ridiculous clothes I'd pay for them.

You know you can do both, right? I was training 11 times a week and playing vidya in school.

>wearing a suit in a non-formal setting
bruh

unless you're doing business, meeting with minor nobility of europe, or at a formal social arrangement/high grade restaurant wearing a suit either makes you look autistic or like a grade a shiteater

Aspects of being chivalrous are good, but these guys that are represented in the pic made the mistake of not being attractive and the first problem is they didn't tailor their suit

>I'm not smart
>I'm not fit
>I'm not strong
>I'm not good looking
>I'm not rich
>but I will treat you like a real lady

>tip

Wearing a good fitted suit at a nice bar and on dates is important. Also strip clubs make the strippers love you. Then again I'm in my late 20s. Anyone 16-21 wearing a suit looks like a goober

>Could sports and lifting have saved people like this?

No, because muscles on a socially inept autist are basically just a bunch of organic body-fedoras.

These people use superficial things like hats and base their identity on those things to in lieu of having an actual personality or any self-esteem. Just because your fedoras are underneath your skin doesn't make you any better.

>oh by the way I'm not kind, charming, funny, thoughtful, brave, or helpful
>pls gib sex m'lady
>dips fedora fug

I play League, WoW, etc and just pulled 6PL8 DL last week. That said, what you say is typically true also.

You're wrong bro

Lifting and diet influences test levels, low test turns you into a cuck.

If we had mandatory test screening and gave supps to anyone below 1,000 ng/dL you would see the end of cuckolds.

I know a kid that is basically a mega fedora Lord. Huge Christian belief set, and holds medieval chivalry to an alarming degree

>but he's goodlooking

Literally every girl in my school wants to ride his dick and have his baby and the fact he's saving his virginity for marriage to preserve his holy aoe damage makes him twice as attractive to them

He obviously has more social skills and talks to people more than you.

>holy aoe damage

actually laughed out loud

College or high school?

wrong question.
Could fedoras and real gentlemen save people from lifting?

so we could say that you... changed your way of cutting?

I use to think the whole fedora thing was a joke until I started college. I saw a few people who wore them and one of them was a meme spewer whenever he had the chance.

What ever do you mean my good sir? This delightful young gentleman looks full of class. He seems as a top notch young man, my good sir.

doing weighted dips

You forgot
>IM FAT

Yeah, I thought fedora lords were an Internet meme too until I got to Uni and started seeing them.

I still remember I was eating in the student centre and browsing Veeky Forums and two of them saw and came over to talk to me about how great the /b/ and the chan was.

>mfw I used to be fedora-tipping le gentleman

I had unrealistic expectations about relationships. I thought that true relationships were like Disney fairy tales, had oneitis multiple times, etc. and that guys who got laid a lot were either lying or manipulative assholes/Chads. I had stupidly high standards despite being extremely average in terms of appearance and a delusional sense of self-importance despite having nothing to really show for it. I'm currently in graduate school, working towards a PhD in a STEM field. Years ago I thought being a STEM major/PhD candidate made me le cultured intelligent individual who would be rolling in supermodel puss.

Nope. I've learned the hard way that personality really does trump most everything. You can be a jacked Adonis, but if you have an autistic personality you can expect to remain alone forever. Being in shape DEFINITELY helps, but if you don't have a fun, interesting personality to back it up then you're not going to have much success with women at all.

Either too many weighted dips, using clips on warmup sets, subscribing to alan thrall or some mixture of those.

I feel like it's the same with anime, unfortunately. Like almost all of the people that watch it are nasty as shit, do nothing to hide their power level and then try to make a connection with you if you ever bring it up.

Like. Fuck.

>got into visual kei
Jesus, that is about as uncommon as a western woman becoming a ganguro.

Do you live in the PNW?

i was never fat and will never be, im a fucking beast at everything i do. some people are just better than others you know

but yeah im fat if it makes u feel better. gold scrub HAHAHA

Only diamond lullaby
I've been challenger n a massive wee about
Plus I'm nearing Chad mode
Already have FACE just need FRAME

You forgot HEIGHT... or are you a bronzie in that department?

>Work takes a majority of your time

You need a new job

How's college?

Was fun 7 years ago

>be rejected your entire life
>no one shows you an ounce of attention
>people answer with one word responses
>see someone wearing a fedora, try it on
>at a mall some girl asks where you got the hat while giggling
>she could be just bored or making fun of you
>you are elated at having a m'lady respond to you
>you add more quirky items to your outfits chasing after any sliver of attention

Thats about it.

Its the reward loop being misfired.

>tldr : Only nerds let people know they play vidya. Some chads low-key play pokemon and other nerdy shit and keep it a secret
This. There's nothing wrong about having vidya as a hobby but for the love of God, don't tell anyone about it unless you want to be branded a nerd

>using clips on warmup sets
Kek I use them on squats

Ba Dum Ts

Fuck, I was like this in middle school. Thank FUCK I got friends in high school and didn't end up in my 20s like some euphoric loser.

I remember when I didn't have a full time job too, user. Enjoy it while it lasts

>his holy aoe damage

Fucking kek

Wait till you get in the real world.

nice b8

>What causes people to be like pic related?

Veeky Forums

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People who resort to living their lives inside the fantasies of a video games are usually the ones that feel disconnected and rejected from society and its norms. Objectively if you look at it most gamers prefer the fantasy world because within the realms of 3D worlds they can portray the person they never could have been.

I'm 29 this year have played games all my life and was a 330lb fat neckbeard who'd eat like a ham and play games all day. 5 years of lifting has really changed me as a person but to this day being ripped having friends girls sex etc still cannot replace the rush I receive from when I'm planting mines as Snake in MGS to blow the fuck up outta soviet APC's

A man in uniform always gets pussy

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I used to use a fedora and dress kind of 'classy' when I was like 15 years old.
My reason, I saw a guy wearing a fedora and thought it was the coolest shit ever. No self awareness.
Was never the m'lady faggot, never had problems with womyn

>Also strip clubs make the strippers love you
Now what aspect of a suit could a stripper possibly find attractive?

Honestly, I really want to buy a fedora and trench coat now, more than ever. Like, I don't have any edgy beliefs or trouble with my life style, yet I really want one in particular because it has such negative connotations on Veeky Forums (and thanks to reddit, also real life). For some reason, I get a naughty thrill just thinking about it

It gives them a cheap and easy sense of fulfillment, cheap easy fun is addictive. It doesn't require physical effort so they overdo it on the sitting and usually end up going cheap and easy on the crap they eat while playing.

Not being bullied enough/being bullied and parents teaching them to "ignore them"

>those womanly fingers
>that ill-fitted everything
>that cookie dough face

what a sad excuse for a man.

Basically this. Also,

>I have a shit personality but I will treat you like some sort of royal highness instead of as a human being except not really due to my offputting egocentric nature.

Children are taught ignorance. Women teach children, especially men, to be weak.

me on the left

Trying to be a gentleman before being a man

Kek!

If you mean both the fashion and personality, yeah its pretty much due to not being well educated, as well as an entitlement to every single thing on the globe thanks to a lack of true parental care/love, also no self-awareness of how you look.

Generally these dweebs misunderstand the concept 'to be yourself'. The sentence goes over their head and they mix up honesty with compensating for a mediocre personality. And it doesn't help that mommy only championed them when they did something naive or dumb instead of punishing them. Their minds being possesed by materialism is what drives them to chase women and force them into a sexual drive fantasy. All of their attempts fail however as most of them have little to none things to bring on the table when in time for a serious relationship.

Fortunately for most people this just happens to be a phase. Albeit a pathetic one.

I had to look up visual kei. It looks to me like some sort of gothey, emo sceney 80's hair metal music scene.

so much this.... happens a lot to boys of single moms

beta fathers = beta sons

Beta fathers can have sons that are very alpha though. They just have to be aware of what betaness is and teach themselves

It's an achievement simulator. Don't get the girl, get the promotion, or try to change your life, you can unlock achievements within 20 minutes.

It's also an escape tool.

I made a thread on /v/ asking why anyone in their 20s would still care about video games seriously.

The average response was escapism, and how nothing matters in life and video games are fun, so why should I care (aka escapism).

Kek, this

You forgot whining about fake natties and the high expectancies that people have toward a natty lifter.

(by the way, I did whine about that)

this pretty much

I feel kinda bad whenever I see edgelords like that because it reminds me of a person I was close to becoming. We grew up poor so my dad worked alot, and was usually in bad moods due to stress at home. I honestly think it's what played a major role in me being sorta "edgy" until college. Luckily old age calmed his temper and now we get along great so I guess it's never too late. A solid male role model is the answer in my experience.

And how did you beat it, besides lifting?

I gained self awareness. I grew up.

Follow up to this user, how come a lot of pro gamers aren't too out of shape? Seeing as though they spend all of their time in team practice sessions, how do they find the time to stay somewhat fit?

Because that's their "job", so they don't have to juggle a job, the game, fitness, social life, etc.

Do you completly disagree with the red pill? Some aspects make a lot of sense.

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>cargo shorts
every fucking time

>What causes people to be like pic related?
the crackdown on bullying in schools

>Some aspects make a lot of sense.
Yes, there are some points that should be taken seriously: not pedestalizing women, realizing that stereotypes are based on half-truth, the importance of constant self improvement, etc. These are lessons that can take anybody far in life.

But then again, any ideology, regardless of how controversial it is, has a few good aspects.

I was talking about my departure from the Red Pill culture in my earlier post. It's toxic, it's misleading a lot of young men, it's shit.

All they need is a vape

That's ok, at least all the women in your pic are cute.