FUCKING HELP ME

FUCKING HELP ME
I'M MEETING A GIRL I'VE TALKED WITH FOR THE LAST YEAR ONLINE
I HAVEN'T SEEN HER SINCE I WAS MORBIDLY OBESE BUT I'VE LOST 60 POUNDS
NOW WHAT? I'M STILL A BETA WHAT DO I DO I CANT TALK TO A GIRL FACE TO FACE
YOU GOT ME HERE NOW WHAT

SHE WANTS TO MEET AT STARBUCKS GOD WHAT DO I DO??? I CANT DO THIS

Did she know you were fat?
Most girls I've net online and then real life were easy fucks. I'm talking long term online friends like yours.
If they live far away even better. It means even if you fuck up it won't matter.

How long do you have before you meet?

When you get nervous just talk like Donald Trump.

Make clear, consise statements about anything that pops in your mind and just stick with it

She knows. I went to school with her, she left after the freshmen year. I started to lose weight after that. She lives on the other side of town though. She wants to meet in a few hours.

basicly, give her attention
make her feel better, females only want attention nothing else thats why the dress like sluts
without attention they are useless and get boring

not boring, bored

You're fucked. Was going to tell you to stop looking at porn but there's no time.

Forget sex. Just talk as friends.

Just talk bro, jeez

T-that actually makes sense... I'm not as charismatic as the donald though I can't even make eye contact with girls.

WHY DON'T MODS KILL THESE THREADS?????

>morbidly obese
>lose 60 pounds
>still morbidly obese

I'll try. I just lose it under pressure I suck.
My body mass index was 31 it is now 24.4. still overweight not obese

You can work on charisma later, but if you want to not get to urge tied just speak simply and clearly

>he thinks charisma is something you can "work on" or "train"
I knew there was a reason people speak of you as the worst trip on this board.

Talk to her like you would talk to a man. Honestly, that's all it is. You just need to practice. They're people, the same as you, they have fears, insecurities, and passions. Talk about what you love, ask questions about what they love.

Seem interested in what they say.

Pro tip: Make eye contact. The best thing is to look and focus on ONE of their eyes, then listen to every word they say. It's the easiest way to show you're "alpha" and to show your interest in them.

You should also use this when in an interview to, just a heads up.

I'm bad at eye contact, but I'll try. Thanks user. I really suck at this.

It is retard

Also don't forget to smile and laugh. Or else staring gets weird.

The best advice I've heard on here is: Treat talking to a girl like talking to a guy you want to fuck.

are you guys meeting up for the possibility of sexual relations or as friends?
protip: if you don't know the answer to this assume as friends.

be friendly, talk about her. in fact you've talked for the last year, so you should already know what kind of things to talk about or she would of dropped your ass a long time ago.
In which case be mostly yourself, just dial down the autism a bit so you don't spurge.
Think of some original conversation points ahead of time, if you already know what she is doing in her life don't ask her obvious questions, switch the questions to how she is doing with the things in her life.
Women for the most part want to talk about themselves, you just add in a supportive statement every once in a while.

I find being direct is always the best way to avoid spurge moments.

If the conversation stalls mention that China's ripping us off in trade and you'll have something to talk about

Good luck OP, stick your fingers in her under the table m8 then take her out for PIZZA

Holy fuck op.

You are tall as fuck.

2.03 m and weight just about 100 kg.

I have no idea what is going on. I really don't want to spurge out. I wont try anything romantic mostly because I'm such a beta.
T-thanks...
aw shit I fucked it up. Alright I went from

you've got nothing to worry about if you're good looking
if not, well.. try to relax, it's not a big deal
you know her well enough to just talk to her, right?
right
don't expect anything to happen, just go with it
ez

by the way, if you really have anxiety issues, try meditating from time to time

24.4 is technically a healthy weight. You may still want to lose a few more pounds.

>Girl you're talking to keeps calling you 'Babe'

Fuck sake man

Thanks user. I don't know how shes going to react, I have been lifting for a year and a half now and I think I have improved a lot. I do know her pretty well, but its always been over the internet I don't remember the last time I talked with a girl in real life. I do have anxiety but I took my meds and plan on lifting before to help. This really helps thanks.
It is on the verge of normal weight, and my body fat percentage is 23% but I've never actually seen myself look good. I've been "the fat kid" since I was 9 so I want to cut to get to abs then bulk. This board has really helped me get so far already.
kill me

so she doesn't know that you've been lifting?
whatever, i'm sure her reaction will be positive, don't sweat it
the problem is not how long have you not talked to a girl, but how does it make you feel
your anxiety isn't very likely to alleviate by mere power of will
you need to be aware of your feelings, and i mean on the very physical level, like anxiety makes your chest feel tight etc. It distracts you from freaking out
your thoughts may not be clear at the moment but try to focus on those sensations and they will diminish, then your mind will be clear again
i hope you realize that you need to stop taking pills asap, that is when you won't really need them anymore
cold showers help too
seriously, dont think too much of it