Get first GF

>Get first GF
>She is a 9/10 in my opinion
>Generally takes me about 5 minutes to fap to porn
>Takes me around 15 at least when she is giving me a hand job or if i'm having sex with her
>By that time her hand is tired or she already came
Someone explain this to me? I hear of guys cumming too early all the time but for some reason I take too much time.

I can still talk about health here right?

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>in my opinion

kek

No one can jerk it like you can, user. Bet you're not even lubing it up before she cranks it.

1. You're nervous
2. She's not very good

I would say 9/10 but some faggot would doubt me or want pics.

>Americans

>implying female saliva isn't the best lube

You either grip really tight when you jerk it or you're nervous.

you haven't tried male saliva then

> Veeky Forums

No homo

You forgot to say no homo

NoFap could prolly make you come really fast, but I'd just go with noporn. Sex is really the only benefit of it, no confidence bs

Am I the only one that thinks 15 minutes sex is really short? When I have sex it mostly takes more than an hour?

Depends, in my experience it's between 30-50 minutes, some girls got tired fast or sore

Are you retarded or necrophiliac? Either way it's not porn. It's like sprinting laps. You bust a nut, do you still have energy? Bust another quickie. Don't waste both yours and your partners time. If you weren't a virgin you'd know that women don't sTay wet that long

This, you're just nervous. I couldn't cum at all during sex with my gf for the first 6 months almost. I also had a hard time getting her to orgasm until almost a year. Much more enjoyable for us now, 3 years in.

Neither of us had a ton of experience.

On the other hand, my whore ex gf would cum buckets after just a few minutes, even when we just started dating.
>That should have been the warning sign...

>Women dont stay wet that long
I think thats a problem on your side. I honestly feel bad for you if you can't keep a girl wet that long.

forget?

>implying I don't have four cumsluts locked up in my basement that me and my friends pee on every ten minutes to keep them soaking wet
Pleb

You're fine dude.
I take around 20-40 minutes, sometimes even longer, depending what kind of mood I'm in. It's definitely a lot better than lasting 5 minutes.

I'm in the same boat, can get myself off to porn in like 3 mins, but takes way longer with a girl. Head takes at least 15 minutes.

LOL this guy can't keep his girls wet.

Like I give a fuck how long my Thai hooker wants to be fucked for.

>having to literally pee on a girl to get her wet.
Boy this is why i'm pro abortion

>2016
>having friends

pleb

I don't know man, minutes is kind of out there, but my first gf/partner was super excitable and orgasmic even though it was the first time either of us had done anything beyond making out. and like OP, I was also very slow. Often I would finish myself off, but it wasn't like I didn't have some of the most amazing orgasms I have yet had.
This would actually cause some tension every so often because she got frustrated with not being able to get me off.
Try to figure out what you like and how you react to different things. There was often to much build up for me, she would go too slow, we would spend to much time with foreplay, which we both liked, but it was only conducive to her getting off, not me. I would get super aroused and painfully hard and then go straight to being oversensitive and feeling the kind of tightness you get after a mind blowing orgasm, but without any of the release of an actual orgasm. I also learned that sounds really get me going, moaning and dirty talk, and having the girl take a more active role and not just reveling in her pleasure.

This and

lol idiot she's playing u

>This would actually cause some tension every so often because she got frustrated with not being able to get me off.
I had the same problem, especially in the blowjob department, they would fucking whine about me taking a long time or not being able to finish but then just be a fucking passive starfish.

the funny thing is women will just complain instead of improving herself like a baby would cry.

I remember my non-virgin gf asked me why I didn't ask for bj's and couldn't cum during bjs and I told her it just doesn't feel that great. She got all buttmad and my next question was "did you ever look up good technique" and her answer was of course "no", just like all my other gfs. Yet most men I know, including myself, have looked up proper ways to finger and eat out a woman. She never did look up proper technique either, thats the funny part of this story.

The people next door apartment fuck for hours and keep me up at night.

They are pretty good because even when i fap to them doing it i cant last as long. I cum, then fall asleep and wake up to them fucking again.

I was in the elevator last week with them randomly and i wanted to let them know how i could hear them and i think they are pretty good , but i never even say a word because my social anxiety is so bad

I hope they dont move out

>15 minutes
>too early
wtf nigga, enjoy that shit, and make sure she enjoys it too

that
>too early
was supposed to be
>too much time
but wth, im drunk so fuck it

I'm all over the place. It really depends on the mood and the sex. Sometimes everything is just perfect and we have sensual sex for who knows how long, but long enough. 15 min? 20 min? 10 min? Who knows. We're 7 months in and the sex has really reached new heights. Sometimes 5 minutes is perfect, if I'm slamming her doggy like there is absolutely no tomorrow. She comes, I come, it all works out.

so don't focus on the time. Focus on the sex. Let it naturally flow and you'll be able to cum exactly when the time is right

This shit is where I'm at.

I dicked this girl so good that she was begging for me to cum so she could fucking breathe.

I'm just on top stroking away to kingdom come and her eyes are rolling under me and shit.

Like Jesus do I make it feel THAT good?

no

It's basically just strange to me that I generally take twice as long as her to cum.
Also I feel kind of bad when she has to suck me off for 20 minutes, especially since I am rough during it.

Any of you that "fuck girls for 45 minutes" are exaggerating or virgins or (likely) both. Every girl I've slept with (9 at age 21) has complained when sex goes beyond 10-15 minutes. Usually because they lose wetness or because their pussy is sore.

Maybe it's because I'm well endowed (8x6)?

Make her cum again

How do you last so long?

im learning so much, i know i'll fuck up when THE DAY finally happens but im going to do my best.

go slow, really slow, make her beg for it, her being pleasure will-become/should-be be your pleasure
>ffs even a drunk fella has more game then you

Fuck her slow boi

>in my opinion
>handjob

underage b&

>Not liking an old fashioned

98 of 100 women will be worse at giving a handjob than a 12 year old boy who lost his right arm in an accident

Use that mouth tho. Good head>New PR

>Using your right arm to fap
Actually, am I the only one who has a "designated fap arm"?

>having a dick so small you only use your hand
laughing_grills.exe

I have never gotten good head. I only got it from 2 women but it never felt that enjoyable. Is there some hidden blowjob technique or something?
How do I tell a woman on how to give good head?

When you're doing yourself you have the technique nailed down to a science and you can respond directly to how it feels with the right movement to make it feel good.

Also in my experience if you masturbate frequently you will have a hard time cumming during sex, especially when you're just starting out. The longer you go without a release the easier it is to cum buckets.

Try and show her what you like by grasping her hand around yours and stroking your cock a bit. Also give her verbal direction when you want her to squeeze it tighter or stroke faster. Get her to tease you with her mouth/tongue on other parts of your body while she is stroking you to get you in the right mindset. (Nibbling on your ear or your nipple, or just biting your biceps.)

mine switched to left when the internet happened, but I'm trying to get to know ol' righty again. He feels like an old friend, but definitely doesn't know the kinky tricks Lefty does

This is why you dont circumcise your children...

Also, you just kinda tell them what feels good, and as long as they are into it and *actually* want to please you, and not just do it from some feeling of obligation, then it will be really good.

Me either bro.

The only time I really encourage my girlfriend to suck my dick is when she's fucking me in my ass with my butt plug. She gets really turned on.

haha here's the american with the mutilated jewdick

>Implying I let the jews mutilate me
What did I say to imply I have?

Of course a baby cannot consent. This is why it is important to let your kid make his own decision when he is old enough.

If she's good though like mine then it's heaven. It helps that she has small hands so it makes me feel even bigger. The first time she jerked me I busted everywhere and her parents took her out of my class because I was "a rapist"

I have this problem with my bf and sorry but even with research shit is hard because every man has his way of getting off. Saying that they are shit at it ain't gonna help your cause.

You better grab that hand and teach her the best way to do it

I always thought of trying to teach my GF on how to give a blowjob but then she would ask how I know how to give a blowjob.

>baby me instead of me finding a way to improve myself by researching like men do all the time!
feminisim 2016

It doesn't happen lad. Just be like "try this". If she actually cares about pleasuring you she'll be willing to try some shit

What?
Every penis is different.
My foreskin doesn't go all the way back so I prefer to the hand to go center to sliding up. Many men like center to sliding down or both pushing it up and down.

and some women dont like it when you suck their clit, doesnt stop men for using that excuse to not research shit

there's no excuse to be so indifferent of your performance in the bed that you dont look up things to try on your partner, ao stop trying to give them some.

Looking up stuff wont show you how your individual partner likes something.
What don't you understand about that?

It gives the person things to try. If you never try anything you'll never know if you like it

what dont you understand by looking up stuff you introduce concepts that you can try on your partner?

>a minority og women dont like clitoris sucking!
>better not look up anything that could lead me to clitoris stimulation!

seriously read what you're posting, stop defending women that do nothing to improve their technique, there's a HUGE difference in the quality of women in bed that actually look up shit and TRY and those who are just indifferent and dont try to improve.

Look at this webm and tell me a starfish in bed is as good as this, and that that woman didn't have to make an effort to get good.
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I've noticed it comes down to three things:
1. The connection between you two
2. How well you two communicate
3. Her technique and creativity, especially if she knows what feels good.
Bonus:Showing you a new trick you can have other girls do.

It's porn addiction user