Ex getting hotter by the day

>tfw having a threesome with my ex and another female friend tomorrow

oh god oh god oh god I can't wait I am dying

Brehs.

Recently my ex broke up with me. We dated for a couple months, but I knew her and liked her for like half a year.

My problem is, I can't get over her. She honestly has the personality of drywall, she is a narcissist who loves herself, she isn't particularly good in bed, she isn't really nice or considerate, and she told me once when she was drunk that she was basically a sloot.

But guys. She is so fucking hot. I mean, my version of a 10. Exactly my type. Literally perfect.

Every time I see a picture I cringe. I shouldn't miss her but god she's so fucking beautiful.

>depressed ex gf who always was sad and bitter (and I love her for that) starts tweeting pictures of her and Chad on the beach, going out and laughing

I don't get it, was my fault?

I wouldn't be able to handle the feels, unless it was an ex from like several years ago.
Why did you break up? Who broke up with who? depends.

>not using reddit to strengthen your will power by embracing no fap and going on porn subs

>Why did you break up? Who broke up with who? depends.
she broke up with me because she was convinced I was cheating on her. I wasn't.

She sounds paranoid and anxious and fucked up in the head.

You know she only posted those pictures so that you'd see them, right?

That bitch is all about mindgames. Fuck her. I wouldn't be able to deal with that shit for more than a couple weeks. Get yourself a woman who actually cares about you and doesn't think about themself all day.

>Have a chance to fuck a thicc girl

>She sounds paranoid and anxious and fucked up in the head.
all of that is true. And that's why I like her.

>You know she only posted those pictures so that you'd see them, right?

Don't think so. I think she already forgot me. I texted her last night, she didn't even try to have a conversation. She decided I'm a piece of shit and forgot me. And thinking that I'm that easy to forget is killing me.

The worst part is that I kow she was already dating that guy before we broke up, but I can't confront her because I'm a "cheating asshole" and I have no right to ask her.

>ex got fat
>you got bigger and leaner
>you look young for your age
>ex looks worn out and haggered
>she's younger than you to boot

You mean fat. Just call her what she is.

>I wouldn't be able to handle the feels,
There are no feels. We've stayed friends, and we still hook up sometimes.

I posted about this the other day, but, she wants to try being with another girl. I asked, and she said I could join if I found a girl willing to do it. I know this laid back slutty girl with huge tits, who I've been cool with for years, and she said yes.

I'm shaking with nervousness and joy. My huge assed ex with my huge chested friend, who I've always wanted to fuck.

I'm so nervous I shake violently when I think about it. I haven't jerked off in days, I feel like an animal, the whole reason I started lifting come to fruition tomorrow night. This is all I can think about.

I hope to report my success to Veeky Forums and not embarrass myself.

Forget about her user. She's a cunt. She only cares about herself. She cheated on you and then projected it on to you to rationalize it. If you somehow married her and made it, she would cheat on you or divorce you within two years. I know that type of girl. She's neurotic and it's unhealthy to date her, no matter how much you wanna put your cock inside her.

You must've broken up with her? I don't know how else you wouldn't be riding the feel express just thinking about that.

..........To be honest I am, and she broke up with me, but not thinking about it and pretending the feels don't exist makes it easier

I just want to enjoy the fruits of becoming swole and attractive and not even think about that feel for now especially.

Do any of you ever wonder if your exes ever feel the same way after you started getting fit?

You're a stronger man than I, user. My ex wants to stay friends but I've been ignoring her and haven't said a word to her. I can't imagine myself looking her in the eyes and talking to her and not wanting to embrace her and make her mine.

>not having an ex because you've never had a gf

Well, she still has sex with me.
That's just the only reason she keeps me around.

WE ALREADY GOT THIS FUCKING THREAD 3-4 DAYS AGO.

My ex is honestly the reason I started working out.

NOTHING and I mean nothing motivates me like a shitty breakup. Makes me want to trampoline into greatness and make her jelly.

A chick with 10/10 looks but with a 2/10 personality is a 2/10.

Sure you might be happy with it for a while but its going to get Super fucking annoying after a while. Trust me I've been there

There is no other board to talk about feels besides r9k and none of those people have ever had girlfriends or had girl problems so they would just make fun of us and call us normies.

Nah, THICC

Thank you, bro. I know, I'm trying to forget her. I wasn't so sure because thing s weren't clear, but after our last conversation, it's over. It's gonna be hard but I'm going to forget her and find somebody, I know.

But she was everything. I started lifting for her, I lost more than 40 kg for her. I got out of my bedroom for her. Before I met her, I could spend my life playing videogames on my computer, now I can't stand being alone for a weekend.

I know that feel user. It will get better each day until you no longer give two fucks about her. Just keep picking up heavy things and putting them back down. You will be back to your normal self in no time.

>one ex has had a baby, it's caused her to lose all her youthful spark and she's plummeted from a 9 to a 6
>walked past her in public recently, she mired with open mouthed awe
>i didn't even make eye contact

Feels GOOD.

>other ex is still pretty in her face but has packed on serious weight
>she used to be pursued by loads of guys for her good looks and big ass, now she's just another pretty face fat girl getting played by guys who don't want to get in a relationship with her
>she's single living at home and gaining weight at age 25

Also feels good.

Then just move on,she's gone and won't come back,staring at a broken table won't fix it.

And crying about it is for the pitiful pieces of shit that is r9k,you're better than that.

>You will be back to your normal self in no time.
hell, I hope not. I'll be better. She put me in the way, but I'm going to make it by myself.

>getting into a relationship without learning how to be happy on your own first
>being in a relationship without the knowledge that at any point you could walk away and still be relatively happy
>putting your emotional well-being in the hands of a fickle woman
>letting your hormones trick you into thinking you need her just because she's a nice piece of ass

2/10, grow up

Women can only ever supplement your life. You can't make one of them the focus of your existence to the extent that you're miserable without her.

If at any point in a relationship you feel like you need her, more than she needs you, it's already over, you've lost.

Not the guy you're replying to, but this post helps my bitch ass a lot. Thank you.

If wasn't for her I'd still be a 140kg virgin pc gamer on my parents basement. I'm (was) a fucking bitch, but it's over. And no matter how mean she was to me, I have to thank her for that.

that's shit man
the reason why nofap is good is because you stop consuming porn on a daily basis
fapping is not ruining your life
watching unrealistically perfect sex in ultra HD of your absolute 10/10 dream woman is
after seeing that shit everyday, getting your dick sucked by a slut in the back of your car doesn't feel so satisfying

So, she lost the 40 or whatever kilos, took you out of your parents basement, made you more sociable for you? No, it was you, she might have been the motivation, make the motivation yourself. Why focus on a girl when you can focus on yourself and get all the grills?

Take it easy, and keep doing what you are doing.

I understand you, and thanks a lot for telling me that. I know I did all that, but I had 30 years to make it and didn't until she got into my life. I can't be mad at her. I'll get over it soon, I know. It was going really slow because things weren't really clear, but after our last conversation I know this is over. I'll keep working on myself and improving my social skills. I know other girls will come, I'm doing pretty well on tinder, to my surprise.

Thank you, guys. This board has become my favourite place in the last months.

>7 billion+ people on Earth
>Obsessed with just 1 of them
Pathetic. you expect to make your Geene pool better with those piss poor emotional controll?

On average it takes 18 months to get over a breakup. Write down a list of reasons why it would not work to be with her the rest of your life. Whenever you romantizise the past look at this list

>18 months
only 4 months to go, surely she by that point she won't be the only thing that ever is on my mind, r-right?

kill me

Ruined the whole thread with your crybaby ass everyone was dissing there exes posting motivational shit till you came along

>18 months
Only if you're a pussy
Prioritise understanding the value of something in your life and its easy to no care about something that dosent matter

I'm like him, and you're exactly right.

Real talk man I've been there. Was supposed to be engaged this month to my gf of three years.

I made mistakes and lost her even tho she would fight with me over every single thing and I always was a patient loving bf.

She dumped me in January then convinced me to dump my new hotter gf for her in June then blocked contact after i did!

Women can be brutal and know that if it didn't work out and you weren't an apathetic fag and did your best to be with her even wen u weren't a couple she wasn't worth your breath

Found the Brit. Your women age like milk

wrong, majority of girls like the 6ft+ skinny slenderman look over fit/built apparently

I had my ex split up with her BF because she saw my progress pics and told me he can't please her like I can.

>tfw you want more than sex with her because she was your life but she just uses you for sex

not the same fella mate

>Women can be brutal and know that if it didn't work out and you weren't an apathetic fag and did your best to be with her even wen u weren't a couple she wasn't worth your breath
Oh, I did my best. But she went from being flattered and even excited about my atention to be indiferent and, like she said just last night, unconfortable. She changed her mind about me, maybe because of her unnecessary jealousy, maybe because that Chad got into her life, maybe becuase I wasn't enough for her. I don't know. But I can't be mad at her. I just want to have a date with somebody else without thinking about her the whole time. And I will, soon.

Has anyone ever had this issue:

>Get dumped
>Pursue girlfriend to win her back
>month or so passes And no luck so u see other people
>Ex returns with a fury now that u have stopped chasing her up and is furious that you have found happiness with another person
>ask her if she would be with u but she says no, then STILL proceeds to try to ruin your relationship so she can continue to have your attention instead of the girl that has earned it

Every single time. Women are cancer

You hang out around cancer.
You. Are. Cancer.
Fuck you. Ass. Cunt. Shit. Douche.

how long does it take to stop mistrusting women brehs

got out of an abusive relationship and started to get Veeky Forums, i'm only dyel now but i've noticed some more attention from women

hard to go with it when they used to sneer/laugh at you for being a fat fuck, messes with my confidence as well tbqhwuf

You sound like a pushover. Stand the fuck up for yourself and never speak to this bitch again

>ex dumps me
>find another hotter girl almost immediately
This has happened 4 times already, it's weird because I'm just a loser, I really wonder what the fuck women see in me

I'm not British. Women in general age like milk, friend. Anything over 23 is trash, desu.

where do you meet women user

School/work, I don't even have friends but for some reason most men and women see me as some kind of player Chad.

never. i get women so easily and so many normie fucks would love to have it like me but inside i want to kill myself cause girls are fucking untrustworthy fickle pieces of shit

and I'm losing faith every day that i will find a girl that is genuine, doesn't like me for just looks and actually has morals and integrity

forgot to add that cause i've had far too much to drink and about to text my ex that she's a cunt again

It's so hard to find girls once you're out of school.
Should I just download tinder brahs? Can I find a decent relationship on there?

I just want to settle down and marry some 7.5/10 cunt and pop out a few kids and have a dog and all that.

the girls see the other girls you've dated and assume there's something there

>go to m8s house
>he has a couple of girls over
>get talking to one of the girls
>she has no interest at all
>she is cute
>i am not
>my m8 lets slip that i dated a very good looking girl they went to school with
>all of a sudden the girl is interested in me

this is the worst feel

+ have to see her every day at uni

I can feel my test dropping as I get more depressed. bye gains.

Fuck that my ex is getting fat with her shit teir dyel new bf while im getting abs.

>be chubby me
>Date girl for 7 months
>she's super clingy
>finally break it off because I can't handle it
>she gets mad and tells everyone we know that I have a small dick
>get moderately ridiculed for this

>fast forward about 2 years
>I've been lifting this whole time
>no longer chubby - pretty big with a visible six pack
>sister is sort of friends with my ex
>she's gotten fat now and is dating some loser who can't afford to actually support her
>she's apparently been asking my sister about me
>sister just goes on to her about how successful I am
>shows her pictures of me

>I get a FB request from ex a few days later
>whatever, accept it
>ex is certainly a chunky monkey now
>hear from some mutual friends that apparently she brags to other people about having dated me
>shows them my pictures on FB and stuff with her phone

Honestly I thought that I'd feel happy seeing how low she's sunk but it's just more sad than anything.

Are you me?
Except that mine also
>got engaged to a 3/10 version of me
>turned vegan
>wants to adopt all homeless dogs of Spain
>bf was against more dogs when they had 2
>check facebook a month ago
>they have 4

Meanwhile I'm getting leaner and bigger, in a superb relationship with gf for almost 5 years, no rush to get engaged or married.

Life's good.

I'm 22, had a girlfriend for just over 2 years but she broke up with me, it's been about 8 months since we broke up and she is already engaged to a new guy and she still keeps contacting me randomly, seems like she wants to check up on me.

I feel like shit, I haven't met another girl and I've never had sex with anyone else apart from her, I miss having a girl to cuddle up to and fuck, i don't even want to get back with her at this point I just want to have a new girlfriend or something.

I've considered seeing a prostitute or something but it seems kind of pathetic and I don't want to do that.

decent tinder girls are out there but it's an absolute crap shoot. still better than sitting on your ass and browsing Veeky Forums all day