/SHG/ - Sexual Health General

Does anyone regret sleeping with girls with a condom?

Going bare feels so much better. It feels like I never had sex with her thinking about it. It's not even worth having sex with a condom.

Her Brown star.
Flick it,
wait for it swell up
and lick it.

>live with ex, havnt spoken to her in months
>last saturday
>invited to a huge party
>drink
>drink a lot
>get wasted, everyone drinking in the pool
>girl fondles my dick and balls with her feet
>she looks fat and kind of ugly
>turn her down
>next morning creep her on Facebook
>damn she's actually not fato and kind of cute
>mfw I completely fucking blew it

Feels bad man. I'm ruined.

top kek

dont be sad m8
be true to your judgement
women are fucking succubi looking like 10/10s on social media but IRL they actually look like shit

dont be fooled by her pictures, you made the right call when she was in front of you

I'm suddenly asexual. It started a few weeks ago. It was like someone suddenly threw a switch. I feel fine otherwise. I don't really want to masturbate, and when I try, it only feels okay. I suddenly am not attracted to anyone. I haven't watched porn in a very long time.

This is really weird for me, and I can't figure out what caused it. What the fuck do I do?

I haven't even masturbated since the 20th this month. 1 week into nofap and I just know when I finally do get laid again I'm gonna bust a nut in her in under 30 seconds. BUT IT WILL FEEL AMAZING. Plus getting it up after the disappointing first round won't take long because erections can be brought back after cumming a lot faster when you don't regularly milk your meat stick, and the second time you have spades of endurance just like with people who constantly milk themsleves with death grips, but guys doing no fap will still feel 10x better busting inside the girl even on second round compared to death grippers.

Enjoy being a productive, enlightened human who doesn't pay heed to pixelated or real vaginers and the pussy will start coming to you.

>the pussy will start coming to you
I have a lot of people interested in me right now, the thing is I want them all to fuck off forever, and that's strange.

She doesn't want you. If you were her dream then she wouldn't have cared about anything else. Look elsewhere.

Having trouble keepin it hard in a condom, any tips bros? It always seems to get to a half state, and then I find hard stimulate it w the goddamn rubber on

Don't fap 2 - 3 days before or try fapping with condom on to get used to the feeling

That happened to me once. Then I felt insecure that she'd think my half state was what I looked like fully erect.

on the verge of losing it, how to not seem like complete dumbass the first time around?

i actually regret going raw. keep thinking i have an std or stress about her getting preg. condom offers piece of mind

put her on top and let her put it in

do any of you cut guys have really dry/cracked skin on the head? i've been trying to use some moisturizer lately and have been laying off the fapping to try to get it to look smoother, but i wonder if it is hopeless.

Took the plunge lads, spent about $150 on a Fleshlight Stamina Training unit and one of those Fleshlight Liberators. I've blown cash on worse things before, here's hoping I made the right decision.

>I'm On a Mission

tfw I only get ~3 hours sleep whenever my gf stays over. We end up going to sleep at around 3 to 4 o'clock, end up waking around 6 or 7 in the morning. It would have been alright if I managed to get some kip later on, but she stayed until about 20:00, and I still have to go to the gym. If it wasn't for the fact I'm on an EC stack I'd be dead right now.

Getting dat dere cardio from smashing her 3 times times today tho.

Just do it brah, lost mine two days ago, gf was a virgin too, which probably made it easier. I couldn't cum with the condom on, so I ended up making her squirt by fingering her, then she blew me and jacked me off until I came.

>be twinky and have lots of random sex in college
>start lifting
>settle down with a girl for a couple years
>get fat, ty rippertoe
>we break up
>manage to lose 50lbs
>now nearly hybrid built/otter
>it's a year later and I still haven't had sex with anyone else

What's wrong, Veeky Forums? Where did my balls go?

>so I ended up making her squirt by fingering her

So who wants to tell him...?

^
You got peed on & she faked an orgasm.

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I'm just assuming she squirted because of the massive fucking mess she made before falling onto the bed shaking.

Whether or not women actually spray that shit everywhere if they're at a certain angle doesn't matter to me.

;^)

Trust me, she didn't fake it. She's incredibly vocal, and she's kinkier than I am.

Look into tantric stuff. Meditative, mindful sex can give you a lot of control over your orgasm

Alright. An Actual serious fucking answer because of all the dweebs, neets, skellies, fatties, and repressed homosexuality that can't get laid(I was that guy. Belive me. I know the pain)?

FUCKING. LIFT.

Understand that too much porn and too much jacking off robs you of your desire for the real thing. If you are jacking more than twice a week you are doing too much. That desire for the real thing, and being sexually aggressive and potent is what makes you attractive, what makes HER attractive, and makes sex better overall.

Do cardio for endurance. Seriously. Do HIIT thee time a week.

As for sex muscles, along with an OVERALL routine that you should ALREADY be doing, put some extra work in grip strength, curls, hip thrusts, and core work.

Work on your game. Flirt. Touch her. Tell her to do little things like put the straw in your drink. Tell her what to wear. Whatever. To have good game, you need to have a good mindset. From a solid mindset will only come good game that lasts. Without owning yourself, your wall will break down and the facade will eventually show. Have you shit together, essentially, and your wall wontbreak.

Make you more important than her.
What I mean is not completely ignore her and her needs - really they should cum first because then you will be repaid tenfold.
You wanna kiss her? FUCKING DO IT.
You wanna finger her? FUCKING JUST DO IT.
You wanna fuck her and throw her around like a ragdoll? DO THAT SHIT.
In conversation and life, you are first too. You hobbies are interesting. You tastes are interesting. what you have to say is interesting. Moreso than her.

Generally speaking, the rougher the better. Work you way up to having almost no regard for her well being, but don't rape a bitch.

Be able to walk away. You don't have to take her shit.

It is about you, after all. She is along for the ride.

Zinc piccolonate, Yohimbe, caffeine, ginseng, celery, pinnepple. CUM FO' DAYS.
But don't shoot for 3-4, MINIMUM.

Like 3-5% of women are capable of squirting, and it's pretty rare at that. Wet patches are common though, those are altogether different from squirting.

Well it was a very wet patch. I'm probably just using the term squirting interchangably. I have to put towels down every time.

You poor, ignorant bastard.

OHIAMLAFFIN

I couldnt cum during sex yesterday. Going no porn for a while for sure, im jerk off with no porn and in a condom to try and re train myself.

How do i jerk off with a vagina like grip?

They must think you're a sex god

This is my dream. My oneitis from first grade recently got married. I plan to be swole and juicy and then fuck her raw.

>One day you may

I have the opposite problem.
Had sex 4 times in my life and couldn't cum. Maybe I didn't enjoy it enough, maybe I jerked off too much, but god damn did it make me envy people like you. I just wanted that sweet release.

>Literally just mimic my favorite porn position for position
Ok so how do I mimic 25 tentacles and the power to mindbreak her?

If you had sex with a condom, it could be a major problem, especially if it's too tight.
We're all anons here so yeah, one problem of having a huge girth is that condoms literally take away all feeling. Gf hopping on pill next week, thank to the fucking Gods.

>tfw performance anxiety

What makes it worse is that once I start thinking about my dick going soft during sex, it stays soft

Im high test as fuck. Still have morning wood and I pop boners randomly. Hell even today I had a bumpy bus ride to work and it made my dick hard.

But during sex I can't stay hard. Fuck

Not fapping is the hardest thing mang, wtf do i do?
I can't go more than 2 days.

No condom man it was raw (Something I learned a lesson from very quickly). But condoms are tight as hell on me, I'm a chode master.
Still couldn't cum. More than likely due to too much fapping + being circumcised. And I can't say I enjoyed the sex so much, i remember being underwhelmed it wasn't what I thought. People tell me it's because of either being nervous or because I was too detached (they were all one time things and I had no care for the female).
Perhaps it is love that I am missing.

Have sex

Nigga I gotta go no fap to even get laid.

Well you seem to be aware of the issues at the least, so that's good. It doesn't have to be just one; could be all in part.
Idk, try dating for a bit longer (2-3 weeks at least) before having sex?
I've gotten a friend who's a model that just dates women for 2-3 months before having sex with them, and he prefers it that way.
Funny thing, this one girl he was dating had a breakdown because she kept trying to make advances at him, and eventually broke down crying about how ugly she is since he didn't want her.
My friend's kind of a dick.

Why? You can fap three times a day for an entire year, and then have sex the next day.
Going no fap has nothing to do with getting a woman into bed, no fap just affects how you perform in bed (for better or worse, depending on the person.)
If you're just trying to get laid who the fuck cares.

throw on your tentacruel cosplay outfit.

truth
can't wait for the incels to pop up and whine about how they lack the willpower to not jack off every day so therefore nofap is a meme

One time I tried to mimic porn positions and the gril was weirded out, noticeably so. Ruined the mood desu senpai

No mang he's right.
It kills your drive to even try to get laid, I'm saying for the sake of motivating myself I gotta not fap.

I guess, never really affected me.
I haven't seen my gf in a week and I've been fapping twice a day, and still want to fuck her hard as a bull.

Anybody reccommend any comndoms? I usually use durex sensi thin ones. The companies advertise the "thinnest ever" etc, made latex free, but I find the sensi thin the best. As opposed to no condom. My gf is getting an IUD. I usually just use the withdrawal method...

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Ah this guy will never find a girl who loves him because he doesn't truly love himself. Everything you said sounds delusional apart from your actual advice on fitness. Your philosophy on women, who are also human beings and capable of excelling beyond the potential of a man, creates a wall that will never allow you to experience vulnerability with a woman and will eventually lead to the downfall of your relationship with every girl.

If I do death grip and fap at least twice a day, will it help me last longer in bed?

I've slept with a decent amount of girls in the passed 6 years, but can never last more than 2 minutes while sober

Should you accuse them of pissing on your bed if they do this?

Squirt or wet patch? Either way no, on the odd occasion that she actually squirted, you don't want to make her feel as if that's "weird", it's rare, but not weird.
Wet patches are common as shit and your sweaty buttocks cause just as much moisture.

That is what we call a "shit test" in the PUA community. She is trying to see if you are actually an alpha male who would fuck her, or if you are a beta who listens to women's """""""feelings""""""" and stop.

that's just begging for a rape charge

>beta virgin detected

It's funny, Veeky Forums literally changed it topic from "Health and Fitness" to "Fitness" because of the sexual health threads. Really makes you think that the mods have abandoned us

She got white stains on the sheets and they wouldn't come out at the laundromat

please don't laugh.
I don't want to get an errection when my bf gets down with me and fucks me, so how do i stop those? I'm already on hormones and got 0 testosterone since... 4 years.

cheers man, it'll come in handy
I'm not going to rape my virgin girlfriend you fucking idiot

Try anti slut defense. Shit tests are in the initial verbal stages

what are you, 12?

This I fucked a girl when I was smashed woke up like omg shes fat bail bail bail. Checked out her fb pics yeah shes kinda hot. Fb pics lie!
> tfw you fucked another fatty

What is your favorite porn? Asking for a friend.

>tfw love womanlets
>tfw gf can't handle sex for more than 10 minutes before her vagoo is too sore
Doesn't matter how wet I get her or how much lube I put on

Smacking that cervix just don't feel good for either of us

>>tiem2fugg.png :--D
>>didn't even nut baka my niqqa

who would want to fuck a loser like you god damn kid

Get on trt

Actual advice:

Tell her you're a virgin. She WILL know anyway and telling her in advance changes her opinion from "ugh, this guy is clueless" to "cute, i can teach this guy how to fuck"

Tell her like... Once your dick is already out and you're fooling around, but before you do something obviously virginal (like struggle to find the hole, or spaff instantly

Nobody cares faggot snowflake

If a woman tells you to stop, you stop. Rape is not alpha. Being a sex offender will not make you attractive to women.

>every single time that I ever finished inside was/is in cowgirl position
I noticed that lately and it weirded me out.
It's just something about her controlling the rhythm and speed. I can go for a long time when I'm in charge, but the moment she starts riding, it's minutes from ending.
What makes it worse is that my current """gf""" (we're really into it just for the sex right now, nothing serious) is a cardio bunny and last time she countinued after I finished. Needless to say, it was painful... kind of.

*tips*

>tfw also virgin
Can anyone provide more tips/advice on your first time?

idk why but some days, seemingly random, I'm just obscenely horny; like I can cum 8 huge loads and still be at full-energy/erection. Others I'm just soft and uninterested, and if I do cum it's just some ehh splurt.
How can I make more of my days the former rather than the latter?

GUYS I HAVE A QUESTION

So I've never had a one night stand and I don't really know wtf I'm supposed to if I got the chance. So let's say I'm at da club and things go well with some bitch and we're making out and shit and she's like "come back to my place" and I'm like "ok". So when we get to her house are supposed to just fuck straight away or is there some kind of setup conversation expected? Let's say we fugg then (btw how long are we expected to have sex for? How many times?) - do I just leave straight away then or presume that I'm staying the night, or wait until she asks me to stay? Then the next morning: are we expected to fugg again? should I presume that I'm staying for breakfast? or am I suppose to leave straight away?

Have a felling yiz are gonna say "YOU'RE OVER THINKING IT. JUST GO WITH THE FLOW" but I still feel like there's basic etiquette that I don't know about that if I broke yiz would be like "WTF ARE YOU DOING".

Tiredness, I blow my load in 5 minutes when tired, but when i'm fully energised, i can ram pussies for hours

You're not having one night stand with that kind of autism

Ok how do I de-autism myself?

how long have you been together?
it should take at most a month to get her in bed.
even if shes a virgin.
otherwise she's maybe not ready for relationship kinda stuff and you should probably move on

you are now gay

Holy shit kys my man. Think to yourself, if some stupid normie can do it you can. Just do whatever feels right.

You don't need to worry about getting laid.

If you take her back to your place, she'll stay unless you kick her out or she's a huge slut.
If she takes her to yours then you have no obligation to stay.
You fuck her as many times as you both want to, usually twice unless you're both absolutely smashed. If she stays at your place she owes you at least a blow job in the morning, if you stay at hers you can try for a morning fuck but nothing is owed.
The caveat is that this is all in my experience, and not all women or men are the same.

>if she stays at your place she owes you at least a blow job in the morning

Guys, I realy like the sex with my gf.

The only problem is that I cum too early. Every fucking time. The first time at a day is short, the ones that follow are longer, but I'm too exhausted to fuck her as I did at the first time.

What do?

jump off a cliff and hang yourself. Everyone has this problem

Usually my one night stands invole being smashed hooking up with some bird. Finger blasting/making out with her in front of the indian taxi driver on the way backto hers. Fucking the shit out of her with my wiskey dick then passing the fuck out. Waking up thinking where the fuck am I, then getting told to stay the day. But making an excuse and getting the fuck outta there and never calling them again

Yo I can cum and keep on going without stopping, is this normal?

>whiskey dick
I know this feel too well