/sexual health general/

> be me last night
> have sex with girl
> 6/10, kinda chubby
> I Can't come

happend with my ex as well. what do?

1.Your dick is small
2.The girl's your sleeping with are too loose.
3.You masterbait too much.
4.You are not satisfying your deep and dark fetishes.

Same boat. Fucked a girl i work with last night. We were both wasted plus I masturbate twice a day so I couldn't come. This isn't a big deal right?

nofap you dumb fucks

Welcome to real life. Sex isn't like it is in porn. Sometimes you can't cum, sometimes you cum too fast, sometimes you can't get hard, sometimes you get tired and want to stop, sometimes you're not into it.

You won't see that in porn.

No, and I'm used to it. If I'm really drunk I'm not going to be finishing unless I go at it for a good hour and truth be told I'm usually just tired, satisfied enough that I'm in a woman's bed, and settle for a quick fuck and pass out.

the morning sex is better

Having the opposite problem, I cant fuck for longer than a couple minutes tops without coming. Its annoying as shit, I can be ready to go again in several minutes and I can do it multiple times but every fucking time I get a taste of those sweet walls it only takes ten good long strokes and then I'm done. What the fuck do I do family

Jack off more? Jack off literally an hour or two before you set out to go slay

this user is true about everything he says

Keep pounding her until she taps out, become known as a sex demon as no female can match you.

Duh.

Advice on going down on a girl? She loves it but I can't get her to cum.
And I've tried the alphabet method.

My dick is kinda big. It hasnt been a serious problem, but with my last two partners Ive been coming too early. Im not sure why, but I think since my dick is big, it gets stimulated a lot in tighter spaces. Also Im not sure if my masturbation habit helps, I usually edge for an extended period of time, which I think increases its sensitivity.

Im going to try just masturbating like an animal and see if I can deliberately desensitize my penis with a tight grip.

Does this sound reasonable? Or do I have no clue what I am talking about?

I'm still not convinced there's a lot of hard science behind the female "orgasm"

they don't have a concrete indicator like a guy blowing his load

Broke up with only girl Ive been with in January. These 6 months have truly beein proof of what you just said.

It is a shotty method that has been passed down by generations of teens who have never as muc as smelled a woman. Read "she comes first" or watch Nina Hartley cunnilinguus guide.

Have you never had a dry orgasm? "hard science behind the female orgasm" what the fuck are you on about?
Fuck I'm going to feel bad for the woman you lose your virginity to when you don't even think they can orgasm.

> Im going to try just masturbating like an animal and see if I can deliberately desensitize my penis with a tight grip.

No. Just no.
Do Kegel exercises and practice timed breathing - 4 seconds inspire, 4 sec hold, 4 expire.

Grower here (6.5 erect) with a small flacid penis

I want to go to a nude beach but I'm afraif my penor is too small flacid. Should i try pumping? Like with the bathmate?

I already know it doesn't give permanent gains and it doesn't make erections bigger, but i think i could keep a pump on my flacid penis to make it appear a little larger for a few hours after using the bathmate much like a pump from the gym making you look temporarily bigger.

>you wont see that in porn

But... but those are my fetishes....

I'm not a virgin, I'm just saying it's kind of retarded imo to say there's a 1:1 female analog for the male orgasm

they can have multiple "orgasms" and they're basically just sensual climaxes

every time I mention this I get called a virgin so I don't know where the insecurity is coming from, I'm not preoccuped with making a girl "cum" even if I'm trying to make it a mutually enjoyable experience and quite literally don't understand people who worry about how they didn't "make her orgasm". Tons fake it as well

I can only pass along the advice my ex gave me on pleasing her:

0 Start off by lightly kissing the whole area, including her thighs
1 Start focusing the kisses on her lips, just under the clit (the clit itself is really sensitive). The kisses should be really gentle, they should be like little rubs, rather than a suction over an area. None of the pussy should end p in your mouth when gently kissing
2 Jump from activity to activity to activity. Do something regular, and then, change to something else.
3 At some point start poking her with my fingers. Applying a small pressure around her asshole/clit is good. Just resting my finger somewhere is good too. Eventually you should probably put a finger or two in her pussy.
6 If you are going to make a strong move on her pussy, make it a down stroke.
4 Once shes really into it, become more regular, and just SLIGHTLY more aggressive. Too much will overstimualte her and bring her out of the mood, not enough will bore her.
5 Once she is approaching orgasm ABSOLUTELY DO NOT change what you are doing. Just try and stay as regular as possible.

Im guessing all girls are different so maybe this advice is worthless.

Why 'no'? What do you mean?

What do you mean 'do kegel exercises'? Can you elaborate?

Same

I even tried jacking off much more often and edging and everything everyone has recommended and yada yada yada

I just gave up and started using a male genital desensitizer with a condom which has worked wonders. But I'm still dissapointed that i can't raw dog without lasting less than a minute

>cant come
my problem is that I can cum but girls never want to fuck for more than 10-15 min. they come once or twice and then its like... 'ok i got mine, im done now' or it hurts

so i stopped feeling bad when i dont come. i actually didnt even know they had an ego issue with this until recently. lol. whatever.

that's the thing no one acknowledges, a lot of the time girls get tired of it after 10 mins

OP here. The girl from last night said making a guy come makes her feel great, I guess it works the same both ways. So it's probably best if both come,

I don't think you should od anything to make sex less enjoyable for you. try making her cum first, take breaks in between pounding, but don't rob yourself from the joy of sex