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>Not dating men

Ahh, that makes sense.
Sorry, didn't mean to call you a dyel.
MMA stuff looks fun but getting hurt does not.
I wouldn't roll the dice, I got hurt at work and if I wasn't getting workers comp I'd be fucked.

Idk what else to do, I wanna get over this heart break and move on. I keep myself in shape and I'm not ugly so I know I can get another girls it's just I loved her so much

I don't really know anything about bjj but if learning the techniques and other cool stuff keeps you preoccupied then I guess it's worth it.
Forget what I said earlier and go for it.

Why did your fiance dump you?

There are other fish in the sea. Literally. She's not even worth all the heartbreak you're going through. Why care about someone that didn't care about you enough to stay with you? You're wasting your energy with this shit.

On another note, I'll join you in BJJ classes i've always been interested but never touched a martial art in my life

>will this help soothe my mind and deal with anxiety
yap
i only joined bjj to get over a muscley gym dude
getting roughed up at bjj helped with the feels

I'm in the same position as you bro, just a few weeks ahead. It hurts less with time, but you probably know that already. Good luck with the BJJ, hope it works out for you.

p.s. gurls suk

Quite possibly, OP. Taking up wrestling was a major source of solace (and camaraderie) for me after a bad breakup several years ago.

>implying striking isn't frustrating for beginners
buddy let me tell you

Boxing help me so much that I am going to get my license in a year. One day like 6 months into training I was running outside and literally bumped into a fit girl by mistake, and now I've been eating her ass and getting my dick suxked on the regular for the past year. Its fucking great.

It might be the best decision you ever made.