Shows you how that whole be yourself meme is just that, a meme. It's good to have your own personality or style but be smart about it and be able to act based on the situation and who you're dealing with.
Carnegie says to always talk in terms of the other person's interests and it works. Some random slut you just met at a party isn't going to care about yours.
>Women can't into anything interesting but that's not what you need them for.
Sad you believe this. You'll wind up in a marriage you hate.
This. Most people you talk to have SOMETHING interesting about them. It might take a little work finding out what it is, but if you can actually be interested in what people are saying, they'll like you more and also be more interested in what you have to say.
You didn't fuck up because you and your story were to intellectual, you fucked up because you lack social skills.
I can garantuee you that girls will celebrate just about anything you tell them, when they are attracted to you. But attraction is temporary, especially at partys. Your not supposed to have deep, philosophical, intellectual discussions. Conversations are to show off. You had the chance to show off how intelligent and well-read you are, but you've turned it into a history lesson and because of that simply missed the point were you had to stop the story, take her to the garage and let her choke on that thicc dick of yours. If you would have managed that, the conversation with your friend 100% would have sounded like this
>I just blew anons big fat cock in the garage, his quads so thicc too and hes really intelligent. Such a perfect Chad
You simply failed. Try again next time. Just don't act stupid for skank-pussy.
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>not knowing that different groups have different social norms
>not using this knowledge to your advantage
I bet you talk about Naruto in public
You sound like you're still in high school.
Go to college and get a higher education.
Lots of smart women (excluding the sorority sluts). Some of the women professors you'll have will be smarter than you'll ever be.
What sucks is that a lot of these smart chicks still prefer Chads that are handsome, outgoing, etc.
It's not "change yourself", it's "speak to your audience". Don't speak to normies like your'e on Veeky Forums. Don't give history lectures at a party.
Yeah it's weird, girls usually love getting history lectures when they go out to party.
>this much of a pathetic beta he desperately has to fit in
Back to /r9k/ cuck.
Yes it is changing yourself. He wants to talk about history at partys - that's what he should do. Just the right amount. And while you're standing in the corner, wondering why qts dont want to suck off your pretending beta cock, Chad is raw dogging your oneitis talking about fucking quantum physics.