Tfw never gave orgasm to my gf with my penis

How long you been together? What position you normally do? All about rythym desu and if your clit isnt getting stimulatated enough try missionary and cowgirl. Doggy is a bad position for the girl usually

what and you don't?
man I feel sorry for whatever girls get with you.
Srsly. If she ain't inspiring some bomb-ass poetry out of you, then she ain't bomb-ass, or you're untalented.

Melt her heart, then she melts in your arms.
And then there's nothing stopping her from having an orgasm just by touching and kissing.

I've only had 2 gfs that would cum from sex. Everyone else has needed clit stimulation.

Over a year. We do multiple positions each time, we don't use condoms, and I try to get him to stimulate my clitoris but he isn't the best at it. I've tried to talk to him about this but I'm not the best at bringing it up and I'll usually end up getting frustrated, which makes him feel worse. RIP, I just want to know what a orgasm via penis feels like.

Tbh senpai just buy that little beam that vibrates and hold it at your clit while he pounds you

As he's fucking you missionary he kissing you neck, playing with your tits or one, and maybe a little dirty talk into your ear might help. He needs to be spinning many plates at once.

What? I've never used a sex toy before so I'm not sure what you're referring to. Can it be bought on Amazon or do I have to go on some sleazy website?

I've told him to try dirty talk but he says he doesn't get what that means and never tries. I don't even think he's looked into it at all. He's a little bit autistic so I don't know if he'd be able to pull it off but I at least would like him to try. Also, I'm a chestlet so there's not much titty to grab.

Not the user, but its kind like a ring that he puts on his dick. One of my friends talked about that.
So during fuckin, the clit gets stimulated

you know a lot of girls can't cum vaginally, seriously, google it.
Of course it may just be his own failing, but i don't think its his size since 6.5 is relatively speaking quite large.

Research has shown us that up to 80 percent of women cannot reach orgasm through intercourse (or do so only occasionally).

And I'm no dicklet btw. 7.5 inches. Learn how to eat them out or use your fingers

Wait, the ring is for girl's pleasure?!?!

Doesn't matter if your tits are small he needs to focus around and on the nipple.

Yeah dirty talk is fucking weird at first but it works. Simply saying shit like 'your pussy feels good" gets my gf off.

Also, I feel like I'm talking to a dude that's pretending to be a girl. Haha either way hope this helps somebody

Dang. Is there any way to make it so that your bodyis able to cum vaginally? I'm just so curious, I've never had it happen before and I want to experience it at least once. Sometimes I feel like I'm getting close to some sort of bodily reaction, as it feels like a build up, but he usually pulls out at that point or moves a little or does something to break the build up. I guess we just have to keep trying and implementing other things, like this contraption

I have tried to tell him to maybe just compliment my body or something if he can't commit to dirty talk, and he tries to but doesn't do it as often as I'd like during sex. I feel like a huge part of cumming as a girl is the mental aspect. Also apparently not every woman can cum through vaginal sex, which I did not know. RIP.

Thanks for the help user.

i don't really know, i advent really studied it or anything, that said, masturbation with and without toys and dildos along with sex in different ways with your bf trying different positions angles etc.... will probably help you find it, if you can get it.

This thing senpai

It takes practice. Keep trying Haha. And yeah much of it is mental. Try different stuff. If you feel like it's working let him know and don't change positions or rhythm

>I feel like a huge part of cumming as a girl is the mental aspect
Another user here,It is.

IMO, if you are getting buildup during sex you can probably cum vaginally, you just need more experience and more practice.

> as it feels like a build up, but he usually pulls out at that point or moves a little or does something to break the build up

Does he know he is doing this? its a good chance that if he carried on you would get your climax.

6 incher here
I make my fuck buddy cum basically as much as I want, but it's usually only in missionary. You can either put a pillow under her butt to give you extra penetration or do my favorite and put your arms under her back. This puts you completely in control and right up against her. Usually in this position I make sure to kiss her face/neck/ears, whatever, bite her or get right up in her ear and whisper some dirty shit like "this is my pussy now" or "you like that dick you fucking slut?" Finally a consistent stroke is essential. Only problem is my sheets are soaked after we finish up.

just an fyi, being relaxed is an important part of orgasm, its something that will happen when you aren't stressed.

Alpha as fuck

Fucking girls, man. "You have to do this and this and this and don't mess up this while I lie there and do nothing OR ELSE I GET FRUSTRATED".

How about you tell him "don't stop, this feels great" so he doesn't pull out or swap positions?
How about you learn to focus on the build up and get a vaginal orgasm by using a dildo?
How about you do some proper dirty talk?
How about you stimulate your clit?
How about, if you identify it's a mental matter, you train yourself instead of trying to pass it off on him?

>"this is my pussy now" or "you like that dick you fucking slut?
fucking normies man, and they call us weird

Women = Standards
Men = Performance

When the man is good enough, women won't complain.
Don't give into shit tests. TRANSCEND THEM.
No more doubt = Trust and fun

>he cant commit to dirty talk

What is up with women and "dirty talk"? What is that even supposed to mean? Is the guy supposed to degrade/insult you? Or is it just basically compliments, just said more aggresively and with cursewords?

Just generally shrek her
> Yeah you mirin my quads!
> I bet you couldn't even do 2 plate ATG
> Fucking legpress whore you are!

IMO, its like porn dirty talk, cheesy shit mostly, before doing it you should probably ask what type is desired., for example
-Your pussy feels great
-I need your mouth
-Youre so wet
etc.......

>dildo
I'm not a degenerate with a loose pussy.

This is why I don't post on Veeky Forums and just lurk, you /r9k/ tier MGTOW fags are extremely beta and take it out on any woman you come across. Sorry for asking for advice, you autistic fuck. I'll just deal with being sexually unsatisfied from now on. Bye anons. Thanks for the advice, those who did help.

I once told my gf I'm gonna murder her and eat her face after I finish pounding her pussy. She came easily that night, and all her girl friends now think I'm a freak.

pussies are elastic, they expand and contract, using a dildo won't make your pussy loose.

also, wtf are you taking about?

>8x6
>cant even use it right and get anxiety

I have a 7.5 and my gf still has only orgasmed from oral, and to do that I have to use my tongue for like 20 min, its really hard to do.

Girls like that sort of shit.
Easiest way to make a girl cum is just to choke her, yet to meet a girl who this didn't work with.
Once told a girl I was going to cream pie her and beat her, this worked also.
Slapping, pinching, biting.
Average girl just likes being treated like a sissy.

serious question, do you have problems with your girth? can you go balls deep?
Im asking because 6 inch girth just seems ridiculously large and 8 inch dick are 1 in 5000, so I'm just wondering how chicks handle it.

Some /r9k/ fag is trying to imply I lay therw and don't do anything, and haven't given verbal feedback or taken thjngs into my own hands. I wouldn't be pathetically asking for advice on this embarrassing topic if I wasn't consistently telling my boyfriend what feels good, trying to ride him using different rhythm, trying to stimulate my own clit, etc. This is a serious problem that I've tried to solve on my own, to no avail. But you autistic fucks like to take out your KHV feels on women online.

is it a certain type of girl or all girls into it?

you need some thicker skin, I'm pretty sure he is the only user on this whole thread that has said anything negative, don't take it personally, were all anonymous nothing any of us say should hurt.

Anyway, If you really want advice and don't want negativity try reddit. (seriously, they have rules there)

Also, like i said, try dildos they won't permanently change you.

finger her.
more fingers.
whole hand.
fist her.
deep as she likes.

that is all

I'm that user, to me dirty talk is like what this user said Telling me I'm wet, my pussy feels good, telling me I'm a great fuck, complimenting my body, showing extreme interest, talking about me taking his large cock, idfk--cheesy shit. In the moment I'm sure it sounds awesome-- like I said though, we haven't successfully tried it so I am not sure.

basically you like it when he verbally displays his desire for you.

This is just an embarrassing topic for me, user. I don't want any negative feedback about it. Reddit would just tell me to bring in a black bull and start being a cuck or some shit, not going there.

>adie is never coming back to this shithole

i miss him ;-;

Pretty much. Typical of a woman I guess.

user, I'm sure it is embarrassing and you every right to feel that way, hover logically, we have no idea who you are, you have no idea who we are and we both know 99% of what is said on Veeky Forums is bullshit.

>Reddit would just tell me to bring in a black bull and start being a cuck

kek.

Inexperience and anxiety and no I cant
I cant do shit

Foreplay until she's begging for your to out it inside of her.

Then when you are fucking her. Take your thumb and gently rub her clit while you fuck her.

desu, everyone wants to feel desired and like someone said, large art of sex is emotional/mental.

why does he find it hard to commit to dirty talk? is he nervous or something?

I've got 8 inches and sometimes chicks don't cum just from that. Do a warm up with fingers, mouth etc. Do it for longer than you think you should. Even better make her orgasm once with your mouth before going in. Then if she does with your dick great if not, no sweat. I've been with a few girls who need it from certain positions because they can only have gspot orgasms and not clitoral or vice versa. Just experiment and don't be afraid to bring in some toys or whatever. Little silver egg vibrator is great. She'll cum with that on her clit and you inside in not time. Keep your head up and worry more about stamina and technique.

I think he doesn't want to mess it up or maybe go to far with it? He says he doesn't even really get what dirty talk is though-- whenever I ask. He's awkward, so yeah I'm sure he's nervous too.

Can't you just finger them or learn how to eat pussy?

An orgasm is an orgasm, so as long as the girl cums its all good, right?

I think he has a hard time letting himself go and be immersed in the experience, if he has watched porn, he knows what dirty talk is, he simply isn't comfortable (for whatever reason).

Of course he docent want to mess anything up for you, but that also is a form of stress, likewise he may be insecure about some other aspect, perhaps try working on him being comfortable during sex rather than focusing on something specific (which he cannot yet provide) which may make him even less likely to immerse himself in you.

We razz each other about dong size manlet, small calves, literally everything. Learn to handle some bantz and take it as a compliment that we treat you how we treat each other, or there's the entire rest of the internet if you don't Handle bantz.

elaboration onBasically,
-he is nervous of not being able to please you
-Performance anxiety
-Insecure of something or things.
-Lack of confidence
-dosent trust himself enough/not secure enough to lose himself and so finds it difficult to verbally express himself.
-He might simply not like doing it.

These are just shots in the dark

What if I dont have a large cock, Im not "extremely interested" and shes not wet?

Go back to /adv/ you pathetic cunt.

Clitoral
Stimulation

Nothing else matters with the majority of girls, no matter the size of the cock.
It's clitoris what makes them cum, even gpot stimulation means absolutely nothing without clit rubbing.
Your gf is probably one of the lucky minority who's clitoris is so positioned that penetration alone is enough to stimulate it to the point of orgasm.

A vagina should be wet to comfortably have sex. Also, why would you have sex with a girl you aren't extremely interested in? Are you part of the degenerate one-night-stand culture?

another user, but maybe you don't have a large cock and maybe she isn't 10/10 model, thats not the point, the point is building up each other egos, complimenting each other and trying to please one another.

It may not be true, but its part of building intimacy/setting and part of foreplay.

basically she may not be wet, but she may get wet from what you're saying.

And if you don't like being called large, then maybe she can talk about how hard you are for her etc..... it is not set in stone and you don't have to lie or anything, you could even talk about her hair, her eyes etc....

You can and its not hard at all to learn . It will ease your mind and sometimes you will start making them cum just banging them . 4 3/4 inch dicklet reporting in. Even if shes faking it from the cock I know I can her cum eating her out and fingering her . Going in knuckles deep up against the spot while licking the clit will gte it done brah .

Ask most Anons and i'm sure the average consensus is girls like rough sex.
Not every day, you don't have to make every single day the best sex of her life.
Oral, foreplay, intimacy, cuddling all of this is important for the total experience with your partner and this is the shit that will make her actually love and depend on you.

However every girl also just wants a night where her man treats her like a filthy slut.
I mean seriously borderline degrading shit.
You gotta know your girl and her limits, but example the last girl I was I guess "dating" for more than a few weeks. One day she was riding and I slapped her ass, and when she said harder I jokingly popped her on her cheek. It wasn't soft, but it wasn't abusive either.
She started clawing my chest and just said harder, so I open palmed the side of her face pretty hard, enough to leave a little bruise the next day. I started gripping her thighs after and pounding the shit out of her, flipped her over and nailed her from behind and told her I was going to cum in her (it wasn't a question, but she was also on birth control so not really important. It was psychological).
Next morning she rolled over doing morning cuddling shit and said that was the only time she actually felt like a woman during sex in her life.
Me borderline being abusive made her feel like a woman, pretty much one step away from beating her, raping her, and making her have my kid.
It didn't matter if she came or not, that quote alone was more important.

Anyways, that's why all the different aspects of sex are important. You need to be her Chad both emotionally and physically.
Opposed to real life Chad who is generally just physical.

So if you're the master of oral and that's your thing, don't feel bad man own that shit. Just try to work on the other portions also.
There is zero reason to be embarrassed you're an adult couple.
Tell her you'd like to try something kinky, ask her about her fantasies. Make an effort.

thanks man, especially for all the detail.

Help her help you make her achieve that next big O.
Also, just be aware some women are just plain hard to make cum. All humans are wired different.
Just like one guy gets hard from jerking off a bit before sex, but can't get hard by oral.
The next can only get hard by oral and gets nothing have his shit tugged.

I've gotten pretty lucky and had girls either always achieve some form of O or because i'm pretty kinky the psychology behind it made them achieve their O themselves.
I also have never fretted, because I love giving oral. The one chick I had the hardest time with using my dick, got off super easy from oral.
I'd eat her out, making her more sensual and sensitive to the fucking afterwords.

emotionally, how can one be chad? outside of sex i mean.

Where is the cardio discussion?

Amused mastery.

Am I the only one who doesn't care if ithe girl gets off ? I like to fuck to feel good, don't really care about the girl

>mfw I have no problem making girls cum on my dick

Sex is cardio.

Some girls are just retarded.

A girl should tell you how to make her cum, it should not be you that has to figure it out,
It's her body and her feelings, only she can know what gets her over the edge and what doesn't.

And then there are girls that legit cannot cum becuase they are mentally retarded. They have zero body awareness.

Imagine a girl was giving you a handjob, and you would just totally relax and keep absolutely no tension in your body.
I dont know about you, but i CANNOT cum this way because i HAVE to build up body tension and control how the strokes feel that way. If i dont do that, then i would never cum, no matter how much effort she puts into it.
Exact same thing applies to girls. If she cant control her body because she has never done sports in her life, then you cannot make her cum reliably.

>tfw it's difficult for me to dirty talk because it sounds so hilariously cringe in my head that I have to actively try not to laugh and when I accidentally do she gets mad

I can't help it man. That shit's funny.

>tfw 6x5.4

I-Is this a good size?

Being a white knight without being a white knight.

Emotionally women can be pretty frail, not that there aren't strong women out there, but for the most part it's their nature. Estrogen, mood swings, etc just make them less able to focus and less stable.

There is a fine line between friend zone and boyfriend. Usually friend zone are the emotional chads that the women have no physical attraction to.
I'm the opposite, I have a lot of women physically attracted to me, but I have little empathy or patience. So I don't do well with long term relationships.

Anyways, keeping with the sex theme how to be more in your woman's head.
To be that emotional Chad.

You know when you eat a girl out the typical response if the more she enjoys it the more likely she is to squeeze your head with her thighs?
Respond to this with physical stimuli that has just as much psychological merit.
When she starts squeezing your head grip her thighs or buttocks, grip them hard. This puts the idea that you're still in control in her mind, she can not only feel you eating her out, but your hands are still there holding her down.
As she gets close to climax, I usually grab a girls hands and hold them, pulling them down to me (so she can't really move them) once again the idea here is you are in control, she can't move her hands and you're the dominate here.
This is part of being the emotional Chad in bed.
When I'm ontop of a girl and she is about to cum I grip her legs and hold them to my body so they don't flail.
Little physical things like that can help put into her brain you are the strong man she needs in her life.

Outside of the bedroom, you just need to be confident and have your shit together.
A friend of mine just broke up with her boyfriend, he is a guitarist (and a pretty cool dude in general). She told me he had bouts of depression where the entire world seemed overwhelming.
Women don't like that shit, the edgy sensitive rocker works well for little girls. cont-

>This puts the idea that you're still in control in her mind, she can not only feel you eating her out, but your hands are still there holding her down.
this makes a lot of sense.

cont-
When you have to work 40+ hours a week, you don't want to come home and deal with your woman's issues right?
Well a woman doesn't want to deal with your bullshit either.
It's sexist, it's unfair, I fucking know and I get it.
However you're the man and unless you get into some cuck new age relationship. You need to be the strong one at all times.
The only time I personally believe it's ok to be sensitive is when.
>you're being intimate with your girl
Pillow talk, talking about feelings, shit like that is ok during this moment. This is the time to be sensitive and vent, she wants to feel that emotional connection.
or
>if you are playing with a pet, or young family member (cousin, niece/nephew, maybe your child)
No one is going to frown at you for acting sweet and girly with a niece, especially young niece.
Women think that shit is cute and it shows you're a good emotional Chad mate.
Any other time, you're the fucking man and you better never cry, have a mental breakdown, or anything that would cause you to seem unreliable.

A lot of late night phone calls, a lot of making her feel better when she is upset.
It's fucking torture.

last funny trip

unrelated question, where do you take girls for dates?

This is probably not relevant to you.
I live in the middle of nowhere.
I have lakes, hiking trails, and a trip to a mall or movie theater is an actual treat for women here.
(the nearest town that has anything is like 40 minutes away).

Usually just go fishing, get a little high, start a fire and talk.
If she's not into that sort of thing, I try to plan rock concerts and whatnot, but I rarely have the time.

This guy fucking gets it. Props, m8.

yeah you're right, its different for me.

how do you deal with shit tests? how do you know a shit test happening?

Yes

damn dude
speaking words of truth

Girls cumming from penetration is a meme. It's a combination of clitoral stimulation and foreplay turning the girl on that results in orgasm. I couldn't make my gf cum purely from fucking for the first year, but then she realized she could orgasm like that in a different position

>this is my pussy now

Lmfaooo

This seems impossible to keep up in the long term desu.
Guess every long term marriage will eventually end up filled with anger and misery.

No wonder the path to enlightenment has a disclaimer to avoid relationshit desu.

expecting that every woman responds to sex the same fucking way is a meme.

woman cumming from penetration is not, and penetration itself involves a lot of techniques, deep and shallow insertion, angled and so on.

step up your game

>He's never made a girl cum just from pure fucking

Yeah mate, it's just a meme :'-)

exact same problem bro

shit sounds good in my head but soon as it leaves my mouth I think it sounds ultra gay and I start laughing.

I was just very honest with my gf and she knows I mean what i say even if i start laughing like a retard

kek I wish I had your problems normalshit