/SEXUAL HEALTH GENERAL/

She has breasts, they're just on the small side. B cup if I had to guess. Normally I love fat titties but she's tiny and cute so they fit.

It wasn't out of the blue, I'd told her my gf and I had broke up over sex issues and that's when she mentioned it.

death grip to the rescue

Why can't I display my attraction to a girl without feeling like a creepy rapist?

I have the same problem....
gf is ok with it. It was super awkward at first but now it's fine.
But I still wish i could cum in her or she could jerk/blow me off.
Still hard to cum sometimes.
Helps i dont cum for a few days but she still can't make me cum.

Ive always thought it was just porn brain but it might be years of death grip.

>mfw can only last 10 pumps max

Because you look like a creepy rapist

Dude just bang a hooker you're talking like a faggot. "she's cute as a button" nigga ur gay

at least you finish

It's called being human...
Don't think twice about
Just be cool with her and you might get you change to hook up with her. Don't force it but you'll probably have to make the fisrt move. Just start small and feel it out.

Good luck.

The first time I had sex I lasted a few hours.

Since then I've fucked about 4 times but seem to be way more sensitive and finish earlier. What's the deal? Is it just a mental issue after the first time it happened?

I suggest you brahs defile your girls in bed. Since she's a woman she'll probably cheat on you, but at least you'll be able to cope a little easier knowing you choked her out, ravaged her asshole, and nutted on her face

Mental for sure.
Similar happens to me.
easyier to cum the more you have sex and them more you get comfortable with the same girl.

I've actually been in both worlds. Would rather fuck a girl silly for my own self esteem.

I have the same problem OP. Only solution that I have found for myself is to take advantage of the gains a learned to be abottom bottom. If your dick isn't to big all you need to do is elevate her hips enough so that you can hip drive as hard and fast as you can and pulverize that pussy with the strength of Thor.

Bonus point: grab the chick by the hips and literally two hand her like she is a cock sleave and slam her down every me time you slam into her, lift and repeat. If you do it right she'll be screaming her head off, so take advantage of her barely hanging onto consciousness and stare at her tits while they bounce at a blinding speed. Normally does the trick for me.

God speed.

Because you feel guilty for wanting to fuck. Feeling creepy...makes you creepy

brehs... i cant handle this nofap business, gettin some serious urges, but i have so much more free time now

nofap is bullshit
just fap

No porn is what it should be. Fap every 4 days or whatever.

Pull-ups or push-ups every time you want to bring up porn.

Walk around horny as fuck. It is fun.

it is supposed to be noporn, maybe get a fwb?

You were her older brother, now be her daddy.

halp guys, same problem as OP

i am with gf now but i can't come from oral
its getting better cuz shes a virgin and shes getting better at it
shes on birth control now and well be having sex soon, we tried once but i couldn't really get hard enough (too nervous, not completely off death grip)
ive gone completely cold turkey off of porn and jerking it for a while, shes coming back from vacation in a week and we gonna fuck soon
now this is what i wanna know
is it easier to come from sex than from oral? she's pretty mediocre so idk but im afraid i won't stay hard long enough or be able to come

fuck guys help, have any of you rehabilitated your death grip? wish i was sensetive ;_; how long does it take once you get off porn and death grip to be normal again?

Stop fapping completely until you see her. Preferably you'd have a little more than a week but it might be long enough. You should re-sensitive somewhat. Hopefully that helps.

Going off porn is a good choice too.

Anyway, today is my 136th day of semen retention and let me tell you right now that it certainly does have its benefits. To be more precise, it is what the hindus call "brahmacharya" which I am practicing and not just semen retention. Merely abstaining from ejaculation will not get you very far. I tried that several times and while my health and confidence did improve, the benefits were nothing compared to the benefits of real celibacy.

>thedaobums.com/topic/26533-great-spiritual-physical-mental-benefits-from-semen-retention-celibacy-and-mental-emptiness-my-experience-and-thoughts/

Is using your muscles to hold your cum back while jerking off bad for your dick? I don't edge but go all the way then use my pee-retention muscles to hold back from cumming. A little comes out but then I'm ready to go again. I cum the second time.

Does this kill the dick?

user, you're not making this easy...

yes you will die

workin on it

i take a cold shower whenever it starts getting really tough

(checked)
thanks for the reassurance and tips

We all will someday. I just don't want my dick dying before I do.

Stop masturbating for 1 month. Bet you can't even do that tho you should probably kill yourself.

>I feel like it's normal to find a 17 year old attractive,
What a fucking faggot.

eh? what is this nonsense?

how2 get super hard upward curved boners?

fuark

Aight lads, I've overcome premature ejaculation. What you need to do is to first and foremost stop trying to cum as fast as you can when fapping. Try to take your time and prolong the session, edge alot. Also, find a girl on tinder that you can fuck when you want and try to take deep breaths when fucking. Just stop thinking about how much you wanna go balls deep. Empty your mind, big breaths. We're all gonna make it.

I have a fruit allergy.

Will I ever have sweet tasting cum?

How the fuck are you allergic to all fruit?

Yeah. How the fuck do you not die of scurvy?

I have sensitivity to basically every pollen and weed under the sun, so it probably has a connection to it. It's a mild allergy to raw fruit (the back of my mouth gets irritated like a motherfucker). I can eat apple pie, but I can't eat a sliced apple, so denaturing the protein is probably what does it for me.

I can drink most juice since god knows what they actually do to it, but it's so friggin high in sugar I don't think it's worth changing my dietary habits for the sake of sexy time. Are there any alternatives? Is it caused by the citric acid or something else?

I get vitamin C from other sources, like broccoli and spinach.

So just drink low sugar pinapple juice when you're about to have your cum sampled.

I guess this is the best place to post this.

I've met a girl at a club, danced with her, had fun, invited her over, she refused, but gave a number.

Where do I go from here? Coffee date?

How do I last longer in bed?

I've been having sex for for 6 years and jerking off daily to porn for many years before that and I still nut in under a minute.

It's gotten to a point where I won't hook up with girls unless I'm absolutely plastered or on drugs.

Is there like a pill or operation for me?

Kill yourself

Coffee?? Just be original, talk a little and go see what she likes, than invite her to do something like that and that you might enjoy it too.

My advice would be to some open air activicy só at least you can get some leg gainz while hitting on her

>Sadly I abused from deathgrip in my early years and now Im suffering of not being able to cum with a woman (or taking too damn long and sometimes I get exhausted before that happens)
Me too m8 me too...

Can't make my girlfriend orgasm.

She claims she's never had an orgasm in her life. But, I'm sure I can do my part and make her achieve an orgasm. I'm new to this, so I could use some advice, Veeky Forums.

I'm 5'11, and have an 8 inch dick, so size isn't a problem.

Have you tried rubbing her clit during sex? Some girls can't come from penetration alone no matter what they're putting in there.

Second

I'll definitely try this.

Anything else I should try?

RIP

Use your glutes to squeeze when you're about to come. It'll prevent you from ejaculating and you can go again. Practice this while fapping. I find that its easier to do in certain positions compared to others, like standing as opposed to lying down.

Watch some porn where the guy/girl makes the girl come and/or ejaculate. Fingering in a specific way seems to make a lotta girl come.

This is in addition to playing with her clit, as mentioned above. There's different ways of doing that as well. Watch lesbian porn cause they tend to more into making each other come rather than just putting on a show for the cam, like most mainstream straight porn.

Bitch I beat my meat

>Watch some porn where the guy/girl makes the girl come and/or ejaculate. Fingering in a specific way seems to make a lotta girl come.
>This is in addition to playing with her clit, as mentioned above. There's different ways of doing that as well. Watch lesbian porn cause they tend to more into making each other come rather than just putting on a show for the cam, like most mainstream straight porn.

Female ejaculation is fake and lesbian porn is almost always bullshit created SPECIFICALLY to put on a show for the cam and dumbass audience.

And how in the shit is watching lesbian porn going to make him better at fucking his old lady?

>Female ejaculation is fake
The fountain-like showers may be, but a lotta women release quite a bit of fluid when they orgasm, usually from fingering.

It'll show him what techniques he can try on her. Why is this so difficult to understand?

how do you rub her clit while fucking? it's very uncomfortable and messes with the rhythm

It's fucking porn, not sex.
The fact that that either performer has an actual orgasm on camera ever is more a kin to a complete accident rather then an actual thing.

And releasing a bit of wetness =/= PISSING on everything.

This

practice, also i sometimes tend to count in my head just to keep the rhythm alive. works best if shes riding you cowgirl. or you could just as easily tell her to rub herself, makes life a lot easier and can turn her on more if ur assertive

Your Dick will not get hard again one of these days

>It's fucking porn, not sex.
This is the most retarded thing I've read in a few days. They're having sex on camera you dolt. And they do often willingly make the woman come.

For real? Then what exactly is edging and how does it help build endurance?

...
You should stop now.

>2016
>still thinks porn is sex
>still thinks women really come in porn
>mfw

how do I last less? I rarely fap and bjs last for almost an hour. gf jaw starts to hurt and I feel a little bad.

>personally I wouldn't fuck a chick who doesn't have breasts

How true is the whole "fap before having sex" advice? How many hours before?

Bathmate y/n?

Oh they do, but rarely do they cum in the big pro pornos. And when they do it's faked.
Even a good chunk of the cumshots are just pleasureless ejaculations or dick injections.

It's basically always fake unless it's one of the more low budget jobs then there's a good chance they actually are popping their corks because there's less actual directing and more 'do whatever' going on.

Even then basically all female orgasms are as artificial as polyester. And the few chicks who do get off in the scene are held up as gold.

You're spending way too much time looking at the few good scenes here and there where a chick accidentally or does a good job at pretending to pop their cork and letting that and your own personal sexual drives cloud your judgement.

please tell me you have sauce

You don't need to last less. If she can't hold you up to 1h+ sex session, she's not the one for you user.
Just take the hint, if you lasted 10m she would complain you are fast, but since you a vigor machine she complains too?
She should be happy you can pump more than 1h straight.
That's how I think about myself and about my d, and that's how thou should think too. Stop with the sorry ass and be proud of yourself

I asked for some advices in a previous thread becuase I didn't get to cum using a codom and some user reccomemded me a very thin one called Skin.

Thank you, bro, I did it. After 45 minutes, but I did. My gf was really happy when it happened.

Either find a girl who's better at giving bjs or turn your woman's cunt inside out till you're close to nutting and let her finish the job.

my bad I didn't explain it well. sex session lasts about 2-2.5 hours. the 1hr is for the bj and the rest trying hard to finish. ive read flexing your thighs makes you finish faster but that doesn't help me. should I just do porn?

Go and look at Ariella Fererra. Bitch comes way too easy and shivers like crazy, even from penetration alone. Its easy to tell when they're faking it vs when its real.

just stop masturbating man. its really, really simple, and if ur not willing to do it to please ur woman, what kind of man are you?

had the same issue, just don't masturbate for a week and you'll come inside her in no time.

Edging is teaching yourself how to understand your pleasure orgasm and ejaculation response and walking the edge of orgasm and ejaculation for as long as possible without succumbing.

Multiple orgasms is learning how to let the orgasm(or in the case of the truly advanced force yourself to have an orgasm)while not letting yourself ejaculate.

With the former you'll eventually endup erupting in and or on whatever poor woman(guy or whatever I'm not judging) so hard it will look like they were doused with a bucked to milk.
And the feeling of pleasure and release is indescribable.
Problem is that you have a chance of fucking up and giving yourself the worst case of blue balls ever and doing this alot will lead to prostate problems later on.

Multiple orgasms are you allowing yourself to fuck and get the pleasure of an orgasm BUT holding off on actually ejaculating. If you have a weak refractory phase and are knocked out after then you can use this technique to fuck for days and orgasm as much and as many times as you want.
Problem is that you will not get the feeling of release and feel less virile.

Does this really work?

>then again, its entire possible that the fleshlight will bring you to new heights as it bullies your dick into cumming
>will bring you to new heights as it bullies your dick into cumming
What did he mean by this?

My manhood isn't dependent upon getting a woman off.
That line of thinking is why I spent most of my adolescents young adult hood having terrible sex where I spent all of my time learning all there was to know about sex psychology poetry romantic nonsense etc and not trying to be overly aggressive because I'm huge or trying to hurt girls with my massive dick.

Fuck that. If the bitch can't handle it or doesn't get hers then she can get the fuck out.

I had the same problem OP, the first few months I was unable to cum from vaginal sex.
Just keep fucking her, you'll get there eventually.

but then again, my dick isn't mutilated.

If you're cut, it might be because of that.

Nofap gave me the motivation I needed to get laid.

Just because its not for you, It might be good for others.

I don't. I said rarely and by that I mean maybe 3 times a year because of this. still nothing

there's nothing wrong with her. she bretty good at it. cums from penetration and anal. she's great

She's either too busy worrying about an orgasm and can't have one, basically the female equivalent of worrying yourself limp, or she's broken from the waist down.

We'll assume it's the latter.
Don't try to make her cum.
Just have an evening out or in with her and talk to her about sex in a casual way.
Get the wine flowing and let her open up without any judgements.
She'll eventually tell you all you need to know.
Give her messages and go over every single part of her body. Pay attention to her reactions her sounds and even her smells.
Take her mind off of it and let her cum.

Or you can rape her.

Either one works.

Nerves are the worst thing in the fucking world, I had a girl come round to my house the other day with a skimpy outfit on and after being an autist and making awkward small talk I got her into my room and almost couldn't get it up, I had to give up on using a condom and raw dog her because I couldn't stay hard long enough. Once I was in it was fine, but after we'd gone a few times I just wanted her to leave so I could get back to doing my own thing.

Thing is, if I'd been on my own I could have got a hardon no problem, which is how I know it's nerves. Maybe noporn would help.

I'm not sure if sex is for me m8s

>We'll assume it's the latter.
I meant former.

Had the same problem.
The more you fuck, the less nervous you get.
I don't think noporn really helps that much.

1.If length isn't a problem and you can go balls deep? Go balls deep.
2.Get as deep as you can and GRIND ON THAT SHIT like coffee.
3.In missionary, angle your hips so that they are higher then hers. Works best if you close her legs together open yours and pound away.
Your dick will rub on her clit on the way in and out.
If you're packing far too much meat for her, then you're going to have some trouble.

>It wasn't out of the blue, I'd told her my gf and I had broke up over sex issues and that's when she mentioned it.
Oh, that changes everything then because she told you she's a virgin to let you know she has no experience in the field so she can't be of great advice.

OMG is he okay or dead?

source por favor

Since getting fit I just want an alpha Veeky Forums bf to protect me and treat me like a dirty slut when we're alone
This time last year I was a full-on chubby sjw and since I got redpilled I just want a big strong man to look after me and fuck the shit out of me