I have plenty of friends, both male and female. They're all mostly like me personality wise. When we go clubbing we dominate the dance floor, literally. We make a big circle that pushes people out and don't lets anyone pass through.
>dancing with my crew >make our regular circle, each taking turns showing off our moves in the center >see an obviously out of place, awkward guy bobbing his head to the beat on the outskirts of the floor >we get the girls in our crew to drag him in to dance
Now the awkward person has two choices:
1) refuse to dance >we *loudly* call him out for being no fun, a loser, why are you here buddy? Can't even dance with girls who are throwing themselves at oyu
2) choose to dance uncoordinated and awkwardly >cheer him on mockingly (we start ooing and aweing and chanting stuff. It's the best when everyone else on the floor notices and starts chanting too) >he gets so embarrassed that he stops and walks away into the bathroom
We laugh about it all the time. There's no winning for them. But hey, that's how it is. Life is like a jungle. If you're weak, the strong (AKA me) will trample all over you. It feels good being a confident alpha with an alpha squad.
Anthony Moore
Does anyone else /notknowwhotheyare/ here?
All these people talking about secrets they've kept or feelings they've repressed but I don't know these feels?
Legit who the fuck am I, I don't have any personality traits, what the fuck is a personality? I've got secrets I guess, like jerking off to trap/sissy porn and I've eaten my own cum/dildo'd myself but not from any deep down repressed sexuality. I was legit just trying to figure out if I'd like it or not but I feel nothing.
I've been described as the "typical white guy" what the fuck is that, what is my identity brahs?
Help me, I don't know what the fuck to do with myself, I'm not really good at anything but not noticeably terrible at anything either. Literally invisible, what do I open up to people with? What the fuck do people talk about that classifies as opening up?
Should I just end it to stop the confusion?
Dylan Young
Are you legally retarded?
Joshua Sullivan
This >opening up to people outside of a an anonymous fitness forum behind 9000 proxies
It's your fault
Kayden Cook
Nice pasta freak
Ayden Torres
Travel
Joshua Roberts
i did the same thing as OP a while back and got ghosted after a couple of days.
i suspect it was because i mentioned my disdain for tattoos and piercings,of which she happened to be covered in plenty, but still, if you bring up the topic then it's on you
Christopher Cook
I don't understand people like OP who think admitting you're pathetic will get a response OTHER than the girl thinking you're pathetic?
You just told her you're a loser, do you expect her to mommy you about it and tell you you're not? Why would she even do that?
I'm not saying don't open up to people like the edgy fucks in this thread, but fuck, if you're not close to someone yet, maybe hold off on acting like a complete and desperate loser?
Elijah Allen
Women (apart from your mom) will ALWAYS see any form as weakness as unattractive and think less of you. Admitting how pathetic you are is basically a shortcut to making a girl completely uninterested in you. This is true regardless if it's a stranger, a friend, or even your girlfriend/wife.
Yes we all feel like getting some stuff off our minds now and then and yes it feels easier to admit being pathetic to women. But you need to just man up and shut it all in. Hide it. Post about it anonymously on /adv/ or something if it feels better.
Take my word for it or learn it the hard way. When it comes to love, women are cold and selfish creatures and will discard you to the shit pile without any empathy.
