Be me

>be me
>depositing my V-card
>grill just kinda laying there
>not just kinda, is
>not even tight
>just mediocre
>cannot get immersed in the experience
>thinking "this is it?"
>this is what ive been chasing so hard?
>literally thinking the entire time about what a disappointment this is
>wonder if fapping killed sensitivity
>decide shes probs just loose
>(i'm 6.75x5.5, so not huge but big enough that i feel this logistical issue isnt my fucking fault)
>just want to fucking go home
>cant believe i skipped the gym for this
>FINALLY finish
>relief at getting this over with overpowers any sort of ecstasy, so i dont even enjoy that
>sleep over to at least not be a dick (this was date 2, not a complete rando off tinder)
>grill wants more the next AM
>cant nut because its same shit as before
>finally just give up and take her to work
>respond to her texts, but slowly drift away and never see her again

i feel like ive been lied to, Veeky Forums... this was a complete letdown. a scam. a waste of time and gains.

is this really as good as it gets? because honestly, that was in no way, shape, or form remotely worth the time (2 dates), money (a few bucks), or effort (cheap conversation and a few texts) it entailed.

also, i have trouble feeling my traps working when doing shrugs... any advice on how to fix that?

Sex is mutual effort, of course it sucked if she just lay there.

Check your form on shrugs, simple as it is you might be doing it wrong

a word of advice.....dont let one bad experience ruin all of them...the girl you had was a fucking flop (believe me i had a girlfriend like that and it was fucking horrid) if you want wild monkey nut busting sex....get you a Latina or a black girl (don't necessarily wife them just get the tip wet)

also with the traps thing...use a trap bar for better trap activation...just remember to use solid form and dont sway or bend over.

How old are you, user?

What you had was cheap sex; meaningless.

Sounds like you're looking for more of a connection with a girl - sex is about more than just how tight her pussy grips your dick

This has got to be a pasta

must be, but i've tried barbells, dumbells, standing, seated...

i just feel like im moving my shoulders up and down versus contracting my traps. i'm probably just underestimating the importance of form with this exercise since it seems so simple

appreciate the advice (both pieces), brother. never tried a trap bar for shrugs before, but that sounds interesting

24, grill is 22.

youre not totally wrong, but at the very least a tighter pussy wouldve compensated for the lack of connection

fresh from the pot, friendo

is she 50? holy fuck

> Fell for the vagina Jew
No girl has ever came close even fucking remotely to my 6-8 hour long edging sessions, like at fucking all, I genuinely can't believe there are lads out there that chase pussy so hard and then move on to next girl, learn to fucking beat off you will save money on wining and dinning girls. Even fucked few pro escorts, all that pro came down to is them trying to break my pelvis and one of them licked my arsehole which felt beyond uncomfortable, weird and nasty and plain awful

>not even enjoying the ol lickaroo
what's wrong with you user?

keke

Welcome to the realization that sex is pretty shite mostly. Now you're free to pursue meaningful ventures.

You're homo

That feeling when cutfag and can't feel anything. I was so disappointed during my first time. I can't even cum when she gives me a bj. I always have to end it myself because she can't create the same pressure/friction as me when i fap.
>feelsbadman.jpg
I am so ashamed i was such a faggot that was sad he was a virgin.

You gotta get her into it, make her beg to suck your dick google how to be dominant during sex. Tell her she better start showing you how much she loves your dick or your gonna fuck someone who does.

HAHAHAHAHA YOU SUCK AT SEX

>5.5 girth
>loose

Wew fucking lad.

>cutfag who cant feel anything
>that subtle bait
if you aren't just trolling for (you)s, you probably death gripped your penis you retard

In your case, nofap will probably help you out. If you must masturbate do it gently, not that penis throttling shit you are clearly doing

>(i'm 6.75x5.5, so not huge but big enough

Eat a cock you ungrateful chucklefuck

you couldnt go beyond a halfchub because you masturbate to porn several times a day
it wasnt good because youre not good

/thread

Sounds like she sucks. The trick is to make it a sensual thing, not just sex. Should've waited longer before going through with it and next time if you're forced to be on top, mimic the frog pose with her legs propped on yours and use your hips.
Every woman likes this.

OP do you fap excessively? Try saving up for a while. Especially if youre drunk youll have nights where its brain melting. Especially when youre with a girl youve been with for a while and youre becoming open and comfortable with each other.

Lost my v-card this year, I'm 23 she is 20. The actual act of sex is kinda overblown (how could it not be) but the bond and connection we've made feels amazing. Plus since we've been together now for about three months we've learned how to be better for each other. Felt amazing face-fucking her, when I came inside her mouth it made my dick tingle like I've never felt before. It can get better is what I'm trying to say.

>Felt amazing face-fucking her
> there are women out there willingly letting guys do this
I have no idea how can you are not disgusted with her senpai

Nigga you gay

Took a while before we were comfortable with that. Just took little steps towards me being more dominant and rough in bed. We always talk about what we liked and didn't afterwards, and she likes to be dominated.

Humble bragging is so fucking gay. And nobody believes you either. Do people measure their dicks that often? I did that shit as a junior high kid when we all still had rulers next to our desks.