>used to be horny as shit as a teen
>now in mid 20's
>libido is almost nonexistent
>finally fit and successful enough to get women, but feel absolutely no drive to do so
>have some girls who are clearly interested in me, but I can't force myself to follow up on it
is this normal? Is this nature playing some sort of cruel joke on me?
I feel you even though Im in my early 20s.
I think no porn/no fap could help this but can't do it
For me it doesn't help. I can go abstinent for a week and it makes no difference.
lift harder bro, get better sleep and take your fish oil
Listen here, youre too young for that shit, its only bad life habbits + emotional issues
you should
>lift regularly
>get enough sleep
>kick out shit food
>stop drinking so much god damn beer every time you go out ( that was my big problem)
>listen to some uplifting music
Thats for the life part, about emotional one, that one is a bit trickier
>find a girl among those you like
>get her to your room and spend nice time watching movies or smt
>when things get hot, but you can't get it up, just relax and mess around a bit, let her touch your dick
>tease her and stuff, say you don't want to rush it
>see her in a week
This way you will get comfortable with her, and next time being horny will come naturally
Can't pinpoint your problem so im giving you general solutions. Being emotionally wrecked from last relationship can have a stupid lingering effect on you
> Hit 26.
> Sex Drive tanks
> No desire to talk to women.
> No energy
Guess my life's over.
i'm asexual, girls and guys do nothing for me, i was horny as a teen and it just stopped
i lift for myself and it feels incredible to not have to be pandering to the pussy-hunting charades my entire life
Do more squats.
I literally get raging hardons after doing squats from gym girls.
OP how often do you fap?
I had the same problem where I had no interest in women and I was never horny. I stopped watching porn a few weeks ago and now I'm constantly horny.
>Feels good man
Sounds like you need some juice mate. Life without pussy ain't one worth living.
>fuck I hurt so bad, I hate that women didn't swarm my ass as soon as I benched 1 pl8
>wait...I'm asexual!!
You broken fuck.
>>lift regularly
>>get enough sleep
>>kick out shit food
>>stop drinking so much god damn beer every time you go out ( that was my big problem)
I don't do any of this shit. I'm the healthiest I've ever been in my life. I don't have any emotional problems too, and I'm quite happy day to day. It's just something that happened in the past few years, where I have almost no sex drive.
I feel the same I go months with no fapping. Sometime I get a wet dream but thats about it. Wtf happened, I don't feel unsatisfied it just feel like a chore at this point. just 23 btw
tfw you invest so much into your future you become so self centered that nobody else matters.
Sometimes I want to cuddle a cute girl but my standards are crazy so it's not really worth trying.
Zinc
Maca
The L- vitamins
Success guaranteed. You're welcome
>so self centered that nobody else matters.
>Sometimes I want to cuddle a cute girl but my standards are crazy so it's not really worth trying.
So basically, you've become a woman?
>I'm the healthiest I've ever been in my life
>almost no sex drive
pick one.
what worked for me (sorry for bad enlando):
- supplement Maca-pills and zinc
- dont watch porn
- drink enough
- sleep enough
- do kegels
- see every girl as a fuck opportunity (even the landwhales for high test ofc)
the same thing is happening to me. I have some low sex drive, but my erections are rarely full blown like they used to be.
I have some kind of blockade in me.
and i am taking but I am depressed
try to block out all those bad feelings and focus on the now...only thing you can change btw :)
for fullnes of your pipi try to do some kegels, it might work for you brah
we all gonna make it
The problem is that porn and thought-fapping are now inadequate.
get your test levels checked faggot
>Maca
Why? Studies have shown it does nothing.
>The L- vitamins
The what now?
I also eat beans almost daily, so I should be getting enough zinc.
There's gotta be something deep down that bothering you m8. I'm in my late 20s and just out of a long relationship and I've been going at it multiple times a night with multiple women throughout the week. Im just decently fit too and drink too much and my diets all over the place.
Maybe try to think about sex with a girl throughout the day and if you were to fap only do it using your mind. I've been fucking a girl that's into some very aggressive shit I can just get a chub thinking about face fucking her. Admittedly I get performance anxiety at times as well but keeping at it helps it go away.
Get 8 hours. This doesn't mean grt in bed 8 hours before you have to wake up.
Eat clean. Junk food is boring. Nutritional variety is fucking KEY to staying healthy. Eat more fat.
Stop beating off so much. If you have to coax your dick to get hard for porn, you shouldn't be fapping.
You're not asexual, you're just low test
Are you fuckers serious? I'm 35 and I just had to hide a random ass boner while walking back to my place.
girls arent hot enough