Sex advice first time

Who the fuck cares?
It not like she can unfuck you if you put in a poor performance.

Kek she could decide not to fuck him again

If you're very nervous, getting it up/keeping it up could be a problem. I know it was for me anyway. Fapping beforehand could make it worse.

Why not what? No faping or expectations?

I mean everytime they have sex for the first time with a new guy, doesn't matter if he's experienced or not.

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Dude he's a virgin, he'll get a boner when the bell rings

Many men cant have sex a 2nd time unless some time passes, its neurological. Ill stick with my suggestion, fap like 2h before she comes

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Wanna get ripped? Roids.

Wanna fuck and enjoy it? Cialis.

What else?

Performance anxiety is a thing, it may haven't happened to you, but it happens to many men their first time.

Better be cautious and not fap. Better a short fuck than no fuck at all.

Wanna cure anxiety? Acid

Want to experience peak focus and state of awakeness?

>modafinil

Put a hand on her abs if you can, you will feel the contractions. This is great for missionary if you take one hand and hold both her hands down behind her head, you can take the other hand and rest it on her stomach, press down slightly and fuck "upwards". If the stars align you can make her cum from a g spot orgasm.

well if he can't get it up he deserves not to fug

OP don't fap beforehand, I hope you read this.

I had crushing anxiety for years surrounding sex, in the end I got viagra and now have to take a couple pills with me everytime I go out because I literally cannot bang without it, if you fap beforehand your testosterone will be lower when she comes over, it takes several hours to recover from that major dip in your libido, you want to be horny as fuck, the average sex session for males lasts 3-10 minutes, that's not a hard target to beat.

You won't be amazing but just follow your instincts, sex is the most basic function we can perform, literally reproduction, so you'll get the hang of it pretty quickly, I'd honestly say that you should focus on enjoying it yourself, rather than trying to 'cater' to her needs, she's coming over for a hard dick and a good fucking, not a man servant to stimulate every zone like you're trying to unlock a multi-password door.

Give her about 10 minutes of missionary, lift up both her legs so her calves are resting on either both of your shoulders, or just one, hold her sides and get in as deep as possible, you'll have great leverage and it'll be comfy for you both, nobody orgasms from uncomfortable sex positions, after about 10-15 minutes of that, switch to something like doggy, this is where you'll be most likely to cum, but it's the same for her, so just go with he flow, if you haven't cum after about 10 minutes of that, then you're doing great, switch to having her on top, this will usually be where it all 'ends', as cowgirl position stimulates the g-spot for her, and is super comfy for you, don't make her go up and down, grab her waist or asscheecks nice and hard, and move her back and forth so she's actually riding, not bouncing, that'll do it.

>do not eat her out
A lot of girls will only pretend to like it, do it on the second or third time she visits, but not on the first, stick to the basics, and she'll come back for more.

Thx Mang will do

Wanna be happy? Heroin

This guy fucks.

My advice would be don't focus much in following instructions or a routine as in enjoying yourself, be passionate and selfish, and believe she'll enjoy herself.

And overall, DO NOT FAP!

Real shit right here.

So?
Getting attached to a girl you're just having casual sex with is retarded.

This

If it aint too late bro, FOREPLAY,
It will make things so much easier. Tease that bitch for a half hour or more before you even think about whipping it out. She needs to be begging for that shit. Then its easy mode.

You have to find positions that work for you.
I've found that Missionary I can last forever, but I'll never finish.
If the girl is on top, I usually will lose wood - I don't know why. I just don't like it.
Doggy will bring up over the top super quick.

Flip her around and make her try everything - she'll think you're amazing and dominant, and you find things that work for you.

Every single girl loves having their hair pulled, but the trick is to grip the BASE of her hair, bunch it up and yank back - this won't hurt, and they'll love it. Likewise, choke them, but put pressure on the side of their neck with tips of your fingers, just so they feel it - Don't actually choke them with your entire palm.

Good luck, and enjoy it.

Heres what I do. It gets the job done but I haven't had sex with many different girls so it might be that my girl just likes it this way. First gotta be super duper confident and that will be the best thing. Act sexy and you'll be sexy. But for actual technique, I suck her clit kinda and use my tongue to attack the fuck out of her clit for like 10 seconds just so she knows I can make her cum, then I pull back and just listen to her responses to things and do that more or do things that get no response less. The easiest thing to make a girl cum in my experience is hard pressure and fast circles on the clit while you suck it. They masturbate the same way. Don't be afraid to shove your whole face in there and suffocate yourself a little. Do this first time ever and it'll set the tone for every single time after.

Acid usually makes me unbearably anxious at some point during the trip

ugh if it's been more than 20 minutes cum and get off of me already

>Lasting 20 minutes your first time

OP will be lucky to last 5

This.

>A lot of girls will only pretend to like it
You can't be serious.

This "advice" is useless for a virgin, he will last barely 5 minutes if he gets hard at all, He clearly has performance anxiety if hes asking a group of fucking strangers how to "be good at it".

OP. Lets be honest here, is your first time, its gonna be a mess and probably suck, but you will be better at it with practice. If the girl have experience as you said she will know you are a virgin from the start. Be honest with her and you both will have a better time.

first time with any guy is always weird af. i wouldn't care if a guy said he was a virgin, say it if it'll make you feel better. just fuck me the way you want to (rough pls)

Dude, you will know. You know how you get all spastic and derpy when you come? Happens to girls too

lost my virginity to a non virgin a few years ago. tips:

be honest, they can tell you're a virgin and honesty is respectable
she probably isn't that good, 3 guys isn't very many and they probably did all the work
you will likely be so nervous you'll last plenty long. I outlasted her my first time because of this
be prepared to go down on her before and possibly after
faster is not always better

/fem/user here, if you try and finger her do not just stick it in and out. The first guy I did that with injured me from the inside and I was bleeding for 3 days with cramps.

If you want to finger a girl put the finger in, nail down and bend it slightly so you can rub against the wall there. You don't have to go fully in and out, just go in, while you go out have your finger bent and rub against the wall there. That spot is where there are plenty of nerve endings and sensitivity, it would drive me crazy in bed if a guy did that.

Just go down on her until she's already half at there. Women love men that give great head.

So just suck the shit out of her clit and finger blast her. Don't fucking ask, just do it. If she gets the deluded idea that you're doing it "for her" it seem bad. But giving head is awesome there are just as many women that enjoy it as men.

Bullshit, I lasted a fuckton of time on my first due to nerves and deathgrip.

Ask her what she likes and listen to it. Doing that alon will make you way better thannnearly any man she's fucked.

Also look up some basic female anatomy. The vagina is closer to the butt than you think.

I had a dmt trip they kept throwing my own social anxiety and self esteem in my face. Kinda helped for the three-four months after

Careful with that, about 5 or 6 of the girls I've been with have had super sensitive clits, so more hit the area around it, rather than just banging the shit out of her clit.