Guys, how do I have sex?

Guys, how do I have sex?
I don't get it. The gf loves it so much but I feel I can't satify her properly. I never really liked the whole idea around sex and don't particularly like fapping. Other than missionary and doggy I don't GET the aim of having sex, what do I do to be better?

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try quitting being a lil bitch

5g of test you lady

>The gf loves it so much but I feel I can't satify her properly
That is such a big blockade in your head, and its probably all in your head.
Figure yourself out, change the ways you approach the whole issue.
Try new things, cut out things you dont like, try to satisfy you and not your gf, she will understand.

treat her like a whore
I always do a line of coke before sex

Time to get a bull

take some mdma and a viagra

>line of coke before sex

top kek what a feeling that is. Done it once and forgot my girl was even there whilst I was fucking her

>dont get the aim of having sex

son...we found your mens fitness magazines

No its true. She told me that it seems "you dont really have a sex drive"
I want to show her I can fuck her but I don't know where to start .
Do they like it when you suck their nipples ?

They like it when you go all primal on them.

>Do they like it when you suck their nipples ?
Bite them you fag

>Pull her hair
>Choke her
>Spank her hard af
>Let your hands roam her entire body
>When you change positions, you move her body
>Bite her ears, neck, wherever
>Call her your filthy whore

And then, at times, transform into her romantic lover who calls her sweet things and is really tender with her.

My experience has been that they want you to be out of your mind with your lust for her, but at the same time feel secure and trust you.

Also all girls are different, so adjust depending on what she likes.

That all sounds so savage

Why do people like this stuff

because we're all monkeys senpai

Because of our animal instinct

sex is primal nigga

I can definitely help you.

Answer these:

Does she look up to you?
Do you feel like you're in total control when having sex with her? Do you like it if you do/don't?
Do you like to control or be controled?
Do you like to be pleasured or to give pleasure?
What do you know about the way she likes to have sex?

These anons will be all "HA YOU SHOULD PUNCH HER IN THE BACK OF THE HEAD, AND CHOKE HER UNTILL SHE'S UNCONCIOUS GIRLS LIKE THAT" but this is bullshit, it depends on too much things, even what she wants in the moment, and she's just a mirror to what you're doing to her.
You can make her want to have passionate sex, violent sex, romantic sex, happy sex whatever.
You should have this "social tunning" inside of you that would make you act "right" on the situation, as a man.
And in fact you do have, it's just out of touch but it's something pretty fine to fix. Answer those and I can help you.

>Does she look up to you?
Yes
>Do you feel like you're in total control when having sex with her? Do you like it if you do/don't?
No and unsure
>Do you like to control or be controled?
Unsure
>Do you like to be pleasured or to give pleasure?
Both
>What do you know about the way she likes to have sex?
She's obsessed with it , any sane person wouldn't believe what they've got

Ok, she does look up to you, which means you have room to dominate her, but it's a thing you should be preparing way before you guys go to the bed. You can't just fucking pull her hair out of nowhere of course, you need to get her in the mood. Be bold and asertive, you can be explicite or implicite, try both.

By what you're saying seems that she's kinky and should like this, try it and see if you're into it too, it's a power thing, I personally love it.
Don't be contiously thinking about it too, she looks up to you, no reason not to be 100% confident.
If you're unsure about all this, it means you have room to explore, one day you do this, the other you make her ride you, be a little more rough, then more passionate... there really is no AIM for sex, and you should see that as a good thing, it's like running arround when you were a kid, do what comes into your head and get lost into it. Enjoy the whole ride.
If she's not getting you in the mood, make her do something you like, maybe you're into stripping, or oral. She loves sex, it's a thing you should really exploit.
You should always be in charge, I say, it's only natural and you'll probably like this more.
Chad problems

Just do what they do in porn retard

You don't get the aim of having sex? You don't like fapping?
user are you having problems? Low T? depression? Serious question

Increase your test OP, fap,/have more sex, eat more protein, especially meat; work out hareder and sleep more
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2013/07/no-fap-more-like-no-fucking-way.html
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/09/enough-already-sex-and-baddassery-are.html
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/09/enough-already-sex-and-baddassery-are_07.html

this is good advice
t. girl

This could be same fag but I don't even care, good advice

I was in your girlfriends position once and it was pretty annoying but like everyone else is saying she wants you dominate her dude, it's not a Veeky Forums meme seriously just do it. Dont randomly choke her or spank her out of nowhere just do baby versions of everything and see which one she responds too best. Chances are you are also not spending enough time focusing on foreplay and women need that, so for foreplay just feel her up and bite her nipples, maybe pull on her hair and then for the love of god DO NOT start fingering her right there, just slide your fingers around the outside of her vagina and maybe slip one halfway in at most. Then after all this u bang her monkey style, girls like being eaten out too so before banging her you could do that too, best way would to have her standing and you on your knees doing it

Oh and girls love being talked too, if you're every curious if she likes what your doing just ask her, if you're silent the whole it's not going to be much fun for her. if you're not going to talk you could at least moan and grunt

Best post in thread desu senpai

A majority of girls like a man being a primal dominant sex demon, but literally all women require foreplay as an absolute essential. Like seriously tease them relentlessly to make them want it. You can even be subpar at sex, but if your foreplay game is good you're safe

Because its not fucking real, nigga watched to many porn and played to many hentai vn games

I've watched porn maybe 8 times in my life and hate it usually but no girls still like being dominated. There's a difference between lightly grasping her neck and pulling her hair with consideration to her and "YEAH U FUCKING WHORE" and actually choking her.

It's pretty sad that you're asking a bunch of 18-19 year old virgins on here this

Nigga, heterosexual sex is not equal, a man penetrate a woman, the man is usually larger, stronger, weighs more and dictates the tempo and pace.

Its inherently something done by men to women, thats a basic explanation for why women enjoy it "rough"

As Marcus Aurelius said "as for sexual intercourse, it is the friction of a piece of gut and, following a sort of convulsion, the expulsion of some mucus." There's nothing to "get".

OP if you're allowed to and won't end up with a baby after following the advice you should hold your girlfriend down and seed her

>cut her nipples off
>stuff an apple in her mouth and tie her up like a roasted pig
>make her drink cum out of a dog bowl
>call her a nigger in front of her family

trust me, girls love that savage shit.

Have you tried thinking about ripped men?

gross

There was probably one time where we just fucked for the sake of fucking and it just felt so pointless, is that the Sex you're on about? It was just one shitty position but went on for what seemed ages, I wanted to go outside or something. She seemed to have liked it though, maybe I need more fo that but keep it exciting etc

Thanks for the advice, that really helps a bunch . I pretty much can do whatever I like with her but I just don't really want too, maybe it's the mindset, I'll give it a go though. Thanks, chad.

Destroy her ass with your hips like she's a punching bag. Spear her wet spots. Basically take out your aggression on her.

Lel

I am really calm and gentle by nature and these things once sounded crazy to me.

But they really work.
I figured out that the harder I hold my gf when having sex the faster she orgasms. Like, borderline hurting her.
She likes to have everything under control but I guess she likes to let it go in bed

yeah idk if I can do that to my gf but she wants me to wtf is wrong with women

try fucking a guy.
welcome to fit.

I know the feeling. Sex feels almost cloying. Being resposnible for another person's base urges makes me feel kind of disgusted sometimes. Someone saying "Oh, but i'm horny" just seems pathetic. People have seperate levels of sexual interest, not in a SJW seventy-six gender nonsense way. Just different levels of certain brain chemicals, like some people are more likely to be addicts or depressed. Find someone that fits your particular set of chemicals or more likely don't and devolp a slowly increasing sense of hatred towards someone who you can't remember loving. Also don't ask Veeky Forums for advice. Also just fuck dat bitch what are you a fag low test baby.