Hey fit,
Went out for coffee with this cutie, like solid 8/10. Body was banging. Would going to the gym for a second date be a good idea? Show off my 1pl8 OHP, and just a light workout. Maybe get her into fitness and go to the gym together? Or is it too early for that?
Also how do I make a move? I just shook her hand for the first date? Should we kiss on the second.
This is the first woman I'm dating that isn't a prosititute.
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>shook her hand for the first date
>gym for the second
I don't know where to start with you user.
>bad idea
here's a list of whom you should not date
>gym
>school
>hometown
>friends of friends
also shook hand, dude wtf??
What the fuck? thats autistic
Gym is a odd date, IMHO. I have never tried pulling it off though, maybe it's slick, who knows.
Greeting is always a hug obviously - unless you moved pass the kiss barrier, then it's a kiss.
Second date should definitely be finished with a kiss, yeah. But you should catch the drift if not.
Showing off with a 1 pl8 OHP sounds like a bad idea though.
You look more like a twink with lifts for otter mode, so stick to showing off your biceps.
What's wrong with shaking hands? I always shake hands with people I meet
for fuck sake dude, you need to start doing shrugs ASAP
So... never date anybody?
>shook her hand for the first date
>gym for the second
I cant believe you guise
Agreed. Basically have one night stands in clubs and if shes interesting date her
How do you ohp 1 pl8 but have no traps
Ok, I fugged it with the handshake, fuck me. Didn't wanna seem thirsty. I'll go for a hug next time we meet.
I dunno, Veeky Forums thinks I should've been dry humping her.
I don't OHP with a barbell, use 75lbs dumbbells instead. Might be why.
The region I'm in has fuck all to do, and the weather is pretty shit. I'm gonna ask her if she wants to go for a walk at a local river front park or if it rains, go to the gym for a light workout. Should she just follow my routine? It'll be push day if we go, so I get to 2pl8 bench too. That said I don't want to fuck this up. She only responded to me because I have a pretty ok body, convo was good too.
As a female, I would not want to go to the gym on the second date. I think after a few more dates I'd be ok with it though.
Wanna go on a date with me instead babe.
How about the park thing?
Also, how do I make a move, should I expect a kiss on the second date? Should I hold her hand? Should I hug when we meet?
>tfw only been with hookers I paid for the hour.
Not a good feeling yo
Goddamn dude take her to an amusement park or something fun. Do not, and I can't emphasize this enough, do not take her to the gym. Get that out of your head. When you meet her for your second date, greet her with a hug. Here's a bonus tip, ask how her day's been and when she asks you how yours is, tell her it's better now that you're with her. Bitches go crazy for shit like that. It's not that hard. Just stop being autistic about it.
please listen to no girl wants to be taken to the gym for a date, unless you guys are far into the relationship. Go for coffee, or take a walk, ice skating is also cute. Maybe go to one of those places where there's a small local band playing, like a local cafe or w/e. You have awesome fuckin physique, don't fuck it up my dude
>Would going to the gym for a second date
it was at this moment i knew you were an autist
take her somewhere fun
if you dont awnt to kiss end date with hug
Mirin aesthetics senpai
How long you been lifting/stats?
Ok, thank you for the advice, going for a nice walk on a river front park. Pray I don't fuck this up.
I'm aiming to hug when we meet, maybe a kiss when we leave.
Don't know if this is important, but this girl is white and I am Arab, is either anything else I should be aware of?
Because I'm bored and I don't trust you, what have you/do you plan on talking to her about?
The girl I'm currently seeing, we never really went on dates, but if for some reason you can get her to the gym , maybe under the pretense of showing her your hobby or something (sounds breddy cringy) the way I made my girl hot and heavy was simply by spotting her. Seriously, just out my hands on her before we were even seriously talking, helping her with form, touching her sides and stomach during handstands etc. Confidence helps sell anything though
Nothing, give me some pointers. She's a nursing student, I'm an engineering student. She's 19, I'm 21.
>shook her hand
w e w
you would have been better off not doing anything
You obviously could have gone in for the hug, but if you were too nervous, you might as well have just not done anything.
She would have gone in for the hug, cuz girls tend to do that, and if not, then you could just wait till next time to do it.
Don't freak out about it though, as long as she didn't get too put off by it(hopefully you could tell), you should be fine.
Also, is that actually your body in that pic?
Cray cray m8. Mirin.
shook hands on a date?
>mfw pic related
Only go in for the kiss if it feels right, don't force it.
Next date try to atleast hug her.
Honestly unless she likes you, you might have already fucked up
>shook her hand
>take someone on a gym date
Heteros are weird.
>1 pl8 OHP
>Impressive.
jfc.
will u let me fucc ur boi pucci?
Miring the fuck out your legs. Yeah go for a hug this time.
Only if you're white and bigger than 7x5.
>7x5
as in my dic c c c c ?
no, go fucking die you retard
>white
>7x5
pick one
high five for the second date of course
answer the question you autistic handshaker
Stay mad, dicklet.
brehs is thumb war too lewd for the third date?
says the 7x5 nigger
stay poor nog
>shook her hand for the first date
>considering going to gym on second
What the fuck
Climbing gyms are good places for dates. Regular gyms, not so much.
No reply for second date.
I'm not gonna make it fit. Thank you for everything though. :(
those are some of the most feminine traps I've ever seen
you didn't get a reply because you're a faggot that didn't answer my question
also because you shook her fucking hand when you came up to her and were probably boring as fuck throughout the date lmfao
1/2/3/4 for 5 reps each. Routine is PPL with compounds. Happy?
Gym for a 2nd date is kinda a dumb idea. Girl doesn't know you yet, she probably might not be comfortable with the idea of wearing gym attire and getting sweaty and working out in a public setting, it's not a date activity, it's a couples thing for some people but do not do this on a date. Go bowling, or for a walk in a park/woods, go mini putting or some shit like that where you can unwind and relax.
Also shook hands....I dont even know. I had a girl one offer her hand to shake after a date once, but then asked me right after if I wanted to make out instead. So we did that.
guess you found that lifting doesn't cure autism
when you go on a date the first thing you do when you meet the person is give them a fucking hug
make sure you don't smell like shit so put a dab of cologne on your neck/wrists
and if she doesn't reply then who gives a fuck
you didn't lose anything
>shook her hand
>should have at least hugged
you already ruined it. You're in the friendzone, bucko.
Bro, you have to feel it out. You're gonna have to give signs and see if they're being received as well. Try to hold her hand or see how she behaves when she sits beside you, I don't know how to describe it, but there's like a feeling you get when you're connecting with someone. It just sort of comes, but you have to give yourself over to that impulse.
Maybe other people approach it more methodically, but every date I've been on I've had no issue being able to tell if a girl wants to kiss me or not. Don't go overboard, but feel how she's feeling and be proactive and do stuff.
See how she feels if you walk really close to her and occasionally brush arms, if you guys walk side by side without discomfort, just go for a hand hold.
One of the best ways to see if a girl wants to hold your hand or touch you is if you're walking up a hill or a big step, help her with your hand, see if she wants to let go after then pull back, if not then you're basically good.
who the fuck shakes a girl's hand on a date hahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahhahaha
When you shook her hand, you were supposed to hold on and guide it to your dick.
The largest penises in the world have all been those of european men. Stay mad, nigger.
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I'm white and I'm 7.5x6.5
Jesus m8 the handshake is rough. Start the 2nd date with hug first off. Think of something ezpz in your area. Walk around a park, bring a blanket and watch the sunset/stars. Something you can do where you can talk to each other and then charm into her pants.
If your dates going fine making a move should be easy. Eye contact, escalate, gently grab the side of her face and turn it towards you as you kiss her or think up some other shit it's not that hard.
Invite her back to your place then p in v.
>p in v
poo goes in loo, but nice try.
Yeah, guess it's a learning game. I'm gonna take a breather for a week. Appreciate the advice.
Never said it did, I know it doesn't. I enjoy the gym, just nice to be alone, lifting things up and expending some energy. I'll give that a shot next time.
Yup, I realize that now. This is the first date I've ever been on, guess as bad as it was I can learn and move on.
Will aim for that next time. It's been an hour and she hasn't responded to my text, kinda sucks.
All in all, I'm a bit depressed again, hopefully it doesn't get worse. To be honest, the only upsetting thing is no response. If she let me know she didn't want to meet up, I would've been fine. But not saying anything hurts.
I don't know dudes, guess I'm gonna take a breather from women. I'm not sure I handle loss very well. To be honest, I can't even down my meal, just feel full.
You're all cool though, haven't had many friends in my life and its nice to know you anons are there with helpful, albeit brutal feedback.
Thanks.
My dates with my gf of now 2 years went as followed:
>Fright-fest Amusment park 1st date;
after 2 days of chatting on Facebook (how she found me) and 2 days of texting after getting her number, I asked her to double date with a buddy of mine and his girl (this was their third date) because I already had the tickets and she was very excited. Honestly, best night ever.
>Reserved dinner at a fancy Sushi restaurant for second date
The first date I showed off my charm and fun loving side, this date was to emphasis my "class" and let her see me dressed up in a blazer etc.)
>Third date was movies, because at this point we became real chill with each other
This date was much more comfy, we wore goodies and shut so it also showed that I was down to earth.
Take from that what you will user. Btw I walked up to her on her porch and greeted with a hug on first date, and ended it with a kiss but ONLY because it felt right and wasn't forced. Can't believe you shook her hand man
*we wore hoodies and shit*
Typo
> Can't believe you shook her hand man
I know, I fucked up.
bro whats it like fucking hookers? Im kinda insecure cause theyre usually 10/10. Any tips?
Dude, forget the handshake, there fuckers are all waaaay too focused on that. A Girl doesnt Think a guy is cute then, when he Shakes her hand, change her mind immidiately.
Just because she didnt respond after an hour doesnt mean Anything, the Girl im dating now didnt respond for like 24 hours at first... She was just working and stuff. Wait longer.
Next time, take her for a coffee/drink/whatever, and remember, dont put the pussy on a pedestal, YOU are supposed to find out if SHE is something for you too. Ask her questions about her life, then ask more, girls LOVE to talk about themselves.
You'll make it brah.
THIS/.
>They're 10/10
Kek breh no they're not. Don't let the website pics fool you. Sometimes they're old pictures and sometimes the body pics hooked you but when you see them the face is an absolute car crash.
WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE HAND SHAKE
YOU FUCKERS ARE MAKING ME PARANOID ( NOT OP BUT THAT'S HOW I DO IT TOO)
AHHH
I hope at least you gave her a firm grip, lots of shoulder and elbow, twisting your hand into the dominant position
user pls. What is your height also wourkout routine?
Sure bro. Bring her to the gym! What could possibly go wrong! Surely you're the most shredded guy right?
HAHAHAHAH
Do you use roids?
Hahahahahahahahahahsha
>shook her hand
You better let her know that you're a sperglord soon or I don't think she'll ever know
That's gotta be his sister or something. No way would he think it was funny that his gf or wife was actively trying to mire that dude.
Just go in for a friendly hug. Nothing is "wrong" with a handshake, it's just that it sends more of a colder message. Completely neutral, like, "Congratulations on the completion of this date, female."