Good times for a change

sesh

Not been to the gym in a fucking month

Told a girl i have a liking in that i'm done with her shitty mind games

Eating like crap again

just tell her man. If its really someone you want to be with, then they should feel the same way. I bet if she's into you and saw a message from you she'd smile right now. Wouldn't you if you got one?

>In love with girl
>She's scared of change
>Sees her ex again
>Tells me how much she likes doing stuff with me
Never stick dick in crazy guys

tell her dude long distance can work just be honest and open about your feelings but respect what shes doing

Thanks bros. Long message explaining some shit sent, just hope it works...

>still trying to properly fuck my super tight virgin gf
Either my dick is gigantic and I just don't know it or god does not want me to be able to penetrate her.

More foreplay or buy lube bro. Take it slow and you'll get there. You're not bigger than dudes in porn and they fuck tiny girls all the time.

Is she saying stop or does it just not go in?
also is she wet?

she's wet, but once the pain begins she becomes drier than a desert. Gonna have to buy some lube.

Yeah do it but i think its more a relaxation thing
She thinks it will hurt so she tenses up, she becomes tense and the pain becomes real
Trying to get a girl to relax is easier said than done though, sadly

Or she can't loosen up because you don't make her feel good. I think that is more likely :)

>So, please, please, please...

dicklet detected

Let me tell you about my depression and heartbreak, Veeky Forums

>be me
>21 years old
>be going about with my life everyday, lifting (got to 1/2/3/4), studying law, being pretty content in hindsight
>never had a gf
>meet 19 yo, smart, cute, perfect girl (9/10 for me)
>she has those small, perky tits that I love, beautiful face
>her grades are amazing and she can literally get into every uni she wants
>have two perfect dates, we kiss by the second
>she texts me constantly, really into me
>have sex by 3rd date
>came on her tits
>oh my god that was amazing
>4th date she comes over again
>figured I really wanna try nutting on her face this time, big fetish of mine
>go down 30 mins on her to get "leverage"
>later as I'm about to finish I sit myself ontop of her body and stick my cock near her face
>she covers her face with her hand, I gently remove it
>she looks me in the eye and I can tell she doesn't want this that much but also likes me and wants to please me
>she accepts
>oh my god yes she is letting me cum on her face
>cum
>miss
>unlike usually I've only just drippled off a little bit
>only hit her neck
>kinda bummed out, oh well, next time
>but happy that she gives me what I want
>can feel myself falling in love
>she begins cooling off a little bit
>I become more clingy as a counter-effect, but I hide it decently
>she loses some attraction for me, but it's not completely gone
>next time we have sex is a month later
>she doesn't want cum on her as she's going to a job interview
>I understand her
>she doesn't want cum in her mouth either
>cum in her mouth anyway
>she gets pissed and starts disliking me
>at this point I've probably completely fallen in love
>after this point she starts distancing herself even more
>she rejects any of my advances for 2 months
>i'm getting desperate
>she treats me like shit generally but I accept it because I don't want to lose her
>also I can't risk losing her before making up for the 2nd date and actually exploding on her face

cont.

God damn it mate, just ram it in there after a bit of foreplay.

???

The man's a prick, but also an absolute genius. So conflicting.

cont.

>I become a yes-man because I can't lose her
>she loses more attraction for me
>we talk a bit about it and decides to give our relationship another shot
>things go okay, she finally (after 2 months) agrees to come over again
>she is menstruating, tells me we won't have sex
>get mad inside, don't show her
>tell her I don't mind and want to do it anyway
>I go down on her while she's on her period, had never tried that before and honestly didn't mind
>she cums 2 times
>my turn now, figured she wants to please me now that I've done this for her
>sit myself ontop of her, ready to finally blast her face
>she tells me no, I can't even cum on her body she thinks it's gross, she really will not let me and is very stubborn
>I plead a lot, but she will not let me
>in the end just jerk off and try to hit her face, she has half-accepted
>she covers herself with both her hands, I don't hit her at all
>I get really bummed out at this point, but don't tell her
>after she is gone I'm pissed about how much I'm giving her and what she is not giving me, but can't let her know
>she pretty much stops talking to me in general after this point
>we don't see each other for a month where I decide to break up with her
>this was 7 months ago
>only spoken to her briefly since

After this point I went into a severe depression. I feel cucked, because I know she will let other guys do what she never would let me do, and the other problem is that I'm still madly in love with her. I haven't lifted much since that day, and have lost about 8 kgs. All I want is one night with her where she lets me do what I want and I will hold her, but I know it will never happen.

Bros, that is my story. How do I move on?

>keeps sticking his dick in her face and cumming on her when she clearly doesn't want it
>or at least doesn't want it without being asked
>cum in her fucking mouth when she specifically told you not to

Jesus Christ mate, that's pretty autistic. If cumming on her face is that big a deal to you at least ask her first. Some chicks are into it and some aren't, but they're all more likely to warm to it if you act like a man and ask first.

And cumming somewhere you've been asked not to is just fucking retarded. It basically says "I have no self control, I don't give a shit what you want, and I'm gonna do what I want for a few seconds of pleasure". No wonder she isn't interested. And here's you doing all this autistic as fuck shit with a girl you've caught feeling with. If it was just some random club slut you didn't give two shits about fair enough, but someone you actually say you like or even love? You're a fucking idiot bro.

>>go down 30 mins on her to get "leverage"
Are you trolling?
Seriously, i cant fucking believe this bullshit right here
Autistic fucks like you get dates when better men go alone, holy fucking hell this makes me rage

next time you know to not obsessively follow your fetishes

You're a fucking dumbass m8. You lost it all over your stupid fucking insistence on treating her like a porn slut and wanting keep jizzing in her face. And the funny thing is, I guarantee if you'd played it cool and actually built a relationship with her at some point down the line she'd probably have been cool with it. But she probably sussed you were just going down on her and shit to get "leverage" for your autistic behaviour. You say she's smart and that shit isn't hard to figure out.

I know this now, and wish I could've just talked to her about my desires. At that point I figured girls liked it more when I would just do rather than ask, and I thought it might weird her out talking about it. In hindsight everything would've been better if I had been better at communicating, but I didn't realize at the time. I also do feel bad about doing shit she didn't want me to do.

Also, I don't really WANT to do it with a club slut anymore, I still have no desire for other girls at this point.

Well at least you've learned bro. Communication is key if you want an actual relationship. Shame it took a shitty experience to learn the lesson but at least you'll know in future. I just doubt it will be with her cause there basically no chance of coming back from that I'm sorry to say. The second chance came and went and you blew it again. Move on and don't fuck up the next one.

>doc said it was just jock itch

No offence mate but how do you keep getting laid?
You seem pretty autistic about only wanting to please your own desire and your mentality is only to benefit yourself

Is this what girls really want? a selfish dude?

Not him, but from the story it seems like she thought he was a decent guy and only found out he was selfish when he kept trying to satisfy his own desire or fetish or whatever. She probably gave him a second chance because she hoped he had learned the lesson but he didn't and she left. It was selfishness that ended it so clearly its not what a girl wants.

From his story this one girl dissed him yes but he keeps on getting laid so i was wondering
If he keeps on getting girls and alot better guys who care about the girls enjoyment are left alone then what assumption would you make?

>what assumption would you make?

That he has good looks, confidence, and little to no fear of rejection.

Being so concerned where your dick snot lands.
Autist.

I know she doesn't want me back, I've asked her. She doesn't hate me, though, and wants to be friends. I've told her that's impossible for me. The pain will always be there of screwing up so badly with a woman I hoped could've been my wife.

See, I don't think I was being that selfish. I did literally anything and everything for her in bed. This was not only to gain "leverage" - I just as as much enjoyed seeing her happy. She didn't lend me the same goodwill. Am I selfish for having desires that I want to be fulfilled with my gf? Granted, my rather covert attemps at this were stupid as fuck, I should've just told her what I liked from the beginning. Maybe I in a way hid my desires because I felt they were "wrong".

But what if i told you the guy who isnt selfish has the same qualities?
Thats what i cant wrap my head around

Girls have choices when it comes to dating but they seem to always pick the shitty one and then complain about how he doesnt treat her right, i cant get my head around it
Maybe its some kind of victimhood desire to always have something to be unhappy about to get to fish for sympathy?
I have no fucking idea

>good feels thread
>post the exact opposite

Jesus Christ some of you are autistic as fuck.

Jesus christ dude, what the fuck. This is a troll right?

Women like drama. The ones who claim to not like drama like it most. They go for dicks because an asshole is exciting and unpredictable and in a lot of cases the woman feels she can "change" him. It also gives her something to bitch about to her friends when she wants some extra attention.

LET ME LET ME LET ME LET ME LET ME LET ME LET ME

When a woman tells you that she still wants to "be friends" it means you disgust her but she doesn't have the nerve to tell you to fuck yourself and die.

Tbh I like arguing sometimes too. Especially because I'm smarter than my chick so I always win. I get a little hard in my penis sometimes while we shout at each other.

yeah i kind of notice
Treat a girl good in bed and make her cum and she will forget you
Be a selfish prick and suddenly you got a gf

Im not joking but yeah, it does seem girls love to complain and it feels like there is a competition about who has it worse but still good among girls

lmao

Why would it be?

I get that feeling too. Sometimes I wish she'd just push me over, step on my dick and have her way with me to shut me up.

let me ask you something user,
>grill goes out on date with me, she is super forthcoming with emotion
>yearsofautismdidntpreparemeforthis.jpg
>whenever she tells me something she likes about me I clam up and dont reciprocate
>going to tell her I'm going to try harder if she wants to go out again, or we can just keep it casual if I blew it
is this the move or am I gonna fuck it up again

Never try to have sex with an unenthusiastic girl. It only leads to regret and neuroticism (if you're a neurotic person). You'll always wonder what you did wrong

Had some good conversation with a woman I've been trying to build a relationship with for over a year.

She doesn't really like me, but she tells me a lot of personal history, and I like listening to her speak, so it's nice anyway.

You guys dont know women at all outside of what you read on the internet and see in movies/tv shows. Women like hot guys. That's it. The hotter the guy is, the more she will put up with, because she wants to be with the guy. Barring extreme qualities they will rationalize every quality you have to be something negative if she doesnt think you're hot and to something positive if she does think you're hot.

She will love you if you can make her squirm in bed.

Not all assholes are chads, but plenty of asshole get women. You overestimate the importance of physical appearance to women.

This is why i hate having these sort of dicsussions on fit since it will turn into a shit flinging contest but lets talk, friend

I gather experience of women from what i see IRL, i see what types of guys girls are drawn to and judge based on that
When i got my first gf i had read up alot on the internet how girls enjoy sex and like good sex and are disappointed by bad sex etc so i took it to heart and aimed to please her first and foremost
Made her cum many times, spent hours eating her out and it blew her mind but she cheated on me anyway

Second gf, same story i aim to please because its an ego boost. Same story goes and she ends up cheating and leaving me for a guy who is unemployed and plays in a band

Funny thing is im educated, tall, good looking and fit aswell as confident since im sure i wouldnt have done so well in my career if i wasnt confident. This however has done jack shit for my dating

Girls do seem to like misery and the "woe is me" mentality

my real life experience and the internet really clash since people online say the world works in a certain way but when i go outside it works completly the opposite

See, the bedroom is a barometer for women. Women that appreciate being fucked the way they want are worth keeping around. Ones that don't care are probably just having sex for validation and not fun/connection. Avoid these women like the plague.

>current qt gf semen demon
>literally fuck whenever we want
>nut in every oraface
>it's not fair to have it this good

>Women that appreciate being fucked the way they want are worth keeping around
My problem is they dont stick around, once get cream the sheets they move on to date the next dude

id love a qt girl who loves to be eaten out and who would stick around but i cant find one

>yes-man
>cumming on her face after she tells you not to
Pick one.

You are retarded if you think that if you make your girl cum that must logically mean she is going to cheat on you. You dated two girls who cheated on you, it isn't directly caused by 'aiming to please'.

Women dont like a yes-man. She doesnt want you to put up with her shit. If your 'aiming to please'-attitude seeps into every aspect of the relationship, then yeah she is going to get bored. Right now I'm dating a girl who can't get enough of me and literally if we have sex only 5 times in a day, that's taking it easy. She talks and talks about how I'm so amazing in bed, and all because I know how to flick the bean a couple of times before I put it in and have my way with her.

Not being a meek piece of shit doesnt mean that you're an asshole or a jerk, it just means that you need to stand up for yourself whenever she pulls some bullshit. And women always pull some bullshit. Every single one of them.

That you're confident in certain aspects of your life doesnt mean that you're confident with women either, by the way. I was completely confident in my ability to play WoW, but I was shit with women. And let's be honest here, you're whining about how women only love jerks on a Malaysian fisherman board; you're insecure and shit with women.

You dont have to be chad 6% bf to be attractive. A decent face with a decent beard and something resembling big biceps are enough to be 'hot'. Do you really think that Eugene with his Portal 2 t-shirt is going to get women by treating them like shit?

You underestimate the importance of physical appearance to women. Just be hot and approach women and you'll get laid.

That's the vocal portion. There's plenty of girls in happy relationships that don't bitch and put all their personal problems out for everyone to know about.

I get what youre saying but im not some meek yes-man
With my first gf i kind of was but i grew up and right now im only talking about the sex part where you should try to please

I know they try bullshit all the time, i handle it daily since i meet alot of chicks of various degrees of involvement and it goes from simple flirting to out right mean behaviour

My point was if youre good in bed thats not a guarantee girls will come back or commit to you, girls seem to like misery and having something to complain about more

I might be shit with women but im sure as fuck not insecure, im just tried of all the games and bullshit

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