Tfw I had sex for the first time and I couldn't cum

I mean in 2-4, by the way.

Put your finger in your mouth and feel the inside of your cheek. That's what a vagina feels like.

You weren't aroused.

This isnt some magic trick, this isnt some terrible medical problem. You just were not turned on by the situation you were in.

Its a real shame that this myth that guys have to cum like a fucking hose on demand has become perceived to be a truth.

Just continue having sex.

Lots of guys dont finish their first time due to nervousness or as user said above the situation itself.

The first time I did it with my gf we had to take it super slow the first 5 times or so because it was her first time and she was really tight/it hurt her.

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It's called retarded ejaculation (srs), I couldn't cum until probably the 15th time I had sex with my first gf, its all mental. It's a big mix of being too used to porn, jacking off as your only sexual contact, and being uncomfortable with sex. Do some research and it'll pass with time and experience my friend. Use thin condoms too, that was a big thing for me