How do you get over the one that got away?
Did you guys start lifting because of that or what?
How do you get over the one that got away?
Did you guys start lifting because of that or what?
Get over a girl by getting under another one and by stop being a pussy.
But that can't be it user i can't go on getting under another girl every single time i fall in love with one and things don't work out like they could have
Learn from it and keep improving.
>tfw if she could see me now
That would lead to me never sticking my dick into crazy and i believe i'm attracted to that sort of crazy
I'm nearly 30 and I've never had a GF or come close to having one.
I left because autism.
lift*
i guess you could say left as well, as in left the mindset of ever trying to get a gf after realizing i wasnt cut out for normal social interactions
you must be indian
>attracted to crazy
I'm sorry lad. You're in for a lifetime of pain
Eh everytime something ends with a crazy girl i feel that i'm getting more content with the ending
Nope
>white
>6'0
>6/10 face
>9/10 body (6 years lifting)
I have never gone out and socialised since I was 20 or so and came to the realisation I had nothing in common with normies. So I've spent the last decade or so just by my self ignoring everyone around me and doing my own thing.
I'd say Veeky Forums is my family but even this place is full of normies who I'd never get along with in real life.
>tfw you've never even been in love
wow
Thanks for letting this be the first thread I see today, and letting it be 100% on the mark. Fanfuckingtastic.
Relax, bro. Just let it go.
Any plan on outlifting the feels?
I've been trying for two years. Outlifting the feels is all I (try) to do.
Then lift harder
OP here i have no idea if i will ever get back in touch with her and this uncontrollable feeling of not knowing will channel my lifts in the upcoming gym sesh
She's probably lurking
>no idea if i will ever get back in touch with her
just assume you wont. even if you do it helps you stop feeling beta
Sure i couldn't and shouldn't care less would be nice though because she's a one of a kind girl but hey.
>one of a kind girl
lol
>le fashionable depression
Anyone genuinely depressed keeps that shit to themselves. They dont make le funny joeks about having a sad for attention from other ironic kiddies
Saw her the other day while walking around in town with my fiancé, was in the middle of a discussion about wedding rings when I turned around and she was staring right at me
Just walked away in a hurry, could probably have handled it better but I'm so happy right now I don't want to deal with any residual feelings I might have and my girl is so much better than she ever was anyway. Even the sex wasn't great with her but sex now is incredible
Sort of, but I mostly started to help with my depression. I doubt she would start liking me again just because I lift.
>tfw she's also your best friend atm and you see her everyday
Not crying at all.
She is everybody is
Are you refering to me or the image?
What's the point of posting this shitty role playing tier lie
Looks to me youve got deep down feelings for that other girl
POST YOUR MOTHERFUCKING DL AND BENCH LIFTS GUYS
I feel weak with 180lbs bench
Realize she left me because i was fat and didnt look like her ideal body type.
2 years later im 6ft 140 and look like the pic she linked for what she wanted.
I didnt even try to do this. But fuck i look pretty good now. Jack skeleton but fuckable.
post bod
The image, for some reason it just rubs me up the wrong way seeing so many people conflate everyday anxiety with full blown depression and "ironically" joke about suicide
it's been 1year since she left (I was going to propose to her, ordered ring week before)
she started smoking, failed exams at school and didnt make it to uni. 3 months ago she got pregnant (says her new bf is off drugs for 3 months but it is bs).
I lift 1,5/2,5/3/4pl for 3 reps now(11months of natty 5/3/1), get mires everyday, fucked 8 girls (all 6/10+ one 9/10 Brasilian model) in last 8 months.
I can't say I got over because sometimes I think about her, I guess I need more time, but I would never get in shape if we would be still together
Yes, every edgy teenager are self-diagnosed with 20 different diagnoses.
>6ft
>140
You don't look good
>couldve had her then
>didnt because of dumb pride (she rejected me first so i rejected her back)
>now she lost that glow in her eyes
jdimsa
Wow, I never thought anything I posted on Veeky Forums would seem so outlandish as to be a lie given my life is pretty normal. I'd avoided that area for a long time because I knew she lived there and on my first time back we encountered each other, it's not a surprise.
Yeah, definitely, but they're because she got away. I was lifting for a long time before I met her so she had no impact on my weight training but still. I bury those feelings because they're not as strong as the ones I have for my girl, they're just there, and this brought them back up. I still firmly want to marry this woman and that hasn't changed even a little
>lifts
1RMs are 230kg on the DL and 130kg on the bench at the moment
this is why you just roll with what you want
>1RMs are 230kg on the DL and 130kg on the bench at the moment
Lift more
I'm trying damn you, it's really hard and I'm stuck on nearly everything even eating 5k cals a day
Rest more
maybe you should stop being so defeatist your only 24 for goodness sake will you really feel happy if you reach 40 and your still alone knowing you stopped trying 20 years ago? if you're convinced you're going to end up alone either way how can actually making an effort hurt?
What do you look like? I find this hard to believe.
Are you a NEET by chance?
I'm a complete autist that's slightly above average looking and I've accidentally stumbled into a few sexual interactions
[spoiler]tfw i want her more than anything but she just does not want to commit 100%[/spoiler]
lateral raises it is
>your only 24 for goodness
He said he was nearly 30.
>I'm a complete autist that's slightly above average looking and I've accidentally stumbled into a few sexual interactions
You're not nearly as autistic as you think you are.
You're probably the type of person who claims to be lonely while surrounded by 15 close friends and feel like a loser when you dont go out 5 times a week.
I have never spoken to a female outside of my family since university.
I just took a deload week, actually, and have started on a new routine, so maybe the gains will come soon. Have faith in me, user
We're all gonna make it bruv
she's your friend because you think that's all you're going to get
never settle for friendship when you want more, it never works