Be me

>be me
>seeing this girl for about a month
>we go on date today
>after an awesome date we get on the topic of Exs
>she admits to me that aside from a breakup she was dealing with (that I knew about), she had a fuckbuddy who the last time she saw was the night before our first date
>get furious, tell her that I was having enough trouble getting over her being an emotionally broken person but I simply respect myself too much to put in effort for sloppy seconds
>she offers me this

I know a real alpha would never have to ask, but I come to you in my time of need. What is the alpha thing to do here?


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She sounds really dumb desu senpai. Not really attracted to that.

P U M P A N D D U M P

And when I fucked my RC I found cable lateral shoulder rotations helped me get back into it.

how is this even a question? you always have as much sex as possible, its the most important thing
anybody that tells you otherwise is a low test faggy beta cuck

At least put it in her ass once.

I mean you can't be that mad if she fucked someone before you even went out with her
Take the chance get your dick wet senpai

2 options

1. Fuck her senseless and bail and never talk to her again

2. Shove her offer of sex as a way to apologise in her face and let her know what a degenerate she is who has no substance and nothing to offer anyone but her hole. 360 walk away from ho.

What if he had fucked her a week before your first date?

Standards.... If she's offering you that ass then you can bet old mate the fuck buddy stretched it out for you.
She's probs not even wet, that's just the leftovers.
Slops are slops mane. Go find something fresh.

What do you want from her? She's extremely obviously not relationship material, she's not interested in a serious relationship if she's sleeping around the night before the day and in any case you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who uses sex as currency. She's literally a whore.

Having said that, she's obviously down to fuck, so double bag it and have fun.

You aint together. She told you honestly man fuck it if you like her give it a crack as long as she stops seeing the other dude or at least get a root and cut contact with her

is this shit real or made up? girls actually want/allow balls deep hardcore anal sex? but there's poop in there...

Some do. Mostly slightly emotionally fucked ones in my experience - which btw OP means stay the fuck away from getting into anything even approaching a relationship. Fuck and GTFO.

>shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who uses sex as currency

so we should al just become homos?

Dumb and young my dude
Have consensual sex with a slag that practically cucked me?
I'm mad because she has a history of lying and I've given her a couple chances in the past to come clean about anything she hasn't told me that's important, at those times she told me that her and her ex were still really rocky and on/off
Thank you for presenting me with option 2, it feels true to my heart right now but I'm gonna sit on it for a few hours before responding
It's not that he fucked her, it's that she purposefully withheld the information from me. That's why she's being apologetic and offering her ass

Sex isn't your reward for being a good boy or her apology retard, it's what you do because you both want to and both enjoy it. Jesus, does this really have to be explained to you? Fuck.

This. Fuck her or dont but cut off contact when youre done since it clearly bothers you

>It's not that he fucked her, it's that she purposefully withheld the information from me. That's why she's being apologetic and offering her ass

But why would she offer you that information in the first place.

I think if you like the girl continue to see her, it's not like you are planning on marrying her.

Also dont marry her or commit to her. Shes going to be lying to the next guy about sleeping with you soon anyway

No no no, please don't do this. I don't care if she's the nastiest, worst person in the world. Spewing poison like that is never a good way to go about life.

Having sex with her and then leaving is one thing, but being an awful person back to an awful person solves absolutely nothing. If you reject her, don't tear her life apart, tell her bluntly why you want to leave her, and if she gets mad, ignore her then.

lel sounds exactly like the girl I was talking to, every relationship she's been in ended because of cheating and I just found out she's still living with her ex. Still wants me to come fuck her silly.

Just fuck her for a few weeks but look for something else in the meantime. dont be stupid user, she'll do the same to you

amen, m80

OP here, look for the ones with daddy issues if you want her to give you anal
God bless you user, I appreciate your feedback and you're definitely helping me stay grounded
>sex as currency
holy shit user way to word it perfectly.
Before all this shit happened today we were in her bed
>cuddling/watching netflix, I'm in underwear showing off those sweet gainz
>start fooling around
>get's a little heated, stops me and "jokingly" asks me to give her a k-pin
>they're in my car
>"jokingly" I'll do whatever you want for it
>tell her "Don't be surprised if I don't come back." to which she protests and tries to be tough back at
>get dressed, go out to my car, sit with keys ignition for a good 2 minutes before I say fuck it and go back/give her a kpin
>I'm pissy but she knows how to make me happy. Start cuddling again
>things start getting heated, after she blows me a little I push her down, my throbbing wiener glistens in the sunlight as I'm about to tear her apart
>"wait no.. I'm trying to not have sex for at least a couple months to.. you know.. tighten up down there :^) "
>I'm on top of her, staring at her in disbelief as she argues with herself "well I really want to but I shouldn't but I'm so wet but I shouldn't bu-"
>without hesitation get out of bed and start putting clothes on
>"OMG WAIT WHAT'S WRONG NO DONT LEAVE"
>Spout some Dr Dre-ass shit about how I love no hoe and won't get played
>she throws her underwear off and begs me not to leave
>I'm weak, I cannot deny
>decide to stay, take clothes off and proceed with hammering
then we went on a date and then when I was dropping her off is when we started talking about ex's

Pump then dump

100% of girls like their ass locked
75% love a finger in there
50% of those will love a dick in there

As long as you go slow and don't just jam it in there. You have to work up to it

Ok I've changed my mind OP. GET OUT. Don't fuck her any more, don't talk to her any more. What are you getting out of this relationship that you couldn't get out of a normal, high functioning girl?

GET OUT.

>ait no.. I'm trying to not have sex for at least a couple months to.. you know.. tighten up down there :^) "
Ok, you're either super trolling or... GTFO

What the fuck are mutals?

Is she trying to say Mutual?
In that case, why the fuck is she trying to be mutual with her ex in person? Unless she has a kid with him this is a huge red flag. Does she have a kid?

The reason she didn't want to fuck was because she fucked the other guy and hadn't washed yet. Enjoy your cummy dick.

Ew.
Just masturbate real quick and everything will be clear

Okay I'm not super trolling but take into account what I said about her being young.. Like she's baaaarely legal
a high functioning girl would be nice, but I have yet to find one. I always find chicks are more into me when I already have a girl, so keeping this one around might be beneficial in that way? Plus she's the first high test QT I've been with so I'm slightly reluctant to let her go..
but thanks to the support and differing opinions I've seen in this thread, I think I'm gonna let her try and "earn my love" back before ghosting her

Get out get out get out get out

I don't understand why you're even considering this? How thirsty are you? If you've managed to get a girl, then you can manage another one. Literally leave and never come back. Not being cynical here, you have not said a single good thing about her in this entire thread.

I think a better word there would be "civil"
she's been on shit terms with her ex and her therapist recommended she try and get on better terms with him, so she asked me if I thought it was normal to be on good/civil terms with an ex. I told her it was based on the context of the breakup and a lot of different factors; I wasn't upset about it but she's explaining herself because she thought I might be?

This.

The girl was honest with you which most wouldnt even give you that. No reason to trash her. Just move on. I know from experience the first time I got revenge because I felt betrayed it didnt do anything it good. It just made me seem like an unstable emotional beta bitch who needed to learn how to grow up and handle myself like a man. Move on like a man.

Seriously, this whole thing only gets worse for you. She is already drama, already lying, already a drug using degenerate using sex to manipulate you. You're not going to 'save' her, she's not going to prove shit to you. You are wasting your time.

Why does she have to talk to him at all... in person? This makes no fucking sense

She starts getting on good terms with him again and she'll remember why she got with him in the first place. Because she's young and dumb.

But that's just what you're telling us. Truth is he had a big cock and dumped her like trash. She finally got back in his good graces and now he's fucking the shit out of her. When you're at the gym is the best time for him to lift her on his cock

OP. You need to be honest with yourself. Do you want someone like this in your life? Is this the girl that you deserve? No. It's not. Stop being ridiculous, and assuming that "you'll never get another one". You will. No girl in their right mind will look at the "relationship" you currently have, and want a piece of that.

Well obviously, you don't just send her a message calling her a pathetic cunt. This is 4chins, you have to be overly dramatic to make a point. You're right though.

I want to take the time to thank you guys for helping me get my head on straight. Have a good one!

When I broke up with my girlfriend in July, I did that exact thing, and it made me feel initially better, but overall it just made me feel worse. She broke up with me over iMessage, so I wrote down every single thing that I thought was wrong with our relationship, and with her, and then dropped it all on her head. I thought for sure she was going respond and do the exact same thing to me, but she didn't. She was really angry, but maintained composure, and pointed out every single flaw in my logic. She then made it clear to me how much she cared about me, and then explained to me how I disappointed she was that I decided to torch our bridge.

And let me tell you, that shit made me cry. I never cry, and I think I actually sobbed like a fucking baby after reading those, and it was one of the most powerful wake up calls I'd ever gotten.

If OP respects this girl, he needs to do the same thing. Do what's best for him, but leave behind a path for the girl to crawl out of the shithole that her life is currently in.

Ummm what?
She's a fucking whore
If you still can't see that
Well nigga fuck it don't catch feelings

hahahaha fuck this gender we are so stupid.

we knowingly put literal human trash bags like this on a pussy pedestal

im so done, time to jerk it off to a tinder conversation where a girl who wears 5 layers of makeup and the snapchat dogfilter is probably going to ignore my message asking her on a date :)