Sexual Health Thread

If they found out, why would they want to hook up again?

They usually think it had to do with me not being attracted to them so they self conscious. They haven't seen the cum filled condom yet so I honestly don't think they noticed

Well it depends on there sex history if they've had guys that lasted mins and they assume it's normal.... Or they notice. Some girls find it flattering.

Any tips on living with herpes?

There's websites for it like eharmony, but for herpes. There's woman out there if you really get to know won't care...but it's like long term relationship kinda thing

Supposedly just make sure you always use protection and take your meds daily. As long as you don't do anything while you're having an outbreak it shouldn't spread

Is it gay to not want to look at my girl's asshole when doing it doggy style? Anal disgusts me and seeing that poop chute has me cringing. This normal?

i never had a problem lasting long, but lately i sometimes cum too fast. any tips or ideas why it could happen?

Any position you know of that doesn't make you cum? If so, add those in.

>thinking of getting an escort
>have a wank
>immediately realize it would be a stupid decision

I'm still tempted, though. It's not worth it, is it? They're pretty cheap around here(around €150/h) and chances are I'll probably go for it at some point when I've had a few drinks. Worried I might not get it up or come immediately, though.

You'll feel worse about yourself and the money you spent. Don't.

you will probably regret it. also what often happens is that you won't get the girl you wanted and instead some 4/10 shit will come and since you are horny you'll pay anyway to fuck an uggo

Yeah, I reckon I'd regret it.
They have pictures online and its the girls themselves who supposedly pick up their ads, but I bet the pictures are fake or just of them in their "prime".

it's like there just comes some other girl and she says 'she doesnt work anymore and im a replacement'

I only last about two minutes when I'm going raw. After I cum I can keep going for another minute or two before my dick goes limp, then I lose any sexual needs until the next hour or so.

How do I last longer? I'm uncut

Gonna get fucked by a dude tomorrow. But I havent been able to cum from anal alone, and im too shy to jerk off in front of someone, so idk if im gonna be able to cum

this is like the 4th time this will have happened, im worried he might think its him rather than me

makes me anxious desu

that's nonsense.
unless he is a pornstar fucking you for 45 minutes he has no right to expect anyone to cum handsfree.

if you are interested in having an orgasm during sex just touch yourself a little...you only need a little handwork to come actually. or ask him for a reacharound.
if he refuses both options it means he's a bit of a sadist and wants you to be his little bottom bitch...well, do you want it?

he gives the WORST handjobs lol, that isnt an option

and idk why but it just seems embarassing to touch myself while getting fucked, not sure exactly what thats about

So you taking it in the ass is completely ok, but you jerking off infront of someone is embarrassing. Maybe some foreplay, fetishes? Him jerking u off as he fucks you?

um, i guess it is kind of dumb

i think maybe i do need to find some fetishes, try some new things.

Why does it seem like when Im trying to fuck a girl hard and fast, that I get winded so quickly? I exercise and I also bicycle a pretty long distance on cardio days, but I immediately start getting too tired when I try to go from balls deep to only the tip over and over.

Anyone know what to do with a loud girlfriend?

We just moved out of an house into an apartment so we don't have the privacy like we used to have.

I'm no sex god or anything (We were both virgins when we got together 7 years ago)

So it's not like I'm doing anything special.

Should I just shove her face into a pillow every time or do I sit her down and tell her to stfu, or what?

Why dont you like that shit? That's amazing.

You guys are going to give me shit for this but why is fucking a short chick so damn hard? Doggy style she is almost hanging on my dick, 69 is a chore since either she can't blow me or I have to damn near sit up to eat her out, missionary and both cowgirls are the only thing I can do with her.

Unrelated note she accidentally kicked me in the balls while i was cumming. I don't know if it felt great or just Fucking hurt

>Lotion up the dick daily

What does this do?

>tfw you want manlet children

tell her to clean her nasty anus up wtf
there shouldnt be any poop

lads im kind of worried, I just went to uni and bought some johnnies in case i pull a sloot, but i thought i should test one out so i fapped whilst wearing it but it was kind of uncomfortable and took way too long. is this normal or am i not wearing the right size (im 7x5.5 wearing standard durex ribbed) or just need to get used to it?

How short are we talking about? I'm 6'1" and never had a problem doing any of those positions when dating women who were 5'1" or 5'3". You're not dating freak show midgets, are you user?

I've got a question about rough sex with hookups.
I read on here all the time about guys casually facefucking girls they just met and shit - how does that work? Are there really that many girls into it , or is it just insecure sloots letting guys abuse them?
I'm kinda inexperienced trying my hand at the hookup game for the first time, and seeing fast progress, so I expect it to work in the near future. Would love to try out some rougher stuff with someone I don't know that well, but would hate leaving a girl feeling genuinely like shit.

bro, where did you get there being poop on her anus? Regardless of hygiene I can't bring myself to look at her brown eye.

I remember I did with this one girl I was dating and it made me never want to look again, she had that all natural stained asshole look. Gross af.

Get them off first.

>meet girl
>things go well, thinking I might finally get a gf
>one day she texts me asking if I want to be her FWB
>fine with me, say ok
>2-3 weeks go by because doc prescribed 1 month with no sex (had frenuloplasty)
>text her 2-3 times asking if she's free
>she's always busy
>think "ok , she's not interested anymore" so I move on and don't text her for 1 week
>suddenly she starts being interested again

what the fuck
why do females do this

This girl wants to hook up with me this weekend I think, only problem is location, we don't really have a house to go to or anything, so our next option would be my car
Where do I park so we can do it with minimal risk?

Women are fucking weird, meng.

Maybe she decided to take a break from dating?
Maybe she got dumped?
Maybe she found interest in you again?

Point is, who fucking knows unless you casually bring it up if it matters that much to you. Otherwise just go with the flow.

You have one too, you priss. The problem is you. Everybody shits and farts. what are you, 12? Grow up and get over yourself.

>Don't have a house
>Will probably get the bitch preggers
>Another shitty kid with shitty parents who should have never fucked in the first place

Get a job and become productive before you get reproductive.

well I found out she's been seeing another guy
she once drunk texted me at 2 am and called me the wrong name , kek
saw a pic of them on FB a few weeks later

the thing is I don't really give a shit, but at the same time I want to fuck this girl too
It's just a massive headache to have to go through this bullshit female logic thing

probably not even gonna do piv

My girl is a complete gains goblin. She's cute as fuck but I've been spending so much time her i haven't had time to work out. What do Veeky Forums?

I wanna last longer m8

Here's 2 questions for you, help a sister out.

I'm a girl and I can't get wet. Not even a little bit, no matter how horny.
Other than using lube, is there anything I should be doing? Help a sister out.

Also, my bf cums in veeeeery small amounts. I hate that, to be honest, but I don't know what to suggest him to do to change that?

Bruh you need some discipline and willpower. If there comes a day that your girl leaves you, you're going to be without her or your gains.

Need balance in your life, mang.

1. Slob on his knob. When my girl doesn't wanna bother using lube she'll give me a dirty blowjob which not only turns me on more but makes it easier to get it inside of her.

2. Does he have low test or something? Or maybe he is jacking off too much? Whatever it may be, perhaps do some more foreplay before he gets to fucking you.

You haven't been reading this board at all, haven't you?

You're absolutely right user, she's literally perfect though. But I need to man the fuck up and continue on my quest to make it one day

Nice catch, bruh. Should def be making time to enjoy whatever it is you two do but yeah... moderation. You got this though, go do it.

No she is not literally perfect. Stop thinking of her like this, it gives her too much power over you. It will break you if she fucks off

You're right brehs, I'm gonna start hitting the gym hard again, doing a 5 by 5 3 days a week since still fairly dyel, and for the past 2 weeks, I 've only done 2 days of it and ate shit. Time to get my regiment back on track. I'm gonna eat my pound and a half of chicken tonight

Her better option fell through. Girls are super calculating liked that. Not their fault, though. It's built into them to choose the best possible mate.

Is there a way to help get a strong boner for the first few times with a girl?

I have a big dick and no problem lasting a long time, but for some reason the first few times I sleep with a girl, it only gets like half hard (especially if I need to use a condom). Once we've had sex a few times, it goes back to normal and full size.

I've tried L arginine with no luck. I understand it's performance anxiety, I just don't know what to do since I feel pretty confident about myself otherwise

I like you user, you are a realist, and not one of those fags who expects unrealistic things from a female brain.

Bro I have the same issue. I cant get hard for any girl i bring home from clubs or events. It fucking sucks. Basically only get hard for ex gfs

I have an incredibly small penis (6 inches), prematurely ejaculate (can't thrust rapidly for more than 30 min) and don't like eating pussy because it often tastes bad.

Hi everybody i have a problem i'm currently fucking a below average girl regularly
i was able to get an okay erection not rock hard but enough to give her an orgasm
but since last week i can't have desire for sex anymore

so i started no fap 2 days ago and nothing happened what now ? Am i low test ? I am 20 i tought i was supposed to have enough test to fuck a hole in a wall

FYI before this girl i spent 2 years single and furiously masturbating almost every day
Is my libido permanetly fucked ?

Breh... the conversation I have to have with these girls if I intend to GF them up. "It's actually really big, I swear."

Then they stick it out and are like oh shit, you were serious. But I feel like a dicklet those first few times.

Someone please help us :(

It shouldn't matter

I have an average dick size, but I'm pretty girthy I think

Anyways, whenever I fuck girls, they love it even though I may not be super well endowed. Even when I'm like not even hard, and pretty much fucking them with a wet noodle they're still loving it (or acting like they do) in which case whatever it still works

I am good with my mouth and hands though so I make sure they're satisfied in every way possible

I have somewhat plesant feeling on top of my dick while trying to do kegels and generaly feel like im trying to lift my dick up. Am i doing it wrong ?

>incredibly small penis (6 inches)
You watch too much porn, that's not even fucking close to being incredibly small
Fuck you

>Girls are super calculating like that
Why? They were fwbs after all, so she obviously wasn't that into him anyways. Guys do the same, its normal to disregard people you just want to fuck in favor of those you actually want something from.

I have a problem making girls cum (specifically getting them over the edge)

I've been told I'm "amazing" at oral and fucking, but I can never guarantee that a girl will cum. I can get them moaning, wrapping their legs around me and soaked, but they so rarely fucking cum. I get alot of "that was great" and when I ask how they feel about cumming they say "I don't need to cum to be satisfied"

My three go-to finishers are: Fingering with two fingers doing come hither on gspot while grinding the clit with my palm. Oral, starting slow and random and ramping up to constant clit licking, and finally hitting them from behind and using my hand to rub their clit.

They go wild for all 3, but I can only get these girls to cum like 30/40% of the time. Again they say sex is great and come back for more. Anyone know what's up here? What could I do better?

I've got a new girl who I'm going to be sleeping with soon. I really want her to fall in love with me, and giving her a huge O definitely helps with that. What are your go to moves for getting them off?

I know it shouldn't matter, but giving them the impression you're rocking a huge dong definitely helps get them infatuated in the beginning and makes getting return sessions a lot easier

gotta get a rhythm and keep it up until the job is done, sometimes they have weird mental shit that stops it from happening especially if they're not comfortable with you etc.

Depends on the girl. My current GF told me she couldnt cum when we first started dating, started going raw eventually and pretty much ever time she rides me now she cums, but still cant from anything else.

try any combination of the three:
>increase cardio: big dick = lots of blood required
>do kegels: stronger boner, stronger halfboner
>fap less often or w less porn: like letting the dog out once a day, he gon go nuts

So I'm currently fucking a man who is amazing. He's rough and sensual and the foreplay is great. I've never been more attracted to someone in my entire life. Problem is I can't get off unless I'm rubbing my clit (which for some reason I'm really shy about doing unless we're in doggy-style). He's tried playing with it while making out with me and it didn't do the trick either. Anyone know how I can up my sensitivity? If it's even possible. I'm not fapping or anything in hopes it will help

How long hitting it at a rhythm does it usually take?

I get them moaning and squirming, then keep doing that while gradually ramping on. It seems like I can get them right there, but never over. Eventually my arm/hand just gets too tired and I can't keep going nuts, but I seriously do this for minutes at a time and with multiple girls.

it's like deathgrip syndrome for wimmenz. if you get so used to doing it yourself it's hard to adjust to someone else doing it

idk since I don't have a vaginer but from what I hear that's pretty common, make him gobble your snatch instead

>age 24
>have zero romantic experience (no sex, no dates, no holding fucking hands)
>considering trying dating in the near future, either online or through help from a successfully married friend

How likely is it that my first time having sex is going to be horrific? I'm terrified I'm gonna have zero control and cum buckets as soon as she touches me.

How prevalent are STDs, really? Am I likely to catch something just because I jumped into the dating pool?

>likely to catch something just because I jumped into the dating pool?
just dont drink the water ok?
just wear some floaty wings aight?
just dont take a dump in the pool NAH MEAN

What am I supposed to do if they have this?

Can any women chime in? Is it ok if she doesn't cum (so long as a solid effort was made and she was thoroughly fucked)

pay attention to signs she's reaching orgasm. flushing (turning red), breathing heavy/moaning, vagina ballooning (vag gets bigger inside when shes excited). do more of the stuff that excites girls. also talk dirty, pull hair (at the base of the skull, dumbass, not the end), choke, spank, hold arms behind her back. gently, dumbass.

Just wear a condom and you'll be fine.

Don't fall for the instant cum meme. It took me forever to cum on my first try. Also, it's really not a big deal - just get it out of the way and you will see.

It's been mentioned but he's said it kind of grosses him out :/ I guess he used to work with some guys who would eat out their girlfriends out before work and then their breath would pretty much make him want to go vomit

lol those guys are fucking savages, just give the ol' flaps a good scrub and shove his head into your pucci3

I do all of that already. I also do light choking if the girl likes it.

I have multiple girls that want to come back and fuck me on a regular basis, so I believe I'm doing the fundamentals correctly, like I said I just need help finishing them off.

>unless I'm rubbing my clit (which for some reason I'm really shy about doing
> I'm really shy about doing
get over it

Is it a bad sign that my libido's low? I don't have any of the other symptoms of low test AFAIK.

I've never had sex (primarily because of the above) and I can go weeks without fapping if that's relevant.

no, it's not okay if she doesn't cum.

sexual excitement is more than just a mechanical thing. it isn't just about technique.

when you can talk your girl to orgasm, then you know you're doing shit right.

move slow, talk slow, breathe deep, feel your voice resonate in your chest, and talk to her about sexy things. tell her what to do--turn over, get on your knees, etc. tell her how she feels--your pussy feels so wam, doesnt it, you can feel how hard your heart is beating. don't just tell her to cum for you, wait until she cums and then tell her thats right thats a good girl cum for me.

That's normal. I'm the same way. After starting SARMs I've gotten more sensitive, if you've been thinking about trying them. Currently dating a woman now so I can't tell you if that would help with PinV sex. Pro'lly would.

depends. maybe. maybe it's normal.

it's only bad if it isn't what you want it to be, really.

Supplement with Lysine daily, and keep your lysine intake higher than your Arginine intake
Those are amino acids in case you didn't know, this will help with less severe outbreaks

You want to tag me in?

Look, if shes on the verge of cumming, but isnt cumming, just keep going.

How do i not scare girls away? I already look good and always can attract girls, but as soon as they get to know me better, they give up on me. I barely make it past first dates. I always try to fix this by meeting with new girls, but all i get is more rejection. I regulary meet girls and go on dates but i still haven't had sex or made out with one in years.

build attraction first. tease her, dance with her, talk to her like shes a little annoying and youre not sure you want her around, and touch her in non sexual ways. then say nice things to her so she gets comfortable with you. not so much that the tension goes away, but enough to relax for a bit. then escalate to things like kissing and onward. if she resists, back off a bit, then move forward again. in fact, dont wait until she resists. push forward a bit and pull back before you take her out of her comfort zone. then get her alone.

remember, every time you meet, you have to start back at an earlier stage than when you left her.

also speak and move more slowly. not like molasses, just slowly and gracefully.

25 yo Virgin here.
i've been trying for the first time ever to get with girls and ask them out for the past few weeks. It's going alright, and at this point I assume it's only a question of time and meeting/talking to enough girls until I end up in Bed with some qt.
However, I have a hard time getting over the illusion that your first time should be sepcial, and I think I'm still kinda hesitant over "giving it up". I already stopped masturbating three times a day, so I can let my dick do some of the thinking. But I already pussied out on some great opportunities with attractive and cool girls because it wasn't "special" enough, and therefore convinced myself not worth facing my fears of actually having sex.
How do I stop this from happening ever again?

Makes your skin smoother and repairs damages. Less irritation so you last longer, some lotions actually make it a bit numb.

If you want her to take the lead, then it is a matter of time.

You live your own life. If you want sex with one special someone, find someone nice and do it with her. Dont fuck a lot of chocks when you dont want to just be.cause it works for someone else

But you have to be proactive. Girls can just wait because guys do the asking. You have to ask her.

Come over to my place and watch a movie or have dinner. come go running with me. that sort of thing. get her alone before sexy time and make with the kisses.

Holy fuck this made me laugh. Coworkers are probably full of shit or their girlfriends have nasty snatches.

Suggesting getting in the shower before fucking to clean up. I do that with my girlfriend and treat her vag as if it's my final meal.

Better question is why do you scare girls away? Any idea whether it's your appearance, vibe, personality, etc?

I'm a pretty straight forward dude so I've had women i the past tell me I intimate them. Helps to befriend your dates afterwards to get this feedback