I'm so lonely

Bro you just have to go outside and talk to them, it´s easy

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dam that sip looks refreshing af

You'll always have us user. N-no homo

Exactly why it is useless? I got a qt there. Simply cause you don't get any match doesn't mean ota useless

iktf bro.

>tfw lifting won't make you better at talking to grills

come back Maya

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>tfw fit and finally made it
>went to a party
>cute girl there
>I got drunk and acted like a douchebag
>she felt for it and I proceeded to fuck her
>she started contacting me more after that
>everythingisgr8now.jpeg
>then suddenly one day out of the blue she said "we shouldn't meet anymore. I don't have any feelings for you"
>lonely again
>tfw other girls don't feel the same

wtf bro :(

>1010
nice digits =)
Had problems with social anxieties and loneliness my entire life mate. But I worked on it and improved my life a lot over the last few years.
>be me four years ago
>living at parents house
>Watch youtube and browse chans all day
>only leave house for university a few times a week
>no friends, no skills, no gf
>depressed as fuck
>decide that I need to do well at university for future
>become best student of the year in some classes
>decide to learn skill to get a job
>taught myself programming and got a good job
>decide to get fit
>start running, yoga and lifting
>decide to move out of parents house
>move in dorm so I am forced to have contact to other people
>decide to find a few friends
>reconnect to some people I liked in high school
>start meeting even more people through these guys
>decide I need to find a girl
>go out a few times with my friends
>social anxieties are gone when drunk
>have some muscle at this point
>get laid by asian qt
>workout like a madman and in general care for my appearance
>tfw finally get attention from girls everywhere I go
>tfw men treat me with respect
>tfw more confident and able to interact with people without being awkward
I am still not confident enough for dating though because you are forced in social situation with girls for a long time and can't just walk away if you feel anxious.
My next goals are to find a gf and have more friends
For me it was possible to make a change and maybe for you too if you are willing to put the work in and push through times in which you suffer from depression and lack of direct reward for your hard work and so on. Hope this motivates you. Good luck mate.

>tfw she has a bf
God fucking damn
it seems every young adult these days is in a relationship, but it sucks the most that she is in one

I am exactly where you were 4 years ago. This is very inspirational.

>It's always the face

The beginning is hard mate but once it starts getting better you will not stop because you are so scared of being a looser again.
I guess this gives these terrible experiences something positive. They will motivate you because you know how bad it can get if you stop working on yourself.

dou you have a small dick? no? then shut the fuck up. everything comes down to this. you can really be boss in everything else, but if you have a small dick you are fucked.

hate life :(

i don even try anymone. i know i am fucked. i have given up

htae life :(

www_thundersplace_org

>be quiet guy with basically no friends
>girl talks to me for some reason
>try to talk about her interests and say something funny occasionally
>it always ends in me trying to prop up the conversation as she gets more and more bored
>she never talks to me again
every time

I TALKED TO HER FOR HOURS YESTERDAY

DO I TALK TO HER AGAIN TODAY?

SHE USED TO LIKE ME, BUT NOW DOESN'T LIKE ME, BUT PUT UP TO TALK TO ME AND I'M TRYING TO GET HER TO LIKE ME.

FUCK MAN. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MAN. SHIT

>decide I need to find a girl
>go out a few times with my friends
see this part here is where I'm at and it seems that no amount of fitness, money and work success can change this any soon

chat.whatsapp.com/DQc1uEewovb19IWOvUQOah

>Tfw had a shot and blew it
>Ego too big to remove her off fb because then it would look like I cared
>Instead get to see posts about her and her bf near the top of my feed errytime because she was one of my most talked-to people and is still near the top of my most-talked to list after months of radio silence

ded.

Come cosy back up in the chat bro. Maya is on KC right now probably.

Thats your own fucking fault faggot
Everybody knows if you visit an ex gf or crushes FB page you will end up seeing her with a new guy, possibly several

Girls move on and they move on very fast, its up to you if you want to stick around and experience that bullshit

Sadly this is true.

You get older, you just feel your chances slipping away all the time. Young people find you less desirable. It gets worse. Way worse. Fix things now before it's too late.

I'm not visiting her page shes coming up in my feed, save me your hostility

THIS FUCKING FEEL. FUCK YOU.

All the quality girls are taken past 18 seriously.

Im not being hostile, friend. youre mistaken
I dont want to see you suffer because ive been in your position and ive had friends who did the same
Block her, remove her do whatever to spare yourself that pain

You have to be past the point where removing her "because you never cared/forgot about her" is acceptable by now. Just remove her.

>All the quality girls are taken past 18 seriously.
Well is that so surprising?
If youd gotten several 6/10-10/10 girls who hit on you every weekend IRL and even more on most casual social media do you think you would be single?

Girls in young ages settle for the first guy they meet, after that they replace and monkey branch their way through life
its the way of the world, to get a girl you basically need to snipe her from another guy

Im working on tactics right now to try and identify, approach and isolate girls who are in a worse off relation and looking for a way out. Its not easy but luckily you have the upper hand in many cases since youre new to her and youre mostly only competing vs her old bf

i need more frogs for my frogfolder

post more frogs you miserable frogposting faggots

>miserable frogposting faggots
kek

>tfw gf but super horny and want to fuck literally any other girl all the time

R u all of us?

>tfw 28
>that soul crushing microexpression of disgust and confusion on someone's face when you tell them you don't have a gf

>If youd gotten several 6/10-10/10 girls who hit on you every weekend IRL and even more on most casual social media do you think you would be single?

But what depresses me most is that I do. I pull a new girl every 2-3 weeks or so. Did this throughout undergrad, still doing it now albeit less often in grad-school. All 7-10/10 physically. I don't have "game" etc. I get compliments on the street and so forth; physically I'm both both luck and hard work. Hell I'm probably gonna fucking pull some qt from a bar tonight.

The problem is I don't like any of them beyond sex and maybe the initial fun we have flirting and getting to know a new person etc. They piss me off in normal conversation.

The girls I fall in love with are all intelligent, extroverted but sensitive, physically 8/10+, well educated and just great overall...but they all have boyfriends, most of them in 5 year LTRs. They will hang out with me an just talk for hours which just makes it worse because I fall even more in love with them (this has happened to me twice). This continues until someone gets angry at me and I have go fuck single girls so it doesn't look like I'm trying to break them.

I have NEVER fallen in love with a single girl.

I FUCKED up and I'm just starting to admit this to myself now. I should've put more effort into finding quality girls in freshman year.

> Its not easy but luckily you have the upper hand in many cases since youre new to her and youre mostly only competing vs her old bf
I'm better than the BFs on every level, way better. The problem is they're "nice guys" and there's no real reason for their girls to break up with them.

> be me
> got bullied at school
> no friends
> start being fit for 4 years
> got some meeting with qts in summer
> still lonely
im prepare to destroy my arms like ct fletcher for 2k17 summer, who is with me?

>Tfw ex was an absolute fucking freak
>tounged my ass for hours
>sloppy blowjobs
>squirting multiple times
>Tfw current gf is an inexperienced baked potato in bed
>dry blow jobs
>never hands free
>never plays with balls
>shy as fuck
>but hot as fuck, 22yo, logical engineering student
wtf do i do bros?
I know sex doesnt matter later in life but jesus christ i miss fucking that dirty slut ex of mine...

>I pull a new girl every 2-3 weeks or so
Damn, you must look good at hell or live in a place where girls are super social
I look pretty good but dont get nearly that much attention, hell even the best looking guy i know doesnt get that much

If you manage to pull girls and girls around you are social and single (very key part here) then you got the leg up, keep grinding and you might find a girl who piques your interest

>I'm better than the BFs on every level, way better. The problem is they're "nice guys" and there's no real reason for their girls to break up with them.
Better is a subjective term user
Point being that she needs a vested interest to force the change because it wont come from her, you need to manipulate things to work in your favor and this takes alot of effort

Either keep grinding or learn to manipulate girls into leaving their bf, im going with the latter option because im older (28) so i feel like this is the way to go since it feels easier
Age brings calmness but youre still hunting 18-24 year olds so be prepared for this, single girls in the younger age bracket are rare as hell but after 25 they simply vanish

good luck friend

If you actually were better on every level they would be with you. Quality is often subjective bro. To a logical person, yes, you may be better.
But women dont know what they want. They will often sacrifice having someone thats good on paper for having the safe bet, or someone they can easily manipulate and control.

>someone they can easily manipulate and control.
Never underestimate this
Girls love this, not saying it in an evil way but they love to be able to control and feel in charge
If they have a higher social value than the guy then they are safe with him, they dont need to worry and if things go out of hand they can just upgrade the current bf for a new one

Women arent shit, its just that society as we know it hands of all the power in dating and relations to them and they use that power to better themselves. We would do the same if the shoe was on the other foot

what do you consider small?

Who you got most feelings for? Choose that person.

>he doesn't have a bae

Not gonna make it

This is why as a male, if you want to keep youre dignity, you must always present yourself in a way that exemplifies your own self worth. If you dont, your woman will sniff out this weekness and exploit it.

>tfw can't get a single tinder match
is it even possible to get a gf these days if you're not 0.00001% Chad with non-natty aesthetics and a private jet? I fell for the lifting will get you a gf meme, still nothing

Well i hate my ex as a person so thats not the problem. I love my current gf as a person. Thats why im with her. The sex is just vanilla af and when ive tried to explain it nicely, im the asshole for implying shes not a freak.

>Damn, you must look good at hell or live in a place where girls are super social
I get compliments regularly even from randoms on the street (like girls approach me at restaurants in sober daylight to call me qt), but wouldn't say I'm more than 8/10 face and 7/10 body.

I pull girls who are promiscuous whores it's not that impressive. They pretty much go to clubs/bars to get drunk and fucked. So the first pretty guy they see who dances with them or gives them attention they end up fucking. I also pull girls from gym, but that's much much rarer and they usually have bfs/better offers.

>hell even the best looking guy i know doesnt get that much
I spread out my averages of course. Best looking guys I know from back in highschool on our final holiday on the coast would pull two in one night (as in fuck one, take her back to bar and pick up another), every single night without fail for the entire week we there. I'm not anywhere near that tier and frankly it kind of disgusted me.

Anyway I stopped caring about all that shit like that ages ago. It doesn't boost my ego anymore. I fucking hate it. The only reason I still do it is so I don't seem needy/boring to the girls I'm friends with.

>keep grinding and you might find a girl who piques your interest
At this point I'm pretty sure it's not going to happen.

>Better is a subjective term user
Basically beyond quantitative measure...I'm better in HER eyes, and she would tell me this "oh I would ask [bf], but you're much smarter xD", they don't lift, they're not gregarious and they don't get along with mutual friends, 7-8/10 faces, I don't want to use the word beta but there it is.

Somehow none of it fucking matters? I just don't understand it. They will tell me I'm the most intelligent guy they know, interesting, well rounded, I would eavesdrop hearing her call me hot to her friend etc. They just never hint at romantic interest or flirt with me.

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you're focused more on the content. take half that focus away and use it to create a fun atmosphere