Kid, feelings get ampli-fucking-fied thanks to the magic of body pleasure. The catchphrase is "is easy to mistake a blowjob for love". Did i had my first pork out while in love and stuff, no i didnt and im glad it went that way. Later on i was intoxicated with this high test qt, that strange brew of love (or the idea of) and the sex, HOLY SHIT, that was a ride and probably i wouldve done stupid shit if i havent had previous experiences involving sex because you see i knew better.
You are heading for the ride of you life
Chase Nguyen
Sex is awesome.
Blake Sanchez
This is hard, people have expectations of me, I have expectations of me and 90% of the time I am not even being myself. Life is not going to get any easier is it?
Adrian Brooks
Typical 18 y/o
Adam Turner
You probably dont even know who yourself is, that comes with time. Also, dont do drugs, that takes you into a really bad road. Dont be the stupid kid that gets wasted neither.
Noah Powell
OP, I am *ahem* (clears throat) *considerably older than you are*, and have already been there-and-back on this whole subject.
Sex is great -- when you haven't had it before. But realize that we're hardwired to want to reproduce, and that's what sex is for -- it feels nice so you'll keep doing it. Objectively, intellectually, it's not the end-all, be-all of human existence. Sex loses it's novelty after a while. Then you're stuck with the reality of dealing with whoever you've developed an emotional attachment to. If there's no connection there, then sex becomes this empty, mechanical thing, worse than masturbation, because you're just using another human being, and that really doesn't feel very nice at all.
Don't go down the road of 'casual sex'. It's not worth it. It's dehumanizing -- for YOU, that is. It cheapens something that can be really nice and positive. Regret is not something you want to experience when it comes to sex; ask me, I know first hand about that (I stuck my dick in THAT? WTF was I thinking!?).
All the above being said.. at 18, don't commit yourself to someone (i.e. don't get married, don't get her pregnant, etc). It's OK to be exclusive with someone, but don't do anything that would make it permanent. At 18, you're not the same person you're going to be when you'll be 25, or 30. By the time your personality, and your life stabilizes, the kind of person you want to spend it with may be someone totally different than what you want right now. Consider that carefully.
So have fun for now, but be careful, and remember that nothing lasts forever, and that change is normal and a natural progression.
Lecture over. Hope there was something useful in my ramblings. ;-)
Elijah Baker
That's the thing though. I come off as a whole different person to some people except my closest friends. When I meditate and try to find my core values all that is left is love, understanding, empathy, need to help others.
The thing I see in this girl is that she is exactly like me but has overcome this phase (she is 1 year older) - she is outgoing, confident, kind, expressive. She is SOMEONE , I am no one yet. How do I become a character like she is?
Jace Ramirez
You have to create this person constantly. There is no "you" to find. You are the actions you do. If you are not acting, you are not anything. Furthermore, you are deeply influenced by the people you are around. Your friends, your family, your teachers--hell, even your enemies--are apart of you. This is why it's important not to keep people around who negatively influence you.
Julian Edwards
Having sex with a drunken whore you barely know is essentially using a living flashlight. You'll be sorely disappointed, "that's it?" Call me a fag or whatever but the only sex that's worth pursuing is sex with someone you love. The emotional connection and intimacy is hugely more important than the physical pleasure. It's why the whores and hedonists are never really satisfied, and sink further into depravity trying to attain more pleasure.
Eli Richardson
>Still a virgin but missed out on a few sloots because I didn't feel anything for them.
