>was at the gym >it's kind of a yuppie gym, lots of cardio bunnies and stuff >there was this girl that I see a lot there >she's very cute, 9/10, sometimes we make eye contact and I've been trying to work up the courage to ask her on a date >she is doing a REAL routine, with compound lifts, I always see her squatting >so I assume she wants to gain muscles or why isn't she sitting on the couch eating cheetos?
Fast forward to last week:
>she asks me for a 'spot' on squats >I don't understand, she is using the safety pins? but whatever. >so I get behind her like we used to in HS football >she does her set (15 reps, hypertrophy training I guess)
then she says
> I see you here a lot! wow you're really muscular! no wonder! and touches my forearm
So I tell her 'You too!'. Not in an ironic meme way, I thought you know, I was really happy that she told me that I was muscular, my work is paying off, she should be happy too right?
>she looks at me like I'm retarded >she purses her lips and looks pissed >never talk to me again >no more flirty eye contact
I don't get what I did wrong why do women get mad at you for compliments
Adrian Ramirez
bump
Brandon Reed
your first problem is you're trying to understand a woman.
Henry Parker
>"Haha no im not that big [humble shit here]" or >smile/grin/remove bitch face and ask her literally any question or >one of a million other ways you could have reacted
yet you end with "You too >:)"
Jace Parker
you probably need to go up to her now. She made the first move and now it's your fucking job to continue.
Zachary Long
Listen user, next time you see her at the gym simply say you meant that you thought she was in good shape because you see her all the time and ask if she wants to go on a date, its not rocket science you autist
Gavin Torres
Go up to her next time and say, "hey, last time when I said you were muscular I didn't mean it in a bad way. You look like you're in great shape! How do you do it?"
Then just keep asking questions until you can muster up, "you're pretty cool, want to hang out and get a bite to eat one day after the gym?"
IT'S THAT EASY JUST DO IT
Robert Russell
THIS Do it faget
Carson Campbell
>haha what, I barely come here..I play a lot of wii fit though xD
Eli Clark
You literally did pic related. Could've done anything, but y-you too
Jose Anderson
You fucking retard she was hitting on you
Eli Davis
that would have killed.
Jonathan Martinez
>implying I don't weigh out my food once/week and then package it into meals
How do you think I got to the point where people call me muscular baka
delete this
I swear fucking Veeky Forums ruins your mind.
In all honesty I bet I did it BECAUSE of that fucking image lurking in my subconscious
Camden Walker
Veeky Forums only fucks with your mind if you're dumb enough to let it fuck with your mind
Nathan Phillips
Basically
Jace Kelly
do not do this. DO NOT DO THIS
Carter Cooper
I'm going to senpai
We get married and make babies now
Jose Brooks
You essentially called her "manly".
Well done, Autist.
Eli Martinez
>not replying "nah i just do a lot of wii fit & zumba"
It's like you hate gains.
Chase Long
>So I tell her 'You too!'.
Cool story OP you should start writing fanfic
William Sanchez
thisx1000
To us "muscular" is awesome, it means swole, beefy, thick, tight, huge, monstrous, etc...
To a girl "muscular" means manly, gross, bulky.
You should've said "toned" even though it's not a fucking word.
That word literally only exists for moments like OP. She will take toned as a compliment and muscular as an insult every time.
Fucking women meme..
Joseph Perry
Exactly what this nigga said. It's hard to comprehend from your perspective, but try putting yourself in a girl's pair of shoes. When girls want to be mean or call another girl ugly, "muscular" is one of the more common adjectives they'll use.
