Feels thread

>tfw the longer I'm stuck still doing my undergraduate the more I feel like it's never going to count for shit
I know a degree is still worth something, but for anything I want to do it's basically preschool.
>tfw part-time, but can't handle full time.

>my quality of life has improved!

But
>I am still sad because I am a pussy!

Fuck off you sad sack. Quit being so damn defeatist and enjoy the improvment. You don't have to be so fucking critical of everything you goddamn limpwristed postmodernist.

Not everything is deep, not everything is secretly sad despite whatever your fucking nihilist ass professors spew at you.

Enjoy life you fuckin sad cunt.

Jesus Christ.

>love in the year 2016

>tfw I can onlyf uck thots

this user knows what's up. Stop being a fag, OP.

>People actually think like this

>people aren't liberal pantywaists sad sacks
Hard to imagine, I know,

I think I know this feel. I think being attractive and successful for a long time as a guy makes you into some sort of sociopath. Gotta find the late bloomers

>Starting seeing qt engineering exchange student. We get on really well and I like her a lot more than other girls I've dated.
>she goes back across the atlantic at the end of April.
>Thought about doing master abroad to stay with her
>Don't think she's takes it that seriously or has any real expectation of keeping up with me

>occasionally browse reddit's forever alone board full of other losers like me to see if there are any success threads because i like seeing those

>guy on there whos a kissless virgin goes on a few dates with this girl, they have a great time, both laughing and obviously liking each other
>goes in for a hug on the second date to say good night, but she goes in for a kiss so he kisses her, kiss lasts like 5 seconds
>she says it was a terrible kiss
>he admits it was his first kiss
>she basically tells him "i had another guy in this situation his first relationship and it ended badly so even though youre a great guy i dont want to go through that again" and says she doesnt want to see him anymore

>guy loses a possible girlfriend or losing his virginity because he was a bad kisser

And yet I'm supposed to sit here and have faith and confidence.

>hoping that 25 year old me will be rich
Good, goood....

If she wasn't willing to stay with a virj, it wouldn't have worked out anyway.
Either that or she probably wasn't that interested in the first place.
Anyway, 2 takeaways:
1. Not all women are like that.
2. Start building experience. That means failing a few (or many) times.

there are so many more good and decent men in the world than women, get rekt you stupid cunt lmao

and yet you manage to not be one of them

good advice right here brehs

im aware that it wouldnt have worked out. but i sit here as a 25 year old kissless virgin and see how a guy's chance at losing his virginity and maybe getting some semblance of normalcy into his life with a girlfriend or even a FWB, which could in turn give him more confidence, was ruined by his lack of experience

it's like, he has no experience, tries to work to get that experience, but its his lack of experience that screws him out of the chance to get more experience

back from the gym

dumping

my more abstract work

>Face becoming more chiseled
>looking great
>wide shoulders
>long torso
>long arms
>short legs
>5'8"

I'm 21. Will my legs ever grow and make me 5'11" as I should be? My cousins had growth spurts at 17 and 19

sorry bruh, you're going to need a personality

This is fucking hilarious

>be soy
>not tu
>super ugly in all throughout elementary, middle, and high school
>bushy eyebrows, greasy acne-ridden and scarred pizza face, braces, poor parents who couldn't afford flattering clothing, the works
>come to terms with it
>work on trying to be smart and witty to compensate
>win good friends with it and even the begruding respect of shallow people
>go to college for engineering
>eventually grow into face and body
>overwhelming attention everywhere for not being a greasy engineer
>normal attention for being smart
>feels good most of the time

You're gonna find people who value the best foot you put forward user

Missed your chance bruh

>tfw can't save no thot

proof needed. c'mon you know you want to show it off.

>Be me. Got that yung1 year SS bod. Not bad ya know but too slim still
>meet cute girl through my friends. Also way smarter than me
>we talk alot
>One week ago I open up to her about how ion give a shit about life and apathetic I feel towards grades, college, success
>She opens up to me, feels like she's not happy even though she should be. Doesn't know why she doesn't feel
>feelsgoodman.exe
>Today, she snaps me pic of mannequin at her work and says it looks like me
> I said I wish I was mannequin cause it has dem good muscles
>She says she wishes she was mannequin because they don't have feelings
>Dafuq.jpg

So fit I like her shes kinda fucked up but so am I she's cute and a happy person. But I can't really go for it can I? I'm the only one she's told about depression so if I fuck things up for us she's back to not having anyone to talk to. I just had a friend kill himself 2 months ago caus of depression. Happiest fucking guy I knew for real. What do fitbrahs?

> be cute af when young, long blonde hair (Backstreet Boys era)
> have loads of gf's at school and 'start' young.
> was always lean, but never ripped, never cared.
> get out of school, have nothing but long term relationships
> get pudgy from being too comfortable in relationship, doomed anyway, break up
> take all the (party) drugs, lose all the weight
> meet hot european girl, marry her
> decide to work on body
> now looking fiine, getting bigger errday bf still @ 18% tho
> look in mirror, remember im married to a hot european chick that loves coming to the gym with me.
> smile.

Oh and
Don't worry - there's just as many women that do the same to me. I can get away with murder with a cheeky smile. Be pleased you're good looking, people instinctively trust you more. Just try not to take advantage of it! ;)

Go for it man. Try to be happy with her, if shit goes south and it's not typical crazy female shit, just be her friend.

Also girls almost never kill themselves, so there's no real chance for any blood to end up on your hands.

Emphatic? Or Empathetic?

No problems here with the former but lacking in the latter. Meet all sorts of wonderful women but my unapologetic nature turns most off in the long run.

At least I'm not afraid of calling people out and making an ass of myself for the sake of direct communication. This evasive culture is some little baby shit.

aww fuck dude, that hurt me right in the feels. Why don't you talk to her about it? Try not to make a huge deal so it doesn't scare her off, but mention plans for the future/what her thoughts are about the situation

I agree with other user definitely go for it, but only if you're certain if you want to be with her (regardless of worrying about ending it and ruining it)
if you actually wanna be with her it should be great and if it doesn't work out it's probably a natural thing and as other user said you guys can be friends (me and my ex boyfriend are great friends now even though we dated a long time and split paths)
TLDR if you want to be with her because of attraction and her personality go for it, don't let some potential fears of the future stop you

that feeling when I'm 22 and realizing my fe freinds (5) are pretty much the only peers I have in my life.

I don't get it, I want to meet knew people, gain social experience, heck maybe even go on a first date but I don't know where to look or start.

See what events are going on around town and go to one that interests you. You don't get to being friends.

>people only value you for your appearance

People who look good do so because they take care of themselves. Being fit and having good taste require discipline. Appearance is a kind of substance, and the only people who will argue otherwise are people who don't put in the work.

Don't fucking do it. STOP STOP STOP STOP STOP. PLEASE DO NOT DO THIS.

I am pleading with you on my knees because I have been in this very position.

NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING is worth dating a girl who is a soul-sucking succubus. You will regret every fucking moment you spent with them. They have no soul of their own so they feed off of the life around them. DON'T FUCKING DO IT user.

SCREEN CAP THIS. I KNOW YOU WON"T LISTEN TO ME ANYWAY. AND YOU'LL COME BACK as nothing but a lifeless of husk of yore. Do NOT waste your time on this!