I found a fit girl, cite as fuck personality, caring kind funny. We talk for few days hours on end...

Yeah it's not a big deal at all.

I shoot porn, do bdsm shoots, and different filmed or photographed play scenes with different partners. My girl does the same. We don't sleep with anyone else, but aside from penetration everything else is fine.

Generally we're with one another when we do the bdsm stuff, but obviously she can't be on set with me when I'm working.

It's just different levels of trust for different partners. You obviously aren't a hypersexual person so that level of openness isn't for you.

Well she doesn't get penetrated. She's down with me dominating other men and shit so nbd.

Are you sure you're in love with her? There's a big difference between Love and Infatuation

>Would u guys be ok with your serious exculsive gf for longterm go nude?

No.

She is taking her clothes off for money and getting serious with strippers is a historically bad idea.

Nah im not in love yet. But im really attracted to her. And now infatuated.

I only have sex when i have a longterm relationship so its special for me. Having sex with her + my infatuation now will make her my onitis mayn.

I wanna believe i can live with it cause she is 10/10. But i feel like Shit lime this is a fucking cuck. And fuckin disgusting to share like that.

where did it all go wrong

You do you man but you just seem insecure

True man.
But hear this, i told her i have mixed feelings about it as soon as she revealed her modelling shoots.

And she justified it by saying it didnt get published, it would be just her and the photographer, and she has this certain due to a contract before the shoots.

Bump

Would you guys be ok with this, with long term gf. She wants to settle have kids. Never divorce all that shit

oh post her nude shoots pls

Not allowed on this board

either cut all contact or fuck her like the public good she has made herself into. Just don't be a cuckold and actually date/marry her.

I really don't. know how I would feel. if she were a fuckbuddy I wouldn't mind, but in your situation I dunno... would be hard.

This seems very legit. I think if i repeat she is public property i wouldn't get attached too much hopefully.

She be teasing and lure me to say imma punish her. Then she hint that she has a nice bed, sending a pic, and saying her mom wont be home next week etc. She lives with mom still.

How do i make her a fwb without dating?

I had in mind to go to cinema and then back to her place, that aint good then?

Yeah exactly. Its hard cause she was soooooo perfect. Personality wise.

She can really make me feel happy, alove, understood, supported, etc

I wouldn't date her but keep her as a FWB or something.

I'm with a great guy, were in love and I have a secret that in the past I've had my nudes leaked

Should I tell the guy I'm with currently with about it? It really ruined my life and I feel like I'm hiding a huge secret and I don't like that

This thread man. You're really overthinking it.
The nude photoshoots aren't the red flag, the fact she's already talking about how she wants her future to be is the red flag. Your taking it all to serious. Meet her, date her, fuck her, etc. Just see how things go.
You say you think she's perfect except for that one thing. Do you really think you'll ever find anyone without a flaw? Seems to me you got commitment issues and are already trying to find a way out and you haven't even start dating yet..
Try to go with the flow and just enjoy yourself and stop overthinking it man.

Tell him, if he's worth keeping around he won't care.

It's 2016, shit like that happens.

Yes you should tell. If it's something from the past he might feel emotional in begin. But he will understand you are NOT that person anymore.
In that case it will be no problem and overcoming this will build trust being honest and opening up, having no secrets and accepting each other for who you both are.

This is all IF it really is a thing from the past and will not happen again.

Best wishes, God bless you

Tell him, better to be honest about it than to have him find out about it. Also explain what you've been through because of it. If he's a good guy he wont really mind and understand. If he does mind he most likely isn't long term dating material anyways.
If my gf would tell me the last thing I'd do is get mad at her.

>Being this insecure

Learn English you fucking nigger. It's not even close to my native tongue and I can figure out how to conjugate.

My ex told me that and I didn't really care

I figure 90% of girls past the age of 20 have some nude of themselves on someones phone as it stands right now

Kill yourself fucking cuck faggot. I hope your gf gets raped. (well if you practice bdsm you're okay with being raped anyway)

>literally perfect
>except for one thing
Doesn't matter what it is, just deal with it faggot.

I am that same person but more fucked up, I wasn't a whore or anything. It was with one guy

>I figure 90% of girls past the age of 20 have some nude of themselves on someones phone as it stands right now
That's so fucking depressing. Where do I find the 10% that aren't whores? At church?

Westernsociety.exe

Whenever I hear ridiculously high numbers like that I always think it's a coping mechanism for dudes with slutty gfs.

>literally perfect
>except she spreads her legs for strangers
Just deal with it faggot
Just like you deal with your wife's 3 sons

I'm convinced all of you have never had sex before and are still virgins

Calling men virgins is what women do when they have no argument

>I wasn't a whore or anything
Yes you are.

>takings her words as anything other than carefully crafted sentiments that she knows you want to hear
>not watching was she does as sole predictor of the moment you will drop her

She now has her claws in, it's good if you want to pretend to like it but now you know it's going to be tough having to act like you want to control her and she will pick up on that and move on asap.

The 10% are girls so hideous and socially maladjusted that you don't want to see them anyway. Even church girls send nudes. It's just part of growing up and dealing with sexuality in the age of technology.

are you coping with your slutty gf or just a jewish propagandist? I can't tell

Kill yourself.

You sound like a whiny insecure little butch so it obviously wouldn't work. A female like that needs the confidence of an actor or male model, otherwise you're just torturing yourself

Didn't sound like her was defending it, to be honest.

How often do you get cheated on?
Or are you too confident to care about that?

>the confidence of an actor or male model
lel

in my experience, anyone in the modeling/sex industry is painfully insecure, probably BPD or a similar personality disorder. So very similar to your average Veeky Forumsizen.

OP it's common for a young dude to find those traits attractive, later you'll realize she acts this way with most guys she meets and it's not really indicative of a mentally healthy person. Nothing wrong with doing what she does for a living, just the reasons she most likely does it that are bad.

I don't because I don't worship pussy

You can't control other humans, they're not your property. If a girl wants to cheat that sucks for her, I can hook up with a hotter girl before the day ends. Sucks for you to be so ugly that you worship any girl that doesn't think you're a piece of shit. You should work on that

> worship =/= having self respect

this is b8

It's actually kind of sad that you don't see a relationship as two equals. Do you ever consider that girls worry about their partners cheating? How is any of what I said not having self respect? Do you actually think you can control your girl? I'm a cool person so if a girl wants to cheat for whatever reason I'll end it amicably and move on

What the absolute fuck are you talking about? Worship? What?
You're the one that sounds like you worship pussy with the whole 'goddess like that deserves the best' you fucking cuck

Lmao fight me nerd

The only people who worry and obsess over shit like cheating are unconfident losers who put pussy on a pedestal

If that is too complex for you to understand you may be retarded

Stop projecting bro
Also, you sound like a narcissist

I was a virgin when it happened
Kys

cuck general?

This guy gets it.

Being worried all the time that a girl will cheat on you is ridiculously insecure. Approach every relationship with the attitude that if the worst happens, you'll just move on to a better girl.

You can't control other people - why worry about it?

Veeky Forums just dehumanizes women because it's easier to understand a "gf" as a trophy or milestone on their on "to do list" than regard a woman as a person.

Wait until you have a serious gf.

I was married and she cheated with my best friend after 3 years.

I've dated some really amazing girls since, and am currently dating one that's fit, tall, smart and hot as fuck - basically a GIGANTIC upgrade in every way.

So yeah, the point stands - if you get cheated on, you'll survive. Use that opportunity to do better. You should never settle.

Stay delusional, faggot

Sorry to hear that. Tbh I'm 27 and don't have anyone close enough to cuck me. Got a 24 year old gf and she is questionable faithful-wise.

You forgot a comma in your second sentence. At least have proper grammar if you're going to criticize someone on it.

post a butthole pick

Demise of happy lives right here. Keep trying to convince yourself you're ok with your girl being used by other guys on the reg.

>IM NOT A WHORE! I JUST LOST MY VIRGINITY IN A GANGBANG.

Honestly breh, just try it. You can be surprised how loyal some chicks are despite the circumstances.

I think youre oveethinking this. Date her, be on guard for something to go down, if it doesnt work then talk to her about it and if she doesnt wanna budge, then drop her and move on, that way theres no what if eating at you.

if this is literally your dream girl... WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

dont let her go just because of that, that would be stupid.
fucktard

I' lost my virginity to the guy I'm with now

Yeah bro. I'll do this

Im gonna fuck her brains out next week. See how it goes from there.

Why you would ask a question such as this on a board filled with virgins and people who have surpassed the standard spectrum of autism is beyond me. You will NEVER make it OP as you can't just be a man and make your own decision and live with the consequences.

Fuck no.