I can't cum during sex

How the fuck do I fix myself?

male if it wasn't obvious

I usually dont either, atleast the last three girls have been unable
One was super hot aswell but it didnt matter

Doesnt feel like sex is about the guy cumming nowadays, its more about getting the girl off and having her beg for more

Well that's reassuring. I feel like I fried my brain and dick with porn and masturbation before I got fit. Will it reset itself eventually?

>Will it reset itself eventually?
It might, i really cant help since i still have this problem
I never watch porn but still fap daily, working out makes me crave sex but girls...just dont preform like i want em to

you're too nervous, take deep breaths and just use her a way to masterbate, stop thinking about making her feel good.

I guess lifting in order to smash sluts wasn't the greatest idea after all. I do appreciate the help though, satan.
I'll try that next time, but I think a part of it is how my dick has been desensitized by way too much masturbating before.

>I guess lifting in order to smash sluts wasn't the greatest idea after all
I dont really know about that, id love to smash random sluts but i havent found any so far during two years being single and being fit
Tightness might vary from girl to girl but right now i feel like the extreme effort needed to find a girl to fuck far exceeds the reward of making her feel good and having to fap later

How much do you masturbate?

Are you cut or uncut?

Not at all currently, but before I used to do it 3-5 times a day (with porn). Gonna be a week off soon.

Been there before man. It's usually considered a good thing cause you can last a long time but if you wanna cum this is what you gotta do.

1) Stop death-grip masturbating. This is probably the culprit. Be more gentle and less frequent.

2) Lock/tense your legs up when she's riding you. You may get a cramp in your legs but you'll cum a lot faster. This is basically the only way I can cum.

3) Make sure you relax man. Don't be nervous, just chill. Convince her to ride you and lay back and enjoy that shit.

I have this problem too. Have yet to resolve it. Identified two problems:

1) I jerk off to sissy pron (PLS HELP ME)
2) My tempo is too fast when I jerk

I'm fixing the first one but the second one is hard. Advice?

You've conditioned yourself to cum when you watch porn.

Try watching porn while you fuck your girl next time. I can 100% guarantee you will cum in minutes.

Cut...

Welp, sorry.

What to do for those of us who don't last very long during sex? Sometimes I go for 2 hours straight before I can cum, othertimes I go for 2 minutes? Once I get it up again I can go for a long time, but the early nut is a major mood killer

Either stop looking at porn or watch porn of girls you would fuck in a normal setting. Ergo no bdsm if you nit doing bdsm. Two weeks max and you'll be jizzin like a god

Thanks for the advice, stopped masturbating at all for now since I get can pussy whenever so I'll probably just relax about it and let the problem sort itself out.
Yeah I'm quitting porn forever honestly. I'm convinced now that it's just poison for your mind.

>cut
sorry desu, there is no solution for you

If there's no solution for me, there's gonna be a final solution for (((them))).

I used to have this problem, here's what I did to fix it. While fucking the girl, I'd think about having sex with men, and then I'd be able to cum. It works great! Nowadays I've cut out the middleman by just getting pounded by guys, but you get the gist of how the program works. Good luck user!

Next time you know you are going to get laid have to pee really bad. Sounds autistic but biologically it is somewhat sound. Not too much puss pressure mind you. You don't want to give her a golden shower.

i'm a cutfag and i have the same problem
tfw 7" inch wiener that get girls to cum for days but i can't fucking cum REEEEEEEEE
what the fuck is the point when the jews ruined my life from the day i was born

I have had this issue before. I eventually climaxed was when I was with a girl that I was comfortable with and wasn't nervous.

Man i fuckin cum too FAST not like super fast but like 5 to 7-ish minutes it sucks i envy yall who are circumcised

Try to incognito do deep breathing exercises during foreplay. Youre anxious about sex + sex speeds your heart rate up which cucks your whole system up and shuts down parts that allow you to cum. If its in adrenaline fight or flight mode its going to shut down whatever isnt necessary to help you escape. Just like when youre pee shy.

Deep breathing will level out your heart rate and your brain wont be in panic mode which will allow you to cum.

Getting comfortable with the girl over time will fix the problem also.

>tfw always last 20 minutes MINIMUM
>always end up with the type of women that prefer multiple sub 5 minute quickies a day

Fuck

-t beta male

I always feel pretty comfortable so I don't know if that's the issue, but I'll give it a go.

I had the same problem.

Try to cut porn and wanking out of your daily schedule. Seriously control it, it's over-stimulation to your brain and body.

During sex, try to get her to ride you or stand up and carry her, this will increase pressure and help you cum faster.

Oh. My fitbit says my heartrate is like 110 anytime i have close contact with a girl.

I also get a uncontrollable boners. My dick stays hard even after nutting 5 times in a row when in bed with a girl and i often can't sleep because of heart rate and boner. Im talkin bout a 7 hour rock hard boner with precum oozing out the whole time.

For some reason when I'm hungover my heart rate is increaed also so a night out to a bar then bring a girl home fucks my shit up so bad i can probably get a heart attack and palpatations.

Shits weird but breathing right helps

I wish I had you guy's problems. I've been nearly chronically fapping to porn for over 10 years and I still cum too quickly.

I wonder if intentionally giving myself a mild case of death grip syndrome would help.

Yeah, getting hard is never the problem, I'm usually diamonds as soon as I'm in close proximity to a girl. The only problem is finishing the job.

stop watching porn and/or stop jacking off with death grip

God is punishing you for your fornication, you degenerate scum lord.

With or without rubber? Fucking condoms make it twice as hard for me to cum.

Don't complain, because you get more sensation than I do, obviously. No matter what I do, my peenor can't /feel/ the pussy as well as yours can.

It's something I can never have.

Try Trojan Lambskin condoms, you'll thank me later.

Physical controllable issues that can prevent orgasm (may be a contributing factor but no single thing will likely be a showstopper)
>excessive drinking, includes sober sex too
>smoking in general
>shorter than 5'8"
>lack of cardio
>vitamin deficiency
>lack of nitric oxide in blood (aka not enough meat in diet)

Behavioral issues
>excessive porn (more than once every few days if not getting laid
>tight grip while masturbating, or any other weird shit you do to your dick that does not resemble a vaginal shape
>emotional connection missing, may effect some more than others
>performance anxiet
>she sucks at sex

When you break it down, pretty much everything in life revolves around making sure your dick goes into a pussy and blows loads; incidentally, everything you do will have some minor effect on that. Your dick is like a litmus test for how your life is going.

It could be the condoms you're using. I have to use super thin condoms in order to cum, but sometimes I still can't. My hookup and I used a glow in the dark condom last night so I could make light saber noises while swinging my dick around (which was fucking lit), but it was a shitty condom and wasn't lubed enough, so after about 10 minutes we just stopped.