Anyone else /foreveralone/

you should try asking people about themselves, and trying to spend time with them. that's all you have to do to connect with people. be involved in their life.

Total delusional bitch, women just need to exist and you have 10000 options.

Most guys have to go through hell just to get the attention of a average woman, and even then it's never safe because the woman always has 100000 other options to go to the moment she gets slightly bored or annoyed at the guy:

>looking back at this year
>actually tried and really put myself out there
>girls seem interested, nothing happens

I'm just ready to give up to be honest, no matter what i will be forever alone

>literally just broke up with my gf of 6 months
>mfw

yeah, among a slew of other problems...
but i don't wallow in self pity and think about killing myself

I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, picked up tinder a few days later, smashed after two weeks. And those two weeks were spent mostly working and partying with the boys.

Pick up an interesting hobby or get an education that you can be proud of, use it to strike up conversaitons with women, then throw a cheeky line in to test the waters. If they go for it even a little bit, fucking pull them in and whisper some seriously suggestive shit in their ear and take them home.

Who else here /zero social skills/? I wonder what it's like to have friends.

yeah , another right here.
this is why fit/ it's my favorite board
it's full with sad lonely fuckers just ..like me, and december only makes it worse

Me

Only difference is I had friends in the past. Having friends is way too hard if ur a social retard so I just ghosted them for years and now it's just me.

Yeah, you're right. I need to get past the idea that if I talk to someone, I'm automatically bothering them.

Gotta try and have a little bit more self confidence dude. Theres a 99% chance that youre not bothering someone unless they state so.

from an user last night

you don't need other people to complete you

you are nothing but potential, and having gf won't help you realize that inner greatness any more

it's up to you

I used to think I was forever alone, but then I noticed that there are +10 girls that I could date if I put forth even the SLIGHTEST bit of effort.

I realized that I'm not ready for a relationship, and shouldn't get into one until I'm happy with who I am as a person

Probably. I hate myself.

Anyone else /somehow only date whores/?

>no female companion to spend the holidays and plan the next year with

My only standards is for character, this is considered high standards in florida.

>going on dates
>talking to women
you're a god among us

year 9 since sex. :/

I'm
>4everAlone
by choice

lesbo?

lesbo?

No, but I do often get mistaken for one. Shit is rough.

>the idea that if I talk to someone, I'm automatically bothering them.

:(

user.

Take yourself. And make yourself about 20% dumber. Would you find it difficult to manipulate that person?

please share any and all knowledge you have

not the usual "be yourself" or "be cool"

anything you can share, even something that seems irrelevant or silly to you, can help me. My life right now is class, gym, hike/run/bikeride, bed

I have not met you and probably never will, but that doesn't mean we can't share a singular point in reality together at this point on the internet. The internet is the collective consciousness manifested, we are all part of it and each other. When we hurt, we all hurt.

I can't say that life has meaning, but I can say that things we deem to have purpose give life meaning. Purpose is what we should be seeking, not trying to figure out why we are alive - I think a lot of us get hung up on that, I know I did.

Life is hard and life is unfair, we compare ourselves to others and other experiences, whether fair or justified or not, it's normal. But the comparison is time away from finding meaning and purpose, please remember that. Don't let your yesterdays eat all your tomorrows, regret and melancholia sometimes become comforting friends as they stick around, but they are not the only sustaining aspects. You are worth more than you think, you are worth more than a few bad points in your timeline. I hope you pull through, I hope you can generate the mindset or period of stasis to take a step back and feel objectively. I will always love you - this moment and this message will outlive me, but it is my shared experience with you that lives on forever in you. (You can do and mean the same).

the idea of having a gf at this point for me is so ridiculous and foreign I'm starting to think of it as something repulsive

god help me

You ever get those devilish thoughts? Like "I could just walk up to this toddler and kick his fucking head."

I get those except not violent, just impulsive. Seize this impulse and just say random stupid shit to people. Most will match your tone or attitude...whatever you want to call it.

Act on my innate social nature rather than stifling any urges for interaction out of fear of rejection or judgement by others, and in doing so embrace who I am and cultivate relationships based on this real me rather than a false persona projected solely for the purpose of fitting in?

you got pumped and dumped by chad? you know what i'm curious tell me what happened

I couldn't attract a girl even if I tried. Whatever, more free time for me, eat shit chad

>girls seem interested, nothing happens

THIS IS MY FUCKING STRUGGLE AND IT NEVER ENDS

Do you ask them out?

Florida is garbage I feel bad for you user

I don't care for cheesy stuff like this but you're right. If you think a girl will take you from 0 to 100 in your life then you need to change something about who you are.

Uh sure. I was starting with more of a "Fuckin mondays, eh?"

so what you're saying we need to do is this?

>Be me
>Be 24
>Broke up with gf 1.5 years ago.
>In that time I've fucked 5 girls and made out with 41 (yes I went back and counted) girls at parties/clubbing

>Its never enough.
>I still feel like I'm missing out for some reason.
> I need that validation of going to a party, picking out the hottest girl there and by the end of the night making out with her.
>Sometimes I end up getting with 2-3 girls in a night
>That reputation
>Its never enough
>I go on heaps of dates
>I find them all boring so I stop replying to their messages.
>I can only imagine how much that hurts them
>They keep coming
>It keeps going
>Its still never enough

I don't think 'making it' is an actual state of being. Its an unreachable ideal.

>forever alone thread
>you post this

kill yourself you autistic humblebragging piece of shit

>be me, the epitome of foreveralone
>25 year old kissless virgin, never asked a girl out, never been on a date, haven't had friends since 13, been a shut-in most of my life
>the thought of trying to "hit on" or pick up a girl in public, at work, at a bar, anywhere, literally terrifies me

>even the thought of having a real conversation with anyone with anyone scares me because if i have real conversations, i will expose what a forever alone loser i am

>can't talk about this with anyone in real life because i will be humiliated and even more of a laughingstock
>only place to talk about this would be reddit's foreveralone board or r9k and those are just echo chambers of patheticness and misery with losers just like me
>if i would try to talk about this somewhere normal people are, like here, would just get called an aspie and to "fuck off back to r9k"

what

I know girls that are into me. I just dont want anything to do with them

I'm in a weird spot. I feel lonely and sad, but I don't really have any drive to find someone. I had a relationship that ended horribly a year ago, and since then I've kinda just puttered along. Dated a few people, had sex with a few people, but nothing really feels meaningful. I'm scared I'll never really feel like I can fall in love again.

Does anybody know this feel?

What's the point, at that point? Why settle?

>thread asks is anyone else "forever alone"
>people coming in saying I HAD THESE LONG RELATIONSHIPS AND HAVE TONS OF CASUAL SEX BUT I HAVEN'T HAD A GIRLFRIEND IN A WHILE FOREEEEVER ALOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONE

Same. What we do?

There's no purpose in studying or getting a job. It's just more suffering in a life without play. No one will show me affection anyway.

Why do anything?

I'm in the same situation as you. I have no one.

I feel like my life is over.

Hahaha similar... fucked 5 girls since 19, now 21. Probably kissed/madeout with around 20. It's a fucked ratio I know. And pick up chicks for the thrill too that is all.

Look up your personality type, we might be similar. ESTP here.

>tfw the people who are truly forever alone just lurk these threads and don't even post at all

...

Probably not, I have lots of friends. No gf but it might happen next year since I am actually spending time hanging around with single women instead of just +20 STEMfags and playing vidyagaems all the time.

Grad school is fun but I wish the majority of my friends weren't undergrads.

Eh, I was an autistic virgin until 18 as a classic robot. Then I started gym and read 'How to win friends and influence people' and 'The Game'. Taught me l pretty much everything I know. As a result I am just a robot with manipulative programs installed.

INTJ

The weird thing is I don't actually enjoy it. I had a girl last week, I was smashing her with her face was buried in my shoulder moaning my name and I looked in the mirror.

I was bored. I looked at myself like "Congrats you are getting some, but you don't really want to be here do you?"

>Eh, I was an autistic virgin until 18

no you're still autistic

>"Congrats you are getting some, but you don't really want to be here do you?"
I get the same things sometimes... when you don't have pussy for a while you start you idolize it and put it on a pedestal, but once you get it, it's like "this is it...?".

I can tell you regular sex with a gf/someone you care about is the best. Also, do you watch a lot of porn?

Just curious maybe we are similar. I watch a fuck ton of porn and fap and still got laid / girls interested.

Should've added, but wondering if correlation with porn and lack of caring about actual sex once you get it.

Oh I know for sure I'm somewhere on the spectrum. Excellent diagnosis.

Yeah I do definitely indulge too much. ED is a concern at times. I think there is a correlation for sure. I think its the unspoken disorder of young men in this age.

me. worst part is I crave love and get mired every day, get hit on a lot, but I just don't like nor trust people.

I have the same problem user, got diagnosed with schizoid pd you should look into it to be quite honest

>gf broke up with me because she still has feelings for her ex
>talked before I cut off contact with her
>told me I'm smart, handsome, patient, kind, funny
>she trusted me, never did her wrong and I always made her happy, all her own words
>it still wasn't enough

I don't know what to feel. Does alcohol kill gains? Been doing both very often, but not in the same day.

if you have a female friend you should explain to her what you just told us.i'd bet money she'll want to get closer to you and be your friend

i wish i could go back to being forever alone

people will let you down every time, the expectations you set for them only hurt you in the end.

I want to become a hermit

...

Lol

Damn man. I'm but I feel you. It pisses me off that there's no justice in this world. You can do everything and still get shit on. Hope the best man.

>Also, my fuggin captcha

How do you feel when you realize how disappointed your parents are of you.
>Your parents will never see grandkids

I forgot how depressingly funny forever alone comics could be.

Yep I am also a girl tho which is worse.

Thing is I'm actually considered pretty. Blonde hair glasses big butt etc

I'm just socially awkward, I play video games so the only male friends I have are scrawny nerdy guys but I really want a guy like a ripped pic related.

Tfw will be called a roastie
Tfw can't lower my standards either

Long island?

Hey I'm I have a question, or any other qt can answer.

Girls know my reputation but for some girls they seem not to care and come along for the ride.

What is your view on 'Chads'?

Thanks m8. I also feel the same way you feel, you're not alone.

most girls see chads as high-value individuals because all the other girls love him so they want in on it

honestly you just have to insert yourself into a room or situation where pic related chads hang. They will gravitate to you if you're decent looking 7 or above. You literally don't have to do anything. Just bring a friend so you're not standing autistically by yourself. also gtfo of this thread you roastie.

>the one girl interested in you is a fucking high schooler with a crush
>TFW foreveralone but actively fleeing from the pussy

>tfw when no 'no chin jew nosed 6'1 Abigail' gf

I used to weigh in the mid 300's, which complicates things a lot. People don't understand the whole loose skin thing and just see a fat hourglass.
I'm scared to get too close to men, so I'm a khhv at 28.

I'm forever alone but actually considered really attractive.

Everytime I'm out girls stare at me and talk about me, i kiss girls everytime I'm in a club but I just get oneitis for girls I see in the gym and hate the idea of getting with a girl when I like that one in the gym who I'm convinced likes me too but I'm too retarded to say anything and instead just sit at home writing on Chinese basket weaving forums listening to coldplay

Lost it all in 1 go? How tall are you and what are you weighing now?

I'm still in the middle of it. 5'3 at 200 lbs, which is still really bad. I only get away with it because of the fat distribution.

This is the mature way of going through life. Unfortunately it's a lonely experience.

They are all deeply in love with you.

You're a monster for being in their vicinity.

Sure enough this too is where I'm at. 08-02-2015 was the point at which my breakup occured.

Like the other user with no feelings about the 20+ sluts he smashed, I'm an INTJ. Except I don't have the program installed for rabidly pursuing women, just the one for feeling lonely and not being able to relate with 97% of the human population.

>eat
>work (whew look at the time)
>shit
>piss
>eat
>sleep
>>>>>repeat

I dated a girl once but i always felt alone, i think they'd have to be really good for you to not feel alone, lol

>all these people taking the bait
>they're whiteknighting instead of getting mad
Shaking my head on two different levels right now

To be honest I started lifting thinking I'd find some caring and loving man in gym but I was so wrong, seeing how shallow and stupid most of you guys are. Now I'm sitting here eating KFC nuggets, fuck gym

>tfw black
>tfw beta too
Might kill myself buds

:/ well just saying there's nothing wrong with women giving each other nude locker room rubs. I'm available.

>tfw just broke up with gf
>tfw see her everyday but have to act like she doesn't exist

fuck brehs. It's harder than I thought.

Anyone else /wantstobealone/?

>To be honest I started lifting thinking I'd find some caring and loving man in gym
and you're saying WE are shallow?

ree