How can I stop myself from cumming 5 minutes into sex?

How can I stop myself from cumming 5 minutes into sex?

practice

>Stop watching the porn it's killing your self confidence.
>Edge
>Either jack off beforehand or tell her You might cum quickly, then go for #round2

>Stop watching the porn it's killing your self confidence.
impossible

buy condoms that numb your side of the latex. not even kidding
>can last for eternity now
>actually get bored and daydream about random shit mid fucking
>they always finish first now

It's all in breathing and relaxing certain muscles in your hips/pelvis.

fuck ugly/fat chicks

This
Im quick on the first go but round 2 i can go for 20 mins easy

Not gonna make it.

Howso?
I quit watching porn and went from lasting still jack off though.

Also quit focusing on cumming or not cumming just focus on having a good time with your partner.

I feel like part of it is in my head. The more I stress about it the faster I cum, whereas if I'm drunk I can last forever when I don't think about it

use a condom

How did quitting change that for you

These days, I don't care about sex. It's not for them to enjoy. It's for me. We already have to do enough for women.

>edge myself before sex
>cum inside them in a minute or 2
>no round two, at least not immediately/when they want it
>get dressed and go back to doing what I want to do

Literally the most detached thing ever. Makes them feel used.

If I actually like someone, I will put in the work and actually have a lengthy session

I got access to a private porn tracker and I don't think I'll ever stop jerking off

>tfw take ages to cum
>don't even always manage to finish

Life is hell.

Attain a bodyfat level of 15%.
Learn how to recognize when you're cumming.
Learn how to Edge. The self mastery you gain from that will be invaluable. But don't make it an everyday thing. You'll ruin your ability to have and enjoy spontaneous orgasms as well as give yourself prostate problems overtime.
Learn None Ejaculatory Orgasms. Same problems as Edging.

Don't. Just cum when you cum then get her off when you're done.

Elliot pls go

And I bet you'll act surprised when you get cucked

What is even the point of spenidng time and money on a woman if you're going to blow your load once, and only in a minute? .

I used to be like that, stopped jerking off completely, got used to just pure penetration and one day boom, massive explosion

Not really sure?

Instead of me being enveloped in the screen my imagination got more vivid.
More focused on the actual fappin.

Then I noticed that I had stopped comparing myself to everyone else.
Became more attentive during sex
Then stopped thinkin " dont cum dont cum dont cum"
Started actually just enjoying the sex.

Sometimes go soft during round 2 and don't know how to get hard at that point

Had the same problem. Today I have to use extra thin condoms, still takes some time for me to cum.

>kegels
>breathing (a major factor)
>slowing down or pull out, change position, make out, give her oral in the meantime
>work on your stamina
>edging
>have more sex so you stop to worry and overcome your performance anxiety

I jack off like twice a week if I jack off at all. Rest of the time I'm seeing my gf

Lmao this definetly some shit he would say

I just go ahead and cum.

I came twice in about ten minutes the other night. Third time I last about an hour. 4,5,6th times I went for about an hour each.

Just chill and do your thing.

Find a loose girlfriend.

Find a tight girlfriend.

I'm not even kidding. My world was completely changed when I found a GF who was actually fit. Her pussy was so tight that I thought I'd put it in her ass by accident. I came every single time.

Other facts:

> Zero queefing. Women always get angry when this is brought up, but if she's tight, no air gets in, no queefs come out
> Zero cum dribbling down my dick when she hops off. Seriously, that tight pussy just squeegeed all that jizz right off my dick, leaving just a mild sheen.

Just cum inside him(or her) and keep going and then pretend to cum later, I do that all the time.

>I came twice in about ten minutes the other night.

Found the diabetic.

Tight grip when you jack off, I've done it for years unintentionally and I can't cum from sex. It sucks but your performance is godly and I can still cum from handjobs and blowjobs

How do you stay hard?

I masturbated dry until recently, not sure if that would be the same

Mother
Fucking
LUBE

Because I'm fit and in my 20s?

Wtf is the connection with that?
>found the dodo

No idea, I have never used lube when jacking off and I've always tight gripped, maybe that's also part of the reason I can't cum

alcohol has a physical effect, it numbs things

numbs too much for me :(

imagine you are fucking a woman instead of a guy. works wonders.

How to make my dick super hard every time? Sometimes it's a rager and sometimes it's just hard enough.

There's a diabetes medication that, as a side effect, eliminates the refractory period and allows for multiple male orgasms.

A female friend bragged about how her boyfriend could keep fucking and cum several times. I told her she was full of shit.

A couple years later, I read an off-hand comment about it by a diabetic. That's when it clicked, the female friend's BF was diabetic.

I've learned to slow down a good but before I reach the point of no return, also flexing my anus helps for some reason. Slowing down to keep yourself from coming doesn't mean you are keeping her from coming. Honestly if you just keep your penis in her and grind your pelvic region on her clit, that should work, it's worked for me and is minimally stimulating for myself.

Psycho tier

>He lasts 5 minutes

alpha as fuck

You aren't kidding. They work well but I just get bored after 40 minutes.

Where do I aquire this medication?
>asking for a friend

I stop. Take a break and drink plenty of water and don't think about it for a good 10-15 minutes. I'm usually dehydrated. Just relax and then when you feel yourself really turned on easily you can get hard like you were when you first stated.

You must have the smallest load ever.

Just get her off with your tongue and fingers for 5-10 minutes beforehand then get off as fast as you want

>porn causes premature ejaculation
>porn is more stimulating so it causes you to get ED and not cum in real life

make up your mind, antipornfags

Typically my game plan, usually a bit longer just to extend the length. It is only a problem when she wants to move straight to sex

Thats shite. After climax i dont want to be messing around with her with my pathetic soft dick. Every time she sees it it makes her feel inadequate.

>Implying both cannot be true
>Implying I said either of those things

Get a gf and watch her gain 25 pounds until she becomes a 5/10 at best 2 years into the relationship

:'')

LMAO

Sociopath

kek cause it's true

Get into a relationship.

Or a niche fetish.

Kegels bro
Or, let me fuck her first. Will make sure she is stretched out and loose as fuck for you.
Probly stick with Kegels

same thing happened to me. recently got broken up with. i loved her but damn take care of your fucking body, you're 21 years old and you should be in your prime ffs

Tell your boyfriend to stop massaging your prostate you massive faggot

No idea. I can't even find what medication it is. I imagine they try to keep that info on the D/L lest every dude start importing the shit illegally.

Search engines have become such utter shit. Good luck finding any information about male multiple orgasm from diabetus medication. You'll get completely irrelevant results that Google "thinks" you want.

>Learn how to recognize when you're cumming.

Knowing when you're about to cum is as natural a breathing... do you have a mutilated dick or something?

The refractory period is largely due to spike in prolactin after orgasm, cabergoline should greatly reduce level and bring the refractory period down to tens of seconds.
iirc viagra also reduces it
If your refractory period suddenly increases or decreases then see a dr

The best tip Veeky Forums will never give you:

DON'T. Do kegel exercises and learn to control your ejaculate. You can actually, with practice, orgasm and not ejaculate. Since you haven't ejaculated you won't lose your boner and can keep Fucking. This can be done iindefinitely although I've never had more than two orgasms. After the second one all the sensitivity is gone.

I've tried kegels.. not sure if i did them right though

right, sounds like you have psychological issues if I'm being real with you man.

are you one of those guys who migrates for great epiphany to great epiphany without ever fixing their life? instead just hoping there's a simple on/off switch you can flick and you'll magically get on track?

Bruh...Not exactly right but pretty close.

My exact problem is that I can ONLY make decisions with an on/off switch.
But when I finally make a choice I just fuckin smash that shit and never go back.

It's how I "quit" asthma (Long story)
It's how I improved my sexual "prowess"
It's how I made the decision to get Veeky Forums

It's also how I get stuck without progress

How do I fix myself.

Try and think about how your body feels, the physical movements you make. Think about something like how your glutes feel or leg muscles when you do this. "Go into your body" instead of being up in your head. Suddently you will find that you the urge to orgasm is over. Stay in your body and focus on having sex with her until it's appropriate for you to cum.

Im keen for the long story on how you quit asthma. Anything is worth a try i hate this shit.

Jerk off a couple of times, before you get laid.

What is the correct way of breathing to last longer?

Uh oh watch out everyone big tough minute man over here uses women like the sociopathic alpha he is. This is what happens when a one pump chump is lives in deep denial.

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Just cum and then get her off. Go for another round, if you feel like it.

>How can I stop myself from cumming 5 minutes into sex?
>i'm the only one who thought op's pic was asking this

I have the opposite problem. I can't ever climax with a girl, despite the fact I'm rock hard teh whole time.

>asthma since childhood
>3 different medications to control it
>start swimming athletically
>it improved a little till only any exercise brought it on
>For YEARS always "that guy with the inhaler"
>I hate it...but i need it
>one day decide I'm never using inhaler again.

I promptly had an asthma attack just about every single day I swam for over a year.
I vividly remember collapsing In a shower or on a locker room bench just hoping I didn't die.
Being halfway across the pool and my chest starting to spasm because I can't breathe from one stroke to the next.

Then one day I shit you not...I swam in a meet...no attack, no pain, no rush to where no one can see me.
>nothing
Haven't had an attack since then.

deathgrip for years

How the fuck do you fix something like this?

Nigga when I had a gf and was fucking on a regular basis I would go 20 minutes on the first one 40 on the second 10 of those minutes was her giving me head because she was done and came like 4-5 times.

Now I've been on a dry run ever since I stopped seeing her. Haven't gotten laid since the Past won the Owl. Its like I traded sex for my team winning the owl. Idk if it was worth it or not yet.


Is my stamina gunna be completely diminished when I get laid again or will it come back immediately like riding a bike?

In hindsight it was so fucking stupid but i dont regret it.
I definitely could have died and passed out more than once.
What dumbass thinks you can dissapear asthma.

Actually I regulate my insulin well. Fast for six hours daily. No carbs until intra and post workout.

u said the first and IP matches with the same shill always posting nofap threads. fuck off already.

>having sex

It's like you don't even want to make it

omg six hours! *gasp*

mightaswell do IF

when i masturbate it's always the flat part of my head that gets insanely sensitive, almost to the point where it hurts

when i get to that point i cant just slow down and wait a second and let the cum subside to prevent cumming, it takes a while for the sensation to die down and i am like three pumps from cumming after i hit this point

what do? I experimented with a condom and the feeling took longer to get to but still the same issue

I mean it's basically IF. 8 hours sleeping plus another 6 fasted while awake. The key is nutrient timing and knowing when to introduce carbs.

change position after 4.5 minutes

well if is 16+. some do 18 some do even 20.
quality of carbs are just as important id say.
btw i hope u dont claim natty

It's important to figure out which carbs work well for you.

do the hokey pokey dance

>those glowing eyes in the window under the cabinets.

is there a way to permanently desensitize the penis?

False and Inaccurate.
>IP matches
>Being this stupid

I have never posted in a nofap thread.
3/10 because I took the bait

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Do long division in your head

yeah, get circumcised

I am circumsized

Post tits or gtfo