guys... I'm having boner troubles and I don't know why. I get great rock hard erections when asleep but its hit or miss with my girl and when jerkin it. Sometimes I feel so surrounded with sex I don't know what to do. I fantasize about every girl I see and am always thinking about it, but it stresses me out. I've looked at porn since I was a kid and it got weird so I'm trying to stop. It's annoying, I'm only 26 and the only medical prob I have is slightly high Bp controlled with valsartan, and like I say my boners are rock hard at night, every night. I just feel bored with sex sometimes, Ill be hard at first with my gf then while fuckin her my mind will wander and I'll lose it. Sometimes I take 10mg cialis which works for a week and sometimes I just don't need it but I feel like my boner probs are psychological and I just have some weird hardwiring about sex that I can't get over. I wish I had never seen a naked female and could just start over but I dunno now. I don't know what's wrong with me. I used to be a dynamo with multiple gfs and like I say I'm still obsessed looking at females but I dunno if I've just trained myself to see them as objects and am bored now or what.
Start there and fix yourself. Respect your gf more matey, you'll be more passionate in bed with her and will have better erections and shit. Trust me.
Nolan Cooper
best advice i ever got from an older, married man:
stop porn completely.
that's it. no porn. jack off if you get horny enough. but no. porn.
your sex drive will return to normal. will you be horny for your gf/wife. you will get erections. you will be too naturally horny to worry about erection problems. oh, and some moderate cardio obviously.
Bentley James
This.
Porn make unrealistic standards for you and saturates your brain in the fantasy. Don't look at porn at all and only fap dry (no he-man grip) 1-2x a week. It could take 2 weeks could take 12 but you will go back to normal.
You basically trained your body to only get off to porn and your own hand by jackin it for so long. You will be fine, but stopping is going to be hard just unfuck your brain.
Ryder Moore
I'm workin on it. Honestly shes amazing, we had sex 4 times this morning, whenever I go soft she hops right off and sucks me hard again and then right back at it. Wrings the orgasms out of my and if she doesn't cum I go down on her til she does. Truly lucky but I like her so much it's challenging my views of my self as the tomcat I used to be and also the fact that my boners arent where they used to be is wrecking my confidence as well.
Thanks man, I haven't looked at porn much the past few months, maybe just some amatuer photos of solo girls or spanking it to POF sluts once a week or so. I masturbate to my thoughts at least once a day though. I'm gonna try to cut out porn completely maybe masturbation too. It's just been a while so I'm nervous.
Nathaniel Wilson
It's real hard, It's been almost a year since this happened. All started when I tried to fuck a new girl and got soft after extended foreplay. Anyways, I hope I havent damaged my brain permanently or that there's something wrong but I guess the nocturnal erections and the fact that I get hard when I come is a good sign. Also the cialis takes alot of the pressure off too but I don't want to totally rely on it.
Your anxiety isn't helping with it. Just no porn, and fap as little as you can, its ok if you fuck up. Had the same problem when losing my vcard, got right in like a month and only got better after that. I could cut diamonds with my dick when banging now.
It isn't permanent you just gotta take a break and let your brain fix itself. It is very hard to stop cause that is your most basic instinct, but you got to for a healthy relationship.
Chase White
Thanks everyone, It's just frustrating because I feel like I'm more obsessed with it than ever because now I'm insecure. Even without porn I see images on the web or on here, or ads for fantasy games with naked cartoon ladies. I work in the hospital and am surrounded by hot nurses with fat asses in tight little scrubs, I often 'edge' just to see if I can, masturbating just a little sometimes in the bathroom to see how hard I can get.
It's just been a year and its not necessarily getting better. I wish I could go on top of a mountain or something and chop wood all day for a few months without touching my dick or seeing another female and just be myself and get straight.
Austin Cox
You have the will power not to look at porn. Here is the other thing you should do stop jacking off. You don't have to quit for the rest of you life but try to go for 90 days. Treat it like an addiction, one day at a time one urge at a time.
Isaac Rodriguez
>still posting fundy christfag propaganda which has no scientific support.
Dominic Lopez
Can't hurt though. Obviously it's a placebo, but that's the point since it's a psychological problem.
Aiden Lee
>I'm only 26 and the only medical prob I have is slightly high Bp controlled with valsartan,
You're 26 and on BP medication? What the fuck's wrong with your doctor??
Get off that shit, supplement with Magnesium (not magnesium oxide)(low mag is probably the cause of your 'slightly' high bp) and get your Vit D level to between 60-80ng/ml.
And fire your piece of shit doctor.
Jacob Brooks
Can I get sources on that?
I'd love to get off the meds but unfortunately I have a very strong family history of high BP (father in his 30's, brother in his 20's, others) even when I was 18 my SBP has never been below the 130s, now it's crept up to 140s/150s/70s.
I wouldnt mind kicking the meds but I tolerate valsartan perfectly and it has many benefits besides BP.
Brayden Collins
>I wouldnt mind kicking the meds but I tolerate valsartan perfectly and it has many benefits besides BP.
Yeah? Sounds like it's doing great things for your dick.
There's tons of information on magnesium/blood pressure on el google. Good idea to start educating yourself instead of listening to your doctor that has no interesting in the CAUSE of your low blood pressure.
Do you want to be on BP meds your entire life? Or might you be interested in finding the cause of the low bp.
Personally, I'd assign that 'unfortunately' to that your doctor only deals with symptoms and not causes. That you have a family history of high BP might just mean your family has high magnesium requirements (for instance).
Adrian Long
Just dont overthink it op. Let your body do the talking instead of your mind. Also, multivitamins help.
Adrian Rodriguez
>the 'you can cure your medical problems with snake oil' guy
Josiah Peterson
>>the 'you can cure your medical problems with snake oil' guy
>the 'you can cure slightly high BP with a life time of blood pressure meds'. guy
Joseph Diaz
>>the 'you can cure your medical problems with snake oil' guy
>Be a huge fag
> Think a low magnesium/high blood pressure correlation is 'snake oil'
> Be smart
Pick one and only one.
Kevin Hill
I had boner problems all my life until this year.
I quit porn and cut fapping down to once or a twice a week and it helped immensely.
I tried supping zinc, l-arginine, and the individual bits of what make up Super Male Vitality (no I'm not memeing or being ironic, this shit works but it's far more efficient and cheap to supp them individually just like ZMA or pre workout) and I turned from a beta who wants to hold hands with her on top to an animal that crushes puss and wants her unable to walk afterwards
