What experience do you guys have with performance anxiety?

What experience do you guys have with performance anxiety?

I blew it a few nights ago due to a combination of whisky dick, anxiety, and a cold room (I'm a grower).

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Did you nut too quick or were you unable to maintain an erection?

Unable to maintain an erection as soon as my clothes came off and until a full day later

Focus on breathing. Instead of focusing on how great your dick feels, try to focus on sex as being a workout where your goal is to make the girl cum before you bust your nut. There are also other ways to help the girl get off such as gradual foreplay. I like to get her off by telling her to suck me off and then follow it up with eating her out. It's also a mindset thing, especially regarding confidence with the performance your giving.

OP, could you do me a favor and vocaroo yourself saying "wet noodle?" Noticed the file name.

If your problem is that you can't get hard, then just slowly work your way up with foreplay. Being drunk doesn't help at all.

I was rock hard during foreplay, then the clothes came off and it retreated until pretty much a day later. I've never done penis in vagina due to health issues until now so I guess it was anxiety mostly, weird thing is I've done anal just fine before, just sober, in a warmer room, and with someone I'd been with longer.

give her the ol' lickaroo and play with her until you get riled up.

Alcohol will kill your dick most of the time.

I can go from bustin' a nut in a few minutes to lasting an hour just from a couple drinks.

Problem is if you drink too much, it won't stay up. I've had that problem. Just gotta watch how much you drink, OP. Best situation would be to acknowledge that you're in a situation that you're going to have sex, so slow your drinking and man up and go for it.

tl;dr sounds normal, just don't drink as much and have some confidence. she obviously wants to do it as well or she won't be there

Been there. Don't stress about it or it'll be worse next time.

the first time i had sex was with my ex gf and i couldn't get hard and she thought it was because of her, i was completely sober, i guess it was from nervousness or something. i found that like eating her out/ fingering her/ sucking her tits will help with distracting your mind and relaxing you

i can't get hard without porn and physical stimulation wich made me borderline suicidal.

First time I tried having sex I couldn't get hard. Realized I just wasn't comfortable around the girl, or very secure in myself. Now I find I have no problem having sex with women I find attractive physically and mentally, as I usually feel more comfortable with them. Maybe I'm broken as a man or something but I just can't do one night stands. I don't mind "dating" multiple women but I need some emotional investment first.

Are you me? I can't get hard with a chick I don't know that well. Sucks when you want a hookup

mfw both problems occur

I lost a potential gf due to this problem user.

I brought a nerdy pale petite qt back to my place after 2nd date and we were going to fug but I couldn't get it up. It got awkward and she left and she lost interest in me after that. Pls send help

I had this problem the first time I was with a girl a used to date.


I never recovered from that, we date for a few months but I never could finish the job from the trauma of that first night.

So, my recommendation is that you find another girl.

I have issues with not being that hard then nutting quickly.
I have stopped watching porn and now only fap to images with a solo female. Here's the funny part, while I fap or fuck I keep telling myself the women in the pictures or my girlfriend's only purpose is to pleasure me. It's weird but it seems to be improving.

>whisky dick
... is the worst.

>meet awesome girl
>few dates, she comes to my place
>we eat, drink, talk until 2AM, try and dance to salsa music
>kiss and make out, she's REALLY into it
>I'm 2 days into a somewhat of a flu, not feeling too well
>can't get it up
>says I should relax, and that I have to work it out with myself
>not too sure what to do
>wants to hang out with me when she comes back from a job next month

Not sure if this was turned into a friendship or she's waiting for me to make a move when we see each other. What should I do? I could just go for a kiss and risk it all, or nothing at all and stay friends.

Viagra. . .

Stop masturbating

the first time i was going to have sex i couldn't get it up. so i lost my virginity the next morning. he was very nice about it, i miss him now he's moved ;_;

Listen to this before you go to sleep.

youtube.com/watch?v=ErdfPIxaOa8

So you wanted a relationship with a chick that was going to fuck on the 2nd date and then cut contact when you had a single instance of erectile dysfunction? You thought she might be an enjoyable partner? Lmao